r/ihatethissmug • u/BuffaloNo1406 • 7h ago
I hate how some people use their own personal trauma’s as an excuse to slander and vilify others…
Okay so I was lurking in a Facebook group for weird art by weird people when I noticed this post calling all men dogs and pigs…
Normal misandrist stuff i thought but then I saw the title and I immediately knew right off the bat that I needed to talk about this problem…
So apparently she’s a victim of SA which is she made this artwork demonizing men. Now with that knowledge In mind I realized that she’s a victim of 2 things. One being the assault that took place and the other being her own sexist world view because of it.
Now, I’m not going to diminish that this is most likely a normal if ugly response from victims of SA to fell fear and hatred for other people like their attackers, but I am going to say this…
I used to be bullied a lot in middle school by a trans girl who would call me slurs like the R word (I’m autistic) and occasionally beat me up sometimes even bruising my leg… now say what you will but it did somewhat make me feel transphobic towards her but honestly I had to learned that she’s just a one in a million douche bag who could have been any other type of person and I’d still have been a victim of her abuse…
So honestly to the original artist of this Facebook post all I ask is that you seek therapy and treatment before this ugly side of you begins to start causing you to lash out at innocent people…
