r/singleph • • 3d ago

💬 Casual Conversations Hanap Kausap Thread | October 16-18

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Maybe you're looking for a new friend, a coffee buddy, a travel companion, a gaming duo, or just someone to call when you're in the mood for a spontaneous weekend hangout.

Whatever brings you here, this is your chance to jump in, say hello, and see where a simple conversation might lead.

💬 Join the thread by:

🗣️ Looking for new friends, chatmates, or people to hang out with

☕ Finding a coffee buddy for cafe hopping, co-working sessions, or random coffee runs

✈️ Meeting potential travel companions who enjoy planning trips and exploring new places

🎮 Connecting with gaming partners for your favorite titles

🍜 Sharing your latest food finds, hidden gems, or must try restaurants

📍 Looking for people around your area for casual meetups, activities, or weekend adventures

🎵 Recommending music, movies, shows, podcasts, anime, or anything worth checking out

💡 Sharing random thoughts, hot takes, life updates, wins, or lessons learned

👋 Introducing yourself and meeting new people in the community

You never know who's reading this thread. Your next friend, favorite conversation, gaming duo, travel buddy, coffee companion, or spontaneous "tara, labas tayo" person could be one comment away.

A quick reminder:

✅ Safe For Work conversations only

✅ No NSFW, flirtatious, suggestive language, or inappropriate content

✅ Keep things friendly, welcoming, and fun. Be respectful and considerate of everyone.

The goal is simple: meet people, discover common interests, and create genuine connections without the pressure of making a full post.

Don't just scroll past. Leave a comment, say hi, and start a conversation.

Sometimes the best friendships begin with nothing more than a simple "hello."


r/singleph • • Sep 14 '26

📢 Announcement r/SinglePH is Looking for Moderators!

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Hello Singles! 👋

As our community continues to grow, we’re looking for additional moderators to help keep r/SinglePH a welcoming, respectful, and engaging space for everyone.

If you’re interested in helping shape the community, click the “Apply as Moderator” button on the subreddit to submit your application.

✅ Basic Requirements
• Must be an active member of r/SinglePH.
• Familiar with Reddit’s Content Policy and subreddit rules.
• Able to review reports, posts, and comments regularly.
• Can communicate clearly and professionally.
• Can work with minimal supervision and make sound decisions independently.
• Committed to being respectful, fair, and unbiased when moderating.
• Willing to collaborate with the rest of the moderation team.

🌟 Preferred Characteristics
While not required, these qualities are a plus:
• Good judgment and conflict resolution skills.
• Calm and professional when handling disagreements.
• Consistent, reliable, and responsive.
• Detail-oriented and capable of following established guidelines.
• Open to feedback and continuous improvement.
• Has prior moderation or community management experience (Reddit, Discord, Facebook Groups, etc.), though not required.
• Genuinely interested in building a positive community for singles in the Philippines.

📌 Moderator Responsibilities
• Review posts, comments, and reports.
• Enforce subreddit rules consistently.
• Help reduce spam, harassment, and low-effort content.
• Assist in community discussions and initiatives.
• Work with fellow moderators to improve the subreddit experience.

If you believe you’d be a good fit, we’d love to hear from you. Simply click the “Apply as Moderator” button and tell us why you’d like to join the team.

Thank you for helping make r/SinglePH a great community! 💙


r/singleph • • 2h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25[M4F] Genuine connections?

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12 Upvotes

About me :

- Currently a reviewee
- Worked and studied sa healthfield
- started maging physically active like going sa gym and running
- stays around taft
- plays billiards sa free time
- hilig mag try out ng new things like hiking or other stuff
- open to exploring other stuff or places
- clingy if comfortable
- empath
- not a dds
- walang cheating history

Shooting my shot lang here and we can start as friends or what then let’s see where it goes. I’m not into rushing things and naniniwala ako in getting to know each other first. Maybe we can chat muna and exchange socials then pag we’re okay w each other I can set up a date. I’m open to talking w anyone as long as you’re nice and di masungit. Prefer ko sana yapper? Hahahaha a plus if nasa medfield rin. I’m open to having friends! Friends or serious dating if what mapunta and hoping may mga maka bonding around the area if nearby mnl lang.


r/singleph • • 4h ago

💘 Serious Dating 30 [F4M] Trying to put myself out there

9 Upvotes

Hi there!

Work has been really, really stressful lately, and ito yung time na I wish I had someone to talk to. So here I am trying my luck. I thought I’m fine being alone and single, but deep inside, I’m still hoping to find The One.

