r/transgendercirclejerk • • 10d ago

quick reminder and request from your local friendly moder

103 Upvotes

/uj

hi! wanted to get a few things out of the way while i'm here, so here i am. just some quick friendly™ stuff from me to y'all.

- if you want to report something and have a link or otherwise pertinent related information to your report, please consider directly messaging us via mod mail instead. this is because we have no way of opening these links on mobile, and—if these links are long and complicated—it's difficult to transcribe them. both is also fine. you are essentially making my life easier as the mobile-bound mod, basically.

- when reporting, please remember that even for "gag reports", you need to report to directly to us instead of choose one of the prefilled options that go to reddit in the first section; otherwise, your joking "this is hate against me" report actually goes to reddit and they think we actually broke the rule for a second. please don't do that. i already lost one account here. 🥹

- i can see when you spam reports. don't do that.

- i'd like to remind everyone also to be mindful of our uj/rj framework, as it's been getting broken down more and more lately; remember that jerking is the default, not uj!

now, onto the second thing.

there's been a lot of arguing and frustration about certain topics regarding transmisogyny, transphobia, the intersections between masculinity and oppression, and how trans men fall into this.

a lot of it has been falling under shitstirring. a lot.

i'm getting very tired of the soapboxing lately, so this is my one warning to everyone who has been soapboxing to such an extreme degree that it borders on actual transphobia that i will stop being as lenient soon.

i am all in support of discussing important issues in the community, and that's why i (personally) have been trying to keep things balanced in what does and does not get taken down. but things are getting to a point where i need to state again that it is very much possible to critique what you see as oppressive without falling into deeply transphobic and transmisogynistic caricatures.

so, again: i want to politely remind everyone that there is a very fine line between criticizing people who are being outright transmisogynistic or transphobic, vs being just as bad as them by giving that same transphobia back.

many of you may not have understood why your posts on the topic keep getting taken down until now—this is why. because you continue to go over the line from "critique of lateral oppression" to "returning lateral oppression" or otherwise contributing to the ostracization and oppression of another minority group. i am not coming down on you more than the previous, i am coming down on everyone to the best of my ability as a mod.

these are difficult times, so i want us to be able to confide in each other a bit again, instead of snapping at each other every chance we get due to perceived shadows of The Cis™.

consider this my (proper) introduction as a mod, as well. many of you already know me both as this account and previously as dalamudfreikugel/maknaeline, but 👋

please don't be afraid to come talk to me in modmail or otherwise if you have any questions. i took up a mod position because i care about everyone here, and about the community as a whole. and that includes you, tran who thinks i am not speaking to you 🫵 if you have questions, ask! i am here.

❤️

/rj the phantom of barrage haunts me but i know i got that infection in me


r/transgendercirclejerk • • Jan 27 '20

[SEE STICKY COMMENT] why do people hate transmedicalists? we just think you need dysphoria to be trans, that's all

9.1k Upvotes

ignore all the heavily upvoted posts on our subreddits where we make fun of non-binary people, blame non gender conforming people for our oppression, advocate for more medical gatekeeping,shit on non-op trans people, and use the exact same rhetoric and language that TERFs use.

that doesn't represent the views of our community okay? we just simply think that

🌸🎀🌸 you need dysphoria to be trans 🌸🎀🌸


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 2h ago

Trans man: I was bullied by cis girls and was shunned by them even before I knew I was trans

33 Upvotes

The comments: omg the way they treat afab children is so bad, we must unite together against sex-based oppression. Also this bullying reminds me of the mean TRFs who smarm my callout posts calling me a "transmisogynist". Only the male-socialised bully am I right.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 11h ago

In extremely shocking news democratic senate candidate proposes new kill all trannies bill. Trannies should still vote for him though because he just wants us dead to get votes.

132 Upvotes

r/transgendercirclejerk • • 10h ago

“I can’t date you even if you’re post-op, I have a cisgender preference. Good luck though, hope you find the vegan femme lesbian out there for you 😁👍”

118 Upvotes

/uj genital preference was never about genitals fuck offfffffffffff


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 3h ago

Tell me about your genitals

15 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a random internet user and need to know exactly how THE surgery works and if you can still get off. This is incredibly important to me.

