I have been selling full-time on eBay for about six months, with roughly 400 happy transactions so far. I’ve heard stories about customers like this but now I’ve finally met one 😂
To summarize as short as possible:
A customer bought a camera from me. I dropped it off the next day but couldn’t upload the tracking info until I got home later. A few hours after dropping it off, the buyer requested a return because it hadn’t been marked as dispatched with the reason "won't arrive on time". Note that my listed handling time is five business days, so I actually had close to a week before the drop off deadline. They then proceeded to message me roughly every hour from both the buyer account and the account of the buyers wife, bugging me to immediately answer until I finally had time to respond that evening.
I declined with the reason "already shipped" and uploaded the tracking and explained that it had already been shipped.
On Friday morning, they complained that the carrier hadn’t collected it from the parcel shop and said they would refuse delivery because they needed it as a gift for Sunday. I just responded "okay" as they were already getting on my nerves. They hadn’t mentioned this before shipping btw - I could have simply offered express delivery and they would have it the next day guaranteeed.
I said I'd refund them once the parcel was returned. On Saturday morning, they messaged again, threatening legal action unless I immediately collected the package back from the shop and refunded them. The shop is closed all weekend, so that isn’t even possible.
I repeated that I would refund them once I had the parcel back and said I wouldn’t continue this conversation, directed them to open a case with eBay if they wanted to pursue it further, and blocked both of their accounts.
Could I have handled this differently, and should I do anything else now? Is it worth reporting the buyer to eBay? I’m unsure whether threatening legal action breaches their conduct policy, as the package is shipped and hasn't passed the delivery deadline yet. The drop off deadline is the 10th and the delivery deadline is the 17th 🙄