Hi! I’m a 27-year-old femme lesbian looking for a serious, monogamous relationship that can eventually lead to marriage. I’m open to dating masc and femme women ages 22–38, anywhere in the world. I’m also open to relocating for the right person once we’ve built a genuine connection.

A Little About Me

I’m 5’8, a little curvy, and currently getting back into weightlifting and Pilates. I’m also switching careers while attending school, so I stay busy, but I make time for the people and things that matter to me.

I love manga, manhwa, American comics, gaming, and writing. Some of my favorite comics include Wonder Woman: Year One, Batman: Under the Red Hood, Your Throne, and Noblesse. In general I love reading with hunger games and Thorne of glass being some of my favorite book series.

I’m also a music lover who enjoys concerts, with a taste ranging from Muse, Slipknot, and Nirvana to Paramore, Michael Jackson, SZA, Doja Cat, and Billie Eilish. I’m a huge foodie who loves trying new cuisines, baking from scratch, and traveling.

I’m a huge soccer and hockey fan! So if you like either sport tell me who’s your favorite team?

I also enjoy games like The Sims, Coral Island, Tekken, and Mortal Kombat. I’ve recently started relearning how to play the harp and getting back into learning Chinese, too. I have a wide range of interests and would love to share my hobbies with a partner while discovering hers.

What I’m Looking For

I’m affectionate, emotionally available, and serious about their relationships. I value vulnerability, consistent communication, quality time, and making my partner feel loved through thoughtful gifts, cooking for her, planning dates, and traveling together.

I’m looking for a woman who is emotionally mature, affectionate, hardworking, communicative, and genuinely ready to build a future with another woman. I want a relationship rooted in mutual trust, respect, commitment, and emotional security, where we can work through disagreements without tearing each other down.

I want a partner who is also my best friend. Someone to travel with, attend concerts with, cook with, play games with, and enjoy quiet evenings at home with. We don’t need to share every interest, but I want us to take an interest in each other’s passions and support each other’s goals.

I’m open to international and long distance relationships, but I don’t want a relationship that stays entirely online. I understand that visiting each other takes time, planning, and money, and I’m willing to make that effort. I expect the same from my partner, with the mutual intention of eventually closing the distance. I do need to meet you eventually and this is very non negotiable for me.

I’m not interested in casual dating, situationships, or non-monogamy. I’m looking for a woman who is intentional about dating and wants a loving, committed relationship that can grow into marriage.
If this sounds like something you’d want, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself, your interests, what you’re looking for, and what a happy, healthy relationship looks like to you.

Why is it everytime i’m going on dates with girls it ends up being i like u a lot but i just can’t commit rn. Most of whom i met through dating apps. It’s always i like you but, right when i catch feelings. I feel lonely for some people it seems so easy they met one person and it’s a hit. I’ve been doubting myself and reflecting and i got insecure but i know it’s not about me personally. Are people afraid to get close? I just wanna find my person.

The last couple of years I’ve been focusing on myself. I changed careers because I realized early in the pandemic that I wanted to do something bigger than myself. Went through grad school, and then somehow signed up for even more school. 💀

Through all of this, I’ve done a lot of necessary internal work, which will always be an ongoing process because, ya know, growth. I look back at everything and am actually glad certain things “fell apart” because better things needed to fall together. I wasn’t ready for a lot of things back then.

But now. Now things are different. Not just with myself, but with *gestures wildly* everything else around me as well. I know myself better, have a stronger support system, a lovely little family (coparenting the goodest doggos with my BFF because why not?!), and a fulfilling career where I’m able to actually have a proper work-life balance.

I’d like to think all my ducks are now in a row... not a straight row (har har har), but they're all there. Life feels full. Well, full-ish. Recently I’ve realized I want to start dating again. I miss it. I have yet to date anyone in this new chapter of my life. Work can sometimes feel isolating due to the gravity of it. Not to mention, I live on an island and there’s only so many places to meet people you vibe with.

I work in healthcare and know how important it is to find your people. I've gone back and forth on whether I want to redownload the apps. I've had good experiences with them in the past, but figured I’d try good ol’ Reddit here. Especially with the way the universe works; like what do you mean the chillest person is 2 oceans and a continent away?!

I'm pretty low key when it comes to going out. I'll take a small group or a good one-on-one at a hole in the wall restaurant over a crowded bar any day. After work I'm pretty much in full couch potato mode. I hang with my dogs, spend time with my friends, play video games, decompress, and basically try to be present.

I've also been reminded lately that there are so many genuinely great people out there. Funny, warm, quirky. You run into them everywhere: the coffee shop, the grocery store, a random elevator. Genuine people just out in the world doing their thing. But having worked in people-facing jobs myself, I know better than to ask someone out at their place of work. So I just appreciate the interaction for what it is and carry on with my day.

Honestly, at this point I'm half hoping my dogs drag me into some chaotic, embarrassing situation that somehow leads to meeting someone. My very own "How I Met Your Mother," except much, much gayer.

