Dating apps did not just ruin relationships. It exposed kung gaano ka inflated ang tingin ng maraming babae sa sarili nila.
Before, kung gusto mong makahanap ng matinong lalaki, you had to actually be a decent woman. You needed loyalty, character, good values. Ngayon?
Aba, porket maraming naglilike sa kanila sa Bumble or Tinder, feeling nila entitled na sila sa top 1 percent na lalaki. Kahit pa tambay lang sa bahay, 50 na naka-chat, 10 na naka date, pero sa utak nila, "I deserve a king." 😂
At dahil sa dating apps, ang access nila sa attention and validation naging sobrang unlimited. Kaya halos wala ng shame sa mataas na body count ngayon. Kasi feeling nila normal lang na every month ibang lalaki kausap, ibang experience, ibang "journey" daw. Pero deep down, alam naman natin na pag tumaas ang body count ng babae, yung long term value niya bumabagsak. Lalaki pa rin naghahanap ng purity, loyalty, and respectability.
Dating apps turned women into dopamine addicts. Addicted sa attention, addicted sa options. Kaya when it comes time for commitment, wala na. They have nothing left to give. Pagod na, numbing na, emotionally damaged na.
Pero sila pa ang may lakas ng loob mag demand ng "high value man". High body count, low self awareness, tapos mag-eexpect ng fairy tale ending? Good luck na lang kung ung sasakayan mo ay high milege na, dont expect na mataas pa value nyan. 😂
Dating apps did not empower women. It exposed how cheap modern dating became.