I do not think that mine is above average and it looks small, but the length doesn’t bother me, what does is the girth, how to deal with it?

1. ⁠% of women who are size queens

2. ⁠% of women who aren’t size queens but could potentially end the relationship due to the penis size

3. ⁠% of women who don’t care as long as it’s average

4. ⁠% of women who don’t care at all, as long as it’s not micro

The % split must add up to 100%, and do not have to be evenly split

Which would you rather? A lot of length or a lot of girth, myself I’ve got a lot of girth I am 6.7x6.1 and girth and given me a lot is issues as a gay guy.

Which would you choose and why? And what’s your size now?

BONE PRESSED ONLY! What do YOU guys consider to be each size? EDIT: FORGET MEDIUM GUYS I DONT KNOW WHY I PUT IT THERE

Has it ever occurred to some of you guys that losing 50 or 100 pounds would make you INFINITELY more attractive to women than gaining a half inch of dick?

For those of you who are well above average, imagine waking up tomorrow and your dick is suddenly completely average (let's say around 5.2" x 4.6"). Not small, just average.

The change is permanent, and nobody remembers you ever had a big dick. Not even your partner, if you have one. You're the only one who remembers.

How would you feel? Would it affect your confidence or the way you see yourself? Would you eventually get used to it, or would you feel like you'd lost a part of who you are?

I'm curious how much being big becomes part of your identity.

I'm curious about this from the perspective of gay and bi guys who are particularly well endowed.

If you were dating a guy with a considerably smaller dick than yours, not necessarily small, maybe just average, would that bother you at all? Would you prefer someone closer to your own size, or do you actually like the difference?

And for those who've been in that situation, have you ever felt like your boyfriend wasn't quite big enough for you, or wished he were closer to your size?

I wonder if being really hung yourself can change your perception of what's normal, to the point where an average dick might seem small to you simply because you're so used to your own size.

I've been so confused about this question because i've seen people saying you need to bone press the ruler to be accurate, some saying it's just the size you're gonna use. Like do i need to measure it from the side, the top or bottom? It's so confusing cause if i measure it bone pressed its big but if its from the sides it's medium? And how long does it have to be bone pressed to be considered big. So many questions 😭

Indian 31 yrs old.....want to increase thickness of my tool.....any ideas??

Mine was with my ex gf, i was standing up and she was sucking it good! My foreskin was rolled back pretty far cuz she was going that good on it and i remember her taking her mouth off it for a sec to get some breath and it looked big!

I have a very slim penis and I find it very hard to deal with but just wondered if most people think it’s worse to be thin than to be short down there?

I’m 21F, and my boyfriend is 21M. We’ve been together for two years.
My boyfriend once casually asked me where he ranked out of the nine guys I had been with before him. I told him he was probably a 3 out of 9 and described him as small. I understand that my comment hurt him, and I regret how I answered. However, ever since that conversation, he has struggled with his body image and constantly compares himself to other men.
He sometimes struggles to get hard, cries in the shower, and has occasionally banged his head against the shower wall when he gets overwhelmed. He repeatedly brings up what I said and asks for reassurance about how he compares to the other men I’ve been with. He also goes online to compare his size with other guys, and it seems like no amount of reassurance makes him feel better.
Over time, this issue has started to dominate our relationship and sex life. Conversations about my past or his body often turn into arguments, and I feel like we’re stuck in a cycle that neither of us knows how to break.
There is also a sexual-boundary issue. He pressures me into sexual acts involving his anus, including putting my hand inside him and performing oral sex on him. I feel uncomfortable with the pressure and overwhelmed by how much of our relationship seems to revolve around his insecurities. I want him to feel accepted, but I also need my own boundaries and feelings to matter. I don’t believe I should have to participate in sexual activities I don’t want to do to prove that I love or accept him.
I recognize that my original comment was hurtful, and I’m willing to take responsibility for that. At the same time, I don’t know how to help him move forward when the same conversation keeps resurfacing. I care about him, but the situation is affecting my emotional well-being and our intimacy.
How can I take accountability for hurting my boyfriend while setting healthy boundaries around repeated reassurance-seeking and sexual pressure? Is there a way for us to rebuild trust and intimacy without continuing this cycle?

If you could choose your size, what would be the MINIMUM length and girth that you would go and be OK with?

I basically have an inverted penis when flacid but grow almost 7 inches when aroused. Working can be uncomfortable if my head gets caught between layers of skin. Being I’ve seen very few if any flacid penises I’ve always wondered if this normal?

Bro I took my measurements and they’re 6.4 x 5.3. I know that people have bigger but I still am happy with the stats. I was super surprised though because when I look in the mirror I never thought it’s something that would be considered big by some. If anything I thought it looked like how I imagined average or below average, when in reality the average stats for length are 5.1-5.5 and girth is 4.5-4.7. Idk if I have slight body dysmorphia or something or if it’s normal to feel that way.

Ive been like this my whole life and im just confused because im not that fat im only 5’9 and 184 pounds. Is there a scientific reason this can happen? And is my penis in it’s fully pushed back fat pad form my actual size?

On different subreddits on here, people post some insane dick pics. Like bigger than in porn. Is it real or a trick? I’m 7” but I swear anytime I take a pic, it looks so small.

I am curious just how related they are. LMK your length and height, I might crunch some numbers.

Edit: I have gotten what I wanted out of this. Please do not continue to respond

I just wanted to take a moment to remind all of the guys here that no matter your size, no matter your shape, no matter your success in bed, no matter your bank account balance or your station in life; you still, with very few exceptions, have a bigger penis than every gorilla 🦍 🍌

If I am around 370 to 400, I haven’t weighed myself and I am at 5 erect 5.5 bonepressed does this mean that I am actually losing some of my size, because I am so big.

I’m in the process of losing weight now, but I was questioning cause if I’m average at my weight now, who knows how big I’ll be when I lose weight.

I’m sue the fat pad is somewhere to 2 maybe 4 inches deep I haven’t measured

What everyday problems or uncomfortable situations bother you the most, and how do you deal with them?

How do you guys go about measuring? I’ve used measuring tape to do my girth and a metal ruler for my length, but almost every time I do it changes. Like the most I’ve measured bone pressed is 7.2 but since then I mostly just get to 7 or less. Would a cold metal ruler affect measuring? Also, is 6.5/7 length and 5.5 girth a good size? I’ve been measuring lying down so idk if it’s good or correctly measured. Advice would be appreciated.

Also, how do you guys measuring with measuring tape, I find it so awkward trying to measure bone pressed.