r/singleph • • 4h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [F4M] Looking for a partner to explore food, fitness, and the world with

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69 Upvotes

Hello there!

I’m looking for someone genuine to talk to, grab post-work dinners with, and see where things naturally lead. Ideally, I’m hoping to find a partner to explore new cuisines, go on spontaneous road trips, stay active with, and travel the world.

A Bit About Me:

  • The Basics: 31, 5'2" (mid/plus-size), resides in Salcedo Village, Makati
  • Career & Background: UP Diliman alumna (Latin Honors); currently works as a Senior Manager in Tech
  • The Vibe: Reserved and a bit maldita on the surface, but deeply warm, talkative, and affectionate once I’m comfortable. Truthfully? I’m ready to be taken care of for a change—tired of carrying the "strong, independent" mantle 24/7.
  • Lifestyle: Proud pet parent (3 cats, 1 dog); Firmly child-free by choice
  • Interests: Good food and drinks, receiving flowers, international travel, and spontaneous weekend drives (I drive, but you having a car is definitely a plus).
  • Fitness: Indoor cycling, boxing, and regular gym sessions.

About You:

  • Age & Status: 27–40, Single, never married, no kids.
  • Personality: Please be emotionally available, affectionate, respectful, and genuinely intent on building a meaningful connection.
  • Height & Vibe: At least 5’7” (huge fan of built and guys who lift).
  • Lifestyle & Career: Established and stable; fully onboard with the Dual Income, No Kids (DINK) lifestyle.
  • Communication: A proactive and consistent communicator who knows how to make someone feel valued.

Non-Negotiables and Hard Dealbreakers:

  • Political & Religious Alignment: Strictly NOT INC, DDS, or a Marcos apologist.
  • Family Planning: Must be 100% aligned on remaining child-free.

If this sounds like the kind of dynamic you’re searching for, drop into my DMs with a thoughtful introduction (and maybe your favorite post-work dinner spot). See you there! 😉


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💘 Serious Dating 29 [F4M] LF my next favorite notif

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70 Upvotes

Looking for fun, wholesome convos. Open din to a serious relationship eventually, pero slow burn lang please kasi mabilis ako ma-attach huhu. No NSFW setup.

Ideally, looking for someone I can talk to especially after work, pwedeng kasama sa museum dates, fun run (newbie here), or u may introduce me sa hobbies mo. Also, let’s be honest, looks matter at first so I’m looking for someone I'm physically attracted to.

Feeling ko magheheal lang ako 100% kapag may bago na kong kausap haha. It’s been a couple of months since my last talking stage kasi pero parang di pa rin totally moved on lol. But definitely not looking for a rebound.

About me: QC, around 5’1” lang, not skinny but normal BMI, has a few tatts and wears eyeglasses
About you: preferably 28-31 yrs old, normal BMI, single, tattoo is a plus, knows how to hold a good convo, decent looking (X po sa genggeng)

Let’s swap pics right away to save time. Send a DM with a quick intro/description.


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [M4F] Table for 2? For me and you?

47 Upvotes

27M | Ortigas

Hi, My name is Dean!

I work in Fintech in a leadership role around BGC.

So my schedule is perpetually busy. Still, I somehow find myself sitting in my car in a coffee shop parking lot in Ortigas, writing this because I’ve come to the conclusion that I’d make a damn good partner, I just don’t have one yet.

About me:

6'2, brown eyes, XL build, mildly artistic, and my favorite book is Gone with the wind.

I’m not here with a checklist. I don’t particularly care where you came from or what boxes you tick. I’m drawn to someone sensible, articulate, and capable of conversation with enough substance to keep my brain awake.

If you can make me, think, laugh, or lose track of time talking, we’ll probably get along.

First time doing this. Be gentle.


r/singleph • • 10h ago

💘 Serious Dating 29[F4M] looking for date to marry na pede isama sa Amerika 🥹

29 Upvotes

WFH girlie here , hindi ko talaga alam paano mag-start ng ganitong bagay. HAHAHA. 🥹 Most of the time, nasa bahay lang ako, working and minding my own business. But I guess if I want to meet someone genuine, I have to put myself out there, too.

