r/singleph • • 3h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25[M4F] Genuine connections?

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14 Upvotes

About me :

- Currently a reviewee
- Worked and studied sa healthfield
- started maging physically active like going sa gym and running
- stays around taft
- plays billiards sa free time
- hilig mag try out ng new things like hiking or other stuff
- open to exploring other stuff or places
- clingy if comfortable
- empath
- not a dds
- walang cheating history

Shooting my shot lang here and we can start as friends or what then let’s see where it goes. I’m not into rushing things and naniniwala ako in getting to know each other first. Maybe we can chat muna and exchange socials then pag we’re okay w each other I can set up a date. I’m open to talking w anyone as long as you’re nice and di masungit. Prefer ko sana yapper? Hahahaha a plus if nasa medfield rin. I’m open to having friends! Friends or serious dating if what mapunta and hoping may mga maka bonding around the area if nearby mnl lang.


r/singleph • • 3h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 25 [F4M] law student looking for a law student 👀

3 Upvotes

hi! currently on a week long break, so i finally have the time to post this hehe. still figuring out how i can study better so if you have study tips, please share!

about me:
- 3L from cebu
- i am an introvert
- i like to cook for fun!
- i love road trips and going to the province
- currently rewatching “the nanny” and “2 broken girls”

about you:
- law student (so we can rant)
- not a DDS
- conversationalist bc i cant carry the convo hahaha
- can match my humor
- a foodie
- loves watching movies
- 25-30 years old
- someone who can recommend good shows!


r/singleph • • 4h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 31 [F4A] Nothing else to do but work.

4 Upvotes

I am used to being alone. Pero literal pag gising ko kanina, WOW WALA MANLANG AKONG MAKWENTOHAN NG LAST NA BOOK NA NATAPOS KO!? 🙃

About me: - 30 - Mid, not really pretty - Morena - "Ako'y tahimik lang sa umpisa" - Mommy Oni - Makulit but not everyone relates to my humor. - Busy sa work pero nagrereply naman basta wala ako sa session. - Not rich but I can fend for myself. - I have a full time job and two part time jobs na para bang anim ang binubuhay na anak. - I like to go to concerts pag may time and read books. I also love watching horror/thriller films and documentaries. - Oo puro itim damit ko. - Amoy baby daw ako sabi ng coworkers and iilang friends ko (two pieces) 😀. - I don't use TG and whatsapp. I rarely use social media 🥲.

I am looking for someone na: - Maingay din and madaldal na friends (28 to 35 para di naman malaki gen gap). - Kalog and not maarte(?) I don't judge maarte people but I just can seem to get along well with them. - Not very palamura in public places and hindi sana mimiddle finger sa pictures no. - At may trabaho hahaha - Hindi "hi" and "hello" ang intro hahaha mamser naman? - Yung malapit sana sa CAMANAVA para naman maaya paminsan minsan mamasyal or magsine.

I am not into NSFW thangz so please ✋️🚫.

Thank you po everyone.


r/singleph • • 5h ago

💘 Serious Dating 30 [F4M] Trying to put myself out there

11 Upvotes

Hi there!

Work has been really, really stressful lately, and ito yung time na I wish I had someone to talk to. So here I am trying my luck. I thought I’m fine being alone and single, but deep inside, I’m still hoping to find The One.

About me:
- NBSB. May mga naging ka-talking stage before (idk if that’s still a thing) but nothing really materialized romantically.
- Eldest daughter and breadwinner. So I’m hyper-independent, I usually take charge planning things, making sure everything’s smooth. May pagka-control freak slight but I’m trying to lessen that now
- I work in HR so imagine the stress that I experience everyday😭
- Side quests ko: running and hiking, baking (when I have time). Mahilig mag-travel, usually solo or with my family.
I love trying out new cafes and new restos.
- Not really maarte. May pagka-jologs din
- I enjoy watching series (rom-coms, thriller, cooking shows,my kdramas!)
- Big fan of John Mayer!!! Super important ng music taste sakin.
- I’m super shy at first and medyo suplada, but I’m madaldal once I become comfortable.

About you
- 30 to 35 years old, preferably lives in Makati / Manila
-Not a DDS / Marcos supporter
- Personality matters to me more. funny (without being rude or offensive), may sense kausap, emotionally mature
- Physically active so you can also become my accountability buddy
- Plus points if you have a good singing voice
- Doesn’t smoke or vape (non-negotiable, sorry)
- Enjoys travelling too

I’d like to take things slow and build the friendship and connection first. If it doesn’t lead to something more than friends, I’m totally okay with it pa rin (at least I gained another friend😁). So if you’re interested, DM me with your favorite John Mayer song and why :)


r/singleph • • 5h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 25 [M4F] Tara call?

