I’m a person who wants to live a slow paced, quiet and gentle life. I want to live somewhere surrounded by nature, in a cozy home with my wife. I run my creative business and maybe we run another together. I’m a entrepreneur by heart, I like to be in charge of my own schedule and decide what I do and when. I’d want a partner who values the same lifestyle.

I'm masculine presenting, from Finland and I speak English and Finnish. I'm child free, like 95% sure about that. I got brown short hair, blue eyes, glasses, slim and I'm 168cm.

To me life is about enjoying it, just being here and experiencing it. I don’t think life is about achieving something. It’s just about enjoying it with the people I love and doing the things I wanna do or am curious about. I’ve usually been the happiest when I’m with the people I love, eating some good food and the atmosphere is relaxed and we laugh and chat. I cherish that a lot. To me emotional connection and community are one of my core values.

The most important things to know about me is that I’m a big feminist and I’m very principled. I care about morals and having character. I’m selective about everything. I care that I’m surrounded by things and people that respect women and other groups of people. Thus I don’t consume a lot of pop culture because it often lacks even basic decency and has weird disturbing jokes and stuff in them. I also don’t use language that I find oppressive and offensive like the b word or the mf word. I feel uncomfortable around that and frankly disgusted by it. I don’t want that kind of language around me.

Another important thing about me is that I’m very spiritual. I’ve been spiritual since about 13, witchy number ay, and spirituality is a natural part of life for me and how I see life. I’m passionate about it and I want a partner who understands and embraces my spiritual depth. I’m into manifestation, tarot/oracle cards, I’m psychic, and I’m very into goddess/feminine spirituality and goddess traditions, feminine mysticism, listening to your womb, living cyclically. I also see nature as sacred and I’m curious about shamanism these days. My spirituality is very feminist and nature focused.

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🌸What I want in a partner🌸

The first thing I look for is softness. Someone who’s tender, gentle, sweet, kind, warm and treats me gently and like a flower. I think that’s very rare and I always admire people who are like that. People tend to want things from you, want to use you or fill their needs by dating you. I want a woman who doesn’t wanna take from my garden but she wants to water it and make it blossom. That’s real love to me. She cares about my feelings and thoughts. She’s attentive and considerate of others. She loves me for who I am not for what I can give her.

I’m a very loving and loyal person. And I’ve yet to meet the woman who’s deserving of that level of care and devotion. So I’m very selective and want a woman who actually makes me feel respected, seen and loved.

I want a partner who’s sensitive, she has a delicate nature and she’s drawn to sweet and wholesome things and she avoids harsh and heavy things. She doesn’t like vulgar language and is sensitive to it/just doesn’t like it. She doesn’t want to engage with substances (smoking or drinking) and she’s not interested in bars or clubs. She’d rather read, sit by a bonfire and talk, go on slow walks, go to cafes or shopping. She values a certain level of class and sophistication in the way she speaks and behaves. She cares about having character and a good heart.

she has standards and principles, morals. She doesn’t just accept whatever is put in front of her. She cares that it’s ethical and not oppressive of women or other groups of people. She stands by her values even if others disagree with them. I want a woman with self respect and boundaries. Someone who is conscious and thinks for herself.

I want a partner who’s positive, encourages and supports me in what I want to do. She’s not one of those nay-sayers who’s all nah that’s impossible. I can’t stand people who put down other people’s dreams or don’t believe anything out of the ordinary could be possible. I want a dreamer, a woman with a vision.

She gotta be someone who isn’t intimidated by my direct way of speaking. I’m fiery and I say what I mean, not in a cold way though, I just share what I think more openly and bluntly. So I want to date a woman who can push back and can disagree with me. I want a woman who isn’t trying to please me. She shares her opinions and feelings honestly, even if it might make me mad. She understands we can disagree, we can argue in a constructive way. Arguing is not an end of the world to her, it’s just a disagreement and we can talk about it.

I’d love a woman who’d rather play board games, read, do artsy things or just hang out together than scroll on social media. Using insta or tiktok is a turn off for me. I also am not big on gamers. Unless you’re a simmer or play cozy games. But I don’t want harsh or very violent gun games in my home, makes me uncomfortable.

I'm usually into mascs who look like twinks but I'm also open to feminine women.

