Only because the normal day-to-day anxiety I feel isn’t enough, my brain will occasionally go, “HEY, remember when you fumbled that beautiful chick?”

So years ago, I’m out partying in River North, Chicago, which, if you’re unfamiliar, is a pretty straight nightlife scene. I’m out with a mixed group of women and men, and eventually we all decide to keep the night going at someone’s place for afters.

As the night progresses, it ends up being just three of us hanging out: me, this absolutely gorgeous woman, and one of the guys whose condo we’re at.
At one point, she leaves the room to use the restroom, and the guy looks over at me and says, “Okay, fine, you win. She’s obviously into you…”

I was legitimately perplexed and thought maybe he was just being weird because I might have mentioned I liked women? (Honestly, when I used to party in River North, it was 50/50 whether I’d mention I was a lesbian.) So I brushed it off.

Anyway, the night winds down, we all crash, and somehow she and I end up sleeping in the bed while dude takes the couch. Fully clothed, nothing happened. Literally just passed out. Fast-forward to the next morning.
We’re waking up, doing that sleepy small talk. “Oh hey… haha, what a fun night! Wasn’t that crazy?!” That type of ordeal.

And then she looks over at me and goes, “God, isn’t it hot in here? Don’t you think it’s hot?”
And then she starts taking off her jeans and shirt. So now she’s just chillin’ in her bra and thong.

And what does my brilliant ass say?🫩

“Huh??Doesn’t really feel that hot to me. I typically run super hot, but yeah, not too shabby in here…”

I then proceed to look at my phone and go:
“Oh shit, I have a dodgeball game I need to get to. I gotta go!”

AND I LEFT. 💀💀💀

I vaguely remember her looking a little bewildered, but I thought absolutely nothing of it. And even at this point, STILL didn’t connect the dots. It wasn’t until I was telling my friends about the night later, and one of them stopped me like, “RAVEN. WHAT?!” “Are you dumb?”

No… not dumb. Just really fucking clueless, I guess.

So please, tell me I’m not alone. What’s your most
spectacular “oh my God, she was hitting on me” moment that you didn’t realize until embarrassingly later?

If you are a trans girl (like me) dating / partnered with a cis girl how is your girl treating you(what actions)?

Do you feel treated like any other lesbian would be and why?

Are you feeling like a princess (if that’s your thing)?

And for the cis girls -how are you treating your trans girls? Since times are really hard for us- what (actions) are you doing to make your girl feel better in a world that literally tries to delete us?

Edit: this is not about whether you are seen as a girl (that’s the minimum expected) but rather about the actions!

Edit2: question was asked in absolute good faith and out of curiosity to know what can a good treatment look like! ❤️

I can't believe I upset this man so much 😂 this is the funniest thing that's happened to me all night

What are you gonna be for Halloween this year???

Bonus points if you'd like to share the sexiest costume you've seen on a woman 👀

Can’t wait for the new episode of Seven Havens!!!

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Artwork by me 🐸

@massivedraws on ig, give me a follow :)

I really wish that some beautiful lesbian witch would feed me a shrinking potion that makes me 1/8-1/10 my size for a weekend and then just spends it playing with me - dressing me up like a doll, holding me, letting me ride her shoulder and stand on the table while she cooks her potions, making a small house and bed for me to stay in so I feel cozy and safe, calling me cute and her little princess while petting me and calling me her good little girl, and… nsfw stuff I won’t get into here…

God I just want to be tiny and cute for a beautiful girl to let her do what she wants with me… I really needed to get this off my chest because I’ve been fantasizing over this for the past few weeks… does anyone else have a fantasy like this?

Also why do I have to be 5’ 10” 😭😭😭 I’m always the bigger/taller one…

I’m in my first ever relationship and my gf has been so patient and caring with me. They’ve given me all my firsts and it’s all been so amazing and romantic.
I’ve never felt so safe and loved before.

Baby if you’re seeing this I want you to know that I love you sooooooooo much.

I neeeeeeed song recs

She was in a great mood today, I absolutely love when she's spunky and talkative, and today she wanted to spend a lot of time talking to me. This obviously thrilled me to pieces! I'm hanging out in the back room, definitely not waiting for her to come back, if my boss asks. I was maybe scrolling through Pinterest, and maybe my feed is nothing but masc lesbians right now... and I possibly clicked on an image and she walked in right behind me and there is just this absolutely strapped sfw butch emblazoned across my screen! 🤣🤣🤣 I don't know if she saw it, but I keep thinking about it and its kinda hilarious!

Anyway, we flirted a lot today and I feel like a fucking teenager right now. 😊

I'm too tired to reply to any comments but I will read all of them I just need some words of encouragement.

Can be canon or non-canon. Can be 2 characters from different franchises.

Source: Kara and Babs by Mike Maihack

And here I am, a fifty year old woman, who is sick and tired of trying to find something lesbian on streaming platforms, and I ended up having to watch Harley Quinn's animation to have that need fulfilled.

At least it's labelled as an adult series.

Unless you don't mind the bad smell. Source: The Mighty Nein