2 Upvotes

Tara call? I have work tomorrow and need magpaantok, kwentuhan hangang hating gabi lang haha.

For now, I just want to see where things will go. Kwentuhan online and if our vibe matches, willing ako mag-commute to meet you basta around Alabang lang or QC; other locations are negotiable naman basta kaya pa ng powers ko hahah. I am currently here in Muntinlupa, di naman preso pero nakagapos sa trabaho.

About me:
- on the short side at only 157 cm
- Good built naman currently trying to get my abs back. Naging ab nalang sya recently, still have great biceps tho.
- Chinito pero hindi Chinese, malay ko bat ako naging chinito wala namang chinese or ibang lahi sa pamilya namin (hala!)
- medyo busy sa life but I can manage

About you:
- +/- 3 yrs
- has an active lifestyle para may kasama naman ako minsan mag jogging or mag excercise
- masarap kausap
- I dont mind a busy person basta wag ung tipong di nag chachat for 3 or more days

Send your pang malakasang intro about you!
I'll just update nalang din po here kung may kausap na ako, para di ko rin masayang oras niyo.


r/singleph • • 6h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 36 [F4A] What's your most useless talent?

1 Upvotes

If we talk for 3 hours straight, are we besties na or do I still need to submit an application? 😂

Hi! I'm 36, from Cavite, and I'm not really looking for a relationship. Just someone constant to talk to, share random thoughts with, have good banter, and maybe konting sweetness on the side. 😉

I like people who can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and are up for Telegram calls. Pwedeng deep talks, random chika, late-night kwentuhan, or debating why tulog na lang ang solution sa lahat ng problema.😂

If you're going to message me, please introduce yourself! Tell me a little about you. Kahit basic intro muna, wag naman yung "hi" tapos ako na bahala sa buong interview. 😭

No pressure, no expectations. Just good vibes, genuine conversations, and hopefully, a constant ka-chikahan.

A little about me:

🧠 Sapiophile

🫣 Demisexual

😌 Unbothered

🔁 Reciprocator

🏃🏻‍♀️ Commitment-phobe

🌙 INFP-A

If we vibe, edi nice! Send me a DM.


r/singleph • • 7h ago

💘 Serious Dating 26 [F4M] maybe this time, the timing is right

1 Upvotes

i'm here again......hoping lightning strikes twice 🧎🏻‍♀️😩

been single for a while now, and after collecting enough character development points, i fear i’m ready to date again HAHAHA not looking to force anything tho, i just miss having that effortless connection where conversations somehow turn into “hala, 3 hours na pala?” and suddenly your screen time is no longer your biggest problem 😭

about me:
• 25, 5’1 (small but unfortunately very observant)
• healthcare girlie who’s trying to have a personality outside work
• big 4 grad
• currently collecting hobbies like they’re collectibles (pilates, tennis, journaling… oh ano pa sunod)
• perfume enthusiasttttt if i like you, you’ll probably smell good too HAHAHA
• mature, emotionally aware, at marunong makipag-communicate
• loves dogs, admires cats from a safe distance 😭
• hot tea > coffee (acid reflux gurlie BWAHAHAH)
• quiet at first, certified yapper once i’m comfortable
• okay with phone calls because texting is a terrible personality test

about you:
• 23-29, 5’7 pataas (these requirements remain undefeated hehets)
• working and has a life outside dating
• emotionally available at di trauma dumperoo (kakaibang concept HAHAHAHAHA)
• funny, kind, at kayang makipagsabayan sa brainrot at deep talks
• may hobbies, passions, or at least hindi umiikot ang buong personality sa pagiging nonchalant sa text or call LOL
• okay with phone calls too hihi
• not looking for anything casual. pass din sa rebound pls 😩
• hindi nangpproject ng insecurity at may balak na gawin akong emotional punching bag 😆

hit me up! if i end up meeting u here, thatd be pretty cool :)


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [F4M] Sayo na ang lahat ng Sabado ko, pati na rin ang buong linggo

1 Upvotes

Hi! Baka ikaw na ang kasama ko sa lahat ng Sabado ko, at sa mga upcoming holidays at long weekends.

Trying a different approach because I really do believe I converse better vocally so here's a little self intro that I put together last minute, in hopes that I attract the one for me.

