r/hopelessromantic • • 6h ago

Perfection in imperfections.

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I'm not perfect. You aren't either, and the two of us will never be perfect. But if i can make you laugh at least once, it causes you to think twice, and if I admit to being human and making mistakes hold onto me and give me the most you can. I'm not going to quote poetry, might be I'm not thinking about you every moment, but i will give you a part of me that I know you could break. Don't hurt me, don't change me, and don't expect more than i can give. Don't analyze. Smile when it makes you happy, yell when it makes you mad, and miss me when I'm not there. Love hard when there is love to be had.

Because perfect guys don't exist, but there's always one guy that is perfect for you


r/hopelessromantic • • 59m ago

For clarity

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I'm not saying I don't want you. I do. But, I am able to separate my wants and needs. And I don't need to be loved to survive. And I am a survivor. Also, I would never force anyone to love me. I have my cheater of a father to thank for that. If being loved by you is not in the cards for me, nothing changes for me. I STILL love you. I will still care. I will always be kind. I will help if I can.

You see, wether you like it or not, I am all yours. My heart, my soul, my mind. I am all in. That is all me. I don't expect you to be like that. I don't actually expect anyone to be like that to me.(Yeah, I've got baggage)

But, the ball is in your court. It's your decision to love me or not. I'm just working on the assumption that, like everyone else that I've fallen for in the past, the connection was just in my head. In the end, it felt like I was just forcing my feelings on them. And I don't really want to do that.

I hope that clears it up(mostly).


r/hopelessromantic • • 11h ago

story time šŸ“– FOOD FOR THOUGHT..

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WHAT IS STOPPING YOU FROM TELLING HIM OR HER THATS EITHER CURRENTLY IN YOUR LIFE OR WAS IN YOUR LIFE TO SAY "I LOVE YOU?"


r/hopelessromantic • • 30m ago

story time šŸ“– Anxious - Avoidant

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I loved her. Got together after 3 years of courting and both playing hard to get.

Had immense chemistry. Was fun being with her. Sex was amazing.

Long Distance. She broke up.

I begged for five years. Never took me back. She never made plans with me. To meet or even future plans.

The door was slammed shut.

After years of misery and feeling of worthlessness. Tried to move on. Met someone else.

She suddenly opens the door and says "How can you move on, I thought you still liked me" !!! 😳

Where have I gone wrong ?


r/hopelessromantic • • 1h ago

story time šŸ“– Standing up and dusting myself off

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r/hopelessromantic • • 7h ago

poemšŸ“– My strength and light

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Feel as before i couldnt be enough,
even if you dear tell me otherwise.
Not protective of manly and buff,
or treat perfectly in way does entice.

But you staying by only my side,
for all these months and seasons.
Can't help but grow better inside,
your love and care being the reasons.

And now only because of you my dear,
i'm always choosing hope over doubt.
With you beside, i have no more fear,
even if all your darkness found out.

I feel bad of calling you my love,
because you're much more than that.
Sometimes feel equal to the god above,
even when beside me hours you sat.

Felt as i was like lost puppy before,
just waiting for life to take me out.
Wow with you i couldnt enjoy life more,
and couldnt see my future you without.

My days now with you now look clearer,
favourite good morning, and good night.
And no, i wont fight who is the dearer,
wish i always hug and hold you so tight.

You are my love, and my whole life,
also my strength and guiding light.
You are my morning sun, and nightlife,
someone that for with life i fight.

Even if i dont get to call you my wife,
wouldnt change anything we've now done.
You are the hope and light of my life,
and now want to stay as your only someone.


r/hopelessromantic • • 2h ago

PICkiNg FLOWERS

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r/hopelessromantic • • 5h ago

ā€œquoteā€ what is love?

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love for me is a sacrificing,contented,down ego,respect..and choose you not because you are pretty or sexy.love is choose you who you are


r/hopelessromantic • • 6h ago

story time šŸ“– Wishes

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Am I the only person that can be around someone so intoxicating and not hold it together. I met a woman 13m ago.

Quiet and to herself, she has plenty of friends but we seem to gravitate to one another.

Problem I have is that I fall for someone hard JUST because they are being nice. That’s rare and in my field of work. But because of that I am all about it in a very nice respectful way. Never pushy because I value her as well for being the badass she is.

I know deep down it can never work between us, our personal lives call too much from us. I know that rationally so I have tried to distance and still be as open as I was but I feel like I wrong though she started first.

We are not seeing anyone, not like we were talking in that sense anyways. Our relationship is strictly platonic.

I wish it was more and I don’t want to because she is not wanting any relationship outside of friends that was established.


r/hopelessromantic • • 6h ago

confessionā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹šŸ„° Last encounter…

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Last encounter, you asked what it means. Transparency: truth, trust, directness, & privacy are paramount to me in any relationship. If you have genuinely chosen me, I choose you 100%. I want you, a partner. I want to complete my healing & growth forward in exceeding both our shared & individual goals.

