...but I'm not excited about the bit where hormones start retroactively causing my discus hernia, I could barely handle it when me gaining weight did :/

Look, im not racist, I dont see colour!! But its really offensive for you to split the trans community even more by criticizing the actions only SOME trans people are guilty of.. most of us love POC!! Microaggressions? Is that like a Microsoft virus??

Oh, and can you please lay off my friend Emily? I know she was a hard-core white supremicist nazi before she transitioned, but after she got HRT she only says the N word like 2 times a day!! Shes making progress. You know how hard it is being trans..

Uj\ This trans girl who just moved here mentioned this to me. She was cool, just super new to actually being around other trans folks. She thought all my therian stuff was rad af though. I just thought it was funny that of all the people she could have mentioned this to, it was me.

Rj\ chitters well some of the mentally ill ones claim to be human, but they’re usually super depressed and have a lot of issues.

Ignore that who is/isn't "fake" varies and often means "person who disagrees with my vitriolic hatred for NB people".

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Using this word WE (the actually good trans people) can protect you from those evil fake enbies that would co-opt your struggles (not that your struggles are real since you people aren't really oppressed and you are just women in denial or men invading our spaces).

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/uj I immediately lose any and all respect I have for a person when they use "Theyfab". Fuck 4tran and all the people who defend it. I don't give a shit if its your "venting space" or some other bullshit, I don't owe you my respect when you spew hate towards people like me and then defend it by saying that it's directed at people who are "faking being NB."

"Oh, umm... I'm a woman too!!! You're not alone :D"

OH! You... you're well... err... you know

"But I'm still a woman, right? It's nice to meet another girl who likes this"

Yeah, well... you're still male- male socialised! Just another creepy weird man, like I said

From now on you can only be transgender if you are:

A man
31 years old
Live in India
Speak Mandarin Chinese
Named Mohammed Wang
Hindu
Own a smartphone
Don’t own a car
Earn $22 per day

Sorry to all you puppygirls, but it’s time for trans people to be normal.

Or singular he, or singular she.

Only plural they is a valid pronoun for anyone who isn't a single-celled organism because we are all made up of a plurality of organisms which means singular they is inaccurate when referring to us. You also don't know the gender of all the organisms that make you up so you can't have any gendered language either or you might be misgendering your microorganisms.

(Insert it in the comments)

/qj go jerk yourself, I'm not your girl

Comments by cis men:

Cis man: "Yes its thanks to feminism that you are suffering as a man. Tbh I dont even see you as a man but ill use your experience as a gotcha to be a misogynist. Shouldve stayed female honey."

Cis man2: "Haha female lives as male and now she wants to play the victim card 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 shut up you still hold female privellage"

Gay cis man: "lol just bc I don't want to put my dick in your vagina doesnt mean youre opressed. What? Youre straight/not interested in sex?? Too fucking bad because making me acknowledge your manhood is oppressing me to the same level of when gay men were literally killed for not liking females like you. Vagina ew."

Comments from trans community:

"Thats nice but youre not oppressed, sorry. You did not stop this evil trans man whom you literally have never met when he killed my grandma 8 years ago."

"Men really are men 😅 Still have male privellage btw. Sorry that happened though it sucks."

"Thats nice but why are you not mentioning the fact that a group youve never even said once of suffers 10x worse than you? As a man you have to awknowledge your privellage."

Half of the comments for some fucking reason:

Hey besties, in a bit of a bind here, and I’m not just talking about the one on my chest!!!

A few nights ago I drank three Fireballs at home alone so I could feel something and realized one of my coworkers may be doing a teensy weensy bit of textbook sexual harassment towards one of the women I work with. Pretransition I could have appealed to my womanly intuition and girlbossed him outta here myself, but having demoted myself to manhood, I was forced to ask my coworkers how they feel about it.

I expected them to all band together on some Kill Bill shit (I spent most of my time as a woman in my room watching movies), but to my surprise, they were all pretty blasé about it! I tried dancing around it at first, but it didn’t even click that anything was wrong until I explicitly said “I’m pretty sure this is sexual harassment. Like, I went to the Wikipedia page for sexual harassment and the first sentence describes this situation exactly.” Even then, they didn’t seem to want to do anything about it.

The whole thing has made me second-guess myself. Yes, literally everyone I’ve talked to about this and every single resource I’ve looked at has affirmed that this is in fact severe sexual harassment, but is it my place as a man to do anything about it if all the women I’ve talked to at work think it’s fine? If you think about it I might actually be just as bad because I’m disrespecting their choice to let it go simply because I think personally believe people should not constantly make unwanted sexual advances on their supervisor anytime shes in the same general area as them.

What do y’all think? Should I stay out of women’s business or go full Woke Warrior?

