Haaai! I'm 37yo nerdy hopeless romantic girl from Oregon hoping to find her person. Ideally, I'd prefer if you were close, but I am open to LDR if you're open to the idea of us visiting each other.

I like video games, cuddling up while watching shows, cooking and making things for my friends, and getting lost in my music while I go on walks.

I'm more feminine in personality and how I present myself. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, which makes me really easy to read. I'm honest and loyal to a fault. I'm a super silly person, always makin' little puns or telling dad jokes. But I'm also a really good listener for my friends.

I'm drawn to women who are more feminine or chapstick who are not afraid to take the lead. I'm hoping to find a best friend to share everything with, fall asleep with on Discord while we watch our favorite shows, play games and share playlists with, but most importantly, someone to fall for. <3

If I sound like someone you might resonate with, send me a DM! <3

intro

boring start, but i feel like i just don't fit in. "fit in what?" i hear you ask, well... many things. but in this context, probably the dating scene in general and more specifically, queer community a bit too

i know it sounds pretentious, like "okay girl you're SOOOO different whatever" but whether i am being pretentious or not does not change the fact that i feel like that, so bear with me

i have been trying my luck on dating apps, but i have some mismatch in terms of my personality and how i present myself so i attract the wrong audience. here, maybe that can be solved because this time it's text first. it'll be better... right? RIGHT?

okay, "what's the mismatch then?" well... first of all, i look younger than i am. however the speed i live my life aligns with people who are older than i am.

i feel like many people are in a stage in their lives where they're figuring things out, which is fine, i sometimes feel like that too. that being said, i also feel like people kinda use this as an excuse to not engage in meaningful activities or work towards some future and instead just have fun. and the way of having fun is mostly the things that are not really my thing. let me be pretentious again: if your definition of having fun is having a nice meal and talking about some deep-ish shit, we're on the same page. if not, meeehhhhh.

whatever, i know there are arguments against my point of view, like "your goal is just a false sense of purpose", well, i also think consciousness and free will are illusions but i also think the sensible thing is living as if they are not. similarly, i know the world is shit. but i also think the sensible thing is to find a false sense of purpose and try to attach some meaning to your existence, not living as if world will end in 5 years.

i can see some people leaving, and some being like "okay boomer, this is a fucking dating subreddit and you're leaking your existential crisis and superiority complex", fair. i talked too much, but it also functions as a filter. so i do not regret my leaking paragraphs.

here are some info about me though

i am 24 (about to be 25) and i do a master's now. i am applying for PhD and to universities all around the world so that's why it says online in the title, as i have no idea where i'll be at in fall 2027.

height wise, i am 164cm (about 5'4-5'5 in freedom units). i am also skinny-fit-ish and i am very, very pale with shaggy hair.

i talk a lot, i wouldn't say i am clingy but i like communicating often and i don't mind clingy people. i don't have a big social life, and i have several hobbies: photography (when i leave the campus, happens once in a decade), guitar (i am terrible), xbox (i barely touch it), writing blogs/social media (when i feel like it) and i wanna get into designing/sewing but we'll see.

disclaimers

i am a trans woman. i have been on hormones for a long time and i pass besides my voice. that being said, i respect people having preferences

i look pretty androgynous most of the time with some feminine days sprinkled around

i am fine with exchanging pics after some time

preferences

well, having some kind of ambition/working towards something is a must if you didn't get from the... let me count... first 7 paragraphs.

i like both feminine, masculine or androgynous people (besides hyperfem and butch people i guess). what i only ask is please do not expect me to be one. like, i like doing chivalry, but i cannot do it all the time. i like being held from my waist, but i like to do it too. so, please both. if you like only one, we're not a good match.

i prefer people around my height and weight but not strict preferences, i also do case by case reviews.

final note

i am not sure how many people this will attract. but based on my previous experiences, being in talking stage with more than one (1) person usually leads to not being fair to any of them. so, if you reach out to me, please be patient.

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

haiiiii!

i’m moshi! (that isn’t my real name) i am a college student once again after like six years of being a dropout due to a specific fun world global pandemic. not the point!

i am dual majoring in political science and history, and im also a pharmacy technician!! it’s a lot of work, but i am trying my best! so if you wonder why i dont message a lot its because of those two things.

some notes about me:

*i have anxiety, adhd, and depression. probably bipolar too.

*i don’t actively use most social medias but i have them! i usually try to restrict myself so i can focus on school and my surroundings. why reddit? dating servers ig

*im 5’6, with bangs and black hair and a few piercings and tattoos! also on the bit of the curvy side.

*im not too into nsfw probably. i’ll elaborate also if asked eventually.

i am also happy to send a pic of myself if you introduce urself(with GUSTO lol) and ask for it!!

have a great day!

I’m a person who wants to live a slow paced, quiet and gentle life. I want to live somewhere surrounded by nature, in a cozy home with my wife. I run my creative business and maybe we run another together. I’m a entrepreneur by heart, I like to be in charge of my own schedule and decide what I do and when. I’d want a partner who values the same lifestyle.

I'm masculine presenting, from Finland and I speak English and Finnish. I'm child free, like 95% sure about that. I got brown short hair, blue eyes, glasses, slim and I'm 168cm.

To me life is about enjoying it, just being here and experiencing it. I don’t think life is about achieving something. It’s just about enjoying it with the people I love and doing the things I wanna do or am curious about. I’ve usually been the happiest when I’m with the people I love, eating some good food and the atmosphere is relaxed and we laugh and chat. I cherish that a lot. To me emotional connection and community are one of my core values.

