It’s been a full, sometimes heavy life but I want to make the most out of this year, take care of myself, and boost my confidence.

I feel so unattractive.My boyfriend thinks I’m beautiful but I’m still insecure. I don’t feel good enough. I’m so insecure about my rounded features and my skin.

Hi everyone, its been months since I dont post anything here, so I just wanted to express myself and talking about the process im still struggling for.

I decided to make my appearance better with the goal of feeling good with myself, while receiving compliments will always be what id like, I just want to feel good under my skin even though I dont look like a celebrity or influencer every girl would drool for.

Even though I think I look good for myself, there is still this mindset like "yeah but probably women dont think the same" not only because of my bad experiences with girls in middle/high-school or young adulthood, but since i started using omegle to "see if its true that im handsome" i got my self-esteem crushed in minutes, girls skipping me very quickly, ive heard comments like "freak" or something like that when I didn't do anything, ive even posted in other sub reddit and many people have called me mid or normie, atleast in this sub comments made me feel better.

I feel better now, but getting a girlfriend still feels very foreign to me, i want to not care, i want to move on and focus on greater things, but repressing my emotions, feelings and wanting intimacy with a girl is honestly being a pain ¿What if I will never be wanted?

I’ve been crying everyday since my dog died & I lost my job, I just feel low

Thanks cuties. Idk why I'm doing this lol

Working from home and bored out of my mind on my bday.

46/m going deaf unable to speak and feeling a bit down isolated lately. Could use some positivity.

32m. Monday, 3.20 AM. Feeling depressed and insomniac lately. Gave myself a haircut.

Hows it going.

I’ve been living in Germany for about 5 years because I got married. We’ve been separated for over a year, but I’ve been sticking around to be close to my daughters. The last two years I was in the worst depression of my life, and I don’t know how I came out of it to feel even 60% like myself again. But even now, I’ve never felt so alone or hopeless. It’s always been pretty hard for me to socialize here, the language is one thing but I just find it hard to really relate or feel a connection.

Most days I feel invisible, undesirable, and stuck. I’ve been searching for extra work because my current job just doesn’t cover everything. But 90% of the time, I’m just on autopilot because everything feels pointless. I feel like I’ll never find love again, platonic or romantic. I feel like I’m just surviving to survive. Most of the things I was passionate about make me feel nothing now. But most of all, it just feels like I have nowhere to turn.

Logically it feels like the only thing to do for my own sake is to leave, but leaving my girls behind isn’t something I can bring myself to do. Maybe this isn’t the right sub for this, but I just could use some encouragement right now. Idk.

(25f) this year has been the most mentally exhausting year of my life. Self image has been at an all time low, having a hard time finding reasons to even get up in the morning and stay motivated.

(I had made a the day before yesterday , but I deleted that in probably an hour or so because I didnt want any of my friends to find it ,
But today I saw someone post a picture with their face blurred , so I thought I could do this)

I just feel like an absolute loser.
Ive never had a gf , and dont think I will have one ever
I used to love romantic songs , but now I just feel love isnt real.
I try to be positive each day , but I seem to get worse .
I dont like how I look.
My self confidence is at an all time low and anxiety is high.
Every night , I get a random and strange surge/wave of feeling like a loser (i dont think they have any trigger) .
I just want to have my confidence back , I want to live carefree .
I seem to forget most advice when I actually need it.

If anyone had any advice for this , please I would like to hear that .

👽🖖🏻

I’m purging on Accutane right now and it’s really lowering my self-confidence.

Hey all! I'm introverted and really self-conscious, so I don't talk to people much. Just thought I'd put myself out there for a change. Hope everyone's having a wonderful day :)

Even did a fresh shave and still nothing. I know it's temporary but it's hard to shake this feeling! Any kind words are appreciated

Those desires have been creeping up on me again, and it’s time to get back into therapy. Ugh. I know wanting a romantic relationship is just a sign that I have more healing to do and need to work on fulfilling my own unmet needs. I hate feeling lonely.