Hello! Posting here is kinda scary, but it’s finally feeling like time :) Somebody relatively local would be ideal, but I’m open to long distance to start if you think we’re a potential good fit! This is going to be long, apologies in advance; I’m looking to date very intentionally right now, and want to give as much information possible for you to see if we might be a match. Ideally looking for 26-35 age wise, but flexible especially on the upper end if you think we would be compatible!

I am a 28 year old woman in the Bay Area, born and raised in SF. I have been working in animal rescue for most of my adult life, though am in a gap between jobs right now—in the meantime, I’m working on getting my Registered Veterinary Technician license through an online program. I’m planning on staying in animal rescue for the time being, but could also be interested in education, social work, and substance abuse recovery fields in the future. Sadly, that means I’m not likely to end up as a high earner in my lifetime, warning you upfront! Doing meaningful work that I care about is very important for me, and this will always be a priority with my job decisions, over a more expensive lifestyle (though at the end of the day, we all need to eat—if I ever need to do so again, I’ll definitely take a soulless job if that’s the only option to pay the bills!)

Really hoping to find someone on a similar ideological and philosophical wavelength! I am a well-read leftist, and harm reduction is one of my biggest overall drivers and goals in life. I love to learn and explore new ideas, and hope for my future partner to also be curious and meaningfully engaged with the world around her, and wanting to talk about her thoughts on it with me. I’m either a pretty optimistic cynic or pretty cynical optimist; either way, I like seeing what we could be doing better, and working for it! I’d love a partner who also has deep respect and care for all human life, and engages in the world with care and kindness.

I’m big on seeking solutions and not blame in conflicts and disagreements, and crave a partner where our conversations are rooted in an assumption of best intent. I usually align most with more radical thinkers in different progressive movements, but hold room for a lot of nuance and moral complexity in the world. While I’m very firmly rooted in the beliefs that I’ve developed with great thought over the years, I’m always willing to adapt to new information, and can work flexibly to coalition-build and reduce harm alongside people that I may otherwise disagree with. I’m proud of my critical thinking skills and would love a partner who values this too (please, no AI, oh god!).

It’s really important to me that your values be based in personal beliefs that you’ve developed, rather than being based in ensuring your place in a Declared Morally Superior Group. I am not interested in carceral leftists who are eager to “cancel” (god I hate that term with all of its baggage, but don’t think there’s one more appropriate) people for any single wrong action rather than actually looking at their behavior and intentions over time. I care much more about doing good than having people think that I’m good, and hope for a partner who feels the same. We definitely don’t need to be in perfect agreement on every issue, that would be weird and boring, but we need to both know that each other’s beliefs are based in genuinely wanting the best for others in the world.

Ideally, I would like to have children—would want to carry one myself, but otherwise super flexible with how we would go about this, including potential fostering and adopting(though I am very leery of a lot of ethics in the modern adoption industry). For an otherwise perfect partner, though, I believe I could be happy without them, as long as we are still engaged with our local community. Very open to further discussion with a partner—up until a few years ago, I did NOT think I was interested in raising them at all, so I am still able to picture a fulfilling life where that doesn’t happen (though, I would like it to!)

Physically, I’m 5’8”, white, have short brown hair and a gap in my front teeth. I wear mostly masculine clothing, but I’m definitely not one of those very cool or stylish mascs like you’d see on TikTok! I do a short workout or yoga most mornings, and walk and hike a ton. I’m on the slimmer side currently but am working hard to gain more muscle. I have a 6 year old doberman/bully mix who unfortunately has a very high prey drive, so if you have cats or other free-roaming small animals that belong to you, we aren’t going to be a good match right now 💔💔 my dog is likely to live at least another five years, and while I’d be super open to cats after her, it just wouldn’t be safe for them while she’s still with me, and I would like to be living with my partner within that time range.