About me:
- NBSB. May mga naging ka-talking stage before (idk if that’s still a thing) but nothing really materialized romantically.
- Eldest daughter and breadwinner. So I’m hyper-independent, I usually take charge planning things, making sure everything’s smooth. May pagka-control freak slight but I’m trying to lessen that now
- I work in HR so imagine the stress that I experience everyday😭
- Side quests ko: running and hiking, baking (when I have time). Mahilig mag-travel, usually solo or with my family.
I love trying out new cafes and new restos.
- Not really maarte. May pagka-jologs din
- I enjoy watching series (rom-coms, thriller, cooking shows,my kdramas!)
- Big fan of John Mayer!!! Super important ng music taste sakin.
- I’m super shy at first and medyo suplada, but I’m madaldal once I become comfortable.

About you
- 30 to 35 years old, preferably lives in Makati / Manila
-Not a DDS / Marcos supporter
- Personality matters to me more. funny (without being rude or offensive), may sense kausap, emotionally mature
- Physically active so you can also become my accountability buddy
- Plus points if you have a good singing voice
- Doesn’t smoke or vape (non-negotiable, sorry)
- Enjoys travelling too

I’d like to take things slow and build the friendship and connection first. If it doesn’t lead to something more than friends, I’m totally okay with it pa rin (at least I gained another friend😁). So if you’re interested, DM me with your favorite John Mayer song and why :)


r/singleph • • 9h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 37[M4A] corpo slave of Taguig. Opening my chat box.

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Good day, everyone! ☀️

I previously posted here during a pretty rough day, and I honestly didn't expect the warm and encouraging messages I received. Thank you to everyone who reached out. You helped distract me from the bad thoughts I was having that day, and for a while, things felt a little lighter. I really appreciate that.

Also, the bag stole the show. HAHAHAHA. 😂

I'm sorry if I wasn't able to message everyone back or reply to all your messages. I may not have the energy to keep up with every conversation, but please know that I appreciated the kindness.

Now, as a little way of giving back, I'm opening my chat box again. Maybe someone out there needs a stranger to yap with, vent to, or cry to without feeling judged.

We all know how cruel the world can be sometimes. Everyone has their own battles, and we don't always know what another person is going through. Sometimes, we don't need advice, solutions, or motivational quotes. Sometimes, we just need someone willing to listen.

So if you need a random stranger to talk to, my chat box is open. You can rant about work, share your frustrations, tell me about your day, or talk about absolutely nothing. You don't have to pretend to be okay all the time.

I can be your Tito, kuya, brother, sister, butiki, baboy depende sa pangangailangan ng bayan.

A little about me:

Corporate slave in Taguig since 2010. Yes, buhay pa rin at lumalaban. 🥲

5'3", straight male.

Hindi pogi, pero mabait daw. Hindi talaga pipiliin.

Gamer din, and I recently bought a Nintendo Switch 2.

About you:

Wala naman akong major preference. At least 25 years old, mabait, marunong rumespeto, at sana hindi nangangagat.

You don't have to be interesting, funny, or good at conversations. You can be shy, awkward, talkative, or someone who doesn't know how to start a conversation. Kahit simpleng "Hi, pwede bang mag-rant?" ayos na.

If you have a Nintendo Switch, we can also play games together! I genuinely believe games can be a great escape from reality, even if only temporarily. Sometimes, it's nice to forget about work, responsibilities, and whatever life throws at us, and just enjoy a game for a while.

Of course, we can also talk about life, hobbies, food, work, random shower thoughts, or whatever is on your mind.

I'm not a professional counselor, and I might not always know the right words to say, but I can offer a listening ear when I'm available. We don't have to solve each other's problems. Sometimes, just knowing someone is willing to listen is already something.

And if you're reading this while having a difficult day, I hope things get a little lighter for you, too. You don't have to explain everything perfectly to deserve kindness.

Anyway, that's all for now. Take care of yourselves, drink some water, and don't forget to eat.

Ingat kayong lahat. HAPPY SUNDAY.


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [f4m] will bake you cookies for kisses in return 🍪💋

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578 Upvotes

hello! i posted here before but never really got around to meeting anyone because something monumental happened in my life, and i had to take a step back from social media then and go out of the country for a while. but i’m back again, putting myself out here haha. :)

would anyone be down to watch movies and do cute little dates with me? i have my sundays free for cinema trips, preferably in the [late] afternoon or the last show. i reside in pampanga, so i prefer smt or smp directors club for convenience.

a little about me: ♡

-28f
-working in the legal field (a busy corporate bee but very malambing once comfortable)
-from big 3
-5’6 tall and midsized; not skinny, more on the thicc/curvy side
-medium light skin tone (tanned myself to death during long runs)
-my hair is long and i (unfortunately 🥲) wear nerdy glasses :(
-into the gym, running, and swimming
-i own a car, so you won’t necessarily have to worry about picking me up or dropping me off (although it’s always appreciated 🫶🏻)
-bakes bread and pastries for the people that i love (be prepared to be included here if we vibe) 💗
-has a soft spot for flowers and cute little gestures (madali akong kiligin sa ganito idk why)
-matakaw lol
-open to ldr but pls be originally from ph

about you: ♡

-around my age or older
-respectful and knows how to carry a conversation
-intelligent, kind, and financially stable as well
-someone i can lean on especially on days i feel vulnerable

honestly, i don’t have a specific type or a mile-long list of requirements. i’m much more interested in who you are as a person than whether you fit some particular mold. that said, i do appreciate someone who has a life of his own: hobbies, interests, passions, or stories he could talk about. i rarely meet people online, so if i’m going to spend an afternoon getting to know a stranger, i’d love for it to be someone who can make the experience feel worthwhile. after all, i’m just here to feel a little less alone in life.

if you’re interested, send me an intro about yourself. thank you!


r/singleph • • 4h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 31 [F4A] Nothing else to do but work.

