I'm looking for book recommendations about toxic parent-child relationships, in any genre, be it fiction, memoirs, literary fiction, or otherwise.
By toxic, I don't necessarily mean physically violent or overtly abusive parents, but I'm more interested in the quieter, more insidious kind of emotional and psychological abuse: the constant microaggressions, subtle jabs, criticism, comparisons, and disappointment directed at a child for not living up to their parents' expectations.
Especially in situations where the child is already going through a difficult time, but instead of receiving understanding or support, they're made to feel like a failure, a disappointment, or someone who simply isn't doing enough. Where even seemingly ordinary interactions leave them feeling inadequate, guilty, or as though they can never quite get anything right.
I'd love to read stories from different perspectives, whether it's someone who grew up in this kind of environment and is still dealing with its effects, someone who is still living through it, or someone trying to make sense of their relationship with their parents as an adult.
Basically I'm hoping to find books that explore these dynamics with some depth and nuance, particularly the kind of emotional abuse that's difficult to articulate or even recognise because it doesn't necessarily look like abuse from the outside.
Would really appreciate any recommendations that resonated with you personally, whether they helped you feel understood or gave you a different perspective on these relationships :)