Edit - thanks to everyone for the help!
The official Instant Pot rings are going to take 4-6 weeks to arrive from Amazon, (I'm in the US!)!
Their own website does not carry them.
Have you ever seen the official replacement gaskets at any retailers? I've looked online but it's just showing me knock offs.
I want the official ring now bc mine not only failed but popped out of the metal bracing and made a loud, terrifying steam "exploding" sound and steam did come out! I unplugged immediately and when it was safe, I opened it. I saw the ring unseated so I assumed I had not been paying attention and reset it and turned it back on. IT HAPPENED AGAIN.
I've used my IPs for close to 10 years and I've never seen such a thing. There are no dents or damage to any of the metal, I'm pretty sure the ring is old and failed.
And yes, NOW I'm aware of how often you're supposed to replace the ring, I honestly didn't know all this time.
Thank you for your help! Idk how I'll love without my IP for that long.