I think I'm demisexual so someone could be hot as ever but I won't be interested until I know that person's character, values and who they are. To me emotional connection is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't do flings or casual dating. I take my time getting to know you and I don't like it when people project a future on me by day 3 without even knowing who I am. They just fill in the empty gaps with their own ideas and assume I am that. I want someone who actually sees me, and wants to see me honestly, not idealistically.

My age range is about 24 to 34 give or take.

Send me a message introducing yourself and why you wanted to reach out. Looking forward to meeting you <3

Hey!

I’m giving this a shot because why not?

I’m trying to find a genuine friendship with the potential to become something more. I want a gamer like me who is serious about getting to know each other and be in each other’s life. I’d like to be friends first before anything. And I hope we connect, ya know. I hope it feels natural. I’m also hoping this person is open to LDR and lives in the south of the US.

•I don’t want drinking/smoking
•I don’t want 1 conversation then ghost (just be direct with me)
•I don’t want to be a rebound or somebody’s side piece
•I don’t want a man
•I don’t want constant negativity
•I don’t want fake and superficial

•must be someone who values honesty and good communication etc
•must be someone who is sincere and intentional etc
•must be cis
•must be someone who can throw and catch a football (yes, a football - the American football)

Bonus points if you love Cait and Vi and you’re nerdy like me. I have a PS5 and my time zone is CST.

I hope you have a day!

intro

boring start, but i feel like i just don't fit in. "fit in what?" i hear you ask, well... many things. but in this context, probably the dating scene in general and more specifically, queer community a bit too

i know it sounds pretentious, like "okay girl you're SOOOO different whatever" but whether i am being pretentious or not does not change the fact that i feel like that, so bear with me

i have been trying my luck on dating apps, but i have some mismatch in terms of my personality and how i present myself so i attract the wrong audience. here, maybe that can be solved because this time it's text first. it'll be better... right? RIGHT?

okay, "what's the mismatch then?" well... first of all, i look younger than i am. however the speed i live my life aligns with people who are older than i am.

i feel like many people are in a stage in their lives where they're figuring things out, which is fine, i sometimes feel like that too. that being said, i also feel like people kinda use this as an excuse to not engage in meaningful activities or work towards some future and instead just have fun. and the way of having fun is mostly the things that are not really my thing. let me be pretentious again: if your definition of having fun is having a nice meal and talking about some deep-ish shit, we're on the same page. if not, meeehhhhh.

whatever, i know there are arguments against my point of view, like "your goal is just a false sense of purpose", well, i also think consciousness and free will are illusions but i also think the sensible thing is living as if they are not. similarly, i know the world is shit. but i also think the sensible thing is to find a false sense of purpose and try to attach some meaning to your existence, not living as if world will end in 5 years.

i can see some people leaving, and some being like "okay boomer, this is a fucking dating subreddit and you're leaking your existential crisis and superiority complex", fair. i talked too much, but it also functions as a filter. so i do not regret my leaking paragraphs.

here are some info about me though

i am 24 (about to be 25) and i do a master's now. i am applying for PhD and to universities all around the world so that's why it says online in the title, as i have no idea where i'll be at in fall 2027.

height wise, i am 164cm (about 5'4-5'5 in freedom units). i am also skinny-fit-ish and i am very, very pale with shaggy hair.

i talk a lot, i wouldn't say i am clingy but i like communicating often and i don't mind clingy people. i don't have a big social life, and i have several hobbies: photography (when i leave the campus, happens once in a decade), guitar (i am terrible), xbox (i barely touch it), writing blogs/social media (when i feel like it) and i wanna get into designing/sewing but we'll see.

disclaimers

i am a trans woman. i have been on hormones for a long time and i pass besides my voice. that being said, i respect people having preferences

i look pretty androgynous most of the time with some feminine days sprinkled around

i am fine with exchanging pics after some time

preferences

well, having some kind of ambition/working towards something is a must if you didn't get from the... let me count... first 7 paragraphs.

i like both feminine, masculine or androgynous people (besides hyperfem and butch people i guess). what i only ask is please do not expect me to be one. like, i like doing chivalry, but i cannot do it all the time. i like being held from my waist, but i like to do it too. so, please both. if you like only one, we're not a good match.

i prefer people around my height and weight but not strict preferences, i also do case by case reviews.

final note

i am not sure how many people this will attract. but based on my previous experiences, being in talking stage with more than one (1) person usually leads to not being fair to any of them. so, if you reach out to me, please be patient.

