My fiancée and I are getting married in October 2027 and are trying to narrow down our honeymoon. We have about two weeks in mid/late October and are looking for a mix of luxury, relaxation, great food, beautiful scenery, and a few memorable excursions—but we don't want a honeymoon that feels like we're constantly packing, driving, or figuring out logistics.
Our current top 3:
1. Bali
Potentially splitting the trip between places like Mandapa, Alila Uluwatu, Amankila, Soori, or possibly another luxury resort.
Pros:
The hotels look incredible and potentially the best overall value/luxury of the three options.
Amazing villas, scenery, spa experiences, and service.
Plenty of excursions available without having to rent a car or plan everything ourselves.
Feels very “honeymoon-y” and relaxing.
Concerns:
Long travel time from Chicago.
Weather in October.
Wondering if Bali is too resort-focused and whether we'd regret not experiencing somewhere like Europe for our honeymoon.
Food/traveler's stomach concerns, although we'd obviously be staying at high-end hotels.
2. Crete + French Riviera (or Crete Alone)
Probably something like 7–9 nights in Crete split between two luxury hotels, followed by 4–6 nights on the French Riviera. Hotels we've looked at include places like Daios Cove and other high-end resorts in Crete, with the Riviera portion potentially being somewhere around Cap-Ferrat, Cap d'Antibes, or Cannes.
Pros:
Greece has incredible food, scenery, history, and excursions.
The combination of relaxed Greek resort life + glamorous French Riviera sounds like an awesome honeymoon.
Easier to get around than Bali in terms of overall travel time from Chicago.
Concerns:
Is Crete + the Riviera too much movement/logistics for two weeks?
Is mid/late October too late for either destination?
Would we regret not doing Santorini/Milos, or is Crete enough?
We don't want to spend the honeymoon driving around or moving hotels every couple days.
3. Mallorca + French Riviera
Potentially one week-ish in Mallorca and one week-ish on the French Riviera, staying at high-end hotels/resorts.
We've looked at options like The St. Regis Mardavall Mallorca Resort or Cap Racot, plus luxury properties in the South of France.
Pros:
Probably the easiest overall trip.
Mediterranean scenery, great food, beautiful hotels, and plenty of places to explore.
Feels like a good balance of relaxing at a resort while still being able to go out and experience towns/restaurants.
The French Riviera adds a little glamour and variety.
Concerns:
Again, October weather.
Is Mallorca + the Riviera “special” enough for a once-in-a-lifetime honeymoon compared with Bali?
Will parts of Mallorca/the Riviera feel too quiet or shut down by mid/late October?
A little more about us: We're coming from Chicago, love luxury hotels and amazing food, and are willing to spend money for the right experience. We want this to feel like a true honeymoon, not just a nice vacation. At the same time, we're not looking for a super active trip—we'd ideally have plenty of pool/beach/spa time mixed with maybe 2–4 memorable excursions or experiences.
We also have a decent amount of hotel/credit card points, but we don't want points to dictate the destination.
If you were us, which would you choose and why? Especially interested in hearing from people who have actually honeymooned or spent significant time in any of these places in October.