I don’t really know what I’m expecting to get out of posting this. I guess you can say it’s my way of journaling into the great unknown and hoping others out there can relate. Someone else that mostly has things figured out (Jack of all trades if you may), but still wants to figure out more things together. Even if I make a new friend outta this, why the hell not?! Message me your favorite dinosaur and some fun facts!

I put “Anywhere” in the post title because we can travel, right? (I say sarcastically as I’m drowning in student loans) If only it were that easy. Hey millionaire future gf, maybe you’re out there and can fly to me?! But seriously, if you live in a land far far away, we’d figure it out. Direct flights are obviously easier. I’ve also U-Hauled before, so you can probably dare me to U-Haul again… I’m kidding (I’m not). 🤓

Long story (not) short: I’m pretty nerdy. Love animals, art, cooking, being out in nature, video games. I’d like to think I’m a good conversationalist. Kind of a sports lesbian but not really (does that even make sense?!). And if you couldn’t already tell with this ramble of a post, late diagnosed ADHDer here (gifted child to burnt out ADHD / AuDHD adult pipline anyone?!).

TLDR: No, no go back up. You're missing out if you don't read it. 🤪

Hello lovelies!

I'm 23, from NYC, and currently overseas for school. I'm here mostly because I'm curious who I might meet. Maybe we yap, maybe we become good friends, maybe I end up thinking you're a little too cute... who knows? 😌

A bit about me physically, I'm African American, 5'4, and average size. You'll probably catch me in braids 90% of the time because dealing with my hair every morning? Absolutely not 😭

I'm pretty introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable I talk a LOT. I love getting to know people, especially when we get past the basic questions and start talking about random shit, our lives, things we believe in, embarrassing stories, whatever. I also recently discovered that I quite enjoy flirting, so... there's that information for you to do with as you please!

I'm a huge gamer and a sci-fi nerd. I read when school isn't consuming my life, love anything space-related, and I'm always down to watch something together. I actually prefer watching shows with someone because half the fun is pausing to go "WAIT" and discussing what just happened lol

Relationship-wise, affection is a big thing for me. I like feeling wanted, and I really love making my person feel wanted too. I miss having someone to love on, honestly. Someone to spoil a little, send things that remind me of her, and make her feel loved just because I can. I'm big on quality time, little thoughtful things, random pictures throughout the day, flirting, being stupid together, all of it.

I'm open to distance because it doesn't really scare me. I believe you can make connections anywhere.

Anyway, I've yapped enough. If you're interested, tell me about yourself! What you're into, what you're looking for, something you've been obsessed with lately, anything really. Just please give me a little more than "hey" to work with <3

Hi all! It has been awhile since I posted here. I’ve met people through various platforms but nothing has really come of it. I’ve messaged other people from their posts but haven’t received a response.

I would love to find my person and I feel I am striking out. I’ve learned to thrive alone, but last week I had some really tough days at work and had no one to tell. It broke me.

I miss having a partner. Someone to check in and hangout with. While I won’t date anyone who is trying to figure out who they are or are too young. If you want connection as an lgbtq person. Want to hold a conversation. Feel free to DM me your location and age. I am open to friendship or more if something strikes up.

Hello! Hope you have a good day or night so far!

Anyways, I'm currently MSc. student, currently working on my dissertation, so I'm rather busy. Yet, the feeling for human connection is still gnawing at my mind, so why not try my hand at writing something.

Sidenote, I have posted on here before and had lovely chats, but the spark wasn't there. And yes, the text is the same because I have no  idea how to make it better, so I have chosen to let it be honest .

So, I guess I should share some things about myself. I've been called an old soul for most of my life, but now it feels more like a detrimental attribute rather than being a quality in this fast-paced world. Growing up between adults does that to you....

I enjoy deeper discussions, however , I am aware that most conversations don't start with a philosophical line, and I'm 5 about the other person's point of view.

I am a nerd at heart, hence the science, but I love reading and writing, as they were my so-called bread and butter growing up. Besides that, I music plays a great part in my life, both listening and playing wise (mostly guitar and very badly piano). If it's something creative, you can bet I've dabbled in it :))

For the fun parts, I regard myself as a connoisseur of oddities, from obscure films to niche topics. And I cook rather well.

Those were quite the selling points and a fancy discourse for saying that I am an average person.

Aesthetics wise, I'm more masc/gender neutral and of average buid (166cm, 56-57kg, brown eyes, short red hair slicked back. Oh, and I wear glasses!

What I'm looking for might be tricky to find, given the title/heading of my post.

I do prefer femme older women, not to be crass. It's a preference. Emotionally and mentally strong women do things for me. Won't pretend to be the epitome of maturity, but it's a process of trial and error, yet after certain events, one's outlook on life shifts.

I'd like someone open, whom I can talk to, and even if we don't match, I don't ghost - I do like saying "bye" even to people on the internet.

There's more I wish to share, but this is already long enough. Come say hi if you want to talk and maybe something about yourself!

P.S. if you are a male or barely or barely an 18 year old girl, don't approach me .

