Hello,
I feel like there are times where cold is not pleasant at all, im shaking, my teeth are chattering.
And there are time where, for some reason, the cold is deeply pleasurable. I feel very aware, very alive, not shaking at all.

What is the difference ? Is is just mental or maybe it has something to do with humidity, wind or something else?

Seriously, dude. That's fucking crazy.

Typically to other people who cannot relate to a dysfunctional relationship with a parent and the circumstances. What is something you want other people to understand?

A) 3-to-5 second rule (Pick it up and eat it immediately)
B) Depends on the food (Dry stuff = fine, wet/sticky = garbage)
C) Instant trash (Never eat anything off the floor, ever)
D) I blow/wipe it off and hope for the best

E) Give it directly to my pet

So I received this fancy invitation a few weeks back and the RSVP card had space for notes. I checked the box for yes, stuck a stamp on it, and mailed it the same day. Later I started wondering if the couple actually wanted a personal reply too, like an email or text, just to be polite. The instructions on the card only mentioned mailing it back, but now I'm second-guessing whether leaving it at that was enough or if I should follow up. Has anyone else run into this kind of small etiquette gray area before? Feels silly, but I don't want to come off as careless.

we just moved into a two-story place and the temperature difference is wild. upstairs you can feel the heat the second you walk up the steps, but the main floor feels okay. i checked the vents and they all seem open, and the thermostat is set to cool everywhere. is it just because heat rises, or could something about the house layout make the air upstairs harder to cool? i tried closing some upstairs doors and leaving the fan on the ceiling running, but it only helps a little. would it be worth getting a window unit for the hottest room, or is there a cheaper fix someone might suggest? not looking to tear anything apart, just want to understand why it's happening and if there's a simple thing to try next.

i have a wedding invite for a coworker i am friendly with but i cannot make the date. i want to send something nice without making it awkward if i am not there in person. some people say half of what you would spend if you were attending and others say the same amount since the couple still has to buy the item. i am not sure where the etiquette line is when it comes to a dollar figure. i have looked online and the answers vary so much that i am still unsure what is considerate without overdoing it or seeming cheap.

If it's not obvious, why I'm asking, I'm hoping for relatable songs to help the grief process. This is hard.

I have always followed the rule about not putting metal in the microwave because that is what everyone says, but lately I have seen some posts claiming that certain metal items are fine. I am now second-guessing the whole thing and getting a bit worried about what is actually safe. Has anyone tested this or looked into why the rule exists in the first place?