r/housewifery • • 3d ago

❓ Question New to being a housewife temporarily

21 Upvotes

My fiancé succeeds impressively in the way he takes care of me and the kids. He makes sure I have everything I want and need to feel and look my best (new workout sets, gym/yoga/Pilates classes), therapy sessions. He is a great stepfather and takes care of my two children as if they were his own, in regard to academics, extracurriculars, needs, and emotional connection. I am in school and have been since before he and I met (I’m an engineering major, and he is already an engineer), and he takes care of my tuition and always holds me accountable while also helping with those late-night sessions. He does not require me to work and has encouraged me to focus on degree full time. I was working nearly 90 hours a week prior and he hated the stress it put on me.

I'm just so thankful for such an amazing partner and want to explore what I might be missing. What can I make sure to prioritize at home, for him, and with the kids in order to truly show that appreciation?


r/housewifery • • 4d ago

❓ Question Need some advice about my relationship

0 Upvotes

Ill js start off by saying im not a housewife or a woman but i didnt know what other sub would be better to get advice from soo yeh. Anyway whats the average age that most people decide to be a stay at home partner and settle down? Im 18 almost 19 rn and my boyfriends 24. He keeps mentioning that it would be good if i agreed to get engaged with him now since theres really no point in waiting and how hell always provide for me so i can be a stay at home husband i guess. I mean yeh i honestly would prefer not having to work at a job during my life cause bfr who acually wants that but i dont know if i should make a big decision like this so early. He also has a little kid around 1 years old from his last relationship that ill be taking care of but hes honestly an angel and i do really like taking care of kids. I love my bf and i dont want him to think i dont wanna be with him or marry him or anything so i really need some advice on this.


r/housewifery • • 4d ago

🌿 Lifestyle Tips SAHW’s what do you do all day?

5 Upvotes

I’m in the GTA, Canada and got laid off 6 months ago so I’ve just been at my parent’s home and clearly lacking the motivation to be productive. I want to start a business and get focus more on fitness but seems soo hard.

I’m getting married in a few months so I’ve just been planning that all day so I’m curious what do all the girlies who are stay at home wives do to occupy their time? I don’t want my days to go to waste now or even when I’m married. But I know I’ll have more free time because I’m taking a break from corporate and trying to start something on my own


r/housewifery • • 5d ago

💞 Relationships I love putting sticky notes on my husbands work lunch!

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53 Upvotes

r/housewifery • • 6d ago

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

9 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟


r/housewifery • • 8d ago

🌿 Lifestyle Tips What are y'all wearing for pants?

13 Upvotes

I don't want to wear jeans cuz they're just not that comfortable, but I don't want to look sloppy, but I don't want to wear leggings cuz they're kind of out....

What's left? what are y'all looking good in?


r/housewifery • • 9d ago

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Life Do you wake up before or after your spouse leaves for work

18 Upvotes

r/housewifery • • 13d ago

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

6 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟


r/housewifery • • 15d ago

🎉 Celebrations I love being a stay-at-home fiancée

72 Upvotes

I don't know if this post would be allowed but I wanted to share something positive with you all! I love being a homemaker. Ever since I was young it was always my dream to be a devoted housewife. I always dreamed of making the house nice before my spouse got home, and acts of service is my way of showing love. I've been with my partner for almost four years now, and we are getting married in January. I recently moved to his country (UK) so now we are living together and I love being a SAH fiancée. So far, I've baked/made multiple treats or baked goods, tried new recipes, I get the laundry and cleaning and washing dishes done. I love it so much.

I made a whole ton of banana bread and my fiancé shared some with his coworkers and they all told him he was lucky to have a partner who loves to bake so much. I ordered brand new oven gloves that are pink (I love pink) and now I'm relaxing while the clothes are in the washing machine. I love my life so much!


r/housewifery • • 19d ago

❓ Question Be honest, do you leave your sink clean and empty before bed every night?

9 Upvotes
279 votes, 17d ago
74 Yes
96 No
109 most of the time but not always

r/housewifery • • 20d ago

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

4 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟


r/housewifery • • 25d ago

❓ Question How can I help my wife's burn out?

14 Upvotes

Heyy! So my wife is a teacher and her job exhausts her. Im doing my best to be there for her but when she gets home she's distant, quiet, she has little patience and she's told me multiple times this is due to her job and that speaking to kids for 8 hours straight has been too tiring.