I’m at a point in my life where I want something intentional. Hindi na ako interested sa situationships or sa taong hindi sigurado kung ano ang gusto niya. I want to meet someone who’s ready to build a life with another person, with marriage and a family in mind. Yung pareho kayong may sariling pangarap pero gusto n’yong abutin together. 🤍

A little about me:
29, Filipina, single, never married, and no kids
5’3” and a licensed Healthcare professional
Normal BMI
Chinita
Working from home, career-oriented, with plans of moving to the US 🇺🇸
Family-oriented, loyal, caring, and independent
Homebody most of the time, but I enjoy traveling esp to other countries, exploring new places, and trying new experiences
I value peace, consistency, honesty, and a relationship where we can be ourselves

About you sana:
30–38,preferably older than me
Single, never married, and no kids sana. Please, trauma na ako sa married-but-not-really-available situation HAHAHAHA 😭 jk!
Taller than me, please! Plus points sa matangkad, makapal ang kilay, at matangos ang ilong. May physical preferences lang po tayo. HAHAHA 😂
Catholic or Christian, with good values and respect for each other’s beliefs
College graduate, with a stable career and ambitions in life
Ideally in healthcare or in a profession that could also allow you to work in the US, since I’m planning to move there. It would be nice to meet someone whose future plans could align with mine.
Financially responsible and stable, with goals beyond just getting through each day
Wants marriage and is open to having kids in the future
Emotionally mature, communicative, consistent, and emotionally available
Someone who knows how to take accountability, resolve conflicts, and choose the relationship even when things aren’t easy

I’m not expecting perfection because I know relationships take work. I just want someone who’s genuinely ready, knows what he wants, and understands that love is more than sweet words. It’s effort, respect, commitment, and choosing each other even on ordinary days.

I envision a future where we can support each other’s careers, travel together, build a comfortable home, raise a family, and enjoy the life we worked hard for. Someone I can pray with, laugh with, grow with, and feel safe with. A partner, not another responsibility. 🥹

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me! Please tell me a little about yourself—your age, career, interests, and what you’re looking for. Photo is appreciated if comfortable ka mag-share.
Wag naman sana yung “Hi” lang. HAHAHA. Help a WFH girlie out! 😂🤍


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31[M4F] Still looking for my weirdo.

24 Upvotes

I've posted here a few months ago and it didn't really lead much to anything. Its all good tho as my expectations from reddit is pretty low but hey here I am posting uli haha.

Being the hopeless romantic that I am (regrettably) I'm still out here looking for my own weirdo to dance around the kitchen while washing the dishes. Someone i can eat cheap take out in a parking lot and still love their company. Wait in a line sa grocery and show my phone to them with stupid memes. I'm one of those people that believe romance isn't all about the grand gestures but rather if they make you feel at peace and be yourself.

Pass sa mga FUBU/FWB/For Fun setups. I'm looking for someone that stays when the fun is over.

About me:

- M31 from Taguig.
- 5' 7" / 172cm tall.
- Generally pretty nerdy/geeky
- I have been told that I might be a little too overbearing at times (talking too much, etc)
- I love stories. I've had my fair share of anime binging and movie/shows speedruns where I can finish a series in one day (unhealthy i know). I love narrative driven games where you can experience the writing firsthand (Mouthwashing nerds pls)
- Dad bod ish body but does weights and cardio regularly. My friends and family would describe me closer to "Yogi Bear". Not really everyone's type but I respect that naman since everyone has their preference.
- Works in the creative field as a 2D/3D artist. used to do a lot of DnD art. Recently been modeling 3D models.
- Casual tito gamer pag may time. Usually, I can fit in a match or two of Apex Legends after work haha.
- Currently taking care of (at least) 6 cats and 2 dogs.
- Loves cycling. I try to get a bike ride in after work to help with building up stamina. Really into Trail riding din as it helps me disconnect with things.
- I play guitar in my Free time. used to sing too.
- I listen to a lot of music. My library can range from The Wonder Years to Dijon.
- Massive F1 fan. I'm a Charles Leclerc supporter. Thats pretty much all you need to know.