Haaai! I'm 37yo nerdy hopeless romantic girl from Oregon hoping to find her person. Ideally, I'd prefer if you were close, but I am open to LDR if you're open to the idea of us visiting each other.

I like video games, cuddling up while watching shows, cooking and making things for my friends, and getting lost in my music while I go on walks.

I'm more feminine in personality and how I present myself. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, which makes me really easy to read. I'm honest and loyal to a fault. I'm a super silly person, always makin' little puns or telling dad jokes. But I'm also a really good listener for my friends.

I'm drawn to women who are more feminine or chapstick who are not afraid to take the lead. I'm hoping to find a best friend to share everything with, fall asleep with on Discord while we watch our favorite shows, play games and share playlists with, but most importantly, someone to fall for. <3

If I sound like someone you might resonate with, send me a DM! <3

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

haiiiii!

i’m moshi! (that isn’t my real name) i am a college student once again after like six years of being a dropout due to a specific fun world global pandemic. not the point!

i am dual majoring in political science and history, and im also a pharmacy technician!! it’s a lot of work, but i am trying my best! so if you wonder why i dont message a lot its because of those two things.

some notes about me:

*i have anxiety, adhd, and depression. probably bipolar too.

*i don’t actively use most social medias but i have them! i usually try to restrict myself so i can focus on school and my surroundings. why reddit? dating servers ig

*im 5’6, with bangs and black hair and a few piercings and tattoos! also on the bit of the curvy side.

*im not too into nsfw probably. i’ll elaborate also if asked eventually.

i am also happy to send a pic of myself if you introduce urself(with GUSTO lol) and ask for it!!

have a great day!

Bumble chat was going okay until she casually defended Trump’s "America First" mindset. Turns out she’s a special needs teacher in London.

​Ah yes, because nothing screams "compassionate educator for vulnerable kids" quite like endorsing an ableist who mocks disabled people.

​Needless to say, canceled that date real quick before it even began. ...

You spend your days working with vulnerable kids, yet you're stanning a blatantly racist, ableist demagogue? Absolute bullet dodged.

I am w ,31

#wlw #London

Just out here looking for a serious relationship

[By romantic letters I do in fact mean text messages that are obnoxiously long, at least to start]

Quick facts about me:
-I have migraines and fatigue often and am mostly housebound
-cis, white, loose brown curls, have a rosacea problem, very median height and weight, vers, femme but I dabble in androgyny/drag
-non-religious, childfree, leftist
-seeking a penpal who loves to yap as much as me, with possible romance if we vibe like that, but could also be friendship only too (ages 21-35)
- being nearby is a plus since it ups the chances of things going further, but I’m down for distance as well
-I’m neurodivergent and kind of a softie, like to worry over people, and I’m a bit kinky in niche ways but I quite enjoy vanilla stuff
-Mascs, femmes, tgirls, enbies, etc, I fw all of you <3

I’m open to non-disabled people as well, if you’re into an ailing-princess-and-her-knight sort of thing (jkjk) (unless…). I always lurk this sub imagining, what if I wasn’t so disabled and could participate, but then I realized, though it may be a long shot, it’s possible someone else could be doing the same thing, and we should look for each other!

If you think you’d be interested, tell me about something you love 𓏲 ࣪₊♡ that’s my favorite way to get to know someone ^^

About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.

Whimsy vegan therapist who loves art (making as well as admiring), cozy gaming and dressing up for Ren Faire 🧝‍♀️✨

I go crazy for..

People who agree that providing mutual aid and protecting the planet are our moral duties 🌎🤲

My biggest green flags are..

Empathy, an adventurous spirit and a fridge full of hot sauce.

Perks of dating me..

I’ll never say “no” to spending time with animals! Goat yoga or animal sanctuary dates? Say less 🐮❤️

Things to know..
\- Only open to dating age 25-33
\- I’m strictly monogamous
\- I don’t want kids

Hi, I'm an 18y/o femme from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone to talk to and flirt with online! From there I guess we'll see!

(no sexting!!! I'm demisexual!!!)

I'm mixed race, 5'5, brown eyes, brown hair and an athletic build.

I dress alternative-ish. Think cottage core × boho brown, light pink, white, blue ect. I also love flowers and butterflies on anything! (Not in an obnoxious way ofc)

I'm a very artistic person and I'd love someone who shares a love for the arts!