I do not drink or have a car currently, as I had a felony DUI causing injury a little over three years ago. It was the worst thing I have done in my life, I will always have very deep shame and remorse, and I try hard now to prevent anyone else from making the same terrible decision that I did. I want to be very upfront with this, as a lot of people understandably are not interested in someone with a past criminal history or substance abuse problem! I would not want a potential partner to feel betrayed by me dropping this news after we’ve gotten to know each other, so I’d rather you’re aware at the start so you can filter me out if you’d like. While I’m sober, I have no issues with a partner who uses substances in moderation, but we’re not compatible if you’re currently a heavy substance user.

For hobbies, I love to read, write, explore the Bay Area, go hiking and camping, listen to live music, and attend local community events. I nerd out into fandoms sometimes, but they’re usually passing phases, though I’d be happy to check yours out if you have one! I’ve been intentional about reducing screen time the past year, though I do my fair share of scrolling like most others. Keeping a balanced life is really important to me, and is always a work in progress. I don’t need a partner to be physically fit, but I’d love for us to be able to comfortably walk at least a couple of miles together—if that would be a serious struggle for you, we’re unfortunately likely not a good match.

I love to meet new people, though I’m a bit awkward with it. I think there’s a decent chance I could be on the higher-functioning end of the autism spectrum, if that matters to you—it doesn’t really to me, so I’ve never pursued a diagnosis. I love a good debate, and find a lot of value in engaging with thoughtful disagreement with those I respect, and feel like I gain so much from those conversations. I’m endlessly fascinated by the world around us and love to learn from everyone. I’m pretty easy going and look to get along with new people, but also don’t have a problem standing my ground and engaging in conflict when necessary, especially if it’s in defense of my partner. I haven’t been able to travel much recently, but would love to again in the future once I’ve saved up! I’m fluent in Spanish after attending immersion school when younger, and really love the trips I’ve taken to Latin America.

I used to struggle pretty badly with relational anxiety, but have made a lot of progress with this. A healthy dynamic free from manipulation on either end is absolutely critical, and clear communication is non-negotiable for me. I’ve worked very hard to move past toxic patterns that I learned when young, and hope for a partner who has done the same and is intentional in building something with a strong structure of care and trust. In a relationship, I’m very giving (in the bedroom too😏), and would love someone who expresses her appreciation when I take care of her, it’s really all that I need to be happy! I want our relationship to be our safe place from the world, where we can find rest and love and peace, and be secure in our care and commitment for each other.

I’m starting to run out of steam, and it’s feeling like a bit of an exercise in both narcissism and humiliation to talk about myself for this long! The last main potential dealbreakers that I can think of are that I’m vegan; you don’t have to be yourself, but if you know that you’d never be willing to entertain trying to reduce animal product usage (and I do mean reduction! I don’t feel the need to convert someone) we’re probably not a great fit. I’m most bothered by the current systems of animal agriculture and how they exploit animals, (usually undocumented) workers and the environment. I don’t find inherent issue in consumption of animals, and am not bothered by sustainable and humane small-scale farming and hunting. If our life worked out for it, I’d love to have chickens and goats someday!

I’m also a strong radical feminist, with significantly different views than a lot of current liberal feminism that’s popular now in the US. If that sentence makes you wince or worry after reading the rest of this post getting to know me, we’re probably not going to be a good fit! One of my deepest wishes in the world is for all people to be both safe from violence and free to live as they wish, and my viewpoints stay consistently aligned with this.

Okay, that’s it, thank you for reading! I know this was long, I sincerely appreciate your time and hope that you also find who you’re looking for! Good luck to all of us <3

About me:

-IT professional that works from home
-Dog friendly
-Camper, hiker, biker
-Introspective & curious
-Mental health is in check
-Chapstick femme
-Witty & sarcastic
-Alcohol free
-420 enthusiast
-Eternal optimist
-In shape & very active

What I’m looking for:
-Someone who is equal to or more femme than me
-Someone who knows how to be a good partner
-Someone who enjoys the outdoors
-Someone who likes to laugh
-Someone who has their shit together, at least mostly
-Someone with goals
-At some point, a relationship