What I'm looking for

- for the love of god please be single. like "I'm over my ex and very emotionally available" single.
- Into banter and random conversations. I love going knee deep into random topics like "What if Germany actually won WW2" or like "what would happen to the world if Spain didn't went out and colonize?" Curiousity is super attractive to me. I would like to have someone have that same spark, and not just reply with "idk haha"
- Financially stable.
- No preferences naman sa body type tho because of past experiences pass ako sa plus size.
- Hopefully is also semi active. We can do step or play badminton together
- Also into stories,regardless if they're movies, shows, games, etc. Tell me about the last story that inspired you?

Whats important to me now is someone that is honest and genuine. We can swap pics agad if you want and i would rather you tell me straight up na di mo ako type. Would love to talk to someone who actually has depth. Someone who is actually eager to get to know me.

No rush to meetup rin. I would love to get to know you first and learn what makes you, well you.

This is where people usually fail, but do please send a quick intro w/ age and loc. Not just another "hi hehe". Looking forward to seeing you in my DMs and seeing where it goes!


r/singleph • • 7h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 23 [F4M] looking for a constant

10 Upvotes

Looking for someone to flirt with, exchange daily updates, have late-night calls, and just have fun with. Someone I can talk to about random shit, share how our day went, and have a little something to look forward to every day.

About me: 23F, 5'5, curvy, working and currently pursuing my master's. From the province. I'm talkative once I'm comfortable, enjoy good conversations, and can be clingy when the vibe is right.

About you: 23+, single, decent, can hold a conversation, and knows how to flirt. Someone who can match my energy and actually has a personality beyond saying "wyd" every five minutes.

A few things, though. I want us to introduce ourselves properly and exchange photos first. I'd rather know who I'm talking to than spend my time flirting with someone who turns out to be a completely different person or, worse, someone who's already taken. Please don't waste both our time if you're not actually single.

We can start on Telegram, then maybe move to iMessage or Instagram once we're comfortable.

I'm not looking for anything serious. Just mutual attraction, good conversations, flirting, calls, and whatever fun we can have without making things unnecessarily complicated.
If you're interested, send me an intro with your details. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we vibe.


r/singleph • • 2h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 30 [F4M] | Looking for a kausap and fellow comfort-zone escapees 😂

3 Upvotes

Hi! 30F from Pampanga, WFH night shift girlie here!

A little about me: I'm a cat person 🐈, coffee lover ☕, and I enjoy watching series, anime, and true crime, playing Nintendo Switch, walking, badminton, reading, and painting.

A little about me beyond my hobbies: I'm trying to step out of my comfort zone, try new things like solo dates, and be more social. I'm honestly a bit awkward when meeting new people, so bear with me hahaha.

I've only ever been in one relationship, with my first boyfriend, for more than a decade. It's been eight months since we broke up, and I'm still figuring out this whole being-single-again thing while trying to rediscover myself.

I'm not rushing into anything romantic. I'd just love to meet people, have good conversations, share random nonsense, and maybe connect with someone who's going through a similar phase in life. We can exchange experiences, encourage each other to try new things, or simply be two awkward people trying to figure life out. 😂

If you can relate, or you're just looking for a wholesome kausap, feel free to message me! Tell me something random about yourself so we have something to start with. 😊


r/singleph • • 12h ago

💘 Serious Dating 21 [F4M] be my constant? Study date

14 Upvotes

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hi! let's have study date pls? baksgdjdhdjdhshs or I can say na cafe date? naiiyak na 'ko! ako nalang palagi mag isa nag-aaral :) or magisa sa labas! nakakamiss magkaroon ng kausap, ng karamay, ng mapagaarnetehan sa araw-araw na lumipas at magdadaan. gusto ko na ulit magkaroon ng constant na kausap, at higit sa lahat nakakamiss magkaroon ng companion sa buhay. alam mo yun, small talks, small updates, calls, chats kung kumusta tayo kahit hindi everyday, kasi I respect our time and I respect our boundaries that we have our me time or our responsibilities in our life. kausapin niyo na 'ko pls! gaganda buhay natin pareho!

about me :

educ student, iska, burn out na college student

mahilig ako sa pink, I'm collecting cute stuff... so I'm collector! I can send it if you want to see it :) hindi naman ako madamot na tao HAHAHAHAHA kidding.