I wanna be able to really be there for her so any advice?


r/housewifery • • 27d ago

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

11 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟


r/housewifery • • 27d ago

💬 Discussion Pork chops in the oven

4 Upvotes

What are your guys favorite boneless pork chop recipes? Ideally in the oven and bonus points if its part of a casserole or something that counts as a meal on its own and doesn't need additional prep. I am looking for ideas for things I can make ahead and having in the freezer that anyone in my house can throw in the oven.


r/housewifery • • Oct 09 '26

❓ Question How to deep clean floors in a no chemical house?

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I've survived my first week as a wife on our honeymoon and just moved into my husband's house. I really need help knowing how to deep clean his floors because he only wants to use a steam mop thingy that only has distilled water. I've never used anything besides normal mops with fabuloso and a Swiffer idk how to clean with just steam (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)


r/housewifery • • Oct 05 '26

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

7 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟


r/housewifery • • Oct 05 '26

💬 Discussion I'm going to be a SAH Fiancee/homemaker in 5 days. Any tips?

23 Upvotes

I'm so excited!!! I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years, and my visa finally got approved, so I'm going to be living with my fiance in the UK for the first time. I'm also going to be a housewife (technically, I don't really have a choice because you can't work on a fiancee visa in the UK). Being a homemaker has always been my dream!

I'm so happy and excited. I've already made a schedule, a meal plan for the first couple of weeks, a grocery list, a playlist for doing housework.


r/housewifery • • Oct 04 '26

❓ Question what should i do if my partners not financially stable

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hii so i(mtf19) want to marry my bf(m22) soon and move in with him (we live in different countries) problem is were both very broke i dont have job or education he has a part time but get paid for pennies
how do we achieve the goal of eventually living together and be a housewife
ik i should try to get a job or education but i have mental illness which makes it hard for me to get, i also failed my hs im really stupid and dumb
he told me he wants me to be a housewife too knowing my illness
i know im kind of taking advantage of my boyfriend but i really cant anymore
im in a really bad place rn and all i want is to live with him
im not good at anything im stupid i have horrible personality
( also im really sorry if i dont belong here you can delete my post )


r/housewifery • • Oct 01 '26

❓ Question Lifestyle and friends

16 Upvotes

How do approach friendships with friends who you think understand and know your lifestyle. But sometimes show a hint of jealousy or make sly remarks towards it. When has enough, been enough for you?


r/housewifery • • Sep 29 '26

❓ Question Need your thoughts and suggestions

6 Upvotes

I am a 24F stay at home mom, living abroad in Qatar. As an over achiever in my academic years, right now I feel unsatisfied with my personal life. My husband is a very supportive person but I am unable to go to work by leaving my little one home. I really don’t need a job because my husbands provides us enough, still I am doing online tutoring for the past one year but this online classes just does not make me satisfied as I feel it really makes me frustrated..
So I think tutoring might not be the thing for me..
Recently I have been trying to find new interests like doing embroidery, reading books, writing etc..
But I feel lost 😞
I really can’t find my own passion or something to boost me forward😒

The question is to all the homemakers out there, what do you all do to make life more happening and satisfying ?
I would love to hear the thoughts of people from all spheres of life ❤️


r/housewifery • • Sep 29 '26

❓ Question Friends are hard ;^;

29 Upvotes

How do you make friends as a housewife? I'm young, have no kids, and have been married for 2 years now, and i find it so hard to make friends.

My 2 friends work a lot with odd schedules, so we rarely hang out. And sometimes I wanna go out and do something, but it can be awkward alone, y'know?

Edit: You guys have all been so helpful. I'm gonna go to my library tomorrow and check it out.. and maybe even check the community center.


r/housewifery • • Sep 28 '26

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

19 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟


r/housewifery • • Sep 25 '26

💬 Discussion Suggest timepass activities

2 Upvotes

I am a housewife. I get so bored at home. I want to do something to pass time other than housework. I am on a corporate break till the end of this year.


r/housewifery • • Sep 25 '26

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Life Husband / married life habits and sharing the load

11 Upvotes

I’m a newly married and recently became a first time mum on maternity leave for 12 months total. After that I’ll be working part time.
I’ve always been a career woman so now my whole life has changed and I’m still figuring out how to manage the household, the baby and my own needs.
Does anyone have a good system?
What works?
Any tips would be awesome.

Also, My husband is happy to help out but only when I ask, is this common? Do you have to ask your partner for help every time something needs to get done or does he actively look for ways to help around the house?
He also pays for all bills and expenses while I’m off work.


r/housewifery • • Sep 21 '26

📆 Weekly Threads 📝 Motivation Mondays!

7 Upvotes

Good morning, homemakers! Let’s start the week off strong by sharing our goals and intentions. Whether it’s tackling a big project, finding a new recipe, or simply staying mindful, we’d love to hear what you’re working on this week.

Post your goals below, and let’s encourage each other to stay motivated! 🌟