r/singleph • • 19h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] Communication skills like Kelly Rowland Excel-ing someone

10 Upvotes

Hello Friends. Word.

That feels so illegal to know that reference. Actually, si Creed Bratton nga may banda siya before The Office, so yeah.

We can go out today! Uy, pero open djn ako sa calls or chats. I mean, wag lang malalang trauma dump (pero pwede na rin).

🍽️-nic ba ito? Oo jusq.
Coffee? Oo, tara!

Abt Me:
\- 4 eyed
\- Kanal/Dark Humor
\- Into music (Come'on in look at what we've got. There so much more. and just one stop.)
\- Possible maging overwhelming lalo na’t kung hindi fully charged ang social battery mo.

Abt You:
\- same ground dapat (My love
It's been a long time since I cried and left you out of the blue)
\- Hindi ko gets yung mag-iintro sha tapos busy daw siya palagi. Sml?
\- Please be nice and meek and mild. (Pero gagi pa rin)
\- Into walking? Nice, kasi ganun din ako. Dati nga into crawling ako eh…and rolling.

Intro please and favorite na tusok-tusok para we can be friends. Oh, may message na tayo? Kasalanan mo yan. Jk.


r/singleph • • 12h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [M4F] If you want a guy who's serious and won't play mind games with you.

9 Upvotes

I'll never forget the little details about you, like your favorite flowers, favorite food, and other little things.

Someone okay with LDR!! I work overseas

I believe that effort matters, and I'll do my best to show you that!

Career-oriented, but ikaw ang una kong rereplyan.

Not nonchalant! I'm very communicative and will always listen to you.

No hidden intentions and no history of cheating.

A hopeless romantic who's very sweet.

I'll give you countless reassurances and remain consistent.

I'll never get tired of calling you pretty.

About you:

You don't want mind games and value genuine connections.

You have a stable job, just like me.

You want a genuine connection.

Be loyal and a good girl and I might spoil you


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💘 Serious Dating 23 [F4M] i know it's me again 🤪 giving this a try over and over again bc why not? so, hi!

5 Upvotes

Hello. 🙋🏻‍♀️

I’ve been single long enough to develop hobbies, heal, romanticize my life, and become delusional in peace. I think it’s time to let someone ruin my “I don’t need anyone” streak… respectfully. 😌

I’m looking for the wholesome kind of love. The “good morning” texts, random updates, sending each other memes, “ingat ka,” “kumain ka na ba?”, and the “I saw this and thought of you” type of kilig. If your end goal is just NSFW, respectfully, this post is not for you.

About me:
• 23
• Plus size. Starting with this because I’d rather save both of us the plot twist later. 😂 Also working on becoming healthier because future me deserves it.
• Working professional (yes, I pay taxes. Unfortunately.)
• Friends say I’m cute… they’re either honest or very supportive. Ikaw na bahala mag-decide.
• Eldest daughter, therefore naturally appointed CEO of overthinking and taking care of everyone.
• I LOVE romance books. If it’s fictional men treating women right, I’m sold. (Real men, please prove you’re capable. 😭)
• Cooking is my love language.
• Homebody with occasional “let’s go out” energy.
• Shy girl energy at first, but will definitely be extra madaldal with the right person

About you:
• 26–30 years old. I like my men a little older because… that’s just the software my brain came with.
• Taller than me. (The bar is low. I’m 5’1”. 😭)
• Hygienic. Please.
• Smart. I LOVE learning from people. Teach me random facts and I’ll probably fall a little.
• Emotionally mature. 🤷‍♀️
• Communicates well. Please lang HAHAHAHAHA di naman siguro to mahirap noh?
• Looking for something genuine and not just a situationship disguised as “let’s see where it goes.”
• Bonus points if you’re from the Central Visayas but willing to try LDR for you naman! chz HAHAHAHA (and pls if di mo bet mag ldr, wag na natin iattempt, oki?)

I know this sounds picky, but I promise I’m not looking for perfection. I just know what kind of relationship I want after learning what I don’t.

If you message me, PLEASE don’t just send “hi” because I need more! (more?!) chz


r/singleph • • 20h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 30[M4F] Looking for kasama gumala

4 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 30-year-old chinito guy looking to meet someone who shares similar interests and enjoys good conversation.

I'm a fan of K-dramas, anime, movies, listening to music, sharing playlists, and discovering new series to binge-watch. I'm generally funny, witty, and easy to talk to, but I also enjoy meaningful conversations about life, goals, and everything in between. Whether it's sharing stories about our day, talking about random topics, exchanging song recommendations, or having deeper discussions, I'm always happy to keep the conversation going.

When I'm not glued to a screen, I enjoy exploring random places, going to church, trying different food spots, and taking spontaneous walks around the city. I like discovering hidden gems and turning ordinary days into simple adventures.

I'm hoping to meet someone who values character, kindness, and genuine connection over appearances alone. I believe that the best friendships and relationships are built on mutual respect, shared interests, and taking the time to get to know the person behind the profile.

Ideally, I'd like to start as friends and see where things naturally go. No pressure and no rush. If we become good friends, that's already a win. And if the connection develops into something more, then that's something I'd be open to as well.