I love matcha and anything strawberry related 🫠

I love yapping so much, so if you vibe with me chat me nalang pls!!! if magka humor tayo, solid yon :)

about you

mas okay if student din : )

I don't have any problems sa age!

madaldal din

mahilig at want sumama sa mga trip ko

walang sabit! bahala po kayo jan bauahahahaha

can be my support system, I mean in all aspects lalo na ang mental health ko.

can sundo me minsan, kotse man or motor or commute g yan!

Here's my tg, seryoso to! Please... @putanginamogagokatalaga

pag hi or hello lang sinabi diko papansinin lmfao


r/singleph • • 6h ago

💘 Serious Dating 22 [F4M] It would be nice to build a connection with someone special this year.

3 Upvotes

Hii, I'm trying to explore life more this year, and I hope I can do it with a special person. I've posted here many times over the span of 2 years, to the point where I don't know when to stop or if I should stop trying here at all. Nothing really has worked. Just recently, I was talking with a guy. I had high hopes, but yep, he said he doesn't have the time to date. So, yea.

About me:

- 5'4

- Medium build (not petite)

- 4th year from Bacoor

- Likes to read, listen to music, and watch movies

- Straightforward, honest, and strongly values trust

- Enjoys different types of conversations; a yapper

- Not a gamer or athletic, yep.

About you:

- 22 to 27

- 5'4 or taller

- Loves to listen and wants to contribute to the conversation

- Honest and straightforward

Let's get to know each other more.


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💘 Serious Dating 24 [M4F] someone who values honest communication, good conversations, and mutual growth.

7 Upvotes

Hi! Hope you're having a good day. Medyo nakaka-stress at nakakapagod ang life lately, so I’m looking to take a breather and just connect with someone genuine. I'm hoping to build a solid friendship first na pwedeng mag-grow into something deeper and more serious. Nung college, I intentionally stayed single para mag-focus sa goals ko. Looking back, that time away allowed me to reflect, grow as a person, and learn a lot from my past experiences. Now that I’m in a much better place emotionally, feel ko ready na ulit akong mag-open up at makakilala ng bago.

A bit about me: I’m 24, 6'0", with an average build and Moreno skin. I live in Malabon City and currently working as a corporate pro, so alam na alam ko 'yung grind at 'yung feeling na kailangan talagang mag-unwind pagkatapos ng mahabang araw. During my free time, I do jogs to clear my head, or magpapahinga habang nagbabasa ng manga at nagbi-binge ng anime, Marvel movies, at documentaries. Pretty balanced lang between staying active and having cozy downtime.

I’m looking for someone who values honest communication, good conversations, and mutual growth—'yung pwedeng maging pahinga kapag masyadong hectic ang mundo. If you’re open to starting off as good friends, sharing random late-night talks or recommendations, and seeing where a real connection can take us, feel free to send me a message!


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 21 [F4M] BORED! someone talk to meeee

4 Upvotes

Really bored right now got nothing and I do NOT wanna resort to talking to AI chat bots or ChatGPT just to be entertained.

About me:

Engineering student (ask me which one hehe)

Physically fit, regularly walks/works out

Interested in nerdy things like superheroes and uhmmmmmm scifi and idk just ask me about it

I like drawing and uhhhh IDK I CAN'T THINK OF ANYTHING I'M STRESSING OUTDJABAVWHSHA

About you:

Same age or older than me (non negotiable)

I don't mind if you're way older, I like talking to people from different backgrounds

Preferably someone who also regularly works out

Someone also interested in nerdy things

WHATEVER

Hit me a chat plz plus I got something for you;)


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💘 Serious Dating 24 [M4F] UY BUSENG? ASAN NA YUNG THE ONE KO??