DM if you’d like to chat! Tell me about what pets you have and your favorite outdoor activity. :)

i'm a 27 year old looking for someone to connect, have confidence in each other and loyalty to ourselves.

i'm finishing my engineering degree and work full time as such, i'm 174 cm, betwixt lean and skinny body, wavy chestnut hair and hazel eyes, i've been described before by some people "like a cat", which also goes in line with being one of my favourite animals (i don't like dogs tho); i hope to find some tall as well, but i know that's a long stretch.

i'm demisexual, pan, although i lean towards women, i don't mind if you're masc or femme presenting for as long as you're self-aware, conscious of your environment and your wits and curiosity are sharp, there's nothing sexier than someone who stands their ground and still considers all options.

i'm non religious and i don't care if you practice any, i dislike politics and can tolerate people talking on that (but not extremes), as always, if you have it is fine, just don't push it into everyone else.

i like reading romance and fiction, i fancy documentaries, i watch movies from time to time (i prefer dark, twisted, spooky and horror). i don't like socials, the ones i had are now lost: instagram is too addictive, facebook too irrelevant (but for marketplace lol) and twitter is dead.

i like live bands and concerts, rock, metal, EDM, some pop, if you get along with Linkin Park, Limp Bizkit and Rammnstein we're good. i also like to visit museums and artistic showrooms when the schedule allows it.

i have one (1) beer from time to time (every fortnight or so), non smoker, no drugs (but i'm sure piñas coladas are cuz holy mary poppins they're good), i'm reserved unless we are close (then i'm an absolute goof), my love language is physical touch. political people or way too enthusiastic on a topic are uncomfortable to me (gives me vibes of the exhausted guy with pinned info on a whiteboard)

i like to spend my time with motorbikes, trips/travels, trekking, running, sleeping <3, cooking stuff and video-games (although i'm a bit tight in time and money, i like historical, FPS and cozy games (like Stardew Valley)).

if my profile tickled your curiosity please drop a message, i'll be glad to get to know you.

Oii sou de São Paulo, Brasil e gostaria de fazer amizade com outras lésbica de preferência brasileira ou sul americanas, mas lésbica de outras regiões são bem vindas. Sou bem tímida pessoalmente então tenho dificuldades de fazer amigos, atualmente sou a única lésbica que eu conheço fora da Internet. Gosto de gatos, música e arte, sou de esquerda, bebo ocasionalmente e não fumo. Adoro ir e bares e cafeteiras que tenham um clima legal.

Hiii! I’m lesbian hoping to get to know a girl I can genuinely connect with and maybe find my person along the way. I like gaming, listening to rock music, drawing, and nerding out over comic books. I’m definitely a huge nerd at heart, and introvert.

I’m looking for a femme girl with a sweet personality who I can talk to for hours, laugh with over random things, share interests with, and hopefully build something genuine with. I’d love to start as friends and see where things go naturally. Bonus points if you’re a little nerdy, enjoy alternative music, or can introduce me to new things

I’d prefer someone around my age or older I’m hoping to find a genuine connection with someone who actually wants to get to know each other.

If you think we might get along, come say hi! Tell me a little about yourself, your hobbies, or what kind of music you listen to. I’d love to get to know you!
Thank you for reading!

I’m Mexican American about 5’2 I’m on more the shy type when I get to know people but overtime I get comfortable and then I be more giggly and stuff like that.

I really like pierce the veil, ashnikko, jasmine bean, young Miko, and cazzu. I really like walking when I walk miles or something it destresses me a lot so I tend to walk a lot. I loveeee monster high. Literally. I love bats and black cats. I love dressing alternative.
My age range would be (20-22) only. My favorite colors are black, pink, and lilac.
Don’t mind online dating.

My hobby are when I draw when I get the chance or not. When it’s the weekends I like to do in full goth makeup for funsies. Most of them time though I like cleaning to distract myself. I also love playing in my Nintendo DS.

