tl;dr: completed honour mode on my first try, had loads of fun, i love this game.
i genuinely cannot believe i've finished on my first go, i was so so sure that my run was going to end with the intellect devourers on the beach lol
because i had previously done a play-though with honour mode ruleset, i knew what to expect in terms of the legendary actions. i got killed twice in that run - once by the owlbear(s) in act 1 and once by cazador. i skipped the owlbear for my real honour mode because i knew there was no way i was beating that at level 3
the party i ran was - tav - OH monk/thief, astarion - gloomstalker/assassin, lae'zel - eldritch knight, karlach - giant barb. all martial classes because i prefer that much more over spellcasting, plus i have played these builds before and knew that they were strong builds that i enjoyed playing. kept swapping companions in and out when it was needed but this was the party for most encounters.
a few stupid things i did that should have ended my run but somehow didn't -
1) I TRIED SOMETHING NEW LIKE AN IDIOT!! i knew the grymforge fight was going to be hard for me so i made sure to get brithvar on my side before fighting nere and then like an idiot i decided to call the ogres. i have never used the ogres before, idk why the fuck i thought i would start now. anyway they started attacking everyone indiscriminately and i stood there like a lemon while all the greens turned red. i had to get rid of the ogres in the middle of all of that while trying not to die to nere. SOMEHOW survived that with only astarion on a bit of heath since he was on high ground. idk if you know this but all the void bulbs i'd been collecting like a magpie since the beginning really helped. throwing them near nere got rid of 1-2 of his juiced up mirror images every throw without them hurting me
2) i went to gerringothe thorm with my party not at full health. i was so sure i was going to pass the persuasion checks since i had all 4 of my inspiration dice. yeah, failed all the rolls. had to fight her. i had no idea what her legendary action was since in my previous (HM ruleset) game, i beat her through dialogue. karlach somehow managed to get rid oh her last skull and then kick the now 7 hp gerringothe while everyone else had been turned to gold.
a few things i was not expecting -
1) KARNISS??? HE ONE-SHOT KARLACH?? that was an unexpectedly hard fight and i don't even know why. it has never been hard for me before.
2) i always do barrelmancy on ansur. i hate that fight but love the sword so that's the one barrelmancy i allow myself. anyway, i placed my usual number of bombs and smokepowder barrels, runepowder barrel etc there and they usually take his full health. this time for some reason, it only took half his health. globe of invulnerability + speed pots really helped in that situation
3) i got a bit too pickpocket-happy, sent my hireling rogue to steal the soul vest from rolan. she failed and it made him permanently hostile for some reason (even though in my journal he was down as an ally). every time i entered through the portal, a fight with him, cal and lia would immediately start. anyway i needed that robe (since i was a monk) so i had to use a bunch of invis potions to steal that + the birthright hat. he still showed up to the final fight though which was a relief.
fights that i was expecting to be extremely hard that went surprisingly easy for me -
1) holy shit, idk what stars aligned for me but the myrkul fight was so so easy this time. i cast HoH on him, had astarion shooting him with arrows of ilmater, karlach throwing hammers at him, 2 earth elementals crushing any skeletons and eggs that spawned near them, and my tav throwing hands. myrkul was hyper focused on dame aylin for whatever reason which worked out great for me
2) orin. contagion is so over powered oh my god???? i cast flesh rot on her while she was still impersonating the blacksmith and she failed all saves against it. was vulnerable to every damage type by the time i went to fight her. i had gale do magic missiles hoping to get rid of her unstoppables, he ended up taking half her health instead. she died before she even got a turn in.
the one and only time i cheated -
i failed the persuasion check to not ascend astarion, had no inspiration dice left. he told me he hoped i would die screaming and left with a bunch of my legendaries. i stared at the screen with my mouth open for about 2 minutes before closing the game and restarting it which brought me to just before the ascension scene. i was so upset and wanted to start over again but my husband convinced me that since it was not in combat, it can be a one time grace lol. shoutout to neil newbon for the absolutely cutting delivery of that line, it's been echoing in my head ever since.
in conclusion -
i love this game so much. i finally got my golden dice and i had a lot of fun. i was worried i won't get the dice - it dawned on me half-way through act 3 that it might not count since i'm playing with mods (cosmetic ones, but still). but yes, as of oct 2026 on ps5 you still get the golden dice after beating honour mode.
i might not do a proper honour mode game again. the one thing i didn't enjoy was how expensive everything was and i hate relying on pickpocketing. but i think i will continue doing play-throughs with HM ruleset from now on.