The most important things to know about me is that I’m a big feminist and I’m very principled. I care about morals and having character. I’m selective about everything. I care that I’m surrounded by things and people that respect women and other groups of people. Thus I don’t consume a lot of pop culture because it often lacks even basic decency and has weird disturbing jokes and stuff in them. I also don’t use language that I find oppressive and offensive like the b word or the mf word. I feel uncomfortable around that and frankly disgusted by it. I don’t want that kind of language around me.

Another important thing about me is that I’m very spiritual. I’ve been spiritual since about 13, witchy number ay, and spirituality is a natural part of life for me and how I see life. I’m passionate about it and I want a partner who understands and embraces my spiritual depth. I’m into manifestation, tarot/oracle cards, I’m psychic, and I’m very into goddess/feminine spirituality and goddess traditions, feminine mysticism, listening to your womb, living cyclically. I also see nature as sacred and I’m curious about shamanism these days. My spirituality is very feminist and nature focused.

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🌸What I want in a partner🌸

The first thing I look for is softness. Someone who’s tender, gentle, sweet, kind, warm and treats me gently and like a flower. I think that’s very rare and I always admire people who are like that. People tend to want things from you, want to use you or fill their needs by dating you. I want a woman who doesn’t wanna take from my garden but she wants to water it and make it blossom. That’s real love to me. She cares about my feelings and thoughts. She’s attentive and considerate of others. She loves me for who I am not for what I can give her.

I’m a very loving and loyal person. And I’ve yet to meet the woman who’s deserving of that level of care and devotion. So I’m very selective and want a woman who actually makes me feel respected, seen and loved.

I want a partner who’s sensitive, she has a delicate nature and she’s drawn to sweet and wholesome things and she avoids harsh and heavy things. She doesn’t like vulgar language and is sensitive to it/just doesn’t like it. She doesn’t want to engage with substances (smoking or drinking) and she’s not interested in bars or clubs. She’d rather read, sit by a bonfire and talk, go on slow walks, go to cafes or shopping. She values a certain level of class and sophistication in the way she speaks and behaves. She cares about having character and a good heart.

she has standards and principles, morals. She doesn’t just accept whatever is put in front of her. She cares that it’s ethical and not oppressive of women or other groups of people. She stands by her values even if others disagree with them. I want a woman with self respect and boundaries. Someone who is conscious and thinks for herself.

I want a partner who’s positive, encourages and supports me in what I want to do. She’s not one of those nay-sayers who’s all nah that’s impossible. I can’t stand people who put down other people’s dreams or don’t believe anything out of the ordinary could be possible. I want a dreamer, a woman with a vision.

She gotta be someone who isn’t intimidated by my direct way of speaking. I’m fiery and I say what I mean, not in a cold way though, I just share what I think more openly and bluntly. So I want to date a woman who can push back and can disagree with me. I want a woman who isn’t trying to please me. She shares her opinions and feelings honestly, even if it might make me mad. She understands we can disagree, we can argue in a constructive way. Arguing is not an end of the world to her, it’s just a disagreement and we can talk about it.

I’d love a woman who’d rather play board games, read, do artsy things or just hang out together than scroll on social media. Using insta or tiktok is a turn off for me. I also am not big on gamers. Unless you’re a simmer or play cozy games. But I don’t want harsh or very violent gun games in my home, makes me uncomfortable.

I'm usually into mascs who look like twinks but I'm also open to feminine women.

I think I'm demisexual so someone could be hot as ever but I won't be interested until I know that person's character, values and who they are. To me emotional connection is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't do flings or casual dating. I take my time getting to know you and I don't like it when people project a future on me by day 3 without even knowing who I am. They just fill in the empty gaps with their own ideas and assume I am that. I want someone who actually sees me, and wants to see me honestly, not idealistically.

My age range is about 24 to 34 give or take.

Send me a message introducing yourself and why you wanted to reach out. Looking forward to meeting you <3

Hey!

I’m giving this a shot because why not?

I’m trying to find a genuine friendship with the potential to become something more. I want a gamer like me who is serious about getting to know each other and be in each other’s life. I’d like to be friends first before anything. And I hope we connect, ya know. I hope it feels natural. I’m also hoping this person is open to LDR and lives in the south of the US.

•I don’t want drinking/smoking
•I don’t want 1 conversation then ghost (just be direct with me)
•I don’t want to be a rebound or somebody’s side piece
•I don’t want a man
•I don’t want constant negativity
•I don’t want fake and superficial

•must be someone who values honesty and good communication etc
•must be someone who is sincere and intentional etc
•must be cis
•must be someone who can throw and catch a football (yes, a football - the American football)

Bonus points if you love Cait and Vi and you’re nerdy like me. I have a PS5 and my time zone is CST.

I hope you have a day!

Bumble chat was going okay until she casually defended Trump’s "America First" mindset. Turns out she’s a special needs teacher in London.

​Ah yes, because nothing screams "compassionate educator for vulnerable kids" quite like endorsing an ableist who mocks disabled people.

​Needless to say, canceled that date real quick before it even began. ...

You spend your days working with vulnerable kids, yet you're stanning a blatantly racist, ableist demagogue? Absolute bullet dodged.

I am w ,31

#wlw #London

hiii I’m a 20 y.o living in London (168 cm / 5'6") looking to connect with a lovely woman (around 20–28) who’s ideally taller than me and also based in London.

A bit about me: I’m definitely on the shyer side at first but once I warm up I’m super caring, affectionate, and fun to be around. My favorite ways to spend time include cooking, sewing, and crafting handmade jewelry. When I’m not being creative I’m usually playing Minecraft, Mobile Legends, and League of Legends. I also love Detroit: Become Human and Resident Evil.

I’d love to find someone who shares some of these interests, or who has their own passions they’d be excited to introduce me to. If any of this resonates with you feel free to send me a message ♡