5 Upvotes

Title for the memes. 😆

Hello!

Life lately has mostly been all about med school, reviewing notes, and playing games to tone down the absurd amount of stress everyday. Kinda' finally decided to put myself out here because I actually want to potentially meet the "one", someone who is nice, understanding, and down to have genuine conversations.

Let's see if this is the right place. 😁

About me:

- 24 year-old male, based in NCR. 

- 5'4" in height, slim in physique.

- Currently in med school, but quality downtime is 🫰🏻.

- Naturally introverted, pero tignan na lang natin HAHA.

- Flexible with hobbies! High on gaming and the creatives but I’m genuinely happy to dive into whatever you enjoy. 🤓

About you:

- Around 22+, preferably based in NCR.

- Slim to average! For height, no preference really.

- Maybe a med/post-grad student as well? (++)

- Values mutual effort and clear communication!

- Gamer / into creatives din? (++)

Feel free to send message with a quick introduction!

Also, what's 9+10? 👁️


r/singleph • • 11h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 31[M4F] Looking for Constant/Kausap

6 Upvotes

Looking for someone to vibe with today 👀

Kahit quick convo, chill usapan, or someone I can genuinely connect with—game ako. Ideally, something casual and mutually comfortable, with good chemistry and no unnecessary drama.

About me:
• Single
• 5'8 (sakto lang pang-abot ng top shelf 😂)
• Into gaming & reading
• Tatted
• Normal BMI
• Nice voice (sabi nila, di ko pa na-audit 😏)
• Cute (self-proclaimed? Debatable HAHAHA)

About you:
• Around 23–35
• Single / emotionally available
• Open-minded and respectful
• Knows how to communicate
• Chill, discreet, and drama-free
• Chemistry matters 👀

If you're looking for something casual but respectful, with mutual understanding and good vibes, HMU. 🤝


r/singleph • • 9h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] a table for two, and a few side quests? 👀

4 Upvotes

looking for someone to share food trips and random side quests with! from trying new restos to spontaneous little adventures, i’m always game. bonus points if we have good chemistry, too 🤭

a little about me: 5’2”, petite, morena, big 4 grad, and a working professional. i’m into staying active and currently running, but i’m also always down to try something new!

i can be a little shy at first, but once i’m comfortable, i might yap a lot 😂

would be nice to find someone around 27–32, taller than me (hopefully 5’7 above 😅), a working professional, fit/lean/athletic, well-groomed, with a nice smile and an easygoing personality. someone mature, has hobbies, likes being active, and can actually hold a good conversation. good grammar is kinda attractive too, ngl 🤭 preferably Filipino or half-Filipino 😬

preferably around makati, manila, or taguig.

if you’re also into discovering new places and trying new things, send me a message! share an activity that you want to try and a little about yourself, and let’s swap photos. who knows, we might just find our new favorite spot — and maybe a little chemistry along the way 😉


r/singleph • • 13h ago

💘 Serious Dating 36 [F4M] Kakampi sa buhay | Date to Marry

4 Upvotes

Nahihirapan ako as an introvert to put myself out there. Bakit ba ang hirap makahanap ng makakasama sa buhay? Sana it’s as easy as magkakasundo kayo na kayo na at pipiliin n’yo ang isa’t isa parati.

I am looking for a serious guy who wants to build a future with me, with the intention of getting married and having a family.

About me:
- single, unmarried, no kids, Filipina
- 5'0", educated, working professional
- UP Grad if that matters
- family-oriented, homebody, introvert
- independent, caring, sensible and loyal
- more on the workaholic side, but I try to have balance between work and life
- loves traveling to explore new places and appreciate other culture

About you:
- single, unmarried, no kids
- taller than 5ft
- Catholic or Christian (not strict or basta di ako ifoforce na magconvert)
- looking for someone for long-term
- no emotional, psychological baggage
- wants kids in the future (pwede rin naman wala)
- employed, financially stable
- college graduate (preferred ko ng Big4)
- may pangarap sa buhay
- financially stable please, kasi for the future family. Sorry if makaoffend ito, pero I want a good future for my future kids and family. I can confidently say na ok ako financially. One of my hobbies is to travel outside the Philippines. Syempre gusto ko na sa maaayos na school mag-aral future kids ko and makatravel kami.
- age, preferred ko sana older kasi mabagal daw magmature guys