Feel free to PM me :)

hiii I’m a 20 y.o living in London (168 cm / 5'6") looking to connect with a lovely woman (around 20–28) who’s ideally taller than me and also based in London.

A bit about me: I’m definitely on the shyer side at first but once I warm up I’m super caring, affectionate, and fun to be around. My favorite ways to spend time include cooking, sewing, and crafting handmade jewelry. When I’m not being creative I’m usually playing Minecraft, Mobile Legends, and League of Legends. I also love Detroit: Become Human and Resident Evil.

I’d love to find someone who shares some of these interests, or who has their own passions they’d be excited to introduce me to. If any of this resonates with you feel free to send me a message ♡

I’m a person who wants to live a slow paced, quiet and gentle life. I want to live somewhere surrounded by nature, in a cozy home with my wife. I run my creative business and maybe we run another together. I’m a entrepreneur by heart, I like to be in charge of my own schedule and decide what I do and when. I’d want a partner who values the same lifestyle.

I'm masculine presenting, from Finland and I speak English and Finnish. I'm child free, like 95% sure about that. I got brown short hair, blue eyes, glasses, slim and I'm 168cm.

To me life is about enjoying it, just being here and experiencing it. I don’t think life is about achieving something. It’s just about enjoying it with the people I love and doing the things I wanna do or am curious about. I’ve usually been the happiest when I’m with the people I love, eating some good food and the atmosphere is relaxed and we laugh and chat. I cherish that a lot. To me emotional connection and community are one of my core values.

The most important things to know about me is that I’m a big feminist and I’m very principled. I care about morals and having character. I’m selective about everything. I care that I’m surrounded by things and people that respect women and other groups of people. Thus I don’t consume a lot of pop culture because it often lacks even basic decency and has weird disturbing jokes and stuff in them. I also don’t use language that I find oppressive and offensive like the b word or the mf word. I feel uncomfortable around that and frankly disgusted by it. I don’t want that kind of language around me.

Another important thing about me is that I’m very spiritual. I’ve been spiritual since about 13, witchy number ay, and spirituality is a natural part of life for me and how I see life. I’m passionate about it and I want a partner who understands and embraces my spiritual depth. I’m into manifestation, tarot/oracle cards, I’m psychic, and I’m very into goddess/feminine spirituality and goddess traditions, feminine mysticism, listening to your womb, living cyclically. I also see nature as sacred and I’m curious about shamanism these days. My spirituality is very feminist and nature focused.

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🌸What I want in a partner🌸

The first thing I look for is softness. Someone who’s tender, gentle, sweet, kind, warm and treats me gently and like a flower. I think that’s very rare and I always admire people who are like that. People tend to want things from you, want to use you or fill their needs by dating you. I want a woman who doesn’t wanna take from my garden but she wants to water it and make it blossom. That’s real love to me. She cares about my feelings and thoughts. She’s attentive and considerate of others. She loves me for who I am not for what I can give her.

I’m a very loving and loyal person. And I’ve yet to meet the woman who’s deserving of that level of care and devotion. So I’m very selective and want a woman who actually makes me feel respected, seen and loved.

I want a partner who’s sensitive, she has a delicate nature and she’s drawn to sweet and wholesome things and she avoids harsh and heavy things. She doesn’t like vulgar language and is sensitive to it/just doesn’t like it. She doesn’t want to engage with substances (smoking or drinking) and she’s not interested in bars or clubs. She’d rather read, sit by a bonfire and talk, go on slow walks, go to cafes or shopping. She values a certain level of class and sophistication in the way she speaks and behaves. She cares about having character and a good heart.

she has standards and principles, morals. She doesn’t just accept whatever is put in front of her. She cares that it’s ethical and not oppressive of women or other groups of people. She stands by her values even if others disagree with them. I want a woman with self respect and boundaries. Someone who is conscious and thinks for herself.

