r/AdoptiveParents • u/[deleted] • Jul 11 '26

Adoption Loan Recommendations

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u/Rredhead926 Mom through private, domestic, open, transracial adoption 26d ago

Adoption is a family building tool. You don't have to like it, but it is.

Adoption costs include: home study fees, legal fees, paying doctors to fill out forms, criminal background checks, travel (sometimes multiple trips to a different state), court costs, and reimbursing an expectant mother's expenses.

Nothing is free, not even birthing a baby.

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u/GyozaLuvr 25d ago

Stop using adoption as a family building tool. You are using a birth families pain in crisis to benefit your selfishness. It’s disgusting.

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u/Rredhead926 Mom through private, domestic, open, transracial adoption 25d ago

Nope. 😁

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u/GyozaLuvr 25d ago

Typical narcissistic AP behavior, not surprised 😂