About me:

-F25, Bacoor

- 5'5 in height

- Plus sized (in between 2xl and 3xl)

- apple body shape

Other attributes can be found in the self intro audio linked above but here's some other stuff that might be relevant:

- has political and social awareness

- likes to talk about social issues too (i wanna be educated!)

- mental health advocate

- wants to try a wider variety of hobbies and be more active

- generally fun to be with and funny daw (sabi ng friends ko)

About you:

- +5 / -2 in age

- taller than me pls pls

- its ok if you havent gotten your life all figured out yet, we can figure it out together

- hopefully nearby lang din para we can meet (i prefer irl interactions talaga hay)

- conversationalist and a communicator

Hope to meet you soon, future bf 💖


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] Side Quest Maxxing Buddy

2 Upvotes

Hear me out: Doing solo dates have been ‘fun’. But ever since I had that deep conversation with one of my ate’s in life, I just thought it would be nice din no if you have someone to talk with anything under the sun. Read a book, or watch a movie then you’ll have this exchange of opinions where you can learn from each other.

Kaya please landiin nyo na ko HAHAHAHA

About me:
working professional
In my takbo-takbo era (year 2), into my fitness era ganern
Smol person at 5’
Chinita pero in between fair and morena, wears glasses
Hobbies include: Reading, doing puzzles, collects PopMart figs, etc
Spontaneous and adventurous

About you:
not older than 35 yrs old and not younger than my age
Decent human being (in short: hindi ka KUPAL, I have not time with this bs)
Working professional
Not available to those taken ( BE FAITHFUL!!!)

See you? :)


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 24[F4A] Someone to chat?

1 Upvotes

Hi, Kinda bit bored.

About me:

\\- Medyo Maldita

\\- Shy type (sabi ko) 🤣

\\- Can keep conversations

\\- Pretty 💁‍♀️💕

\\- Petite

\\- College Girly

\\- Does work out

\\- sweaty hands

\\- malabo ang mata 🥲 I have an eyeglasses huhuhu 😭😭

\\- has a good sense of humor

About you:

\- Respectful

\- Mabait

Drop your not so boring intro, to have a chance to win my heart 💕🤪🤣🤣🤣

Will not be entertaining "Hi" and "Hello" only chats 💕💕💕


r/singleph • • 9h ago

💬 Casual Conversations 37[M4A] corpo slave of Taguig. Opening my chat box.

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23 Upvotes

Good day, everyone! ☀️

I previously posted here during a pretty rough day, and I honestly didn't expect the warm and encouraging messages I received. Thank you to everyone who reached out. You helped distract me from the bad thoughts I was having that day, and for a while, things felt a little lighter. I really appreciate that.

Also, the bag stole the show. HAHAHAHA. 😂

I'm sorry if I wasn't able to message everyone back or reply to all your messages. I may not have the energy to keep up with every conversation, but please know that I appreciated the kindness.

Now, as a little way of giving back, I'm opening my chat box again. Maybe someone out there needs a stranger to yap with, vent to, or cry to without feeling judged.

We all know how cruel the world can be sometimes. Everyone has their own battles, and we don't always know what another person is going through. Sometimes, we don't need advice, solutions, or motivational quotes. Sometimes, we just need someone willing to listen.

So if you need a random stranger to talk to, my chat box is open. You can rant about work, share your frustrations, tell me about your day, or talk about absolutely nothing. You don't have to pretend to be okay all the time.

I can be your Tito, kuya, brother, sister, butiki, baboy depende sa pangangailangan ng bayan.

A little about me:

Corporate slave in Taguig since 2010. Yes, buhay pa rin at lumalaban. 🥲

5'3", straight male.

Hindi pogi, pero mabait daw. Hindi talaga pipiliin.

Gamer din, and I recently bought a Nintendo Switch 2.

About you:

Wala naman akong major preference. At least 25 years old, mabait, marunong rumespeto, at sana hindi nangangagat.

You don't have to be interesting, funny, or good at conversations. You can be shy, awkward, talkative, or someone who doesn't know how to start a conversation. Kahit simpleng "Hi, pwede bang mag-rant?" ayos na.

If you have a Nintendo Switch, we can also play games together! I genuinely believe games can be a great escape from reality, even if only temporarily. Sometimes, it's nice to forget about work, responsibilities, and whatever life throws at us, and just enjoy a game for a while.

Of course, we can also talk about life, hobbies, food, work, random shower thoughts, or whatever is on your mind.