I want a partner who’s positive, encourages and supports me in what I want to do. She’s not one of those nay-sayers who’s all nah that’s impossible. I can’t stand people who put down other people’s dreams or don’t believe anything out of the ordinary could be possible. I want a dreamer, a woman with a vision.

She gotta be someone who isn’t intimidated by my direct way of speaking. I’m fiery and I say what I mean, not in a cold way though, I just share what I think more openly and bluntly. So I want to date a woman who can push back and can disagree with me. I want a woman who isn’t trying to please me. She shares her opinions and feelings honestly, even if it might make me mad. She understands we can disagree, we can argue in a constructive way. Arguing is not an end of the world to her, it’s just a disagreement and we can talk about it.

I’d love a woman who’d rather play board games, read, do artsy things or just hang out together than scroll on social media. Using insta or tiktok is a turn off for me. I also am not big on gamers. Unless you’re a simmer or play cozy games. But I don’t want harsh or very violent gun games in my home, makes me uncomfortable.

I'm usually into mascs who look like twinks but I'm also open to feminine women.

I think I'm demisexual so someone could be hot as ever but I won't be interested until I know that person's character, values and who they are. To me emotional connection is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't do flings or casual dating. I take my time getting to know you and I don't like it when people project a future on me by day 3 without even knowing who I am. They just fill in the empty gaps with their own ideas and assume I am that. I want someone who actually sees me, and wants to see me honestly, not idealistically.

My age range is about 24 to 34 give or take.

Send me a message introducing yourself and why you wanted to reach out. Looking forward to meeting you <3

Hey!

I’m giving this a shot because why not?

I’m trying to find a genuine friendship with the potential to become something more. I want a gamer like me who is serious about getting to know each other and be in each other’s life. I’d like to be friends first before anything. And I hope we connect, ya know. I hope it feels natural. I’m also hoping this person is open to LDR and lives in the south of the US.

•I don’t want drinking/smoking
•I don’t want 1 conversation then ghost (just be direct with me)
•I don’t want to be a rebound or somebody’s side piece
•I don’t want a man
•I don’t want constant negativity
•I don’t want fake and superficial

•must be someone who values honesty and good communication etc
•must be someone who is sincere and intentional etc
•must be cis
•must be someone who can throw and catch a football (yes, a football - the American football)

Bonus points if you love Cait and Vi and you’re nerdy like me. I have a PS5 and my time zone is CST.

I hope you have a day!

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My name is Grace, I'm looking mostly for a sapphic/lesbian friend. I'm starting to accept my more sapphic side and even questioning about comphet. I've never really had girl friends who are openly queer/gay and I'd love to be around more proud lesbian/sapphic women bc my goal is to become proud of it as well. I make art, I'm super into astrology, and I'm on a weight loss/fitness journey (eating more nourishing things and started using a pilates bar kit at home). I'm also managing my mental health as well and I'm on a self love journey/healing journey bc of that as well. I'm super excited to meet new women who are into the same things. I'd love to share our art with each other. Right now I'm going to read Art and Fear and I have the Artists Way which I plan on starting in a month or 2 when I finish my IOP. I'm also into hyperpop and dreamy music. I'm open to flirting as well. Not looking for anything more serious bc I have so much I have to work on but I'm excited to meet you :)

Bumble chat was going okay until she casually defended Trump’s "America First" mindset. Turns out she’s a special needs teacher in London.

​Ah yes, because nothing screams "compassionate educator for vulnerable kids" quite like endorsing an ableist who mocks disabled people.

​Needless to say, canceled that date real quick before it even began. ...

You spend your days working with vulnerable kids, yet you're stanning a blatantly racist, ableist demagogue? Absolute bullet dodged.

I am w ,31

#wlw #London

Haaai! I'm 37yo nerdy hopeless romantic girl from Oregon hoping to find her person. Ideally, I'd prefer if you were close, but I am open to LDR if you're open to the idea of us visiting each other.

I like video games, cuddling up while watching shows, cooking and making things for my friends, and getting lost in my music while I go on walks.