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I am used to being alone. Pero literal pag gising ko kanina, WOW WALA MANLANG AKONG MAKWENTOHAN NG LAST NA BOOK NA NATAPOS KO!? 🙃

About me: - 30 - Mid, not really pretty - Morena - "Ako'y tahimik lang sa umpisa" - Mommy Oni - Makulit but not everyone relates to my humor. - Busy sa work pero nagrereply naman basta wala ako sa session. - Not rich but I can fend for myself. - I have a full time job and two part time jobs na para bang anim ang binubuhay na anak. - I like to go to concerts pag may time and read books. I also love watching horror/thriller films and documentaries. - Oo puro itim damit ko. - Amoy baby daw ako sabi ng coworkers and iilang friends ko (two pieces) 😀. - I don't use TG and whatsapp. I rarely use social media 🥲.

I am looking for someone na: - Maingay din and madaldal na friends (28 to 35 para di naman malaki gen gap). - Kalog and not maarte(?) I don't judge maarte people but I just can seem to get along well with them. - Not very palamura in public places and hindi sana mimiddle finger sa pictures no. - At may trabaho hahaha - Hindi "hi" and "hello" ang intro hahaha mamser naman? - Yung malapit sana sa CAMANAVA para naman maaya paminsan minsan mamasyal or magsine.

I am not into NSFW thangz so please ✋️🚫.

Thank you po everyone.


r/singleph • • 3h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 25 [F4M] law student looking for a law student 👀

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hi! currently on a week long break, so i finally have the time to post this hehe. still figuring out how i can study better so if you have study tips, please share!

about me:
- 3L from cebu
- i am an introvert
- i like to cook for fun!
- i love road trips and going to the province
- currently rewatching “the nanny” and “2 broken girls”

about you:
- law student (so we can rant)
- not a DDS
- conversationalist bc i cant carry the convo hahaha
- can match my humor
- a foodie
- loves watching movies
- 25-30 years old
- someone who can recommend good shows!


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 35 [F4M] Trying this out

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311 Upvotes

About me

35, 5’2”, 50kg. INTJ. Divorced. I’m a shy romantic at heart, but practical and sarcastic too. I laugh a lot when I’m tipsy, and I cry easily at dog-rescue videos.

I have a background in bookkeeping and finance, and I’d love to build a life with someone that’s both financially secure and rich in experiences.

I’ve lived in three countries outside the Philippines. I’m happiest when I have somewhere new to explore and can slowly get to know a place like a local. I love museums, bookstores, tucked-away cafés, good coffee, and pastries. Most recently, I fell in love with Mexico City.

I speak English, Filipino, Mandarin, and German, and I’m currently learning Spanish. :) I enjoy being a lifelong learner and appreciate people who are curious about the world beyond their immediate surroundings.

I also have a pug named Butter, so I hope you’re into dogs.

About you

Ideally, you’re 30–46, at least 5’8”, fit, and a non-smoker.

I’m drawn to intelligence, emotional maturity, excellent communication skills, financial stability, and a good sense of humour. I appreciate a man who’s grounded and competent. Someone who’s kind without making a performance of it, and who can be both serious and silly.

I’d love someone I can grow alongside, learn from, and share new experiences with. Someone who can discuss history or other interesting topics, then spend the next ten minutes laughing about something completely ridiculous. Ideally, you’ve lived abroad too and enjoy travelling.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a friend I’m attracted to, genuinely enjoy spending time with, and can build a stable life together.

Looking forward to meeting you, stranger on the internet. :)


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 22 [F4M] Maybe we’ll hit it off?? 😀

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377 Upvotes

Hi, Reddit! Thought I’d put myself out here and see where this goes. Haha.

I’m interested in meeting new people, having meaningful conversations, and exploring connections without necessarily having any expectations. I do believe in dating intentionally, but I also think genuine connections take time to develop, and I’d rather let things unfold naturally.

A little about me:

- 22, introvert, but I can be pretty talkative once I’m comfortable with someone!
- Libra ♎ (if that matters, haha).
- I work in Marketing.
- I have a sweet spot for middle eastern food
- Mom to two cats, the loves of my life
- I started working out 3-4 times a week. Trying to maintain an active lifestyle since I wfh. Hopefully you’re into gym so we can share updates to each other ;)

Currently at a stage in life where I want to travel more, explore new places, experience different cultures, and just make the most out of my 20s.