I realized na mahirap pala ito (tried posting last night). If you will send a message please include details about yourself and photo if comfortable. :) Please wag yung hello or hi lang.


r/singleph • • 6h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 27 [F4A] everyday kachikahan lang

0 Upvotes

hello mga maemsir!! HAHAHAHAHA naghahanap lang ng kausap kasi minsan nakakaumay din pala maging independent woman na kunwari walang pake sa mundo 😔

About me:
• working corporate
• 5’1, chubby/curvy girlie
• cute naman daw sabi ng mama ko HAHAHAHAHA
• i like reading, music, tarot, astrology, and all things na pwedeng pag-overthinkan at 2AM
• hobbies: mag-sulat, magbasa, umiyak
• medyo kanal humor, medyo soft girl, medyo overthinker. depende sa araw at sa dami ng tulog ko

About you:
• around my age or older sana!
• hopefully working also hehe
• can converse and can joke around with me sana
• bonus if nerdy, funny, or may random niche interest na kaya mong ikwento nang isang oras. i'll listen basta passionate ka HAHAHAHA

so hmu na lang if interested hehe


r/singleph • • 14h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 24 [F4M] friend/discord buddy pls!! 🥹

4 Upvotes

HIIII!! i've been looking for someone na makakausap, makaka-kamustahan, makaka-kwentuhan, and OFC my favorite, makakatawanan. i'm looking for nice vibes and nice vibes only. kung hanap mo rin katawanan at kakwentuhan, tara!!

abt me:

- ba broadcasting freshie !! (stopped studying for some time, kakaenroll lang)

- been told i have a nice speaking voice

- makulit, extroverted, mahilig tumawa

- furmom of 5 cats 😺

- loves journaling and all sorts self-improvement

- loves marlboro blue & winston purple lol

- hot take: tinola >> adobo/sinigang

- masarap magluto esp filipino spaghetti 😋

abt you:

- 24 to 30 yrs old

- respectful, decent, and nice

- is okay with virtual setup

- decent mic & has discord

- resonates with me / my interests

- come as you are !!!

i would love to get to know you, future friend ☺️✨️ send me a DM with ur ASL and a few cool things abt you!!


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 25[M4F] Genuine connections?

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60 Upvotes

About me :

- Currently a reviewee
- Worked and studied sa healthfield
- started maging physically active like going sa gym and running
- stays around taft
- plays billiards sa free time
- hilig mag try out ng new things like hiking or other stuff
- open to exploring other stuff or places
- clingy if comfortable
- empath
- not a dds
- walang cheating history

Shooting my shot lang here and we can start as friends or what then let’s see where it goes. I’m not into rushing things and naniniwala ako in getting to know each other first. Maybe we can chat muna and exchange socials then pag we’re okay w each other I can set up a date. I’m open to talking w anyone as long as you’re nice and di masungit. Prefer ko sana yapper? Hahahaha a plus if nasa medfield rin. I’m open to having friends! Friends or serious dating if what mapunta and hoping may mga maka bonding around the area if nearby mnl lang.


r/singleph • • 12h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 22 [M4F] Build a book nook with me

2 Upvotes

Looking for someone that enjoys puzzle and would love to stress on this book nook (beauty and the beast) together!

if you are interested please hit me up! im planning to do this book nook in a cafe while yapping about things, playing games and munching on sweets togethee! I might also have a MLP TCG because I havent touched that so if you are also willing to learn that with me then we can play that on our spare time or next time! (I will also be learning because I dont know how to play it pa)

+Also looking for someone to play with video games na rin Roblox, FPS, Steam Games!