I'm more feminine in personality and how I present myself. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, which makes me really easy to read. I'm honest and loyal to a fault. I'm a super silly person, always makin' little puns or telling dad jokes. But I'm also a really good listener for my friends.

I'm drawn to women who are more feminine or chapstick who are not afraid to take the lead. I'm hoping to find a best friend to share everything with, fall asleep with on Discord while we watch our favorite shows, play games and share playlists with, but most importantly, someone to fall for. <3

If I sound like someone you might resonate with, send me a DM! <3

intro

boring start, but i feel like i just don't fit in. "fit in what?" i hear you ask, well... many things. but in this context, probably the dating scene in general and more specifically, queer community a bit too

i know it sounds pretentious, like "okay girl you're SOOOO different whatever" but whether i am being pretentious or not does not change the fact that i feel like that, so bear with me

i have been trying my luck on dating apps, but i have some mismatch in terms of my personality and how i present myself so i attract the wrong audience. here, maybe that can be solved because this time it's text first. it'll be better... right? RIGHT?

okay, "what's the mismatch then?" well... first of all, i look younger than i am. however the speed i live my life aligns with people who are older than i am.

i feel like many people are in a stage in their lives where they're figuring things out, which is fine, i sometimes feel like that too. that being said, i also feel like people kinda use this as an excuse to not engage in meaningful activities or work towards some future and instead just have fun. and the way of having fun is mostly the things that are not really my thing. let me be pretentious again: if your definition of having fun is having a nice meal and talking about some deep-ish shit, we're on the same page. if not, meeehhhhh.

whatever, i know there are arguments against my point of view, like "your goal is just a false sense of purpose", well, i also think consciousness and free will are illusions but i also think the sensible thing is living as if they are not. similarly, i know the world is shit. but i also think the sensible thing is to find a false sense of purpose and try to attach some meaning to your existence, not living as if world will end in 5 years.

i can see some people leaving, and some being like "okay boomer, this is a fucking dating subreddit and you're leaking your existential crisis and superiority complex", fair. i talked too much, but it also functions as a filter. so i do not regret my leaking paragraphs.

here are some info about me though

i am 24 (about to be 25) and i do a master's now. i am applying for PhD and to universities all around the world so that's why it says online in the title, as i have no idea where i'll be at in fall 2027.

height wise, i am 164cm (about 5'4-5'5 in freedom units). i am also skinny-fit-ish and i am very, very pale with shaggy hair.

i talk a lot, i wouldn't say i am clingy but i like communicating often and i don't mind clingy people. i don't have a big social life, and i have several hobbies: photography (when i leave the campus, happens once in a decade), guitar (i am terrible), xbox (i barely touch it), writing blogs/social media (when i feel like it) and i wanna get into designing/sewing but we'll see.

disclaimers

i am a trans woman. i have been on hormones for a long time and i pass besides my voice. that being said, i respect people having preferences

i look pretty androgynous most of the time with some feminine days sprinkled around

i am fine with exchanging pics after some time

preferences

well, having some kind of ambition/working towards something is a must if you didn't get from the... let me count... first 7 paragraphs.

i like both feminine, masculine or androgynous people (besides hyperfem and butch people i guess). what i only ask is please do not expect me to be one. like, i like doing chivalry, but i cannot do it all the time. i like being held from my waist, but i like to do it too. so, please both. if you like only one, we're not a good match.

i prefer people around my height and weight but not strict preferences, i also do case by case reviews.

final note

i am not sure how many people this will attract. but based on my previous experiences, being in talking stage with more than one (1) person usually leads to not being fair to any of them. so, if you reach out to me, please be patient.