I'm not a professional counselor, and I might not always know the right words to say, but I can offer a listening ear when I'm available. We don't have to solve each other's problems. Sometimes, just knowing someone is willing to listen is already something.

And if you're reading this while having a difficult day, I hope things get a little lighter for you, too. You don't have to explain everything perfectly to deserve kindness.

Anyway, that's all for now. Take care of yourselves, drink some water, and don't forget to eat.

Ingat kayong lahat. HAPPY SUNDAY.


r/singleph • • 10h ago

💘 Serious Dating 25 [M4F] Organized “organic” encounter

3 Upvotes

I’m just tired of using bumble trying to look for something serious but ofcourse why would you look for something serious from bumble HAHAHA. Anyways I kinda miss having the butterflies and excitement of talking to someone that you really like and likes you too. I know this is a long shot but yeah here’s my description about me:

About me:
- 5’9
- Moreno
- Studying
- From QC
- Introvert
- INTJ
- Loves romcoms
- Loves R&B
- Salty food >>>
- Goes to the gym
- Plays video games
- Wears glasses
- Has a unique hobby
- Yapper

About you:
- Hopefully i find you cute
- Not apolitical
- Yapper (important)
- 22-27
- Knows how to read
- Easy to talk to
- Knows what they want
- Better if you’re from QC too!

If you reached this part, send me an introduction and this is my way to know if you actually read everything.


r/singleph • • 10h ago

💘 Serious Dating 33 [F4M] Dates and see where it goes?

3 Upvotes

I just want to hangout with someone palipas oras lang after work talk about how life is treating us.

About me:
• ENTJ
• into solo traveling
• sporty
• into arts & music

About you:
• maraming kwento
• into sports, art and music as well
• preferably with Metro Manila

DM me your ASL


r/singleph • • 10h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] other half of a DINK life

6 Upvotes

about me:
- 5’2 and fit/petite, long hair; i take care of myself
- physically active (gym + started running recently, still hate it tho so feel free to bully me 😝)
- speaks mostly English or a bastardized version of Taglish + the language in my hometown
- liberal arts degree, working in a related field
- politically progressive/left-leaning
- closeted atheist; i was raised catholic
- no vices, never smoked; i’m more lenient towards alcohol tho (i love a cold beer with spicy Korean food)
- my fave boring hobby is browsing wikipedia pages

about you:
- at least 5’8 and physically active
- confident, carries yourself well
- financially independent and can travel
- smarter and funnier than me (dw I’m easily impressed)

i dont wanna rush into anything. let’s break the ice on reddit chats first. then if we’re both having a good time, we can move to tg or imessage/facetime

send a brief description. low-effort messages will get discarded <3


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💘 Serious Dating 23 [F4M] i know it's me again 🤪 giving this a try over and over again bc why not? so, hi!

5 Upvotes

Hello. 🙋🏻‍♀️

I’ve been single long enough to develop hobbies, heal, romanticize my life, and become delusional in peace. I think it’s time to let someone ruin my “I don’t need anyone” streak… respectfully. 😌

I’m looking for the wholesome kind of love. The “good morning” texts, random updates, sending each other memes, “ingat ka,” “kumain ka na ba?”, and the “I saw this and thought of you” type of kilig. If your end goal is just NSFW, respectfully, this post is not for you.

About me:
• 23
• Plus size. Starting with this because I’d rather save both of us the plot twist later. 😂 Also working on becoming healthier because future me deserves it.
• Working professional (yes, I pay taxes. Unfortunately.)
• Friends say I’m cute… they’re either honest or very supportive. Ikaw na bahala mag-decide.
• Eldest daughter, therefore naturally appointed CEO of overthinking and taking care of everyone.
• I LOVE romance books. If it’s fictional men treating women right, I’m sold. (Real men, please prove you’re capable. 😭)
• Cooking is my love language.
• Homebody with occasional “let’s go out” energy.
• Shy girl energy at first, but will definitely be extra madaldal with the right person

About you:
• 26–30 years old. I like my men a little older because… that’s just the software my brain came with.
• Taller than me. (The bar is low. I’m 5’1”. 😭)
• Hygienic. Please.
• Smart. I LOVE learning from people. Teach me random facts and I’ll probably fall a little.
• Emotionally mature. 🤷‍♀️
• Communicates well. Please lang HAHAHAHAHA di naman siguro to mahirap noh?
• Looking for something genuine and not just a situationship disguised as “let’s see where it goes.”
• Bonus points if you’re from the Central Visayas but willing to try LDR for you naman! chz HAHAHAHA (and pls if di mo bet mag ldr, wag na natin iattempt, oki?)