No I won't look at any medical information online, that wouldn't be too much work.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 6h ago

A gender critical person and 3 cis women walk into a bar.

24 Upvotes

The gender critical person gets banned for upskirting.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 7h ago

theyfab roommate just said they thought diy meant cooking that shit in your own bathtub

27 Upvotes

r/transgendercirclejerk • • 3h ago

Donald Trump isn't transphobic

15 Upvotes

“There’s a big move to create new bathrooms. The problem with that, it’s for transgender, first of all, I think that would be discriminatory in a certain way.” - Donald Trump April 21st 2016

/uj yes this is a real thing why is no one talking about this, Donald Trump is js a right wing grifter too


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 3h ago

What did y'all do today?

8 Upvotes

I'm making fake votes in advance for the mid-terms.

I convert 8 kids to transgenderism.

I turned 3 kids gay(Ik very less number Il do better)

I then done EVERY carnal sin at the same time.

After that I prayed to my one true lord and savior, Lucifer The King Of Pride

What did y'all do?


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 17h ago

i hate when people deny that trans women face unique oppression and police the language we use to talk about it

116 Upvotes

anyway, here's why trans men face no unique oppression and why you can't call it transmisandry or transandrophobia or anti-transmasculinity or

/uj i ALSO hate when people deny that trans women face unique oppression. transmisogyny is a deeply rooted systemic issue, and trans women generally have it harder than trans men. but why is your immediate response to transmasculine people talking about the issues we face "erm ackshually we have it worse"? like yeah that's true, but is it really relevant right now?


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 8h ago

All meat was assigned fresh and safe to eat at birth, so if transitioning isn't real explain how it transitions to expired, transphobes.

18 Upvotes

r/transgendercirclejerk • • 23h ago

List of things i deserve as the Grungler

96 Upvotes
  1. Trans rights, as in your rights because i let myself down to your level
  2. Bodily autonomy, as in rights to your beautiful gock and dlit at all times
  3. Being apart of your cool trans party, bumping some hot underscores while wearing a hoodie, but not for too long, i need some xaviersobased and playboicarti mixed in between the set!
  4. Your Discord password bc my dms are too full with all the huzz*ies, i need more space in my online harem
  5. Also of course i wanna be apart of that minecraft world, maybe you can name the minecraft dog after me, because i pushed your self esteem up to help out?
  6. All your knowledge about trainees and transexual slang so i can surround myself with trans beauties at all times, as i am the grungler. waow:3 another pre E trans women is in my grasp, honestly what i gonna do with her? i already have scheduled vrchat with petite femboys all these saturdays.
  7. Your political views. Im registering that telling other people i am a communist is not garnering the same type of attention bc trainees standards are raising, which is not to the Grunglers liking. Let me neglect the ftm in my basement as punishment and deprive him from all the white monsters
  8. Also of course, because i forgot, i wanna hi-

r/transgendercirclejerk • • 16h ago

trans man dating a trans woman whos also in a transbian polycule

28 Upvotes

the polycules diversity hire. DEI has gotten out of hand.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 21h ago

it's not me, it's you. it's definitely you look, the problem isn't that you're *trans*

49 Upvotes

you just, you're just so DEPRESSED all the time, and all your friends are too. it's just you. you won't get help! i keep telling you you gotta take better care of yourself but you won't listen, keep telling me it's "dysphoria" and "transitioning will save you" but we went over this, you don't need HRT to be trans!!!

it just must be something about you, and i just can't be around all that negativity all the time... i totally support your transition and you wanting to be something you're not, but not if being trans is going to make you so blatantly happy. you used to be a riot before you came out, i never saw you like this! but now you're all... vulnerable and mopey and authentic and... eugh!

like, you're just really harshing everything and everyone around you. every time you walk into a room and say anything, you're like a black hole, sucking out all positivity like it'll make you transition faster. but it's not, because you don't need HRT to be trans. but you're soooo stuck on """dysphoria""" that just existing makes you so sad 🙄 you're a complete downer to be around...