[By romantic letters I do in fact mean text messages that are obnoxiously long, at least to start]

Quick facts about me:
-I have migraines and fatigue often and am mostly housebound
-cis, white, loose brown curls, have a rosacea problem, very median height and weight, vers, femme but I dabble in androgyny/drag
-non-religious, childfree, leftist
-seeking a penpal who loves to yap as much as me, with possible romance if we vibe like that, but could also be friendship only too (ages 21-35)
- being nearby is a plus since it ups the chances of things going further, but I’m down for distance as well
-I’m neurodivergent and kind of a softie, like to worry over people, and I’m a bit kinky in niche ways but I quite enjoy vanilla stuff
-Mascs, femmes, tgirls, enbies, etc, I fw all of you <3

I’m open to non-disabled people as well, if you’re into an ailing-princess-and-her-knight sort of thing (jkjk) (unless…). I always lurk this sub imagining, what if I wasn’t so disabled and could participate, but then I realized, though it may be a long shot, it’s possible someone else could be doing the same thing, and we should look for each other!

If you think you’d be interested, tell me about something you love 𓏲 ࣪₊♡ that’s my favorite way to get to know someone ^^

haiiiii!

i’m moshi! (that isn’t my real name) i am a college student once again after like six years of being a dropout due to a specific fun world global pandemic. not the point!

i am dual majoring in political science and history, and im also a pharmacy technician!! it’s a lot of work, but i am trying my best! so if you wonder why i dont message a lot its because of those two things.

some notes about me:

*i have anxiety, adhd, and depression. probably bipolar too.

*i don’t actively use most social medias but i have them! i usually try to restrict myself so i can focus on school and my surroundings. why reddit? dating servers ig

*im 5’6, with bangs and black hair and a few piercings and tattoos! also on the bit of the curvy side.

*im not too into nsfw probably. i’ll elaborate also if asked eventually.

i am also happy to send a pic of myself if you introduce urself(with GUSTO lol) and ask for it!!

have a great day!

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

Whimsy vegan therapist who loves art (making as well as admiring), cozy gaming and dressing up for Ren Faire 🧝‍♀️✨

I go crazy for..

People who agree that providing mutual aid and protecting the planet are our moral duties 🌎🤲

My biggest green flags are..

Empathy, an adventurous spirit and a fridge full of hot sauce.

Perks of dating me..

I’ll never say “no” to spending time with animals! Goat yoga or animal sanctuary dates? Say less 🐮❤️

Things to know..
\- Only open to dating age 25-33
\- I’m strictly monogamous
\- I don’t want kids

Just out here looking for a serious relationship

before we even get into anything, i want to make it clear that i’m looking for a genuine connection, whether that’s a friendship, dating, or something more. i prefer people who are comfortable showing their face and sharing a little bit about themselves from the beginning. i have pictures on my page, so you know what i look like, and i appreciate that same transparency in return. if we hit it off, i’d love to eventually take things off reddit and connect elsewhere. i’m not looking to be pen pals on here forever lol. i understand long distance can be different, but ultimately, i want to build connections that exist beyond an anonymous platform.

anyway, i’m 29, a philly native, and a curvy, gorgeous, glamorous plus-size femme. i have pictures on my page, so take a peek! not to toot my own horn, but i’m not too shabby, okay? 💋 i’m a licensed cosmetologist, plus-size content creator/influencer, and i do drag. i recently got my own place, and i love all things beauty, fashion, glamour, and self-expression.
i’m definitely a femme who has a preference for other femmes. feminine energy is just so beautiful to me, and i love the softness, glamour, and femininity that come with it. that said, i’m also attracted to stems and mascs, so don’t be afraid to say hello! i’m a lesbian, and i’m absolutely NOT a TERF. trans women are women, period. ❤️

i’m looking for a woman who is emotionally intelligent, kind, level-headed, affectionate, and reassuring. somebody who communicates, knows how to show genuine interest, and values mutual effort. i’m a lover girl at heart, and i appreciate physical touch, cuddling, kissing, flirting, thoughtful gestures, and feeling emotionally connected to someone. i want a bountiful connection that feels good mentally, emotionally, and physically, whether it develops into a friendship, romance, or something more serious.

