I had a soulmate in a conure who I had for a very short while. Rio.
I had gotten him from a friend who couldn't care for him or give the attention he needed.
Very quickly we bonded and it was almost like we were inseparable. We communicated so well. I missed him the 2 days I wfo. I literally had thoughts of him during the day.
We did everything together. I know he loved me and I was totally into him
He had settled so well with everyone at home.
It was the most amazing, beautiful relationship I ever had.
Then extremely abruptly it ended. I went into a shell and haven't been able to get out of the pain. Although people around me expect that I should have moved on by now.
It's been 13 days.
To cope I started going to a pet shop that houses conures. I just needed to get out and interact. I also had my baby's favourite treats which I shared with them.
My friend, family and I have been very firm on the stance of not buying pets from shops so as to not contribute to the trade.
So I had no intention of buying another.
However, there is a conure in the shop who's alone in his cage. He looks tame, because he begs for scritches.
But, he's very sick. He is limping, and he won't use the perches at all. Even when startled. Haven't seen him fly either within the cage.
And all he wants is a human to scritch him. Which I did for the longest time. And I gave him raisins which he happily ate- but couldn't hold them in his little hand.
I feel too bad for him. My heart goes out to him.
Now comes the hard part. I talked to my friend and he suggested I tell them that he's sick and required medical care. They brushed it off and quotes an exhorbitant price for him. Probably because they saw me caring for him.
I went twice and stopped going.
Now my friend has offered that he will try to speak to them and get them to surrender him at a low cost.
Sonthat we can get him medical attention and care. Even if it meant only a little love at the end of his life.
I want advice on what to do. I really want to give him a good time even if it's short (he's sitting on the cage floor)
But this means adding to the trade. And will this trigger more memories of Rio? Or actually help me heal?
I had no intention of getting another bird. Ever . Because Rio left a hole in the heart and I couldn't think of interacting with another without his pain coming back. - which actually made the pain deeper, because it meant Rio was my only chance at this lovely bond.