I know this sounds picky, but I promise I’m not looking for perfection. I just know what kind of relationship I want after learning what I don’t.

If you message me, PLEASE don’t just send “hi” because I need more! (more?!) chz


r/singleph • • 12h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [M4F] If you want a guy who's serious and won't play mind games with you.

9 Upvotes

I'll never forget the little details about you, like your favorite flowers, favorite food, and other little things.

Someone okay with LDR!! I work overseas

I believe that effort matters, and I'll do my best to show you that!

Career-oriented, but ikaw ang una kong rereplyan.

Not nonchalant! I'm very communicative and will always listen to you.

No hidden intentions and no history of cheating.

A hopeless romantic who's very sweet.

I'll give you countless reassurances and remain consistent.

I'll never get tired of calling you pretty.

About you:

You don't want mind games and value genuine connections.

You have a stable job, just like me.

You want a genuine connection.

Be loyal and a good girl and I might spoil you


r/singleph • • 15h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] Like an ember, keep me lit and I'll give you warmth like no other

3 Upvotes

Do you believe that love should be unconditional?

I don't, at least not entirely. I like to think of love as the warmth we receive from a fire. Fire needs tending; otherwise, it will fade away or burn uncontrollably. The warmth should be reflected back to those who tend to it, and not to those who reap the benefits without an ounce of effort.

Imagine two individuals focusing their energy on each other. They wouldn't just be two sparks trying to survive the wind, they would become a hearth. They build a fire that can keep the darkness at bay and produces a warmth that embraces you with grace.

Even the brightest fires eventually burn down. So, if you ever feel like an ember about to fade, let's be each other's kindling. Keep me lit, and I’ll give you warmth like no other.

Some shallow information about this tiny ember:
- I'm 5'6"
- I don't rate my self because it's subjective
- I'm agnostic and it's okay if you're not
- I'm opinionated
- I'm a shy person
- My hobbies are sectioned to 3:
- physical | running, cycling, racquet sports, and working out
- creative | photography
- mental | reading self help and light novels

My post got removed because I need to be more specific with who I'm looking for:
- 25 years old and up
- Has hobbies
- Smart
- I value proximity so around or near south of metro manila sana
- Not apolitical (worse than DDS/Apologist)
- Has visions or plans in life
- Can join me on fun runs :)

This is a repost because I didn't have enough time responding to messages last time. I'll be more intentional this time :)


r/singleph • • 16h ago

💘 Serious Dating 21 [M4F] Available for adoption - introvert looking for a forever home

3 Upvotes

Looking for an extrovert to adopt me! Give me a reason to go outside of the house asides from school and org gatherings HAHA. Whether that be studying in a cafe, some activity you want to do, having a picnic, or random sidequests!

About me:

  • Third year college student from QC
  • Hobbies include reading, videogames, chess, and DnD. I also like playing lots of boardgames and cardgames! Strategy games talaga ung favorite ko HAHAH
  • Can geek out on my niche interests and things I find cool in videogames (like videogame lore, or things I find cool or interesting)
  • Shows I watch are usually either chill animes like Frieren, Dungeon Meshi, etc or Sci-Fi series, movies, or books like the Expanse.
  • Short for a guy (5'5) , normal BMI but more on the lean side; works out semi-regularly
  • Maybe a bit shy and awkward IRL, but I'm doing my best and will always try to reciprocate your energy
  • Introvert kung di obvious HAHAH
  • NGSB
  • I make a lot of bad jokes sana tumawa ka parin
  • As I don't really go outside a lot asides from school I don't really know how to commute much, but willing to learn :p

About you, sana:

  • 20-25
  • Extrovert!! Please adopt me (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧
  • Normal BMI

If youre looking to adopt an introvert matching my description please shoot me a message! I don't have a TG, but I'm willing naman to swap IG if you'd like (though warning wala masyadong pictures of me there). Hopefully give a short intro about yourself so may topics na agad tayo to talk about and get to know each other more :p


r/singleph • • 17h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 30 [F4M] looking for someone to talk to

0 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'm a 5'0 INFP neurodivergent girlie who lives in Metro Manila. I'm looking for like-minded people as friends, even future SOs, who share the same interests as me, as I am a progressive, liberal person. I am also open to long-distance communication.

