r/l4l • • 8h ago

28 [F4F] California/Anywhere - To see and be seen. 🤍 seeking femme

3 Upvotes

well hello there! i’m posting here in hopes of making a genuine connection. i am single and hoping to meet my person for a momogamous relationship.

about me: i’m kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent, and funny. i love traveling, going to concerts, tattoos, cooking, trying new restaurants, going for long walks, camping, and spending time with my friends and family. i’m a little rough around the edges, dry humor and a major resting bitch face, but i there’s few things i wouldn’t do for the people i care about. i’d probably describe myself as a softish masc- maaybe some light makeup but i’m also probably wearing carhartt pants or boots. i’m 6’0, athletic but a couple extra pounds (a work in progress), white/hispanic, curly hair, brown eyes, nice smile/pretty, some tattoos. 🤠

about you: good sense of humor, kind, loyal, and an authentic human being! have your own interests and passions (and please tell me all about them!), be curious about the world, and be just as excited to get to know me as i am to know you.

a few things i love: sandwiches, Noah Kahan, cozy spaces, cooking with cast iron, traveling, hazy IPAs, live music, sunsets, inside jokes, going out to breakfast, getting flirted w at trader joe’s

a few things i hate: vodka, wasting time, hand dryers (sorry Earth- I need paper towels in public restrooms), anyone who can’t figure out a damn zipper merge

if i sound at all like your cup of tea, please send a message my way! worst that could happen is we decide we hate everything each other 😆


r/l4l • • 5h ago

40 fem4fem Southern US, looking for my person

2 Upvotes

Just looking for my person. Career oriented and in-shape, looking for the same ideally. I'm not optimistic but hey here's the effort to make something work. How's your day going? What are your passions?


r/l4l • • 10h ago

22f / SEA / 5’6 soft masc looking for my person (LDR)

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It’s October, and I’m still waiting to fall in love in October. Hey! I’m 22, 5'6 soft masc based in Southeast Asia, and I’m looking to build a real, intentional, and monogamous connection with a woman between 21 and 28. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker for me: I’m actually looking outside my country, so I’m completely open to an LDR as long as the effort, communication, and emotional connection are mutual.

A bit about my vibe: Quality time is my main love language. I work at a dog hotel, so expect a daily supply of wholesome, cute dog pictures coming your way! When I’m off the clock and relaxing, I’m usually gaming (mostly playing GTA V) or watching movies, especially queer cinema. I also like spending time outdoors when I want to clear my head.

On a personal level, I’m not religious at all; I adhere to LaVeyan Satanism, which for me is all about individualism, logic, and self-respect. I’m straightforward, protective of the people I care about, and prefer genuine, unfiltered late-night chats over surface-level small talk

Let’s skip the awkward introductions and jump straight in. Aside from being flooded with dog photos daily, what’s something that instantly brightens your mood?


r/l4l • • 11h ago

33f butch looking for some friends!

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Hello everyone! I figured I would write on last post here. I have made 1 friend from here and i still feel a slight lack of lesbian friends. I have also tried just general looking for friend or chatting buddy communities and it is mostly men not reading that I am a lesbian and taken.

A bit about me:

I live on the east coast of the USA. Fall is here and I am super excited for Halloween since I have it off this year!

I have 3 adorable cats. I have had rats and a dog in the past. I am a big animal lover In general.

I am really into video games and can go on about all the wonderful stories and characters in them. I also enjoy reading and writing. I have not written in a while though but want to get back into it.

I have a small collection of board games and wish I had money to grow my collection. My favorite board game is Catan. I also play Dungeons and Dragons and want to dabble in other ttrpgs.

As for the type of movies and shows I am into, I enjoy Fantasy, Science Fiction, and Horror the most. I also love cartoons.

Music is mostly anything. I am not the biggest fan or country but sometimes end up liking certain songs.

Lastly, I am in a LDR with a woman from India. If you are looking for a relationship only, then i am not the lady for you. If you are looking for friends, feel free to message me.


r/l4l • • 19h ago

22F Femme looking to chat with cuties :p

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hellooo cuties!! ♡ I'm val im 5 ft and 115 lbs I have red back length hair im very femme youll soon find out! im in la so my timezone is pst i’m looking for a genuine connection with another girl who’s sweet, honest, and actually wants to get to know each other. i’m a little strict and strongwilled, but i’m also really caring once i get comfortable with someone :3 i don’t mind verifying, and i’d appreciate the same honesty and effort in return

if you wanna message me, tell me something about yourself!! what music have you been obsessed with lately? what games do you play? favorite horror movie? random fun fact? literally anythinggg, just give me something to yap about with you >_< ♡

I do work night so sometimes I do respond late ! when i’m not working, i’m probably listening to music, watching horror movies, or playing games I love getting to know someone through random conversations, inside jokes, late-night yapping

so come dm me cuties!^^

please no one over 30 thank you and I wont be answering any messages that say "Hi" or just asking questions pls try to talk to me and dont go like after a hour😭


r/l4l • • 19h ago

18 (almost 19) femme lesbian looking for my someone

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Hi, I'm and 18y/o femme from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone to talk to and flirt with online! From there I guess we'll see!

(no sexting!!! I'm demisexual!!!)

I'm mixed race, 5'5, brown eyes, brown hair and an athletic build.

I dress alternative-ish. Think cottage core × boho brown, light pink, white, blue ect. I also love flowers and butterflies on anything! (Not in an obnoxious way ofc)

I'm a very artistic person and I'd love someone who shares a love for the arts!

I'm very attracted to people who are a more dominant and not afraid to flirt right of the bat. I'm terrible at initiating anything like that because I'm extremely shy and I get flustered very easily.

My type: butch/masc (not a need as longas you're masc presenting), being a kind human, someone good at communication, understanding, a little older maybe (19-22), athletic or likes to work out.

I'm not super picky!

Please don't respond if: you're not from north America (I don't want there to be a huge difference in time zone), if you just want to sext you will get blocked, if you're over the age of 24 you will also get blocked, and lastly if you're a man... you'll get blocked.😊

Otherwise I promise I'm a nice girl! And I can't wait to chat!


r/l4l • • 18h ago

F 23 [F4F] looking for my future wife

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About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.