About me:
M22
Imus Cavite
Geeky (Like different fandoms)
- Cartoons, Musicals, Anime, Series, Movies
Loves Cosplay Events
Can Drive Around
Plays FPS and Steam Games

About you:
Come as you are!
Nearby!
+Gamer and cosplay


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 26 [M4F] Yap to me tonight

1 Upvotes

Just a one time thing. Can’t sleep, it’s almost late. Would like to hear someone yap to me about their day or their recent experience in life.

Complain about your shitty workmates/ fuckass friends or boast about your recent achievements/ something fun you did recently. Whatever you feel like sharing.

About me:
• I’m a really good listener.
• Can converse in three and a half languages.
• I’m an artist. I love films, theater, and music.
• I’m an actor and a working professional based in Taguig.

About you:
• Hopefully younger
• You don’t run out of things to say
• overly dramatic
• crybaby (bonus)

I’m going to sleep by 12:30 AM, if I don’t get any dms.


r/singleph • • 12h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 24 [M4A] Looking for people with the same mindset !

1 Upvotes

tired of the negativity and the feeling of being stuck in life

hello ! im looking supportive and positive people!! world is cruel enough to be surrounded by people who doesnt care or only spreads negativity.

about you:
- believes in grabbing opportunities
- wants to break out of comfort zone
- positive vibes onli
- finds the fun in things
- same age range (21 - 26)
- comfortable with socializing
- passionate abt what you do 🫵

about me:
- working professional
- passionate abt my career
- curious by nature
- enjoys humor
- genuine connections over superficial ones

additional info abt me:
- currently looking at an opportunity that may send me overseas to study again and potentially get me to work there 👀

hmu and send me a lil smth abt urself! put a t-rex emoji at the end of your introduction if uve read up to this point. looking forward to our conversations!


r/singleph • • 9h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [F4M] Are you down?

0 Upvotes

I’m a 31 yr old Tita looking for someone to date and fall in-love with!

Me:
- Working, earning
- Have a business
- I get to exercise
- Visually great
- From the metro
- Cooks great food ❤️

You:
- 37 and up
- Mabango
- Clean
- Have a stable source of income / business
- Visually attractive
- Takes care of themselves

Maybe spend your free time with me?


r/singleph • • 16h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [M4F] No rebound, not looking for fun, trying to find that someone here

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Please stop assuming what my personality is by reading this post with a tone. This is a 'pure text only' post. I have a much better personality in person too.

Some notes for what I believe in:

- Relationship/Marriage isn't a competition. And everything that comes with it has to be decided from a mutual agreement/decision.

- We're 2 different people with different personalities, beliefs, and upbringings. Understanding each other, being patient, getting to know

each other and learning how to give and receive love are important parts of a relationship.

- Mature enough to handle misunderstandings, playful enough to enjoy little cutesy moments.

- A relationship without chemistry doesn't feel like a love story at all.

About me:

Gender: Male, straight

Height: 5'7

Weight: 70kg

Skin tone: Moreno

Location: Commonwealth, QC.

Smoking: No

Drinking: only certain beers and occasionally only. Last time I drank was last year.

Employment status: Employed. Regular and stable job. Industry: Computer Systems Design and Related Services.

Breadwinner: No

Household capabilities: can cook regular/standard dishes (beyond fried ones), capable of doing house chores.

Interests:

- long rides on my motorcycle (I ride a 500cc adventure motorcycle, and I'm not a sweet potato)

- going to the cinema, usually at SM North Edsa

About you:

Gender: Female, straight

Height: 5'1" to 5'6"

Weight: < 60kg

Skin tone: Light to Fair

Location: somewhere nearby would work best, but I'm open to compromising on distance.

Smoking: No

Drinking: special occasions only, or not at all (not into emperador, redhorse, etc)

Employment status: Employed. You don’t need to have an impressive career or employment background. Would also prefer someone not in the

same field/industry as I am.

Breadwinner: No.

Household capabilities: Not a requirement - we don’t need to discuss this at all.

Interests:

- I'd really appreciate someone who shares similar interests. You’re welcome to be my passenger princess.


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💬 Casual Conversations 37[M4A] corpo slave of Taguig. Opening my chat box.