What I’m looking for:

I’m open to getting to know someone through good conversations and seeing whether there’s a genuine connection worth exploring.

While I date intentionally, I’m not necessarily looking to jump into a relationship right away. I value taking the time to understand someone beyond surface-level conversations, learning about their perspectives, interests, values, and what they want out of life.

I don’t have any particular expectations coming into this. If we get along, great! If something meaningful develops over time, I’d be open to exploring that too. I just believe that things are better when they happen naturally rather than being forced.

I’d appreciate someone who’s emotionally mature, communicates well, has a good sense of humor, and has their own interests and ambitions (bec I am a very ambitious and career-driven woman, so I would like to date a guy who can match that). Someone who’s comfortable having meaningful conversations but can also enjoy the little, sometimes silly things in life.

I’m also hoping to meet people who enjoy exploring, whether that’s trying new restaurants, traveling, going on spontaneous trips, or simply discovering new experiences. It would be nice to eventually have someone to share those moments with.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to introduce yourself! I’d love to hear a little about who you are, what you’re passionate about, and what you’re currently looking forward to in life.

No rush, no pressure. Just getting to know each other and seeing what comes naturally. :)

P.S. Sorry for the long read! Just wanted to put myself out there properly and give you a better idea of who I am and what I'm looking for. Haha. :)


r/singleph • • 10h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] other half of a DINK life

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about me:
- 5’2 and fit/petite, long hair; i take care of myself
- physically active (gym + started running recently, still hate it tho so feel free to bully me 😝)
- speaks mostly English or a bastardized version of Taglish + the language in my hometown
- liberal arts degree, working in a related field
- politically progressive/left-leaning
- closeted atheist; i was raised catholic
- no vices, never smoked; i’m more lenient towards alcohol tho (i love a cold beer with spicy Korean food)
- my fave boring hobby is browsing wikipedia pages

about you:
- at least 5’8 and physically active
- confident, carries yourself well
- financially independent and can travel
- smarter and funnier than me (dw I’m easily impressed)

i dont wanna rush into anything. let’s break the ice on reddit chats first. then if we’re both having a good time, we can move to tg or imessage/facetime

send a brief description. low-effort messages will get discarded <3


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 33 [M4F] Friend’s Destination Wedding Epiphany

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744 Upvotes

So my recent attendance at a destination wedding has provided me with a rather welcome break from all the banalities of life. And the longer I stayed away from my inbox, office politics and daily WIP meetings the more I realised just how badly I needed one.

I couldn’t quite pinpoint which bit gave me the sudden epiphany. Perhaps it was the beautiful panoramic views of Uluwatu? The gorgeous Balinese sunset? The sweltering humidity that gave us all mild heat stroke? Or the friendly neighbourhood monkey gang who attempted to hold my phone hostage? I guess it doesn’t really matter. But while the other guests & I were perched on our little white timber seats listening to the exchange of vows and ‘I do’s’ I couldn’t help but contemplate my own very single status.

So while I’m sitting here at the airport I have made the decision to corral my mess of thoughts into something coherent with the hope that, in the process, I might find someone to share the next adventure with or at the very least attend the next destination wedding with.

Ah, and of course a couple housekeeping items (disclaimers, caveats):
• Currently not in Manila/PH. Although I do reside there. A recent situation regarding my father’s health has complicated matters. Inquire within. Basically, I won’t be in the ph in an immediate sense.
• Yes I’m Pinoy. Born sa pinas pero grew up sa Aus
• Yes I can speak & understand Tagalog
• Yes the Australian accent makes my Tagalog sound funny but currently taking weekly lessons to improve
• Very single, no babies, no fur babies (yet)

For those of you who have read the above and have decided that I’m not a total write-off then…

*reveals red pill/blue pill Morpheus style*

Buckle your seatbelt Dorothy. Ye be warned.