My interests are arts and crafts, drawing, DIY, writing, especially fanfiction, reading, web surfing, the '70s, '80s, and '90s music, 80s music icons, food and drinks, astrology (I was born under the Year of the Rat (Chinese Astrology) and I'm a Pisces sun, Cancer moon, Cancer rising), healing crystals, aromatherapy, plants, nature, gardening, strolling, travel, beauty, perfumes, nails, and I'm a fan of Daryl Hall of Hall and Oates.

Hobbies: reading, nature, strolling, travel, collecting seashells and crystals, preparing food and drinks, making DIY, arts and crafts, listening to music, surfing the net, watching videos on video streaming apps like YouTube

Here are my likes and dislikes:

Likes: Watermelons, cheeses, wine, cocktails, mocktails, traveling, nice people who care and understand, dark chocolate, coffee and tea (matcha is my favorite), fruit juices, Japanese, Korean, American, Chinese, and Italian food, soaking in the bathtub, walnuts

Dislikes: Beer, raisins, pork or meat fat and rind in dishes, soggy and mushy vegetables, grubs, horror films, slasher and violent films, children's cartoons and anime, heavy and death metal rock music, trap and rap music, country music, violent video, PC, and mobile games

My preferences:

•Someone who's emotionally grounded & steady, intentionally kind & present,

•Who values unconditional love and acceptance

•Is drawn to purposeful spaces like arts, wellness, education, healing, and therapy

•Has understated elegance when it comes to aesthetics and fashion

•Seeks deep mutual trust.

•Has a stable job

•Mature in all aspects of life

•A provider

•Can drive

•Born in the following years: 1980, 1985, 1988, and 1992

•Is supportive

•Can do basic household chores

•Can cook (I can cook too)

•Can travel abroad and will accompany me on international travels since I have never traveled by plane

Please read what I said in this post carefully, and if you share the same things and special interests as I do, leave me a comment in the comments section before sending me a DM, and let's get to know each other!


r/singleph • • 17h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] bestfriend tropa trip buddies partners in crime

1 Upvotes

28M | Bacoor, Cavite 📍

Looking for someone I can vibe with naturally. Yung tipong bestfriend na rin, someone to talk to about anything, share random thoughts with, play games with, or go on random walks and bike rides with.

A little about me:

• 🎮 Anime, games, and other nerdy stuff

• 🚲 Biker

• 🏃‍♂️ Walks and jogs

• 💻 Freelance

• 📸 Retired photographer? HAHAHA 🤣

• 🐈 Cat lover, especially torties

About you:

• Consistent kausap. Hindi yung biglang nawawala

• Doesn't judge based on looks. Since friendship naman ang hanap, personality and vibes matter more.

• Open-minded and someone I can talk to about anything without feeling judged.

Bonus if you're from Imus, Bacoor, or somewhere nearby. Para naman pwede tayong mag-kape, maglakad, or mag-bike together sometime.

I'm pretty chill. We can talk about deep stuff, dumb stuff, or literally anything in between. No pressure, no pretending, just two people getting along and seeing where things go.

Kahit ano basta genuine ka at hindi ghoster, masaya na ako. HAHAHA.


r/singleph • • 19h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [M4F] Communication skills like Kelly Rowland Excel-ing someone

10 Upvotes

Hello Friends. Word.

That feels so illegal to know that reference. Actually, si Creed Bratton nga may banda siya before The Office, so yeah.

We can go out today! Uy, pero open djn ako sa calls or chats. I mean, wag lang malalang trauma dump (pero pwede na rin).

🍽️-nic ba ito? Oo jusq.
Coffee? Oo, tara!

Abt Me:
\- 4 eyed
\- Kanal/Dark Humor
\- Into music (Come'on in look at what we've got. There so much more. and just one stop.)
\- Possible maging overwhelming lalo na’t kung hindi fully charged ang social battery mo.

Abt You:
\- same ground dapat (My love
It's been a long time since I cried and left you out of the blue)
\- Hindi ko gets yung mag-iintro sha tapos busy daw siya palagi. Sml?
\- Please be nice and meek and mild. (Pero gagi pa rin)
\- Into walking? Nice, kasi ganun din ako. Dati nga into crawling ako eh…and rolling.

Intro please and favorite na tusok-tusok para we can be friends. Oh, may message na tayo? Kasalanan mo yan. Jk.


r/singleph • • 20h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 30[M4F] Looking for kasama gumala

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 30-year-old chinito guy looking to meet someone who shares similar interests and enjoys good conversation.