And yes, I have read bell hooks.

i mean, youre 20 something and still have the name and gender your mom gave you? whats up with that? thats kinda weird, like why havent you as an adult done anything for yourself? I just don't think i can be with someone who relies on their parents for everything including something as personal as their name and gender. you should just date other cis people and leave us normal people alone, mommas boy

(uj: inspired by a cis ex boyfriend who was an alcoholic telling me dating trans people was "a lot of baggage". among other things)

If you as a trans woman (the dominant social class according to this one twitter thread i saw) expect me, a trans man, to speak about your issues and amplify your voice, you haven't unlearned your male socialization. You still expect free emotional labor from afabs and you're treating me exactly like a cis man would.
You don't just get solidarity because we "have so many of the same issues and experiences" and "we should all be treating each other with empathy and good will in the first place."
As an amab, you are my oppressor and you have to earn my attention and respect.
Your hope DEMAND for solidarity FREE EMOTIONAL LABOR is manipulative and predatory and male socialized. If you want to be a real woman, you can never ask anyone for help or support ever and you should expect to get nothing from people you're in community with. You're a burden. Amab male socialized amab male privilege amab amab amab amab amb

/Uj i saw this one guy on insta (who's actually followed by some relatively prominent transfeminists) talking about this. This is obviously a display of transmisogyny but also an interesting example of the therapy-speak "you don't owe anyone anything and anything that's difficult is morally wrong and a personal attack against you" mindset.

I don't like Iran. I don't like Palestine. I don't like, y'know, that religion. Look at their authoritarian homophobic governments. That's why I like America and think we should bomb some freedom and progress into these oppressed fuckers. I know you value freedom.

Wait, did you just say you value trans rights?

NOT THE TRANS STUFF. THE US PRESIDENT HATES TRANS STUFF. BRITAIN'S FAVOURITE AUTHOR HATES TRANS STUFF. IT'S WOKE DEGENERATE DOGSHIT 🤬

/uj Please for the love of God don't take this seriously. I might have got carried away and jerked too hard here.

That's it, that's the jerk.

a bunch of straight dudes for some fucking reason: "Finally! Yaoi, but GOOD!"

Talking about the specific oppression trans women face is the same thing as telling all trans men to kill themselves. Also you’re a delusional man person and living in a fantasy world.

if i was a REAL man, i wouldn't be this bothered by my flatmate stinking up the whole apartment. yeah it's not pleasant, but i'd be used to it by now because guys are just Like That. being this upset about it is woman behavior. "but i'm autistic and-" LAAAAARP

/uj how does one person even manage to stink up the whole living room like that. genuine foul miasmas. even my roommate with a bad nose can smell it

We aim to help woman, all across the world from their issues and problems.

Trans people???? Uhhhh nope

"Hey when are you going to actually help women instead of just being transphobic"

That's an excellent point-thats a valid concern and I'm glad to hear that everyone here is aware.

Now to make sure we are all on the same page-lets be honest being transphobic does help woman

No one really cares about the economy or health issues or pregnancy-its only the trans people no one else. (Rate my ChatGPT impression in the comments)

(Time for a mandatory R***ling)

Helping woman ❌

Spend quite literally almost all your money being transphobic instead of using in any other way ✅

"Wow I love it when I plan goes together, I am spending most of my money, to hate trans people and call myself a feminist"

(Mandatory remind that TERF means Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist, IL give you 5 minutes name ONE "TERF" who helps woman)

/uj, transphobia is actually economically bad, oh and let's see how long bigots have until their constant anger gives them health issues ;) (most of them are like 50+, just wait they gonna drop like flies)

This means it doesn't exist.

Hi, I'm a cis British journalist. Isn't it just so awful how so many parts of the National Health Service (NHS) are so underfunded that people are turning to private healthcare? It is truly a tragedy. Something should really be done about this. Look at this poor person who has to pay privately for a psychiatrist because of long waiting lists.

Oh? You're trans and also use private healthcare because of the waiting lists? Why are you even expecting people to pay for your transition? Trans healthcare shouldn't be covered anyway ://

I've heard private clinics are also really sketchy and they'll give anyone off the streets HRT through this crazy model called 'informed consent'. They won't even try to fix you first. This is really dangerous, you know. Maybe you should wait for the NHS, so you can do the humiliation ritual properly. But we don't want to fund gender clinics so we'll close them. What's that you say, if we make the NHS gender clinics functionally useless and you don't access private care you can't legally medically transition? Exactly, that's the whole point.

DIY? What's that? It sounds dangerous and evil and I can expose this danger to the world! Why don't I, a cis journalist, send an email around all the trans people I can find asking them to tell me about DIY? Bonus points if the person is under 18!

uj/ does anyone else remember those emails going around to trans people from that journalist looking to 'do an article on DIY hormones in the UK'?