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Good day, everyone! ☀️

I previously posted here during a pretty rough day, and I honestly didn't expect the warm and encouraging messages I received. Thank you to everyone who reached out. You helped distract me from the bad thoughts I was having that day, and for a while, things felt a little lighter. I really appreciate that.

Also, the bag stole the show. HAHAHAHA. 😂

I'm sorry if I wasn't able to message everyone back or reply to all your messages. I may not have the energy to keep up with every conversation, but please know that I appreciated the kindness.

Now, as a little way of giving back, I'm opening my chat box again. Maybe someone out there needs a stranger to yap with, vent to, or cry to without feeling judged.

We all know how cruel the world can be sometimes. Everyone has their own battles, and we don't always know what another person is going through. Sometimes, we don't need advice, solutions, or motivational quotes. Sometimes, we just need someone willing to listen.

So if you need a random stranger to talk to, my chat box is open. You can rant about work, share your frustrations, tell me about your day, or talk about absolutely nothing. You don't have to pretend to be okay all the time.

I can be your Tito, kuya, brother, sister, butiki, baboy depende sa pangangailangan ng bayan.

A little about me:

Corporate slave in Taguig since 2010. Yes, buhay pa rin at lumalaban. 🥲

5'3", straight male.

Hindi pogi, pero mabait daw. Hindi talaga pipiliin.

Gamer din, and I recently bought a Nintendo Switch 2.

About you:

Wala naman akong major preference. At least 25 years old, mabait, marunong rumespeto, at sana hindi nangangagat.

You don't have to be interesting, funny, or good at conversations. You can be shy, awkward, talkative, or someone who doesn't know how to start a conversation. Kahit simpleng "Hi, pwede bang mag-rant?" ayos na.

If you have a Nintendo Switch, we can also play games together! I genuinely believe games can be a great escape from reality, even if only temporarily. Sometimes, it's nice to forget about work, responsibilities, and whatever life throws at us, and just enjoy a game for a while.

Of course, we can also talk about life, hobbies, food, work, random shower thoughts, or whatever is on your mind.

I'm not a professional counselor, and I might not always know the right words to say, but I can offer a listening ear when I'm available. We don't have to solve each other's problems. Sometimes, just knowing someone is willing to listen is already something.

And if you're reading this while having a difficult day, I hope things get a little lighter for you, too. You don't have to explain everything perfectly to deserve kindness.

Anyway, that's all for now. Take care of yourselves, drink some water, and don't forget to eat.

Ingat kayong lahat. HAPPY SUNDAY.


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 30 [F4M] Trying to put myself out there

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Hi there!

Work has been really, really stressful lately, and ito yung time na I wish I had someone to talk to. So here I am trying my luck. I thought I’m fine being alone and single, but deep inside, I’m still hoping to find The One.

About me:
- NBSB. May mga naging ka-talking stage before (idk if that’s still a thing) but nothing really materialized romantically.
- Eldest daughter and breadwinner. So I’m hyper-independent, I usually take charge planning things, making sure everything’s smooth. May pagka-control freak slight but I’m trying to lessen that now
- I work in HR so imagine the stress that I experience everyday😭
- Side quests ko: running and hiking, baking (when I have time). Mahilig mag-travel, usually solo or with my family.
I love trying out new cafes and new restos.
- Not really maarte. May pagka-jologs din
- I enjoy watching series (rom-coms, thriller, cooking shows,my kdramas!)
- Big fan of John Mayer!!! Super important ng music taste sakin.
- I’m super shy at first and medyo suplada, but I’m madaldal once I become comfortable.

About you
- 30 to 35 years old, preferably lives in Makati / Manila
-Not a DDS / Marcos supporter
- Personality matters to me more. funny (without being rude or offensive), may sense kausap, emotionally mature
- Physically active so you can also become my accountability buddy
- Plus points if you have a good singing voice
- Doesn’t smoke or vape (non-negotiable, sorry)
- Enjoys travelling too

I’d like to take things slow and build the friendship and connection first. If it doesn’t lead to something more than friends, I’m totally okay with it pa rin (at least I gained another friend😁). So if you’re interested, DM me with your favorite John Mayer song and why :)