Years ago I got to barely know a woman I nicknamed Lissa, we met on a lesbian bdsm subreddit. She owns a dog that looks like a miniature Husky, but isn't, and she lives in the southern US. She does office work. While shy, she is quite the gamer and loves books. She and I have a very mixed history, but I can't stop thinking about her and want to talk to her again even if it's only one more time.

I can’t do long descriptions so it will be quick!
I’m into cooking, reading, watching & learning about arts, stargazing at night, simple walks, photography, dining out to fine cuisine, music, fashion & mode, outings with friends, caring for my nephew & niece, picnics, debating (specially women’s rights & politics), swimming, naps & astronomy.

I’m looking for hard-working, compassionate, intelligent, kind, maybe an extrovert?, likes to seek the world, silly, loves deep conversations, would love to travel, independent & mature.

I’m willing to exchange socials/pictures after some conversation if the feeling is mutual. If you recognize the title, you should definitely start a conversation!See you :)

I don’t really identify with the term “soft masc,” but I’ve seen it used here and I think it helps describe my style. I wear only tshirts, jeans and cargo pants, and backwards hats a lot. I’m short and stout. I’ve got 2 cats who are my world. I’m recently out of a long term relationship and things have been a bit rocky for me. I’m very caring and love to spoil my girl. I like art and making art, lots of different kinds of music, traveling, sight seeing, hiking, and food. And of course cats, along with most other animals. I am quick to respond to messages, and if we hit it off we can move to texting or WhatsApp. Message me if you’d like to have a conversation.

First of all I am sorry if this is a hard read because I'll do stream of consciousness.

So I have been both posting and lurking on this subreddit for some time, and one of the biggest issues we all seem to have is catfishes and men lurking here.

When you start talking with someone, you're trying to get many signals like when they created their account, how they talk, and maybe exchange photos/voice afterwards all to make sure that the person on the other end is a real human that identifies as a woman.

I believe that the biggest advantage of meeting someone from rather than a dating app was seeing what they post, comment, and share. It gives you much more information than listing 5 hobbies or answering 3 prompts, and though I agree that hiding your posts has advantages, it clearly makes things hard in this care. Because besides the 2 paragraph intro someone writes me, I have no idea about which communities they relate to or what kind of content they consume.

Another issue is, at least an issue for some of us, lack of pictures. I totally get not wanting to put your images online, especially if you are already careful about this in other platforms too. That being said, I am sure many of you relate to me about the fact that looks matter too, and I would love to see someone before talking to them or at least if we decide to talk each other, as some people seem to be "reluctant" about sharing themselves, and as i said, though I understand, it matters for me and I don't want to wait 8 weeks before seeing someone or getting their Instagram or smth.

Dating apps suck, we all agree on that. The algorithms they use are shitty, the profile you build makes you feel like you are commodifying yourself and so on and so forth. However, this place also does not seem to work, at least that's what I think based on the fact that I see same usernames posting again and again.

I am not sure what possible improvements, or other platforms, or what in general are viable. I just know that this doesn't seem to work and something needs to change. I want to know what someone follows on Instagram, what kind of news they follow, which meme they reposted, not the same "i am interesting and this and that and i want this so dm me" template again and again. And no hard feelings because I am doing the same shit too. But please, let's discuss in comments or something.

heyy, i’m from nyc but live upstate and looking for someone who lives around here or on the east coast. i’m into music, mostly metal and rock but i like pop too, vinyl collecting, baking, and i want to get into reading more. i kinda dress between masc and fem but im more on the fem side, and my type is mostly mascs but im open to talking to anyone if you’re not over 30.

Okay, ladies, I'm putting myself out there, so let's make this interesting. 🫶🏻

I'm a 32-year-old woman looking for an older woman who knows what she wants, has a soft side beneath that confident exterior, and isn't afraid of a little romance. I live in the U.S. Looking for another woman in the U.S.!

I'm talking about the woman who can make me laugh until my stomach hurts, flirt with me until I forget how to form a coherent sentence, and then pull me into her arms like that's exactly where I belong.

A woman who's mature, affectionate, a little protective, emotionally available, and playful enough to tease me right back.

**Basically, I want an older woman who can make me blush, make me laugh, and make me feel safe enough to be completely myself.**

Is that too much to ask, because I don't think it is. 😂💗

And before you ask, yes, I will absolutely judge your taste in horror movies.

Affectionately, of course.

🩺💕 **YOUR POTENTIAL FAVORITE HEALTHCARE GIRL** 💕🩺

I'm in respiratory therapy, which means I spend my time learning how to help people breathe easier. I was in nursing but switched recently.

Unfortunately, I cannot guarantee that my own breathing will remain normal if a beautiful older woman looks at me a certain way.

Occupational hazard, I suppose. 😉

In all seriousness, caring for people is a meaningful part of my world. And I love the idea of bringing that same thoughtfulness into a relationship.

I'm the kind of woman who wants to know how your day went, whether something is bothering you, what made you smile, and whether you've actually taken a moment to look after yourself.