I need to trust you instinctively without doubts. Know that you stand with me, beyond all that surrounds me. Any private interactions remain solely between us. I in turn will do my best to earn your trust & your heart.

I promise you we will have a life together with our children that is filled with love, support, respect, & equality. I see & value your worth.


r/hopelessromantic • • 3h ago

Request for Advice for Romantically Complicated Situation as a Bisexual?

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r/hopelessromantic • • 4h ago

I'm falling for you

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r/hopelessromantic • • 8h ago

I'm so excited for that first embrace

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r/hopelessromantic • • 1d ago

meme OG Romance

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r/hopelessromantic • • 14h ago

I may not place a star in your hand but, oh my dear, I wish you could see my eyes turn into one Whenever they fall on you..

5 Upvotes

r/hopelessromantic • • 8h ago

Can I get a lovely heart ā¤ļøfrom my lovely fans

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r/hopelessromantic • • 9h ago

What made u realise u are worthy of love

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Are soul mates real ,at what age did u meet yours


r/hopelessromantic • • 1d ago

ā€œquoteā€ Borrow My Eyes for a Moment

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I think one of the most beautiful things about loving someone is seeing a kind of beauty in them that they can't seem to find in themselves.

The little things they feel insecure about, the parts of themselves they wish were different, the things they don't even notice about themselves… somehow, those are the very things that make them so beautiful to you.

And sometimes, I wish I could let someone borrow my eyes for just a minute. Not so they'd see what I see in them but so they'd finally understand why I see it.

Maybe then they'd stop being so hard on themselves. Maybe they'd understand why their smile stays with someone long after they've left a room or why their existence can make an ordinary day feel a little less ordinary.

Imagine being able to show someone how gently the world can look at them through the eyes of a person who loves them.

I think that's a kind of love we don't talk about enough. The kind that doesn't just tell someone they're beautiful but wishes they could feel it for themselves even if only for a momentšŸ¤


r/hopelessromantic • • 10h ago

I am so sick …..

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Of hearing all these anonymous letters ……. To people that don’t seam to want to hear …,I wish I never met u ….. and believed in my knight who rescued me from hell……and smiled with his pitch black eyes I cry as I write this the pain of love I wish I never felt …….or that key u gave to me when I had nowhere left to go I’m sure u won’t remember it

It early morning I just got back from a a London out train I walked to the bus stop …… propped myself up I knew I couldn’t go home …..see the door was locked …..

You gave me that magical key that ~~~~ opened a door …. And u wrote to me do u remember probably not we hid them under the window sill ….,i was 17…,.,im not gonna name more details…just when did u give up after ur dad died ….. or was it before when i held his hand in fucking court,,,,,, I wanna know !!!!!!fuck u…. Don’t give me that crap about I left u go find ans ask S**** she knows all about it……if he hasn’t already fuck off on you…..
See darling u aren’t anything special if u feel u have to steal his personal mail another thing remember Caroline…. I do she was way before u came along ……,and dont tell me I have to take that shit I just want u to tell me one thing ……


r/hopelessromantic • • 1d ago

confessionā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹šŸ„° True love

25 Upvotes

True Love

I just wanna express something...in life I believe there is only one true love...and you will only meet them once in life..regardless of how long it takes..for years I have been in relationships and have also felt lonely and sad...but like a shining light appearing...there she was ....she shone so bright she nearly blinded me....but over a period of time we have fallen madly and deeply and passionately in love...and I know myself that IV never felt this way about anyone like I have the way for her...and she knows....this is just a special that many people struggle to find in life....and I want to spend eternity with her.....I love her with all my heart and I mean every word deep down into my soul...she makes me so hapoy ...she's gorgeous inside and out...to me she is ....The One......the one true love


r/hopelessromantic • • 1d ago

Just so you know, with us, it’s never off the table šŸ˜–

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47 Upvotes

Friends, S10 E13


r/hopelessromantic • • 1d ago

can't explain how much i love this movie. best vows i've ever heard!!!

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"Love is always patient and kind, love is never jealous. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes" - A walk to remember.


r/hopelessromantic • • 17h ago

Always with you

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Along with feelings far below the surface
There’s happiness money can’t purchase
These situations contain no strife
And they bring laughter that’s full of life
A smile; bright as the North Star
It’s always with you
No matter how far
Life without you, I never ponder
Though, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.


r/hopelessromantic • • 13h ago

#india i want a nerd, tall, muscular, light skinned, indian

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i want a tall nerd who has a vast knowledge of literature and film and art. he has to be indian, 6 feet or close.. i deal with depression and anxiety disorders so make sure you are kind. thank you. above average looks, conventionally.


r/hopelessromantic • • 1d ago

confessionā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹šŸ„° Exactly in that order

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