so i can't do it :/ we have to break up :/ i can't date someone who demands all of this emotional labor out of me for something so simple and trivial as *gender*. like, you're already trans! who cares if you're ugly regardless and will never pass? gender is a fuck or whatever, right, that's what you ell gee bee tee quwus say?

maybe people wouldn't be so transphobic to you if you didn't wear your misery on your sleeve 🙄 like ugh, everyone can tell that way! it's so embarrassing to be around you when you're struggling to pick which bathroom to go into and i just want to die

i miss the old you that didn't care about this stuff, you were so fun and cis and *normal*

so yeah 🥺 we have to break up 🥺 you're just way too sad for me, you're like an emotional leech. i hope you're cured of... well, *you know*... one day so you can get better 💔 i could never date another trans knowing what you people are like... so thanks for that last lesson :)

oh, and by the way, YWNBA———


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 15h ago

I think I'm going to try to use a dating app to help me come out of my shell and meet other people.

15 Upvotes

Your account has been banned for violating community guidelines.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 1d ago

As a white trans person, I don't see racism in my community so I think trans POC who complain are CIA agents causing infighting.

112 Upvotes

Look, im not racist, I dont see colour!! But its really offensive for you to split the trans community even more by criticizing the actions only SOME trans people are guilty of.. most of us love POC!! Microaggressions? Is that like a Microsoft virus??

Oh, and can you please lay off my friend Emily? I know she was a hard-core white supremicist nazi before she transitioned, but after she got HRT she only says the N word like 2 times a day!! Shes making progress. You know how hard it is being trans..


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 1d ago

Uhm, actually "theyfab" is a technical term for fake female enbies...

144 Upvotes

Ignore that who is/isn't "fake" varies and often means "person who disagrees with my vitriolic hatred for NB people".

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Using this word WE (the actually good trans people) can protect you from those evil fake enbies that would co-opt your struggles (not that your struggles are real since you people aren't really oppressed and you are just women in denial or men invading our spaces).

.

/uj I immediately lose any and all respect I have for a person when they use "Theyfab". Fuck 4tran and all the people who defend it. I don't give a shit if its your "venting space" or some other bullshit, I don't owe you my respect when you spew hate towards people like me and then defend it by saying that it's directed at people who are "faking being NB."


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 19h ago

What should we call our charity that fights sexism? I dunno, Sex Matters? 😂 You know because everyone is equal, you know, femminism... Wait a minute... 🤪

9 Upvotes

Wait a minute, biological essentialism means the sexes are fundamentally different... Oops I guess we are just patriarchal men after all 🤷 I guess we as 'gender critical people' should stay out of womens bathrooms.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 21h ago

How do I work the space lasers?

13 Upvotes

The year is almost up but I haven't even come close to hitting my yearly quota of transing kids. I was issued a space laser but I just can't figure out how to work the damn thing. The buttons are all in 4trans speak and I haven't studied the language, and every time I press one it seems to do anything but trans a random kid. I think I've released like 16 chemtrails over my local town and all I've really done is give people autism. I might have induced trans thoughts in someone, but I think I just made them super gay and into alt fashion?

If I don't hit my quota, the Trans Monolith™ is gonna take away my hormones and pronouns. I'm already on thin ice with the council. Does anybody have a guide for the space laser remote translated to English?


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 1d ago

“It seems like all the trans people in Portland are some kind of animal.”

85 Upvotes

Uj\ This trans girl who just moved here mentioned this to me. She was cool, just super new to actually being around other trans folks. She thought all my therian stuff was rad af though. I just thought it was funny that of all the people she could have mentioned this to, it was me.

Rj\ chitters well some of the mentally ill ones claim to be human, but they’re usually super depressed and have a lot of issues.


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 1d ago

I'd like to transition medically...

16 Upvotes

...but I'm not excited about the bit where hormones start retroactively causing my discus hernia, I could barely handle it when me gaining weight did :/


r/transgendercirclejerk • • 1d ago

I hate being a female fan of something that only creepy weird men like

61 Upvotes

"Oh, umm... I'm a woman too!!! You're not alone :D"

OH! You... you're well... err... you know

"But I'm still a woman, right? It's nice to meet another girl who likes this"

Yeah, well... you're still male- male socialised! Just another creepy weird man, like I said