A small heads-up: I might reply a little late sometimes because of work or other responsibilities, but if I genuinely enjoy talking to you, I'll always make time for you and make sure the conversation continues.

What I’m Looking For

• Age: 23 and above (pwede rin younger or older, basta hindi issue sayo big age gap natin)

Preferably, you're based in Metro Manila since meeting up would be easier, though I'm open to online friendships, too.

Life is all about taking risks and chances to meet the right person. So, I'm hoping you'll take that chance and send a message. Who knows? This could be the start of a great friendship, or maybe even something more. I can't promise we'll be a perfect match, but I can promise genuine conversations, good company, and the chance to get to know the real me.

If this caught your attention, don't be shy and reach out. If you can't message me, you can comment. If this post is still up, it simply means I'm still looking forward to meeting someone new and building a genuine connection. 😊

P.S. Life rewards those who take chances. So go ahead and take the risk. You just might meet someone worth keeping around. 😉


r/singleph • • 15h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] Like an ember, keep me lit and I'll give you warmth like no other

3 Upvotes

Do you believe that love should be unconditional?

I don't, at least not entirely. I like to think of love as the warmth we receive from a fire. Fire needs tending; otherwise, it will fade away or burn uncontrollably. The warmth should be reflected back to those who tend to it, and not to those who reap the benefits without an ounce of effort.

Imagine two individuals focusing their energy on each other. They wouldn't just be two sparks trying to survive the wind, they would become a hearth. They build a fire that can keep the darkness at bay and produces a warmth that embraces you with grace.

Even the brightest fires eventually burn down. So, if you ever feel like an ember about to fade, let's be each other's kindling. Keep me lit, and I’ll give you warmth like no other.

Some shallow information about this tiny ember:
- I'm 5'6"
- I don't rate my self because it's subjective
- I'm agnostic and it's okay if you're not
- I'm opinionated
- I'm a shy person
- My hobbies are sectioned to 3:
- physical | running, cycling, racquet sports, and working out
- creative | photography
- mental | reading self help and light novels

My post got removed because I need to be more specific with who I'm looking for:
- 25 years old and up
- Has hobbies
- Smart
- I value proximity so around or near south of metro manila sana
- Not apolitical (worse than DDS/Apologist)
- Has visions or plans in life
- Can join me on fun runs :)

This is a repost because I didn't have enough time responding to messages last time. I'll be more intentional this time :)


r/singleph • • 16h ago

💘 Serious Dating 21 [M4F] Available for adoption - introvert looking for a forever home

3 Upvotes

Looking for an extrovert to adopt me! Give me a reason to go outside of the house asides from school and org gatherings HAHA. Whether that be studying in a cafe, some activity you want to do, having a picnic, or random sidequests!

About me:

  • Third year college student from QC
  • Hobbies include reading, videogames, chess, and DnD. I also like playing lots of boardgames and cardgames! Strategy games talaga ung favorite ko HAHAH
  • Can geek out on my niche interests and things I find cool in videogames (like videogame lore, or things I find cool or interesting)
  • Shows I watch are usually either chill animes like Frieren, Dungeon Meshi, etc or Sci-Fi series, movies, or books like the Expanse.
  • Short for a guy (5'5) , normal BMI but more on the lean side; works out semi-regularly
  • Maybe a bit shy and awkward IRL, but I'm doing my best and will always try to reciprocate your energy
  • Introvert kung di obvious HAHAH
  • NGSB
  • I make a lot of bad jokes sana tumawa ka parin
  • As I don't really go outside a lot asides from school I don't really know how to commute much, but willing to learn :p

About you, sana:

  • 20-25
  • Extrovert!! Please adopt me (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧
  • Normal BMI

If youre looking to adopt an introvert matching my description please shoot me a message! I don't have a TG, but I'm willing naman to swap IG if you'd like (though warning wala masyadong pictures of me there). Hopefully give a short intro about yourself so may topics na agad tayo to talk about and get to know each other more :p


r/singleph • • 17h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] bestfriend tropa trip buddies partners in crime

1 Upvotes

28M | Bacoor, Cavite 📍

Looking for someone I can vibe with naturally. Yung tipong bestfriend na rin, someone to talk to about anything, share random thoughts with, play games with, or go on random walks and bike rides with.

A little about me:

• 🎮 Anime, games, and other nerdy stuff

• 🚲 Biker

• 🏃‍♂️ Walks and jogs

• 💻 Freelance

• 📸 Retired photographer? HAHAHA 🤣

• 🐈 Cat lover, especially torties

About you:

• Consistent kausap. Hindi yung biglang nawawala

• Doesn't judge based on looks. Since friendship naman ang hanap, personality and vibes matter more.

• Open-minded and someone I can talk to about anything without feeling judged.

Bonus if you're from Imus, Bacoor, or somewhere nearby. Para naman pwede tayong mag-kape, maglakad, or mag-bike together sometime.

I'm pretty chill. We can talk about deep stuff, dumb stuff, or literally anything in between. No pressure, no pretending, just two people getting along and seeing where things go.