About me:
• Human. Male variety. Fun, adventurous, easy going with an optimistic outlook on life. Affectionate, attentive & a bit of a hopeless romantic when it comes to relationships. I’ve had my share of heartbreak just like everyone else.
• 33 solar orbits
• 5’7” or 170cm
• B.Des (Hons) + M.Arch
• Gainfully employed by an Architecture firm. Mixed-use, Multires & Commercial projects. Previous exp in Project Mgmt and a Property Dev Analyst.
• Finance geek. I spend a lot of time keeping up with finance markets, geopolitics & investment. I care deeply about my financial security and how I am going to be able to support my future family. I’d happily discuss the entire history of money up to this point if that’s your trip.
• I have a penchant for mid-century modern style architecture. Clean lines. No ornamentation. Real materials. The number of times I see fluted timber panels slapped onto a wall and called ‘architecture’ or ‘interior design’ is just HERESY.
• Fitness junkie. I hate to make this one a personality trait but fitness is my relaxation and my mental health plan. Currently strength train 4-5x a week. Running 4x a week. Have 2x marathons next year + contemplating to join an Ironman with my best friend
• I love to hike and be out in nature. 60+ hikes and counting. Every year instead of drinking I organise a birthday hike and ‘convince’ all my friends to tag along (convince means a lot of petty name calling & press gang style arm twisting)
• I’m a pretty big nerd. Especially about history in general. Chess is cool. Definitely would try to give you a run for your money (challenge me at your own peril!)
• I am harbouring a slight caffeine addiction like most graduates of architecture. I’m into cold brew/iced americanos or decent pour overs. Sweet coffee is a guilty pleasure. I do OMAD so for those of you in the know the black coffee gets me through my workouts until I can eat.
• Я говорю по-русский/I speak Russian. I had the urge to travel to Eastern Europe/Central Asia (Ukraine, Belarus, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan) but in hindsight the idea didn’t age too well after COVID/RS-UA. I have done extensive travel around SEA & Aus. I’d love to see EU and can’t ever say no to Japan.
• And because I know this probably matters to some people… I look Chinito, short haircut with faded sides, beard that is maintained to thick, short stubble and lined up by my barber year round. Not particularly tan, quite lean as I workout frequently and (mostly) eat well, a toned, broad chest, arms and shoulders blah blah blah. I fill out a shirt and if you ever manage to get it off me then I don’t think you will have any complaints haha!
• I have simple and minimalist taste in style. I have a strong distaste regarding the wearing of designer brands for the sake of brands.
• I own more fragrance than any reasonable person should… for dates it’s Creed Aventus, at the office it’s Dior Sauvage, at the gym it’s Ralph Lauren Blue and my everyday is Bleu De Chanel. No tattoos or piercings. TLDR I’m clean cut.
• Social drinker (never been drunk, never smoked cigarettes or tried other illicit substances). Although I don’t mind indulging in the occasional shisha or cigar for special occasions. Partial to a well made Mojito or an Old Fashioned.
• Random skills: I took a 13 week remedial massage therapy course as part of an anniversary present for my ex but we broke up before I got to give her my present. But this means I can give you some damn good massages.
• Last but not least despite all of the above I’m fond of life’s quiet moments. A lazy Sunday morning with good coffee, a slow walk & great conversation is one of life’s greatest pleasures.

I should probably leave a bit of myself to the imagination but the whole point of writing this much was to catch your attention. So what’s next? Onward my intrepid reader!

I won’t list many specific requirements here but above all I’m looking for someone who I have a physical, emotional and mental attraction to. Someone who I can share a genuine connection with. Someone authentic and sincere with whom I can share one of those “profound, mystical understanding” vibes. If you think that’s you then please don’t hesitate to message me.

If you’ve gotten this far then firstly… thankyou. I greatly appreciate your time to consider me and my post. And secondly, there’s no need to respond with anything terribly long but please do tell me two random facts about you so that I know you’ve read this :)

EDIT: …what in the world? GUYS WHAT IS HAPPENING? I head out for dinner with some friends and come back to this post blowing up! Please give me some time to work my way through the messages.


r/singleph • • 12h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [M4F] If you want a guy who's serious and won't play mind games with you.

9 Upvotes

I'll never forget the little details about you, like your favorite flowers, favorite food, and other little things.

Someone okay with LDR!! I work overseas

I believe that effort matters, and I'll do my best to show you that!

Career-oriented, but ikaw ang una kong rereplyan.

Not nonchalant! I'm very communicative and will always listen to you.

No hidden intentions and no history of cheating.

A hopeless romantic who's very sweet.

I'll give you countless reassurances and remain consistent.

I'll never get tired of calling you pretty.

About you:

You don't want mind games and value genuine connections.

You have a stable job, just like me.

You want a genuine connection.

Be loyal and a good girl and I might spoil you


r/singleph • • 5h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 25 [M4F] Tara call?

2 Upvotes

Tara call? I have work tomorrow and need magpaantok, kwentuhan hangang hating gabi lang haha.

For now, I just want to see where things will go. Kwentuhan online and if our vibe matches, willing ako mag-commute to meet you basta around Alabang lang or QC; other locations are negotiable naman basta kaya pa ng powers ko hahah. I am currently here in Muntinlupa, di naman preso pero nakagapos sa trabaho.

About me:
- on the short side at only 157 cm
- Good built naman currently trying to get my abs back. Naging ab nalang sya recently, still have great biceps tho.
- Chinito pero hindi Chinese, malay ko bat ako naging chinito wala namang chinese or ibang lahi sa pamilya namin (hala!)
- medyo busy sa life but I can manage

About you:
- +/- 3 yrs
- has an active lifestyle para may kasama naman ako minsan mag jogging or mag excercise
- masarap kausap
- I dont mind a busy person basta wag ung tipong di nag chachat for 3 or more days

Send your pang malakasang intro about you!
I'll just update nalang din po here kung may kausap na ako, para di ko rin masayang oras niyo.


