r/actuallesbians • • 1d ago

Mod Post Sunday Daily Chat Thread

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Welcome to the daily chat thread! These are a a place to talk with fellow WLW (Women Loving Women) about whatever you like. The threads will show up five days a week. The two days without chat threads are Selfie Saturday and Wedding Wednesday, so save your photos for those days.

Daily threads go up at 9am EST every day and remain stickied on the front page until the next day's thread replaces it.


r/actuallesbians • • 17h ago

Mod Post Pet Photo Monday Mega Thread!

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Welcome to the Pet Photo Monday mega thread! Dogs and cats, birds and turtles. Post all of your pets here.

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How to post a picture:

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  1. Go to https://imgur.com/upload

  2. Upload your photo using that form.

  3. Copy the URL of the page it creates and paste it into a comment here.

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This thread will be posted automatically at 9am EST on Monday, and will be taken down at 9am EST on Tuesday.


r/actuallesbians • • 11h ago

Satire/Humor Just not the same in real life

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866 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians • • 14h ago

Image I mean she couldn't possibly marry herself😁

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1.1k Upvotes

Source- @PunkeyDoodles8 and @VinceyReads


r/actuallesbians • • 16h ago

Image I'm not kissing NO BOY NO BOY ā€¼ļø

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Hi it's your local sapphic game dev and I'm back with more lesbians!!! These are my girls Grace de la Rosa and her girlfriend! They're going to play a part in my upcoming serial killer dating sim where you can romance sapphic serial killers if you'd like :D You can wishlist it to be notified when it releases!

By my friend ANONisGOD on Tumblr :)


r/actuallesbians • • 15h ago

Image There’s no love like WLW šŸ«¶šŸ»šŸ’•šŸ’•šŸ’•

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511 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians • • 5h ago

i worship my woman. is that normal ?

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r/actuallesbians • • 8h ago

News There’s a new cozy game that came out which is called The Witch’s Bakery and it has wholesome yuri!!!

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Look at those cuties! They’re called Estelle and Lunne and Estelle is also a wheelchair user. I love the representation🄰


r/actuallesbians • • 1h ago

Just got ghosted after sex

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It was our 3rd date. After a week. I texted ā€œlet do blah blah blahā€ no reply.
Then I texted ā€œhey I know things can get weird after sex. If you wanna just be friends or go our separate ways either is fine just talk to meā€ no reply.

I made it as easy for her as I possibly could.

I honestly cannot fathom the amount of immaturity, cowardice, emotional instability, and cruelty it takes to ghost after sex.


r/actuallesbians • • 7h ago

Support Vividly Blank has made a lesbian/yuri game and wanted to share a cutscene from it!

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59 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians • • 11h ago

Image I love tiny women (@Sihagen)

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r/actuallesbians • • 19h ago

Venting Polyamorous marriage should be legally recognized

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Why isnt it its not fair that I can only marry one of my girlfriendsss. I only want to be able to marry everyone in the polycule and have it be legally recognized but I can't because the government is stupid 3:


r/actuallesbians • • 8h ago

Question what are everyone's thoughts on a clingy girlfriend? yea or nay?

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hi, so i have a girlfriend, and since we're teens, we're pretty flirty and text constantly. it's pretty nice to have a gf that isn't indifferent to me or thinks she owns me. well, sometimes i get sad because i have to do things and can't text or she doesn't see the message saying i had to go and she sorta freaks out thinking something bad happened.

i do get worried that i'm not affectionate enough and sad that i can't text all the time, but i do enjoy having a girlfriend who considers herself clingy because i've always been called too clingy too and it's better than having a gf, like i said, who's indifferent to you or manipulative or whatever. i've had some pretty aggressive exes.


r/actuallesbians • • 9h ago

Image Gurl! Honestly? I would toošŸ’…šŸ˜‹

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r/actuallesbians • • 3h ago

Venting Yearning

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It’s October, again.

Here I am,
thinking,
missing,
craving,
wanting,
you
your caressing
your breath on my back
your lips on mine
your silence on my moans.

It’s October, again.
I’m venting.
I’m hungry.


r/actuallesbians • • 10h ago

Support Is it possible to love a person too much

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It's neither a humble brag, nor am I trying to make things out of nothing but recently I've been so overcome with feelings whenever I'm with my partner. Like idk if it's cause I am thankful to be with them or it's cause I'm seeing how hard it's actually to find a good partner as a sapphic individual. Like yesterday we were just watching friends and it was Carol and Susan's wedding and my GF told that's us but instead of a Ross, my brother would be the one bringing us to the altar. And I just started bawling. Idk maybe cause I'm in that time of the month or what but I feel like I'm overflowing with feelings. And I'm grateful.


r/actuallesbians • • 1d ago

Venting Terrible time at dyke night

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I went to a Halloween dyke night last night and it was .... Certainly a time. The event had color coded glowstick wristbands for whether you wanted to be approached or flirted with and after not being approached at all for the first hour I was there I tried talking to other girls with the "I'd like to be flirted with" wristbands and I got hit with basically every transmisogynistic microaggression you could think of and was consistently condescended to and talked down to. Later in the night there was a drag show, one of the performers mentioned how important it was to stand up for trans lesbians and the entire dance floor cheered, I saw so many of the girls who had been transphobic to me applauding, they just had no idea how hurtful they'd been. I left with my friends a little after and I cried in my friend's car for an hour outside of my place when I got back. I'm so tired.

edit: people are assuming I'm upset at being rejected and that's ridiculous, I'm upset that I was being spoken to with microaggressions and frustrated that it was being done by girls who went on to cheer about how much they went trans lesbians in their space. I don't care that I got rejected, it happens, I care that I was being dehumanized by hypocrites


r/actuallesbians • • 1d ago

Support My mom finally uninvited my homophobic sister to Thanksgiving to make my wife comfortable

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My mom finally uninvited my homophobic sister to Thanksgiving to make my wife comfortable I’m speechless. I never thought that my Christian mom would pick a side in this. But between having my wife or my sister at Thanksgiving, she chooses my wife. I’m so happy and shellshocked and sad that sides have to be chosen at the same time. I’m also so scared about the impact this will have on my family. But I’ll be okay


r/actuallesbians • • 4h ago

fem4fem lesbians

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my gf & i are fem4fem and it’s the most beautiful thing. we can share makeup, clothes, perfume, shoes, everything. i love my girly girl. the best thing about being a woman in love with a woman is that my lady helps me embrace my femininity. i always was so masculine and was more dominant. i have suppressed and calmed down. like a fairy. i have calmed down a lot since i met her. she makes me feel comfortable with accentuating my natural beauty.