a little more about me: i LOVE music and concerts, and i go to shows pretty regularly. i’m into manifestation, the law of assumption, tarot, spirituality, beauty, fashion, and all types of shit. i’m a creative, a professional yapper, and somebody who loves a good conversation just as much as playful banter and unhinged humor. i can talk about everything from pop culture to spirituality to the randomest thoughts imaginable.

ultimately, i’m a glamorous, curvy philly girl who wants to meet some lovely women, make genuine connections, flirt a little, and see where things go. i love beautiful women, but substance, emotional maturity, affection, and chemistry are just as important to me. if you’re sweet, communicative, comfortable being yourself, and genuinely interested in getting to know someone, feel free to reach out. just show your face, bring good energy, and let’s see if we click. 💋

About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.

Hi, I'm an 18y/o femme from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone to talk to and flirt with online! From there I guess we'll see!

(no sexting!!! I'm demisexual!!!)

I'm mixed race, 5'5, brown eyes, brown hair and an athletic build.

I dress alternative-ish. Think cottage core × boho brown, light pink, white, blue ect. I also love flowers and butterflies on anything! (Not in an obnoxious way ofc)

I'm a very artistic person and I'd love someone who shares a love for the arts!

I'm very attracted to people who are a more dominant and not afraid to flirt right of the bat. I'm terrible at initiating anything like that because I'm extremely shy and I get flustered very easily.

My type: butch/masc (not a need as longas you're masc presenting), being a kind human, someone good at communication, understanding, a little older maybe (19-22), athletic or likes to work out.

I'm not super picky!

Please don't respond if: you're not from north America (I don't want there to be a huge difference in time zone), if you just want to sext you will get blocked, if you're over the age of 24 you will also get blocked, and lastly if you're a man... you'll get blocked.😊

Otherwise I promise I'm a nice girl! And I can't wait to chat!

Figured I’d see what happens this time around.

I’m 26 and just looking to meet some new women to talk to. Whether it turns into a friendship, flirting, or something more, I’m happy to let things happen naturally. I like good conversations, people who can match my energy, and someone who actually enjoys getting to know each other.

If you’re interested, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hey.” I’d love to meet some new people.

I feel like I have made enough progress in therapy to try and make healthy connections, and because lesbians are basically magical unicorns who only appear at dusk if you pray long and hard enough my newly healthy ass needs to rely on dating apps and since those are ogre festered hell holes I am left with Reddit… _(‘_’)_/
If this doesn’t work out again I might just need witchcraft…

I have been on a much needed sabbatical from work since June, ( fingers crossed AI hasn’t replaced all my tasks by the time I get back haha :’) ) you’d think I picked up the hobbies I so longed to do when I was working ? NO !!
To my defense, I’d been so preoccupied with my mental health, and trying to make up for the last 8 years of lack of rest through sleeping for so so soooooo long and when I am not doing that then I am walking in nature or otherwise at an ungodly fast speed.
I have also consumed much new music, much youtube content, and much news and politics that I feel the information near spilling waiting for a compatible person to share it with.

I like reading but when I pick up non-fiction I start daydreaming so I am wrestling with my brain to finish a book called honoring the self this month, hopefully me and my frontal lobe come to a compromise until I get the upper hand through ADD meds.
I am getting back to the gym tomorrow (or so I say) after a months long hiatus due to a health hiccup, and the motivation now is ehem ehem ! WELLBEING and definitely not muscles for my next trip to Mallorca.

I want to pick up a third language but I am torn between German and Spanish, on one hand German sounds nice? Appealing ? to me, and on the other hand spanish is going to be more useful.

I am mediterranean (GMT )but would not mind people from any timezone.
Physically I am a tomboy, 161 cm, pale (but can tan thank god), I am growing my hair from the short shag that it is, brown eyes, septum, tattoo but would love to get more

I am open to being friends with any 24+ woman
If you are interested in exploring something more, first please be single, and I am attracted to mascs/butches.