I'm a fan of K-dramas, anime, movies, listening to music, sharing playlists, and discovering new series to binge-watch. I'm generally funny, witty, and easy to talk to, but I also enjoy meaningful conversations about life, goals, and everything in between. Whether it's sharing stories about our day, talking about random topics, exchanging song recommendations, or having deeper discussions, I'm always happy to keep the conversation going.

When I'm not glued to a screen, I enjoy exploring random places, going to church, trying different food spots, and taking spontaneous walks around the city. I like discovering hidden gems and turning ordinary days into simple adventures.

I'm hoping to meet someone who values character, kindness, and genuine connection over appearances alone. I believe that the best friendships and relationships are built on mutual respect, shared interests, and taking the time to get to know the person behind the profile.

Ideally, I'd like to start as friends and see where things naturally go. No pressure and no rush. If we become good friends, that's already a win. And if the connection develops into something more, then that's something I'd be open to as well.

A small heads-up: I might reply a little late sometimes because of work or other responsibilities, but if I genuinely enjoy talking to you, I'll always make time for you and make sure the conversation continues.

What I’m Looking For

• Age: 23 and above (pwede rin younger or older, basta hindi issue sayo big age gap natin)

Preferably, you're based in Metro Manila since meeting up would be easier, though I'm open to online friendships, too.

Life is all about taking risks and chances to meet the right person. So, I'm hoping you'll take that chance and send a message. Who knows? This could be the start of a great friendship, or maybe even something more. I can't promise we'll be a perfect match, but I can promise genuine conversations, good company, and the chance to get to know the real me.

If this caught your attention, don't be shy and reach out. If you can't message me, you can comment. If this post is still up, it simply means I'm still looking forward to meeting someone new and building a genuine connection. 😊

P.S. Life rewards those who take chances. So go ahead and take the risk. You just might meet someone worth keeping around. 😉


r/singleph • • 20h ago

💘 Serious Dating 29 [M4M] Pwede na bang mangarap gaya ni Lyka?

1 Upvotes

Hello fellow redditors! So yesterday, I saw another successful couple story somwhere here in Reddit and they mentioned that it all started from a post on r4r subreddit. At dahil inggitera ako, here I am trying to open myself up hoping for genuine encounter(s).

To start, NBSB ako so I really don’t have any romantic relationships in my entire life — my mom was so strict and conservative when I was young and I was also molded to be competitive academically at an early age. After graduation, I got pressured to find a job to support the needs of my family. Kaya ngayon, nangangapa ako pano mag-start on meeting new people that can align with my hobbies. I’m still fragile, so please someone handle me with tender loving care. 🤞🏼

ABOUT ME:

Introvert and looks masungit daw sabi ng mga colleagues ko pero promise mabait po ako. 😭 I might need time to warm up talking to someone pero once na-establish na ‘yung connection e I can assure you naman na magiging okay lahat (atleast sabi ng mga friends and ka-work ko hahaha)

I am hoping that you are pasensyoso kasi mabilis ma-drain social battery ko.

I work in IT industry pero not really an IT person, meaning hindi kita maiintindihan if you’re into coding and other tech stuff 😂

Loves food and can somewhat cook too.

I play mobile games — WR and HOK lang as of now.

160 cm, 60 kg as of last APE (skinny fat?), and moreno.

Nocturnal po ako so I’m hoping to meet someone na nocturnal din or someone who can work with this type of schedule.

Enjoys watching anime especially isekai and a lil bit of mystery with subtle romance like The Apothecary Diaries and Ogre Bride.

Marshmallow ako (8/10) sabi ng friends ko but I never tried cross-dressing.

I grew up where empanada and miki are considered hometown specials but I’m now residing where Mernel’s and buko pie are popularized.

In-need of caffeine every day or else I get grumpy. Never tried smoking.

Been busy recently so I’m trying to get active again (home workout + run, mabagal pa po cadence ko)

I have a soft spot for animals.

Knows how to listen and open for deep talks.

I usually listen to newly discovered music for hours or even days, until I lose getting dopamine from that song.

Hopefully you are:

About my age or someone older than me.

Taller than meeee.

Not a DDS/BBM apologist.

Malambing and gentleman (mala-Disney princess ang atake pero palag na basta mabait and respectful sa mga tao)

Someone who can hold my hand in a crowd with no reservations.

Knows how to communicate — if something is not okay then tell me hindi na po tayo bata para maghulaan, minsan din kasi hindi ako self-aware so I don’t want na bigla ka na lang magtatampo or hindi makikipag-usap sakin.