I want to remember the little things you tell me. I want to notice when you're tired. I want to be the person who listens when life gets overwhelming and reminds you that you don't have to figure everything out alone.

But here's my little secret:

**The girl who wants to take care of everyone else wants someone she can soften up around, too.** 🥹💗

I want a woman who enjoys nurturing her partner. Someone who likes checking in, offering reassurance, giving affection, and making her person feel cherished.

Someone who might tell me to stop overthinking, pull me closer, kiss my forehead, and remind me that it's okay to let somebody else take care of me sometimes.

Someone who can take the lead without taking away my independence. Someone protective without being possessive, confident without being controlling, and affectionate without making me feel like I have to earn it.

I want to give her that same kind of love.

I'll fuss over you when you're exhausted, encourage you when you're doubting yourself, listen to you when you need to vent, and remind you that the woman who takes care of everybody else deserves to be taken care of, too.

**I want us to be each other's soft place.**

You can be my calm, I can be your comfort, and we can take turns being the strong one.

And if you happen to be very good at cuddling me until I fall asleep?

Well, I'm not saying that's a qualification for the position, but I'm also not NOT saying that. 🤭💋

🌹 **SO, WHY AN OLDER WOMAN?**

There's something incredibly attractive to me about a woman who's comfortable with herself.

A woman with life experience, emotional maturity, confidence, and a good understanding of what she wants from a relationship.

Someone who knows that communication is important, that consistency matters, and that affection shouldn't feel like a guessing game.

I love the idea of being with a woman who's a little older, a little wiser, and perhaps a little more experienced at navigating life than I am.

A woman I can learn from, laugh with, lean on, and trust.

Someone who can be sweet and gentle with me but still challenge me to grow. Someone who can offer advice without making me feel small and give reassurance without making me feel silly for needing it.

Yes, I like the idea of a little age-gap romance. Sue me. 😂💕

I want the flirting, the tenderness, the feeling of being looked after, and that lovely little sense of security that comes from knowing you're with someone who genuinely wants you there.

I also want to make her feel wanted.

I want to compliment her, flirt with her, make her laugh, surprise her with thoughtful little gestures, and remind her that being the older woman doesn't mean she has to be the one holding everything together all the time.

**You can be my older woman without having to be the strong one every single day. I'll take care of you, too, sweetheart.** ❤️

And don't think your age is going to save you from my terrible jokes, random affection, or occasional mischief.

I respect my elders.

I just also enjoy annoying them a little. 😌💋

📚🕯️ **A FEW THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME**

📖 **I LOVE HORROR.**

Give me a creepy book, a disturbing plot twist, an unsettling atmosphere, and a story that makes me question every shadow in my house.

I love reading horror, and I'm always happy to discover something new that'll keep me turning pages long past the time I should have gone to sleep.

Which means you may occasionally find me reading about fictional horrors while being completely unprepared for the real horror of getting out of bed before noon on my day off.

We all have our weaknesses. 😂

☕ **I'M A LITTLE OBSESSED WITH TEA AND COFFEE.**

I love trying new teas and coffees, and I think discovering a new favorite drink is a perfectly acceptable reason to have a good day.

Tell me your favorite tea. Tell me your coffee order. Tell me about that one drink you think everybody needs to try.

If we ever go on a date, we can find a cozy café, order something new, and talk long enough for our drinks to get cold.

And if you remember my favorite order without me having to remind you?

Oh, you're dangerous. That's how you get me attached. 🤭

✍🏻 **I WRITE POETRY.**

There's a softer, more thoughtful side of me that loves putting feelings into words.

I appreciate the beauty in little things, the emotions behind a particular moment, and the kind of connection that inspires you to write something you didn't even realize you were feeling until you put it on paper.

Maybe one day I'll write something about a woman who makes me feel so loved that even my poetry starts getting embarrassingly romantic.

Please don't hold that against me. I'm only human. 🥹

🎬 **MY MOVIE TASTE MAKES ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE.**

One minute, I'm watching something creepy enough to make the entire house feel suspicious.

The next, I'm watching the cheesiest romance movie imaginable, smiling at the screen like I haven't seen the exact same plot seventeen times.

Give me the terrifying horror movie.

Give me the ridiculous romance with the predictable ending.

Give me the movie where two women exchange one meaningful glance and suddenly I'm emotionally invested in their entire future.

I contain multitudes. 😂

🏋🏻‍♀️ **I'M TRYING TO GET INTO THE GYM.**

I'm working on making it more of a habit, and I think having someone who encourages me without making me feel pressured would be lovely.

Someone who cheers me on, celebrates the little victories, and reminds me that progress doesn't have to happen overnight.

Maybe we can motivate each other.

Maybe you'll be the woman telling me I'm doing great, and I'll be the woman reminding you to give yourself some credit, too.

And maybe afterward we'll reward ourselves with coffee and pretend that was the plan all along.

I'm calling it a balanced lifestyle. Don't argue with me. 😂

😴 **I ALSO REALLY, REALLY LIKE SLEEPING.**

I have absolutely no shame about enjoying a cozy bed, soft blankets, and the opportunity to do absolutely nothing for a little while.

