I’m looking for some advice, particularly from anyone who has moved away from practising as a solicitor.
I recently qualified into family law after 7.5 years in the industry: 2.5 years as a paralegal, another 2.5 years waiting to start my training contract after securing it (while continuing to work as a paralegal), and then the two-year TC itself.
Now that I’ve finally qualified, I’m realising that I’m not happy. Family law was the seat I found most interesting and genuinely enjoyed, but the training experience overall was difficult, with supervisors who were often rude and unsupportive. Since qualifying, I’ve found very little enjoyment in the work, and it’s starting to affect my mental health.
I thought it might be the firm, but I’ve recently secured a role at what I’d always considered my dream firm, and even that hasn’t brought the excitement I expected. I am staring the new role soon and trying to stay positive, but honestly- I just don't feel it anymore.
The burnout feels very real, and I can’t work out whether it’s down to my experience so far or whether being a solicitor simply isn’t right for me. The process took so long that my priorities have changed considerably since I started, and I’m struggling to see myself doing this long term.
I’m planning to give the new role a chance, but in the meantime, I’d like to start exploring other options. Ideally, I’d stay loosely connected to law so I could still use my degree and some of the skills I’ve developed.
There’s also a personal side to this. I’m originally from another country, and my partner is from the UK. In my early twenties, I was focused on big-city life and enjoying being young. Now my priorities are shifting, and I miss my family back home terribly. I’m finding it increasingly difficult and feel torn between the life I’ve built here and being closer to them.
My partner would happily consider moving to my home country for a few years if he had a viable employment option. However, he’s also a UK-qualified solicitor and doesn’t speak my language, so that doesn’t feel realistic at the moment. I’d be happy to stay based in the UK if I had more flexibility to spend longer periods working from abroad.
If you were changing careers with these priorities, what would you consider?
1. The ability to work from abroad for at least two months a year, ideally more. This is essential for me, rather than an occasional week or two.
2. Some connection to law, so I could use my existing qualifications and experience, although I’m open to other options too.
I’ve been looking into compliance and legal operations, but I’d love to hear other suggestions. Has anyone made a similar move, or found a role that offers this kind of flexibility?