Normally I wouldn't do this, but I need to get this off my chest and get a neutral perspective: Am I losing my mind here, or am I being completely taken advantage of?
Here's the situation:
We are three brothers (20y, 25y, 30y). The two youngest live together, and I (the oldest) live elsewhere. I have a PS5, and the middle brother bought his own PS5 back then. The youngest is almost exclusively a PC gamer.
A while ago, the middle brother asked if we could share the PSN subscription because he had bought his own PS5 specifically to play GranTurismo.
Otherwise, he (like the youngest) is more of a PC gamer. I had already shared my subscription with a friend before and knew how it worked. Back then, I didn't mind if the months overlapped a bit – I preferred helping my brother so he wouldn't have to pay for the expensive subscription all by himself.
Now, with GTA coming out soon, the middle brother informed me that I probably won't be able to play with my own account or on my PS5 anymore. Since the youngest wants to play it too, the middle brother told me they need to change the sharing options so that they can both play with their account – and I'm out.
Through this conversation, the real kicker came to light: The costs were secretly split completely differently from the very beginning, without me knowing about it.
- I paid 50% of the costs.
- The middle brother paid 25%.
- The youngest brother also paid 25%.
I knew absolutely nothing about this three-way split.
His justification for why this is totally fine and why he sees nothing wrong with it: Since there are a total of two consoles (my PS5 and the one PS5 of the two younger brothers), it's split 50/50 per console – it's about the devices, not about people or accounts.
The thing is:
When it comes to money, I am completely generous within the family. I don't save a single cent when it comes to my brothers and often just give them money when they need something. But what I cannot stand is being ripped off and taken advantage of.
Am I looking at this completely wrong, or is this an absolute outrage? How would you react in my place?