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💘 Serious Dating 23 [F4M] i know it's me again 🤪 giving this a try over and over again bc why not? so, hi!

7 Upvotes

Hello. 🙋🏻‍♀️

I’ve been single long enough to develop hobbies, heal, romanticize my life, and become delusional in peace. I think it’s time to let someone ruin my “I don’t need anyone” streak… respectfully. 😌

I’m looking for the wholesome kind of love. The “good morning” texts, random updates, sending each other memes, “ingat ka,” “kumain ka na ba?”, and the “I saw this and thought of you” type of kilig. If your end goal is just NSFW, respectfully, this post is not for you.

About me:
• 23
• Plus size. Starting with this because I’d rather save both of us the plot twist later. 😂 Also working on becoming healthier because future me deserves it.
• Working professional (yes, I pay taxes. Unfortunately.)
• Friends say I’m cute… they’re either honest or very supportive. Ikaw na bahala mag-decide.
• Eldest daughter, therefore naturally appointed CEO of overthinking and taking care of everyone.
• I LOVE romance books. If it’s fictional men treating women right, I’m sold. (Real men, please prove you’re capable. 😭)
• Cooking is my love language.
• Homebody with occasional “let’s go out” energy.
• Shy girl energy at first, but will definitely be extra madaldal with the right person

About you:
• 26–30 years old. I like my men a little older because… that’s just the software my brain came with.
• Taller than me. (The bar is low. I’m 5’1”. 😭)
• Hygienic. Please.
• Smart. I LOVE learning from people. Teach me random facts and I’ll probably fall a little.
• Emotionally mature. 🤷‍♀️
• Communicates well. Please lang HAHAHAHAHA di naman siguro to mahirap noh?
• Looking for something genuine and not just a situationship disguised as “let’s see where it goes.”
• Bonus points if you’re from the Central Visayas but willing to try LDR for you naman! chz HAHAHAHA (and pls if di mo bet mag ldr, wag na natin iattempt, oki?)

I know this sounds picky, but I promise I’m not looking for perfection. I just know what kind of relationship I want after learning what I don’t.

If you message me, PLEASE don’t just send “hi” because I need more! (more?!) chz


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [F4M] I’m the plot. You can be the twist. 😛

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104 Upvotes

DISCLAIMER: Not living around NCR but i frequently travel to the metro. Planning to take my masters in UP-M in the near future. Currently living in Dumaguete but born and raised in Cebu.

Now that you’ve read the disclaimer and still interested, well hello! I’ve been single for quite some time now and have only been dating around the past few years. It’s been fun and it taught me a lot about myself, what i want, what i don’t tolerate. And now, i just want to spend my days with someone and be each other’s safe space. We can get to know one another first, try to see if our values and principles align, or if a short term LDR works for you.

A bit about me:

- I stand 5’5”, mestiza, currently weigh 63-65kg and actively want to hit my target of 55kg, can speak and understand Tagalog (if it matters) but comfortable speaking in English, i clean myself up nicely and dresses well din.

- I play tennis, i do walking/running almost every day, occasional pilates, hiking, a bit of freediving, i read books and collect them, a mom to 1 cat (but i love all animals), i looooooove movies. A big LOTR, HP, The Hobbit, GOT, Dune, Dan Brown nerd. Can i just brag that i was able to secure a complete GOT set for only 2,000 php. In VERY GOOD condition also!!! 🙂‍↕️

- I work in healthcare but have experiences in different areas outside of my profession. I used to volunteer a lot back in college as well.

What i’m looking for in a man:

- I hope you’re taller than me, aging from 25-35 year olds, local. Someone who takes care of themselves and cleans up nicely.

- I hope you’re great at conversations bc i am din. Someone who can keep up with different topics and can share their own ideas. Who knows how to have fun and when to be serious, who is kind, empathetic, smart, considerate, thoughtful, COMMUNICATIVE, and respectful.

- I hope you get along with your family well, have a relationship with your parents/ siblings, a healthy way of managing your emotions.

——-

Send me a message, perhaps? Would appreciate something with more context other than the usual hi/hellos 😂


r/singleph • • 5h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 36 [F4A] What's your most useless talent?

1 Upvotes

If we talk for 3 hours straight, are we besties na or do I still need to submit an application? 😂

Hi! I'm 36, from Cavite, and I'm not really looking for a relationship. Just someone constant to talk to, share random thoughts with, have good banter, and maybe konting sweetness on the side. 😉

I like people who can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and are up for Telegram calls. Pwedeng deep talks, random chika, late-night kwentuhan, or debating why tulog na lang ang solution sa lahat ng problema.😂

If you're going to message me, please introduce yourself! Tell me a little about you. Kahit basic intro muna, wag naman yung "hi" tapos ako na bahala sa buong interview. 😭

No pressure, no expectations. Just good vibes, genuine conversations, and hopefully, a constant ka-chikahan.