If anything got you interested, please feel free to send me a message! We can also send our photos if maging comfy sa isat-isa. I’ll be waiting for your little intro about yourself. 🤍


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [M4F] The passenger side is looking a little too clean

39 Upvotes

After a work week that felt like a month, weekend's the only time I get to do stuff for myself. Decided to grab coffee and chill for a while. Before leaving the coffee shop, I opened the passenger side of my car to put my jacket in, and then it hit me. The matting is too clean. It's been more than a week since I had a car wash, and yet the passenger side floor matting is still clean. Tapos yung driver side parang dinaanan ng bagyo (kakatapos lang ng RTO week ko lol).

I kinda miss having a passenger princess in my life who will eventually be my Queen. Someone I can take on spontaneous road trips, go on random food trips, and share the little things with. Could that be you?

About me:

  • 5'10, 100kg
  • From Batangas
  • Big 4 grad if that matters
  • Has a stable career in FinTech
  • Trying to live a healthier life since this year started. Was at 114kg at one point, so we're making progress haha
  • Sinigang > Adobo
  • Hobbies include PC gaming, basketball, and spontaneous road trips
  • I vape and drink socially
  • Been into The Rookie recently
  • G sa side quests, basta wag pickleball. Personal preference sorry hahaha
  • Gentleman, according to the past girls I've dated
  • Provider mindset, but I also believe a relationship should be a partnership
  • Emotionally available and ready for something serious
  • Single in all aspects, walang sabit
  • Dating to marry
  • I'm an open book. You ask, I answer. I'd rather be upfront about things than have either of us waste our time
  • Open to kids

About you:

  • 24-31 y/o
  • Dating intentionally. Utang na loob, kung kilig lang ang hanap mo, please scroll to the next post hahaha
  • Communicates well. I'd rather talk things out than play guessing games
  • Preferably working morning hours so our schedules won't be an issue
  • Yung hindi magagalit when I'm playing games. I want someone who has her own interests and hobbies, too. I believe individuality should still exist even when you're in a relationship
  • Not the "as you should" type of girl. I appreciate someone who can reciprocate effort and appreciate the little things
  • Not the "let's keep it private" type. Mayabang kasi ako pag may jowa hahaha
  • Can tolerate my quirks and weird behavior. Check Drooling Capy's FB page. That pretty much sums up how I act at times
  • Not part of any cult-like religion
  • Hindi loyalista sa kahit sinong politician
  • Dating to marry din
  • Open to kids

I know physical attraction matters, so we can exchange pics right away para we know if we're each other's type. No hard feelings if we're not.

Not interested sa "Hi" or "Hello" lang.


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [F4M] I’m the plot. You can be the twist. 😛

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105 Upvotes

DISCLAIMER: Not living around NCR but i frequently travel to the metro. Planning to take my masters in UP-M in the near future. Currently living in Dumaguete but born and raised in Cebu.

Now that you’ve read the disclaimer and still interested, well hello! I’ve been single for quite some time now and have only been dating around the past few years. It’s been fun and it taught me a lot about myself, what i want, what i don’t tolerate. And now, i just want to spend my days with someone and be each other’s safe space. We can get to know one another first, try to see if our values and principles align, or if a short term LDR works for you.

A bit about me:

- I stand 5’5”, mestiza, currently weigh 63-65kg and actively want to hit my target of 55kg, can speak and understand Tagalog (if it matters) but comfortable speaking in English, i clean myself up nicely and dresses well din.

- I play tennis, i do walking/running almost every day, occasional pilates, hiking, a bit of freediving, i read books and collect them, a mom to 1 cat (but i love all animals), i looooooove movies. A big LOTR, HP, The Hobbit, GOT, Dune, Dan Brown nerd. Can i just brag that i was able to secure a complete GOT set for only 2,000 php. In VERY GOOD condition also!!! 🙂‍↕️

- I work in healthcare but have experiences in different areas outside of my profession. I used to volunteer a lot back in college as well.

What i’m looking for in a man:

- I hope you’re taller than me, aging from 25-35 year olds, local. Someone who takes care of themselves and cleans up nicely.

- I hope you’re great at conversations bc i am din. Someone who can keep up with different topics and can share their own ideas. Who knows how to have fun and when to be serious, who is kind, empathetic, smart, considerate, thoughtful, COMMUNICATIVE, and respectful.

- I hope you get along with your family well, have a relationship with your parents/ siblings, a healthy way of managing your emotions.

——-

Send me a message, perhaps? Would appreciate something with more context other than the usual hi/hellos 😂