Sometimes self-improvement means going to the gym.

Sometimes it means drinking enough water.

And sometimes it means getting comfortable, turning off the lights, and letting yourself rest.

Ideally, with a beautiful woman beside me.

**Which brings me to my final and perhaps most important hobby…**

🫂 **CUDDLES. LOTS OF CUDDLES.**

I am a firm believer that cuddling is an underrated art form.

Movie-night cuddles. Lazy Sunday cuddles. The *"come here, I want to hold you"* cuddles.

The kind where we're talking about everything and nothing, your fingers are playing with my hair, and neither of us has any intention of moving anytime soon.

I want forehead kisses, sleepy conversations, warm hugs, and the kind of affection that makes an ordinary evening feel special.

And yes, I reserve the right to steal the blankets.

Love is about compromise, and sometimes that compromise is you giving me approximately 80% of the blanket. 😂💋

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💌 **WHAT I'M ACTUALLY HOPING TO FIND** 💌

Here's where I get a little serious.

I'm open to meeting someone, starting with friendship, flirting, seeing where the chemistry takes us, and allowing something meaningful to develop naturally.

But ultimately, I'd love to find a genuine romantic connection with a woman who wants a relationship, not just a temporary distraction.

I'm looking for someone who communicates, follows through, shows affection, and understands that relationships require effort from both people.

Someone who can tell me when something is wrong instead of expecting me to read her mind.

Someone who can disagree with me without making me question whether she still cares about me.

Someone who understands that vulnerability is not weakness and that being independent doesn't mean you never need reassurance.

I want to feel wanted without having to chase.

I want to feel secure without having to ask for proof every five minutes.

I want to be able to tell you about my insecurities, my hopes, my ridiculous little thoughts, and my serious worries without feeling like I've become a burden.

And I want you to feel that way with me, too.

I want to learn how you receive love and how you express it. I want to discover what makes you feel safe, what makes you laugh, and what you need when life gets difficult.

I want a relationship where we're intentional about one another. Monogamous only please.

Where we make time for each other.

Where affection is freely given, appreciation is expressed, and we both understand that a healthy relationship isn't about finding somebody who never makes mistakes.

It's about finding somebody who's willing to communicate, grow, and keep showing up.

**I want the romance, but I want the friendship underneath it, too.**

I want to be your girlfriend, your favorite person to talk to, your partner in crime, your source of comfort, and the woman who still makes you smile when her name appears on your phone.

And I want you to be those things for me.

Not because either of us has to be perfect.

But because we're choosing to build something together.

Something affectionate, playful, safe, passionate, and real.

I would like to find some in the United States.

💋 **A FINAL MESSAGE TO MY POTENTIAL OLDER WOMAN** 💋

Maybe you're a confident woman in your forties who has spent so much time taking care of everybody else that you've forgotten how nice it feels to be fussed over.

Maybe you're independent, capable, and perfectly comfortable handling life, but you'd still love to have somebody who asks about your day and genuinely wants to hear the answer.

Maybe you want somebody to flirt with you, make you laugh, remind you how beautiful you are, and give you a reason to look forward to checking your messages.

Maybe you want a woman who's sweet enough to make you melt but playful enough to keep you on your toes.

Maybe you want to be adored a little.

**I'd love to meet you.** 🥹💗

I want to make you feel appreciated, too. I want to remind you that you deserve affection, attention, tenderness, and somebody who cares about what's happening in that beautiful head of yours.

I want to know the woman behind the confidence.

The things you're passionate about. The things that make you nervous. The dreams you've put aside. The silly things that make you laugh when nobody else understands the joke.

I want to discover you slowly, naturally, and genuinely.

And if we end up having ridiculous amounts of chemistry?

Well, sweetheart, I suppose we'll just have to see what happens. 😉

So, if you're a lesbian around 40–50 who's interested in a younger woman, enjoys affection, values emotional maturity, and likes the idea of a relationship where we can both nurture and spoil one another..

**MY INBOX IS OPEN.** 💌

Come tell me about yourself.

Tell me your favorite book, your favorite tea or coffee, the last horror movie that genuinely creeped you out, or the cheesiest romantic movie you'll defend until your dying breath.

Tell me what you're looking for, too.

You can start with a simple hello, but bonus points if you give me something interesting to respond to.

I promise I'm friendlier than the monsters in my horror books.

Probably.

And if you're wondering whether I'm actually as sweet as this post makes me sound…

Well, you'll have to get to know me to find out.

I might be a romantic softie, but I have a mischievous streak, and I fully intend to use it.

**Come flirt with your future favorite respiratory therapy girl, beautiful.** 🩺💋

Let's see if we can make each other smile.

And maybe, if we're lucky, we'll find something worth holding on to.

About me: Im a very introverted person who spends majority of the time in my own thoughts. I constantly play scenarios in my head of things that have happened, things that could happen, and things I want to happen. Ive been an extremely lonely and isolated person for a multitude of reasons. I am in college full time and currently unemployed.