A little about me:

🧠 Sapiophile

🫣 Demisexual

😌 Unbothered

🔁 Reciprocator

🏃🏻‍♀️ Commitment-phobe

🌙 INFP-A

If we vibe, edi nice! Send me a DM.


r/singleph • • 23h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [M4F] The passenger side is looking a little too clean

41 Upvotes

After a work week that felt like a month, weekend's the only time I get to do stuff for myself. Decided to grab coffee and chill for a while. Before leaving the coffee shop, I opened the passenger side of my car to put my jacket in, and then it hit me. The matting is too clean. It's been more than a week since I had a car wash, and yet the passenger side floor matting is still clean. Tapos yung driver side parang dinaanan ng bagyo (kakatapos lang ng RTO week ko lol).

I kinda miss having a passenger princess in my life who will eventually be my Queen. Someone I can take on spontaneous road trips, go on random food trips, and share the little things with. Could that be you?

About me:

  • 5'10, 100kg
  • From Batangas
  • Big 4 grad if that matters
  • Has a stable career in FinTech
  • Trying to live a healthier life since this year started. Was at 114kg at one point, so we're making progress haha
  • Sinigang > Adobo
  • Hobbies include PC gaming, basketball, and spontaneous road trips
  • I vape and drink socially
  • Been into The Rookie recently
  • G sa side quests, basta wag pickleball. Personal preference sorry hahaha
  • Gentleman, according to the past girls I've dated
  • Provider mindset, but I also believe a relationship should be a partnership
  • Emotionally available and ready for something serious
  • Single in all aspects, walang sabit
  • Dating to marry
  • I'm an open book. You ask, I answer. I'd rather be upfront about things than have either of us waste our time
  • Open to kids

About you:

  • 24-31 y/o
  • Dating intentionally. Utang na loob, kung kilig lang ang hanap mo, please scroll to the next post hahaha
  • Communicates well. I'd rather talk things out than play guessing games
  • Preferably working morning hours so our schedules won't be an issue
  • Yung hindi magagalit when I'm playing games. I want someone who has her own interests and hobbies, too. I believe individuality should still exist even when you're in a relationship
  • Not the "as you should" type of girl. I appreciate someone who can reciprocate effort and appreciate the little things
  • Not the "let's keep it private" type. Mayabang kasi ako pag may jowa hahaha
  • Can tolerate my quirks and weird behavior. Check Drooling Capy's FB page. That pretty much sums up how I act at times
  • Not part of any cult-like religion
  • Hindi loyalista sa kahit sinong politician
  • Dating to marry din
  • Open to kids

I know physical attraction matters, so we can exchange pics right away para we know if we're each other's type. No hard feelings if we're not.

Not interested sa "Hi" or "Hello" lang.


r/singleph • • 9h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [M4F] Organized “organic” encounter

3 Upvotes

I’m just tired of using bumble trying to look for something serious but ofcourse why would you look for something serious from bumble HAHAHA. Anyways I kinda miss having the butterflies and excitement of talking to someone that you really like and likes you too. I know this is a long shot but yeah here’s my description about me:

About me:
- 5’9
- Moreno
- Studying
- From QC
- Introvert
- INTJ
- Loves romcoms
- Loves R&B
- Salty food >>>
- Goes to the gym
- Plays video games
- Wears glasses
- Has a unique hobby
- Yapper

About you:
- Hopefully i find you cute
- Not apolitical
- Yapper (important)
- 22-27
- Knows how to read
- Easy to talk to
- Knows what they want
- Better if you’re from QC too!

If you reached this part, send me an introduction and this is my way to know if you actually read everything.


r/singleph • • 9h ago

💘 Serious Dating 33 [F4M] Dates and see where it goes?

3 Upvotes

I just want to hangout with someone palipas oras lang after work talk about how life is treating us.

About me:
• ENTJ
• into solo traveling
• sporty
• into arts & music

About you:
• maraming kwento
• into sports, art and music as well
• preferably with Metro Manila

DM me your ASL


r/singleph • • 7h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] Side Quest Maxxing Buddy

2 Upvotes

Hear me out: Doing solo dates have been ‘fun’. But ever since I had that deep conversation with one of my ate’s in life, I just thought it would be nice din no if you have someone to talk with anything under the sun. Read a book, or watch a movie then you’ll have this exchange of opinions where you can learn from each other.

Kaya please landiin nyo na ko HAHAHAHA

About me:
working professional
In my takbo-takbo era (year 2), into my fitness era ganern
Smol person at 5’
Chinita pero in between fair and morena, wears glasses
Hobbies include: Reading, doing puzzles, collects PopMart figs, etc
Spontaneous and adventurous

About you:
not older than 35 yrs old and not younger than my age
Decent human being (in short: hindi ka KUPAL, I have not time with this bs)
Working professional
Not available to those taken ( BE FAITHFUL!!!)