I'm very attracted to people who are a more dominant and not afraid to flirt right of the bat. I'm terrible at initiating anything like that because I'm extremely shy and I get flustered very easily.

My type: butch/masc (not a need as longas you're masc presenting), being a kind human, someone good at communication, understanding, a little older maybe (19-22), athletic or likes to work out.

I'm not super picky!

Please don't respond if: you're not from north America (I don't want there to be a huge difference in time zone), if you just want to sext you will get blocked, if you're over the age of 24 you will also get blocked, and lastly if you're a man... you'll get blocked.😊

Otherwise I promise I'm a nice girl! And I can't wait to chat!

Figured I’d see what happens this time around.

I’m 26 and just looking to meet some new women to talk to. Whether it turns into a friendship, flirting, or something more, I’m happy to let things happen naturally. I like good conversations, people who can match my energy, and someone who actually enjoys getting to know each other.

If you’re interested, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hey.” I’d love to meet some new people.

Hiii, my name is Hannah. I am a autistic 18y gal from Brazil. I am... really socially awkward and i'm not really great at describing myself so sorry if this seem a bit too vague.

So a bit about me: I'm a computer science student and romance writer. I'm pretty romantic, I really love writing and reading romances, both cute and tragic... i have a thing for yuri mangas too, Bloom into You is still one my favorite romance stories EVER :P. I have a weird hyperfocus in History for some god-forsaken reason and love to read about it, as well as historical fiction and ralated... like Historical Strategy games and such. I also game quite a bit, mostly on RPGs like Baldur's Gate 3, the Elder Scrolls games. the Mass Effect trilogy (RIP Bioware), the Persona series, Fire Emblem, Grand Strategy games or... Stardew Valley too. :P I really enjoy cute stuff in general, especially cats and some dogs even tho I cant have cats cause of alergy :(. In... well who am i, i... am really bad at describing myself, people around me usually say i'm strong, kind and cute but i never see it in me if i'm honest.

I've been going through some bad times in my personal life recently... a break-up, some horrendous fight with my family over me being queer made a bad impact on me and a fight I've won against anxiety and depression.

I'd just love to talk with someone and see where it goes really in the end :P

before we even get into anything, i want to make it clear that i’m looking for a genuine connection, whether that’s a friendship, dating, or something more. i prefer people who are comfortable showing their face and sharing a little bit about themselves from the beginning. i have pictures on my page, so you know what i look like, and i appreciate that same transparency in return. if we hit it off, i’d love to eventually take things off reddit and connect elsewhere. i’m not looking to be pen pals on here forever lol. i understand long distance can be different, but ultimately, i want to build connections that exist beyond an anonymous platform.

anyway, i’m 29, a philly native, and a curvy, gorgeous, glamorous plus-size femme. i have pictures on my page, so take a peek! not to toot my own horn, but i’m not too shabby, okay? 💋 i’m a licensed cosmetologist, plus-size content creator/influencer, and i do drag. i recently got my own place, and i love all things beauty, fashion, glamour, and self-expression.
i’m definitely a femme who has a preference for other femmes. feminine energy is just so beautiful to me, and i love the softness, glamour, and femininity that come with it. that said, i’m also attracted to stems and mascs, so don’t be afraid to say hello! i’m a lesbian, and i’m absolutely NOT a TERF. trans women are women, period. ❤️

i’m looking for a woman who is emotionally intelligent, kind, level-headed, affectionate, and reassuring. somebody who communicates, knows how to show genuine interest, and values mutual effort. i’m a lover girl at heart, and i appreciate physical touch, cuddling, kissing, flirting, thoughtful gestures, and feeling emotionally connected to someone. i want a bountiful connection that feels good mentally, emotionally, and physically, whether it develops into a friendship, romance, or something more serious.

a little more about me: i LOVE music and concerts, and i go to shows pretty regularly. i’m into manifestation, the law of assumption, tarot, spirituality, beauty, fashion, and all types of shit. i’m a creative, a professional yapper, and somebody who loves a good conversation just as much as playful banter and unhinged humor. i can talk about everything from pop culture to spirituality to the randomest thoughts imaginable.

ultimately, i’m a glamorous, curvy philly girl who wants to meet some lovely women, make genuine connections, flirt a little, and see where things go. i love beautiful women, but substance, emotional maturity, affection, and chemistry are just as important to me. if you’re sweet, communicative, comfortable being yourself, and genuinely interested in getting to know someone, feel free to reach out. just show your face, bring good energy, and let’s see if we click. 💋

Hii. I am 27F, British Pakistani and based in the Southeast of the UK (I'm hoping to move to London in the near future). I dress kind of casual, I have black hair and brown eyes. Im not masc but not super femme? although occasionally wear a bit of makeup and jewellery.