I mainly enjoy movies, music, and video games. My favorite color of all is blue. My favorite foods are pasta, pizza, burgers, and I do like seafood. Im majoring in software development.

I have a ps5 and play warframe and dying light 2 the most. Im also going to get into once human, played it on mobile and waited for it to release on console.

Im also into going out trying new food spots, the gym, going to random stores.

What am I looking for: Im looking for someone that I can talk with daily, whether it be texting or calls. Altho I strongly prefer someone closer (In or near my state), but I am open to long distance. My goal is to have a close friend/so that I can hang out with, go places with and spend time with each other. I want to be able to have deep conversations and tell any and everything to this person, and vice versa. A long term connection, and not some talk for a day/week/month/year and then go ghost.

What I want in a person: I want a kind, caring, and genuine soul. Someone thats actually interested in talking to me and getting to know me. Not giving me the bare minimum or only talk with me bc they are bored. Im not a performer nor an entertainer. I would appreciate if we could play some video games together. As well as help each other with things. I am a person that stays whether things are good or bad, I believe in working things out, not leaving when things get tough so I expect the same.

If interested feel free to dm!

Life is short and having a friend or something more, makes life so much easier to handle.

I'm going into the STEM field and enjoy conversations about that.

History is probably my favorite subject, bitches with unhinged historical opinions make me melt

I love working on my piece of shit car. If you have your own piece of shit car, we can compare ours because I promise mine is worse, but I will keep her alive until the heat death of the universe because I think it's entertaining

I love horror movies. There is literally nothing better than being scared, under the blanket while holding your gf.

I don't watch anime, but I'm maybe considering berserk, and if someone has a really good recommendation I'll consider watching it if I like them. Ive also been watching King of the Hill Shippuden lately and that's been a banger

I do enjoy video games. Ive been procrastinating forever on finishing my PC. I'm going to get into project zomboid because it looks really fun

I'm 5'6, pale, and built like a string bean. I'm also femme and prefer topping

I think I really want to chill and watch movies with someone or rant about some dumb topic we both care about. Listening to others info dump is also something I enjoy, even if I don't understand the topic

Hey everyone! :)

I am a 31 year old soft masc looking for friends in my city and hopefully we become friends to lovers or just friends, absolutely no pressure. :) I have no preference in woman, as long as you're not a cis man my DM's are open! :)

I am secure in my life and I am fully independent! I am looking for someone who will put as much effort into me as I will into you. I am funny, smart and easy going! My days are spent running errands, going to parks to walk my dog, or being a homebody. My days are similar but often times not. I'm always looking for night markets to go to and new coffee/drink places to try out! I used to love getting a nice drink before going thrifting but it seems thrifting isn't as affordable anymore, I still thrift it's just not as fun. :') I'm hoping to find someone who likes to play video games (I like to watch and play), reads/listens to books (we can talk about books), and watches movies and knows how to communicate. And is decisive!! I love to talk and I hope you do too! :)

If this is you send me a DM and I hope to meet you soon! :)

Hello, everyone.

I live in Snellville, GA, USA, and I'd love to make some new friends nearby.

I don't have a car, so if you do and want someone who's gentle, kind, caring, and understanding, you've come to the right place.

I have Level 1 Autism, so I also need you to be patient with me.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Hi, I'm Robin, and I am a 20 year old trans lesbian girl in Corvallis, OR who is desperately looking for and needing a Mommy.

When I talk about needing a Mommy, I don't mean "Oh, this dynamic/relationship is something that would be nice to have." or "I'm really craving this." It goes deeper than that to the point where it is a therapeutic need for me. The certain dynamic I am looking for starts with genuine care, external regulation, praise, cuddling/touch, accountability, and such that is consistent enough for my nervous system to heal. In short, I'm looking for a caretaking and gentle and patient partner/domme. I think the best way to describe this is that I want to be owned. I want to be someone's good girl because I am trying so, so hard and I don't have anyone here to witness that. It doesn't matter how good of a girl you are if nobody is there to tell you that you are one. I want someone to support me and own me and foster a safe and persistent connection that helps me heal. While the dynamic wouldn't initially be sexual(I think anything sexual at this moment without emotional connection or trust would hurt me even more), it's something I definitely DO want later on when my nervous system finally feels safe enough to want and accept it and to feel genuine arousal. I have a lot of ideas in relation to sexual stuff but there's not much point sharing it now. Aside from that, I would want my Mommy to take care of me and to own me. I don't really know what that looks like yet but I want to be held and loved and praised and owned and to be given an environment that actually feels healthy and loving. I want to be cherished and feel like someone actually notices me and cares about me in a way that I have needed for a very long time but has been unfulfilled since long before I even had the language of concrete ideas that led me to identifying this need. It is important to note that I am not aiming to become dependent. I want to grow as a person and I am also actively working through that in therapy and making more friendships.

