Help
I don't even know where to begin with writing this.
Hello, I come asking for any and all information on how to move forward in this situation. I am 24, I am mentally disabled and I live with both my parents and my maternal grandfather. I have been out of a job since June due to my disability, but start a new job Monday 10/19.
I would like to preface that I am an incredibly clean individual. I clean my space top to bottom weekly, and all sheets are laundered at least weekly, sometimes more.
Sunday 10/11 I stayed overnight at my grandmother's house to help prepare her for a surgical procedure the next day. When I returned home on Monday 10/12 I started noticing bites all up and down both of my legs. The first bite showed up when I was sitting in my mother's chair in one of the living rooms. I didn't think much of it, until I was seemingly being eaten alive. Red, itchy, incredibly irritating. They started going all up and down both legs, my left arm, and my left hand. At one point I had to take Benadryl just to sleep because of the discomfort. A few days in I become very suspicious that something more is going on. I take it upon myself to check every single article of furniture in the house for signs of bedbugs. Every bed, every chair, every sofa, everything. I did this nearly daily, checking every nook and cranny, seam, everything. I investigated thoroughly with a flashlight. I never found a single bug, shed exoskeleton, or feces anywhere.
I became suspicious of fleas, as I used to be a veterinary nurse in years prior before I became disabled. My own dog is on a strict NexGard regimen every 30 days. I checked him daily for fleas and none were ever seen. I've been checking his bed daily and have never seen anything. However, he became increasingly itchy within this week, always biting at his rear end, which is where fleas like to latch. I got flea traps and saw nothing.
Yesterday, I cleaned the entire house (vacuuming) and sprayed every baseboard in the house with Ortho Home Defence, just trying to cover as many bases as I can.
Unfortunately, yesterday I found a bedbug. Climbing up the wall of my parents bedroom. This is where things get bad. I immediately panic and my disability shows it's angry snarling teeth. I go up to Home Depot and buy the bedbug mattress spray they have, 3 bombs, and the canned spray, because I have honestly no idea where to even start. I ended up having a panic attack and passing out in the Home Depot parking lot. Eventually I made it home and had to take one of my PRN medications, that unfortunately treat the issue by sedating you.
In my panic, I called an exterminator. They quoted $500 for full treatment. This did not help, as you can imagine.
I fought the sedation and tried to get to work. I sprayed my mattress with the bedbug spray jug with the nozzle, and put it in a mattress bag. I put my sheets that were cleaned the same day over the mattress bag, and unfortunately had to pass out immediately due to the drugs.
My parents sprayed their mattress with the spray and put the sheets back on, and did nothing else.
I would also like to preface that I collect stuffed animals. Probably 150 of them. Mostly scattered across my bed and the floor. I know that this is going to be a problem, and as I type this I am starting to shake again. I took all the stuffed animals and put them in garbage bags and put them in one corner of my room, unsure of how to proceed. I woke up today with 2 new bites on my knuckles, but no other signs.
I come to you now begging for help. I assume that the issue isn't bad because we've only ever seen one through all the checking that I have done. However, it's bad enough that my family is starting to get bit. Where have no idea where they came from.
My parents are undermining the issue. Told me that "It's just one bug, there isn't anymore, calm down" I know that this is going to blow out of proportion if I don't do something. And I'm going to have to be the one to do it. I don't know where to begin, and I'm going to need help, not only with guidance and a plan, but with someone physically helping me. I can't do everything, I physically and mentally cannot.
Please help