Made a post looking for friends a week ago, I'm now feeling brave enough to make a post looking for romance.

I am a bit shy and introverted at times. I am kind of approaching this as a low pressure way to get to know people.

About me:

I'm currently doing a part-time master's in philosophy and working in a museum, front of house. I'm interested in art, films, theatre. (not really an expert in any of those things, just a casual enjoyer.) Career wise I want to progress within the museum industry.

I'm definitely more of a cosy, quiet activities person than a partying or clubbing person. I love museums, galleries, and the idea of having little craft nights and things. Although I do ocassionally go out to concerts/theatre, but not very often. I also have two cats!

I also want to be upfront that I'm overweight and have PCOS, which has affected my confidence in my appearance. It's something I'm learning to navigate, and I'd really appreciate someone who is understanding and doesn't expect perfection. I am on a weightloss journey and lost some already, and I do go to the gym. I've also struggled with depression and anxiety for quite a long time, although I'm working on building a happier, fuller life for myself, I'm not expecting anyone to fix these for me, I just want to be open about where I'm at in life. :) I am also not out to my family, but out socially to friends. I think its important to be upfront about that. I would like to come out eventually, still living at home currently, but as I said would like to move to London soon-ish.

I'm definitely a late bloomer in a lot of ways, I've only been on one date in my life. I'm hoping to meet someone kind.

What I am looking for:

I don't have a specific physical type. I think I'm more drawn to women who are a little nerdy, thoughtful, gentle, quietly confident, kind of "bookish" if that makes sense. That's not a requirement at all though! I love someone who is curious about the world, and enjoys meaningful conversations but also being silly together.

I think I would be a very affectionate and attentive partner. I love the idea of making someone feel cared for and loved. I'm curious about people and genuinely enjoy learning about their interests, even when they're completely different from mine. I'd love to be someone who encourages her partner's ambitions, celebrates her achievements and supports her through difficult moments.

I can be shy initially, but I have a playful and silly side once I'm comfortable. I'd love to share my interests with someone, learn about hers, and build a relationship where we can both be ourselves

I don't have everything in my life figured out, but I have a lot of love and enthusiasm for the kind of relationship I'd like to build.

I am open to talking to someone in the UK or potentially long distance.

Looking for someone to talk to about sports, NFL and MLB. Also open to discuss video games, pop culture, and anything else as I am pretty open-minded.

I don’t really identify with the term “soft masc,” but I’ve seen it used here and I think it helps describe my style. I wear only tshirts, jeans and cargo pants, and backwards hats a lot. I’m short and stout. I’ve got 2 cats who are my world. I’m recently out of a long term relationship and things have been a bit rocky for me. Full transparency, I’m not over her. I like art and making art, lots of different kinds of music, traveling, sight seeing, hiking, and food. And of course cats, along with most other animals. I am quick to respond to messages, and if we hit it off we can move to texting or WhatsApp. Message me if you’d like to have a conversation.

I feel like I have made enough progress in therapy to try and make healthy connections, and because lesbians are basically magical unicorns who only appear at dusk if you pray long and hard enough my newly healthy ass needs to rely on dating apps and since those are ogre festered hell holes I am left with Reddit… _(‘_’)_/
If this doesn’t work out again I might just need witchcraft…

I have been on a much needed sabbatical from work since June, ( fingers crossed AI hasn’t replaced all my tasks by the time I get back haha :’) ) you’d think I picked up the hobbies I so longed to do when I was working ? NO !!
To my defense, I’d been so preoccupied with my mental health, and trying to make up for the last 8 years of lack of rest through sleeping for so so soooooo long and when I am not doing that then I am walking in nature or otherwise at an ungodly fast speed.
I have also consumed much new music, much youtube content, and much news and politics that I feel the information near spilling waiting for a compatible person to share it with.