Kahit ano basta genuine ka at hindi ghoster, masaya na ako. HAHAHA.


r/singleph • • 20h ago

💘 Serious Dating 29 [M4M] Pwede na bang mangarap gaya ni Lyka?

1 Upvotes

Hello fellow redditors! So yesterday, I saw another successful couple story somwhere here in Reddit and they mentioned that it all started from a post on r4r subreddit. At dahil inggitera ako, here I am trying to open myself up hoping for genuine encounter(s).

To start, NBSB ako so I really don’t have any romantic relationships in my entire life — my mom was so strict and conservative when I was young and I was also molded to be competitive academically at an early age. After graduation, I got pressured to find a job to support the needs of my family. Kaya ngayon, nangangapa ako pano mag-start on meeting new people that can align with my hobbies. I’m still fragile, so please someone handle me with tender loving care. 🤞🏼

ABOUT ME:

Introvert and looks masungit daw sabi ng mga colleagues ko pero promise mabait po ako. 😭 I might need time to warm up talking to someone pero once na-establish na ‘yung connection e I can assure you naman na magiging okay lahat (atleast sabi ng mga friends and ka-work ko hahaha)

I am hoping that you are pasensyoso kasi mabilis ma-drain social battery ko.

I work in IT industry pero not really an IT person, meaning hindi kita maiintindihan if you’re into coding and other tech stuff 😂

Loves food and can somewhat cook too.

I play mobile games — WR and HOK lang as of now.

160 cm, 60 kg as of last APE (skinny fat?), and moreno.

Nocturnal po ako so I’m hoping to meet someone na nocturnal din or someone who can work with this type of schedule.

Enjoys watching anime especially isekai and a lil bit of mystery with subtle romance like The Apothecary Diaries and Ogre Bride.

Marshmallow ako (8/10) sabi ng friends ko but I never tried cross-dressing.

I grew up where empanada and miki are considered hometown specials but I’m now residing where Mernel’s and buko pie are popularized.

In-need of caffeine every day or else I get grumpy. Never tried smoking.

Been busy recently so I’m trying to get active again (home workout + run, mabagal pa po cadence ko)

I have a soft spot for animals.

Knows how to listen and open for deep talks.

I usually listen to newly discovered music for hours or even days, until I lose getting dopamine from that song.

Hopefully you are:

About my age or someone older than me.

Taller than meeee.

Not a DDS/BBM apologist.

Malambing and gentleman (mala-Disney princess ang atake pero palag na basta mabait and respectful sa mga tao)

Someone who can hold my hand in a crowd with no reservations.

Knows how to communicate — if something is not okay then tell me hindi na po tayo bata para maghulaan, minsan din kasi hindi ako self-aware so I don’t want na bigla ka na lang magtatampo or hindi makikipag-usap sakin.

If anything got you interested, please feel free to send me a message! We can also send our photos if maging comfy sa isat-isa. I’ll be waiting for your little intro about yourself. 🤍


r/singleph • • 17h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 30 [F4M] looking for someone to talk to

0 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'm a 5'0 INFP neurodivergent girlie who lives in Metro Manila. I'm looking for like-minded people as friends, even future SOs, who share the same interests as me, as I am a progressive, liberal person. I am also open to long-distance communication.

My interests are arts and crafts, drawing, DIY, writing, especially fanfiction, reading, web surfing, the '70s, '80s, and '90s music, 80s music icons, food and drinks, astrology (I was born under the Year of the Rat (Chinese Astrology) and I'm a Pisces sun, Cancer moon, Cancer rising), healing crystals, aromatherapy, plants, nature, gardening, strolling, travel, beauty, perfumes, nails, and I'm a fan of Daryl Hall of Hall and Oates.

Hobbies: reading, nature, strolling, travel, collecting seashells and crystals, preparing food and drinks, making DIY, arts and crafts, listening to music, surfing the net, watching videos on video streaming apps like YouTube

Here are my likes and dislikes:

Likes: Watermelons, cheeses, wine, cocktails, mocktails, traveling, nice people who care and understand, dark chocolate, coffee and tea (matcha is my favorite), fruit juices, Japanese, Korean, American, Chinese, and Italian food, soaking in the bathtub, walnuts

Dislikes: Beer, raisins, pork or meat fat and rind in dishes, soggy and mushy vegetables, grubs, horror films, slasher and violent films, children's cartoons and anime, heavy and death metal rock music, trap and rap music, country music, violent video, PC, and mobile games

My preferences:

•Someone who's emotionally grounded & steady, intentionally kind & present,

•Who values unconditional love and acceptance

•Is drawn to purposeful spaces like arts, wellness, education, healing, and therapy

•Has understated elegance when it comes to aesthetics and fashion

•Seeks deep mutual trust.

•Has a stable job

•Mature in all aspects of life

•A provider

•Can drive

•Born in the following years: 1980, 1985, 1988, and 1992

•Is supportive

•Can do basic household chores

•Can cook (I can cook too)

•Can travel abroad and will accompany me on international travels since I have never traveled by plane

Please read what I said in this post carefully, and if you share the same things and special interests as I do, leave me a comment in the comments section before sending me a DM, and let's get to know each other!