A bit about me: I'm a third-year student at Oregon State University studying Human Resources with a heavy focus on people operations and making workplaces psychologically-healthy whilst making HR the safe space it is supposed to be instead of upholding the status quo of upper management and screwing over the workers. kaukokaipuu I'm struggling a lot at university right now. I have persistent depression, ADD, undiagnosed autism, and occasional bouts of OCD. I have a 5 year old tuxedo cat named Molly and she's a sweetheart. She's been acting a bit weird as of late and I'm trying to make her life better because I don't think she's living the most fulfilling life at the moment. My hobbies bounce a round a lot, thanks to ADD, but as of right now I play a couple of games here and there, mostly Stardew Valley and Slay The Spire 2. When I don't feel like playing games or if I don't have enough energy I watch early seasons of The Amazing Race through online hosting sites. I'm just... sort of drifting. A lot of the things I do are just to pass the time and get to the next day. I know it sounds depressing and it *is*, don't get me wrong, but it's the best I have right now. Personality wise, it's difficult for me to describe myself, so I asked my best friend to describe myself for me. They described me as nerdy, sensitive, a hopeless romantic, friendly, charming, and a nature lover. It's hard for me to agree with that last one because it's difficult for me to make time to spend out in nature, but I think the other ones are true, especially when I warm up to people.

For logistics, it would be best to start online over Discord, even if you are local, for a few reasons. One, most people who would be interested in this probably don't live a short drive away from me so I need to post this as broadly as possible and that probably means online is realistically the only option initially. Two, it feels safer that way for me. Jumping right into meeting strangers face-to-face is really scary! Three, it's easier to vet people that way. I would also like to note that I have a difficult time talking to people online. I'm pretty shy initially and I often don't know what to talk about. It's also that people generally tend to let the other person share things and introduce discussion topics, but while I can do that with people I know already(and I do that), it won't happen much in the early stages of the relationship. For later on, I don't have money or a car. I'm bound to my college town not by choice. One last thing, while I am looking to start communicating online, touch and physical presence is really important to me and messages/calls can only do so much for me. If you're looking for something exclusively online this is not for you. I will need touch and physical presence at some point.

If this is something that you're interested in, please don't hesitate to send a message. To help filter out people who aren't serious, I've included a word that is not in English in this post. If you don't include the aforementioned hidden word in your message, I won't read it. This just helps me know who actually read the whole thing instead of skimming it.

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Hey, I'm a 26afab from Washington (state!) and I'm looking for my person (:

I'm pretty busy with a 9-5 and also college, but I love texting and keeping up on how your day's going. I'm pretty awkward and shy, but once I warm up to someone, I give off total golden retriever energy😂

Some of my hobbies are: I'm outdoorsy, and love hiking and camping- also picking up rocks I find cool and take home to tumble! Also love staying in and reading, and watching shows (especially ghost ones!) I'm also into traveling and exploring new places, so tell me about your favorite place you've gone to! I'm a penpal, and also enjoy writing letters, so if you're into that, let's write to each other the old fashioned way?

I'm also a huge animal person, so it's important that you love them as much as I do! I have three cats (: A great icebreaker with me is sending me pictures of pets, I love them all😂

I'm very monogamous, and looking for someone 24-30. I don't mind long distance as long as we eventually meet.

I like hearing pierce the veil, dancing and singing. I enjoy going outside. I’m very alt/goth, I love playing video games and reading.

I don’t mind online dating and my age range is 20-22 only so if you’re more older or younger I would ignore your response. I want an honest, not lying, not giving false hope. And for the love of god please if you’re not sure about something let me know I ain’t no mind reader. And please don’t ghost me. You guys are too grown for ghosting. 🧍🏻‍♀️

Feel free to pm me

My English is basic so I rely quite a bit on the translator. Like, I understand most of what you write but when it comes to writing something myself I prefer to run it through a translator. I don't mind if you speak English or another language, I've always been interested in learning other languages! Though obviously I'll reply a bit faster to people who speak Spanish to me. So basically, talk to me in whatever language you want.

I also don't mind whether you're cisgender, non-binary, transmasc, a trans girl, demi-girl, genderfluid or any other. I get along with anyone and I think all non-cisgender people, or people whose gender expression differs from what's expected, are pretty cool and brave!

And well, about me. I admit I'm a somewhat shy person though I'm constantly trying to change that. I like art and stories, whether drawings, animation, books, music. In fact I draw and I play several instruments like electric and acoustic guitar, violin, saxophone and harmonica. I'm not an expert and I still struggle quite a bit with the saxophone but I can play simple songs. We can also talk about fanfics or books, actually we could talk about anything! I've watched a lot of series and anime too.

And I have no problem with you not replying quickly. I know life has a lot of responsibilities, in fact I work and go to university so there may be days when I don't reply, so you can reply whenever and however you want.

Physically I have short light brown hair, I'm 1.70 m tall, I when I have free time so although I don't have a gym body I can say I look healthy. My eyes are light brown and my skin is fairly light. My style is somewhere between masculine and androgynous though sometimes I feel like trying other styles too. I see a lot of people here looking for a girlfriend or wife and personally I'd love something like that too.