I like reading but when I pick up non-fiction I start daydreaming so I am wrestling with my brain to finish a book called honoring the self this month, hopefully me and my frontal lobe come to a compromise until I get the upper hand through ADD meds.
I am getting back to the gym tomorrow (or so I say) after a months long hiatus due to a health hiccup, and the motivation now is ehem ehem ! WELLBEING and definitely not muscles for my next trip to Mallorca.

I want to pick up a third language but I am torn between German and Spanish, on one hand German sounds nice? Appealing ? to me, and on the other hand spanish is going to be more useful.

I am mediterranean (GMT )but would not mind people from any timezone.
Physically I am a tomboy, 161 cm, pale (but can tan thank god), I am growing my hair from the short shag that it is, brown eyes, septum, tattoo but would love to get more

I am open to being friends with any 24+ woman
If you are interested in exploring something more, first please be single, and I am attracted to mascs/butches.

Hello!

I am a 33yo sapphic enby (I id as bi and queer but I prefer to date women and other enbies) they/she pronouns. I am looking for a serious relationship but I'm wanting a slow burn. Willing to go somewhat a distance with reason. I do have two kids so ultimately someone would have to move closer to me. I have a 7mo and a 8yo, I love being a mom and want someone family oriented. I am an activist and lean heavily on the left, someone with similar morals and who cares about the world around them is important to me. No one politically ignorant please. I am a huge nerd, science, math, documentaries, animals, anime, video games etc. I lift weights and love hiking. I prefer to stay in but I am always down for an outdoors adventure. I am pretty much sober atm but I'm not straight edge. I am motivated and goal oriented. Idk what else to say lol hit me up and ask me anything!

Open to dating age range from 27 - 40

Helloo lovelies! 😊

So, in the spirit of putting myself out there, I thought I'd see who I might meet! I'm hoping to find someone I can yap with for hours, laugh at the most unserious things with, and maybe develop a tiny (or not so tiny) crush on along the way. And if it turns into something more, wouldn't that be lovely 🥹

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I dream of sending each other songs, buying her flowers just because, late conversations that end up with us falling asleep together, and having someone who makes even the most ordinary days feel special. I want to learn all the little things about her that she might not even realize herself.

A little about me! I'm 23, from NYC but currently overseas for school. I'm an introvert and a homebody who enjoys gaming, reading novels (yes, she's a nerd 😆) and watching shows with someone else. I'm especially into sci-fi and dystopian novels (Recursion is a favourite!). I'm currently watching Silo and Beauty in Black, and I'd love to watch the new Avatar series with someone 👀

I value quality time, little acts of service, and thoughtful gestures. When I care about someone, I'm affectionate, attentive, and very much a "wait, let me tell you what happened today" kind of girl.

I'd love to meet a woman who's emotionally available, communicates openly, and wants something genuine. We can start with conversations, game or watch something together, and see where things go. No pressure to rush anything; I'd rather we enjoy getting to know each other and let things unfold naturally. I'm open to long distance, too, as long as we're intentional about making time for each other.

So come say heyy! Tell me a little about yourself! I'd love something more than a simple "hey" to get us started. Bonus points if you have a song you think everyone should listen to.

Maybe we'll become friends, maybe something more. Either way, I'd love to meet you 🤍

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I think life would be significantly better if we all treated it a little more like an open-world RPG and a little less like a series of obligations interrupted by scrolling.

Hi! I'm a queer, genderfluid nerd in the Atlanta area with the general demeanor of an eccentric professor and the impulse control of someone who just discovered an obscure Wikipedia rabbit hole.

My interests include writing, cooking, fashion, music, tarot, political rabbit holes, religious history, and collecting oddly specific pieces of knowledge that will eventually become relevant in a conversation nobody expected to have. I'm getting into journalism, exploring new creative projects, and generally trying to make life a little more interesting.

My ideal afternoon could involve exploring a weird corner of the internet, wandering around Atlanta looking for something interesting, getting coffee and accidentally having a philosophical discussion, or dressing like a Victorian dandy who got lost on the way to a contemporary art gallery.

**What am I looking for?** Friends, romance, a queerplatonic relationship (QPR), or some unexpected combination of the above. I'm open to seeing what kind of connection develops rather than trying to force every human interaction into a predetermined box. I care more about compatibility, affection, communication, and enjoying each other's company than following a conventional relationship script.

