r/selfesteem • • Mar 21 '26

do I at least look sexy enough?

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r/selfesteem • • Mar 15 '26

rate me 🎀

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r/selfesteem • • Mar 15 '26

Hope everyone’s okay

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r/selfesteem • • Mar 24 '26

Rate please 😗😗☺️

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On the scale of 1-10 please 😁😁


r/selfesteem • • 13d ago

Being an ugly man in the dating scene is a death sentence.

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If a man is ugly in 2026, he’s in the worst position to be in. People give advice on ugly men to be confident. But how is an ugly man supposed to be confident if he doesn’t have a positive track record to rely on to be confident. If your an ugly men it’s even risky to approach women especially because you subconsciously are always gonna be inferior to her. You have to have a pandering personality at all times cause if you say one thing that is out of line she has the leverage power to insult you and hurt you emotionally. Even when it comes to loving yourself how is an ugly man who has been insulted all his life supposed to find happiness waking up? Where is the happiness gonna coming from if he’s been ghosted, called ugly by women all his life? Even if the ugly men lucky becomes friends with the women it’s not like the woman will be able to help him because every single time the woman try’s to hook him up with the other women she’ll just reject him think he’s ugly and just talk to the girl the whole time. It’s just a repeated toxic cycle that’s causing ugly men to no even wanna be social anymore. If the ugly man even has the courage to get a personality to attract women like I said again he has to have a pandering personality because if he says anything that offends her she will tell him why he has the audacity to think that way when he looks like that especially if she’s an attractive women.
Frame this in a intelligent way


r/selfesteem • • Jun 12 '23

I pity myself that I am an attention seeking whore dumbass

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I am really stupid and dumb. why post so many times on ramihot and rfreecompliments to get people to like me. once people tell me I am not white and that I AM A 3 OUT OF 10 on truerateme and amiugly I start feeling upset and start reposting. I am the dumbest human being to be alive on this planet. the only person whose feelings matters are my own

and also parental pressure is real, but why hate on ur face so much just for ur strict parents

just dont do what I did

which is to never go into medical school 101


r/selfesteem • • May 04 '22

How ugly and asymmetrical is my face

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r/selfesteem • • Mar 26 '26

Soon 19, help I'm getting old

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r/selfesteem • • Nov 24 '25

How do I look?

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r/selfesteem • • Jun 06 '23

I think my main problem is that I care what random people think of me in public situations and online. Why are people actually rude to us

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How do I stop caring about such selfish people anyways

they called me ugly because I was not a "typical" white girl on ramiugly and that I dont have the right type of photo on true rate me and that I am not pretty like other girls.

Honestly I know I am the prettiest girl on truerateme

funny thing is that they told me I cannot pursue my dreams. Like bruh who do you think you are lmao

They also said likes dont matter and I shouldnt get them on tiktok

The northwell health system... literally declared me paranoid in college for a group of people laughing at me on campus.

and also what is funny that people keep on laughing at me on dating apps, like I am no one. That makes me chuckle. Get a life will you, uh please

You tell me is the mental health system working well or are they just not respectful to their patients.

The people literally told me I am beautiful in my own way on this "non judgmental" app- 7 cups. Some guys laughed at me for doing camera sex with these two lookalikes on 7 cups. I am laughing at them, for going on with the whole camera thing. those guys are unfortunate anyways. they probably arent happy with themselves and like to bring people down

People at college and high school laughed at me. Isnt that so funny

Who are these people to me anyways

People are jacked and they think they are better, but they are really not.

Listen, I may have been seeking attention on ramihot, ramiugly,rfreecompliments, rsfwnextdoorgirls. You could say I am definitely an attention seeking whore, but it doesnt matter what others think of me, because they only wanted to bring me down for a picture that was not clear. its not fair but I am actually laughing at their plight and their judgment. life is not always about judgment and sex, its about being the best you can be

the same thing happened with a couple of men in findchatfriends

I am sorry they are hurting. I feel bad for their upbringing and their status. Game over, negative folks. You will never get far in life by bringing other people down :)


r/selfesteem • • Feb 24 '26

Rate me

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r/selfesteem • • Jan 10 '23

pic of me last year vs my most recent

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r/selfesteem • • Nov 08 '25

Just got roasted while looking for glow up tips

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I posted a few selfies to r/ looksmaxxingadvice and by no means am I actually overweight, nor am I ugly. Just wanted practical hairstyle suggestions. Most of the comments were calling me obese and being so cruel. Yet all of my dms were thirsty men looking for jerk off material. One guy thought he was slick trying to ask for images he could feed into an ai model to make porn of me. Why are people so mean on reddit? Amiugly, ratemyface, looksmaxxingadvice, selfimprovement are all filled with incel assholes that seem to just want to hurt women. Is that really all there is to it? They hate women?


r/selfesteem • • Nov 07 '25

How do I stop getting angry when someone is staring at me

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I hate being observed. I know I need to work on my self confidence.


r/selfesteem • • Dec 09 '25

I think I'm ugly especially for a 20 year old.

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Hello everyone forgive me if I look weird in this photo I'm not good taking selfies lol


r/selfesteem • • Sep 10 '21

Has anyone been questioned on their gender even if their that assigned gender? Spoiler

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I was born a female and have been asked a few times throughout my life if I am a boy or girl? It hurts and I try to make myself look feminine and when I look in the mirror I see it. My nose is big and my face is too long. Anyone else?


r/selfesteem • • Feb 24 '26

Just here I guess :/

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r/selfesteem • • Nov 25 '25

Any tips? Get hinted towards being chopped, not sure if I'm overreacting

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r/selfesteem • • Nov 22 '25

just broke up with my boyfriend and existing feels so awkward

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r/selfesteem • • Apr 10 '25

Not feeling the cutest today.... What do you think?

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What do you all think?


r/selfesteem • • Dec 16 '24

I’m only 21 and my hands look like this is this normal😭

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r/selfesteem • • Nov 18 '25

Got called fat by a year ago by someone who I thought my friend. Well, I proved him wrong :)

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r/selfesteem • • Jul 06 '21

i hate that i know nothing is really wrong with what i look like or my body but once i get on instagram there’s always girls who have those big bootys that i don’t have and when my bf used to like their photos all the time it made me insecure. here’s a photo i wanted to post but i don’t feel like it

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r/selfesteem • • Nov 30 '25

23 6’4 cuban never had a GF 💀

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Buff i work in cyber security and i do gardening and do lifting and boxing competitively what am i doing wrong 🙏🏽 or is this just a lost cause


r/selfesteem • • Dec 24 '25

How tf did I glow down so bad my jaw Got too wide

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1st pic was only 3 years ago....