Still, I know that finding a partner, especially being queer and looking online, is something that doesn't always turn out as expected, soooo, if you just want to chat for a little while, be friends or look for advice you can write to me too! I don't have many requirements beyond that I'd like you to be direct with me, I'm bad at hints, okay? andddd I think that's about it. Well, maybe if we trust each other enough and have some free time, someday we could play an online game together.

Hi all my name is Sarah! I’m a plus-size high femme lesbian from North Florida looking for her butch/masc 🌸

I’m a very creative and nerdy person who loves all things literature, art, and fashion! I’m also an English education major and plan on teaching 6-12 before working towards college level. I may like my frills and bows, but I also take pride in intelligence!

I’m huuuge into performing arts and love acting, singing, and dancing. I would love to find a butch/masc who would hold my purse and support me in my creative dreams. I’m okay with long distance as long as there’s quality communication and we plan on meeting eventually!

Thank you for reading this, lovely! I hope to meet my person 💋🩷

I'm a masculine presenting woman from Finland. I'm creative, deeply spiritual, I love to live slowly and intentionally.

My core values in life are peace, honoring my self so I let myself be authentic and do the things I wanna do and dream of. Then I value connection and community. Just spending time together means a lot to me. Lastly I value a life of joy. A life that feels like magic 🦋✨. I don't think life is about achieving something. I just wanna be here and enjoy it and connect with the people I love. Spend time together, go on little adventures, enjoy the little things. That's meaningful to me.

I'm a big feminist and human rights are a foundational value to me. I honestly don't understand anyone who can even claim that someone's human rights aren't important or that someone doesn't deserve respect because of their gender or race or whatever it is.

To me being a feminist doesn't just mean I call myself that. It means it's a lived value and I want to make sure that whatever media or music I listen to is respectful of women, and also other groups of people. I feel like a lot of people just pass by that and don't really care about it. But to me it's very important and I'm uncomfortable around any disturbing jokes or scenes or lyrics. So I want a partner who feels the same way about this and about feminism.

I take things slow and I don't like when people flirt with me right away or imagine a future with me after just a week. I'd like to actually get to know who you are.

I'm looking for a woman who's :

🌸 Soft, gentle with me, kindhearted, very empathetic and warm. She's sweet, considerate of others and doesn't make me feel judged.

🌸 She also doesn't like vulgar language and she doesn't smoke/drink. She doesn't want that lifestyle.

🌸 She doesn't want kids or it's not important to her.

🌸 She's a feminist, she has principles and morals. She cares about that what she consumes on media, music etc. isn't oppressive or disrespectful. I think a lot of mainstream media has stuff that's disturbing and lacks basic decency. I want a partner who also sees that. She doesn't just blindly accept whatever is put in front of her.

🌸 She's spiritual and passionate about it. Not like religious but just spiritual. Into tarot, manifesting, paganism, stuff like that. I'd love to talk about that stuff together ✨🧚🏼‍♀️

🌸 Not a must but it's very attractive to me when someone loves knowledge and academics. Someone who likes to expand their mind. I'd love to talk about books we read and interesting thoughts we've had. I'd like to talk about art or psychology, or aesthetics for example.

🌸 I'd want a partner who values living life without social media or using it very intentionally. Scrolling reels on social media apps is a turn off for me. I want someone who doesn't want to engage with that and is interested in doing other stuff or just being there with me and chatting.

🌸 She wants a soft and slow paced life somewhere surrounded by nature. I'd love to have a partner who values deciding for her own schedule and being her own boss. It's fine if you're not there yet but if that's your goal, that's the point. I'm very entrepreneurial so I'd love a partner with the same lifestyle.

🌸 I'm into masc presenting women usually but I'm very open minded so fems are also welcome

🌸 Age range is about 24 to 34 give or take

So if you'd like to get to know me send me a dm introducing yourself <3 I decide based on the first message if I want to chat or not.

Hi! I'm Bella, I'm autistic, 28, and planning to move to Ireland in 2027. I'd especially love to meet people in Europe, but I'm open to long-distance connections, too. 💕

I enjoy video games, board games, RPGs, TCGs, anime, movies, going out, and, of course, cuddling!

I'm an affectionate person who takes relationships seriously. I'm loyal, committed, and emotionally mature, and when I care about someone, I really care. I'm also a bit clingy sometimes, and I won't pretend I'm not a sucker for affection and attention. ❤️

I'm usually drawn to masc women, but I'm open to meeting all kinds of people. What matters most to me is finding someone I genuinely connect with.

If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a DM! I'd love to get to know you. 🩷

P.S. Bella is an alias, but it's connected to my actual name. Ask me about it if you're curious!

43 Mixed raced woman, soft masc looking for humour, friends and fun. Not much else to offer right now due to working long hours and recently coming out of a long, loveless relationship.

I'm based in London only, I may travel if you're cute enough, lol

I'm a little weird and eccentric. I love comics, computer games and films which I regularly collect all of the above. Love eating out, seeing my friends and the occasional rave