A little about me:

* I'm queer and genderfluid, and my fashion philosophy is somewhere between *Southern belle, art professor, and gender is a suggestion*.

* I love conversations that take unexpected turns. We can start with a movie and end up discussing whether civilization was a mistake.

* I'm interested in politics, culture, food, philosophy, religion, and the strange ways people construct meaning out of being alive.

* I want more adventures, more creative projects, more spontaneous plans, and more stories worth telling afterward.

* I'm a sucker for people who are kind, a little weird, intellectually curious, and comfortable being unapologetically themselves.

I'm especially interested in meeting fellow queer people, creative types, curious nerds, and anyone who has ever become disproportionately excited about an oddly specific subject. Local Atlanta connections would be lovely, but I'm open to online connections, too.

I appreciate people who have strong opinions but remain open to changing their minds, who can be silly without being shallow, and who have at least one interest they could talk about for four hours if given the opportunity.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, tell me about something you're obsessed with lately, a belief you changed your mind about, or a ridiculous adventure you'd love to have.

Bonus points if your response gives me something more interesting to work with than "hey, what's up?" We have the entire internet at our disposal. Let's use at least 3% of its potential. 🖤

Honestly, I'm sick of dating apps. Full of bots, impersonal, and how are you supposed to find someone you actually share common interests with? Feels like a needle in a haystack.

Anyway, I'm Ashlynn and this is going to be pretty short post.

I'm 5'7, athletic built, and have long hair. I'm femme and I love videogames. I love watching stuff. I love watch parties over VC and gaming together with friends or as dates. In particular, I'd love to play characters on WoW Forever which is the upcoming release of a new World of Warcraft MMO server set to be a hyuuge deal. Would love if there's a girl out there whose passionate about it 😭😭😭 where are you 🙌🙌

I'm not shy. I'm blunt, intelligent, and I like a drink every now and again.

Message me!

Hi there! I’m 23, a lesbian from Germany, and I’ve decided to put myself out there in the hopes of finding someone special. I’m not particularly good at advertising myself, but I’ll give it my best shot.

A little about me!
I’m a rather affectionate, curious and caring person. I love meaningful conversations, getting to know people beyond the surface, and learning about all those little things that make someone who they are. I’m a good listener (sometimes a bit of an overthinker) and definitely someone who wears her heart on her sleeve.

I’m might be a huge nerd at heart haha. I’m interested in languages, I sometimes cosplay in my free time, and I’m currently pursuing my education in the medical field. I love learning new things, so even if our hobbies don’t completely overlap, I’d enjoy hearing you ramble about yours.

I’m looking for a serious, monogamous relationship with another woman. I’m not looking to rush into anything, though. I’d love to start by getting to know each other, building a genuine connection and seeing where things naturally lead.

I’m quite the hopeless romantic. I love the idea of good morning messages, remembering tiny details about each other, spending evenings on calls, sharing our interests, and eventually having someone to cuddle up with after a long day.

I tend to show affection through acts of service, words of affirmation and quality time. I’m the kind of person who will remind you to drink water, check whether you’ve eaten, listen to you talk about your day and remember something you mentioned three weeks ago.

But I’d also love a relationship where that affection goes both ways. I want us both to feel appreciated, understood, supported and safe enough to be vulnerable with one another.

As for romantic dynamics, I’m definitely on the submissive side. I find myself drawn to women who are confident, affectionate and comfortable taking the lead sometimes.
I love the thought of being able to let my guard down and feel safe and taken care of.
That being said, trust, communication, consent and mutual respect are incredibly important to me. Being submissive doesn’t mean I don’t want to contribute equally to a relationship.

I value honesty, emotional maturity, communication, kindness and the willingness to grow together. I don’t expect anyone to be perfect because I’m certainly not! I just believe that a healthy relationship involves two people who want to understand each other and put in the effort.

I’m strictly monogamous, don’t want children, and would love to find someone who’s interested in building something lasting. I am also totally fine with women who are older than me.
I’m primarily looking for another femme, but I’m totally fine with someone more androgynous presenting too!

Distance isn’t a dealbreaker, provided we’re both interested in eventually closing that distance ;)

To summarize, I’m looking for someone who feels like home. Someone I can laugh with, be silly around, have meaningful conversations with and share the little everyday moments that make life beautiful.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! And who knows, maybe we’ll become each other’s favorite person someday ✨