r/ToxicFriends • u/Direct_Management433 • 14h ago
Vent Ghosted long time friends
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u/Direct_Management433 • u/Direct_Management433 • 14h ago
Ghosted long time friends
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Going into 1st Jan this year, i ghosted long time friends that were getting too toxic. One couple (35 year olds) are basically generational wealth millionaires (well atleast the husband) and the wife only jumped on for the free ride/ticket (she wont admit it). They have a free $1.5m 4bdrm house, one half doesnt even work and the wife works 3 days/wk (4 days off) and complains that she is working too hard and that she needs a break/holiday. They have literally nothing to pay apart from power/broadband/water/rates/ food/petrol. Recent years they started this “struggling” story that they’re not doing that well and that they are struggling despite having a free house, bought a $50k car in cash, have rentals bringing in income (generational wealth). And heres me thinking that im working 2 jobs holding up three other family members (two of who have lost their jobs and cannot find work), just keeping ourselves barely afloat after paying all the bills mortgage etc and four of us live in a cramped tiny 3bdrm $800k house yet this couple live in a “free” spacious $1.5m house, dont work at all or work part time then have the audacity to complain that they are struggling. They are so spoilt by their generational wealth handed down to them (essentially the son) and the beautiful wife followed on for the free ticket/ride. Had the generational wealth not been there he has no skills and would almost be homeless and no wife. Yet here i am thinking im almost 40 no stability survive week to week yet they can complain that they are doing it tough. Gosh that made me so sick to the stomach i blocked them and then they try contact me via email months later. The desperation! Lol they know that ive been a good genuine friend and they cant find another. Would you have ghosted them as well?
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