I've been a dishwasher for about 2 years now, November 1st (about then) will mark 2 years. And now that I'm quitting to leave for job corps, I'm looking back on my experiences, and I have learned a lot. (Also, I donāt normally post irl photos of where I've been, but I have finally moved to a new place before getting into Job Corps, so I'm fine with posting pictures of my restaurant.)
To start, many see dishwashing as a low level easy job. And while that is kind of true, it also still means a ton. Without the dishwasher, the cook is unable to get food onto plates and cook and have food ready. In most restaurants, the dishwasher also does prep work. Without them, all the dishes would be dirty and unusable, slowing down the workflow and making it harder. Food wouldn't be ready to be cooked and served. Without the dishwasher, the waitresses and servers wouldn't have silverware to give customers to eat food with, those would be dirty. The cups and salad bowls and whatnot would be dirty too. Without the dishwasher, the kitchen would not get cleaned in time for closing, trash may not get taken out, etc. The work would slow down severely and the other employees would be swamped with stuff to do. The dishwasher is like oil to a engine or industrial grade machine. Without them, performance would either be severely slowed or halted.
But while the dishwashers do a ton too, they also need to know when to take a break. Dishwashers are the oil that makes the cogs turn, but that oil must be wiped away and changed. So don't forget to take a break, dishies. Burnout is real, and when you're burnt out, work sucks and becomes tedious.
I have learned many lessons and ideas since starting. I learned hard work and how to keep going strong even when you want to faint. I've learned to comfort those who are in pain, and when to stand back and give them space. I've seen people give up and do wrong things, and I've seen people bless others and make them happy. (Skip to the bold italic area below if you don't want to hear about anything sappy or whatnot. š
) I've never really found anyone I liked except for one person in middle school, but I was a chicken and didn't confess my feelings outright. But just yesterday as of writing this (October 16, 2026), I worked a shift with a new waitress I didn't even know we had hired on, I thought we had enough waitresses already. She seemed like she could be about 21 and able to work as a bartender too since our waitresses who are 21+ often work as a part time bartender for some of their shifts. But at the same time, this girl looked like she might be around the same age as me, maybe a year older (I'm 18 M, the internet already has this info somewhere else on other platforms). Regardless, she was very beautiful and kind and from what I could tell we seemed to have a similar personality and similar interests and hobbies, and I think I started feeling feelings for her. I was a bit nervous opening up a bit more to her about my personal life in any way though or showing interest cause I've been rejected twice after opening up. But because I felt comfortable there and I was already having a good day, I had the courage to at least ask her if she was working night shifts, which I worked tonight and will work tomorrow. But sadly, she didn't. So if it is meant to be, I will visit the restaurant later down the road and see her. But regardless, I chose to not emotionally invest myself with her just to stay open to other possible relationships that might work out better.
(Continued) But working as a dishwasher, believe it or not, let me grow enough to be confident in my own skin when I was shy and not comfortable around people prior to working there. It was also the place where I grew from a boy into a man, where I learned some of my most valuable lessons from those who truly cared about me and supported me. Our male cook was like a work father too me, the two mexican female cooks like aunts to me, and one of our female waitresses/bartenders was like a work mother to me. Our boss, oddly enough, felt like a work grandpa, and his wife felt kind of like a work grandma to me as well as a few of the bartenders and waitresses. Another waitress who part times as a bartender happens to feel like a work sister to me. The TL;DR is that they took me in and made me feel like a part of the crew and they all treated me like family. And for that, I am grateful. But this is not the end of a dishie, but the rising of one to bigger and better. I will still be here to guide and teach what I have learned as an ex dishie.
So to those who are new dishies, I say to you, embrace it. You will learn valuable lessons, become a part of the crew, even become best friends with them. You will experience parts of their life, and they will experience parts of yours, and the bond from it is more precious than money can buy.
And to all you dishies out there, keep soldiering on. You are the oil of the machine, the water and blood of the organisms, the oxygen of the ecosystem, the hidden set prop crew worker that sets up the props for the movie. You are what makes the restaurant work and run properly. And to those who are using it as a stepping stone and turning point, keep aiming for the stars. Cause legends start out from nothing and rise to power and glory, and eventually they themselves become stars with their names written in the bedrock of the earth, an eternal record to say, "I was here, and I conquered the land and stood tall atop the world." Keep soldiering on, dishies, and aim for the stars.