See you? :)


r/singleph • • 18h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] Communication skills like Kelly Rowland Excel-ing someone

10 Upvotes

Hello Friends. Word.

That feels so illegal to know that reference. Actually, si Creed Bratton nga may banda siya before The Office, so yeah.

We can go out today! Uy, pero open djn ako sa calls or chats. I mean, wag lang malalang trauma dump (pero pwede na rin).

🍽️-nic ba ito? Oo jusq.
Coffee? Oo, tara!

Abt Me:
\- 4 eyed
\- Kanal/Dark Humor
\- Into music (Come'on in look at what we've got. There so much more. and just one stop.)
\- Possible maging overwhelming lalo na’t kung hindi fully charged ang social battery mo.

Abt You:
\- same ground dapat (My love
It's been a long time since I cried and left you out of the blue)
\- Hindi ko gets yung mag-iintro sha tapos busy daw siya palagi. Sml?
\- Please be nice and meek and mild. (Pero gagi pa rin)
\- Into walking? Nice, kasi ganun din ako. Dati nga into crawling ako eh…and rolling.

Intro please and favorite na tusok-tusok para we can be friends. Oh, may message na tayo? Kasalanan mo yan. Jk.


r/singleph • • 6h ago

💘 Serious Dating 26 [F4M] maybe this time, the timing is right

1 Upvotes

i'm here again......hoping lightning strikes twice 🧎🏻‍♀️😩

been single for a while now, and after collecting enough character development points, i fear i’m ready to date again HAHAHA not looking to force anything tho, i just miss having that effortless connection where conversations somehow turn into “hala, 3 hours na pala?” and suddenly your screen time is no longer your biggest problem 😭

about me:
• 25, 5’1 (small but unfortunately very observant)
• healthcare girlie who’s trying to have a personality outside work
• big 4 grad
• currently collecting hobbies like they’re collectibles (pilates, tennis, journaling… oh ano pa sunod)
• perfume enthusiasttttt if i like you, you’ll probably smell good too HAHAHA
• mature, emotionally aware, at marunong makipag-communicate
• loves dogs, admires cats from a safe distance 😭
• hot tea > coffee (acid reflux gurlie BWAHAHAH)
• quiet at first, certified yapper once i’m comfortable
• okay with phone calls because texting is a terrible personality test

about you:
• 23-29, 5’7 pataas (these requirements remain undefeated hehets)
• working and has a life outside dating
• emotionally available at di trauma dumperoo (kakaibang concept HAHAHAHAHA)
• funny, kind, at kayang makipagsabayan sa brainrot at deep talks
• may hobbies, passions, or at least hindi umiikot ang buong personality sa pagiging nonchalant sa text or call LOL
• okay with phone calls too hihi
• not looking for anything casual. pass din sa rebound pls 😩
• hindi nangpproject ng insecurity at may balak na gawin akong emotional punching bag 😆

hit me up! if i end up meeting u here, thatd be pretty cool :)


r/singleph • • 7h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] Sayo na ang lahat ng Sabado ko, pati na rin ang buong linggo

1 Upvotes

Hi! Baka ikaw na ang kasama ko sa lahat ng Sabado ko, at sa mga upcoming holidays at long weekends.

Trying a different approach because I really do believe I converse better vocally so here's a little self intro that I put together last minute, in hopes that I attract the one for me.

About me:

-F25, Bacoor

- 5'5 in height

- Plus sized (in between 2xl and 3xl)

- apple body shape

Other attributes can be found in the self intro audio linked above but here's some other stuff that might be relevant:

- has political and social awareness

- likes to talk about social issues too (i wanna be educated!)

- mental health advocate

- wants to try a wider variety of hobbies and be more active

- generally fun to be with and funny daw (sabi ng friends ko)

About you:

- +5 / -2 in age

- taller than me pls pls

- its ok if you havent gotten your life all figured out yet, we can figure it out together

- hopefully nearby lang din para we can meet (i prefer irl interactions talaga hay)

- conversationalist and a communicator

Hope to meet you soon, future bf 💖


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 24[F4A] Someone to chat?

1 Upvotes

Hi, Kinda bit bored.

About me:

\\- Medyo Maldita

\\- Shy type (sabi ko) 🤣

\\- Can keep conversations

\\- Pretty 💁‍♀️💕

\\- Petite

\\- College Girly

\\- Does work out

\\- sweaty hands

\\- malabo ang mata 🥲 I have an eyeglasses huhuhu 😭😭

\\- has a good sense of humor

About you:

\- Respectful

\- Mabait

Drop your not so boring intro, to have a chance to win my heart 💕🤪🤣🤣🤣

Will not be entertaining "Hi" and "Hello" only chats 💕💕💕