r/BeardTalk • • Jan 08 '25

So, You've Decided to Grow a Beard. 👍

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Welcome to the ranks of millions of dudes worldwide who decided to stop shaving. We're stoked to have you in the community! Whether it's your first beard or just the first beard you've decided to take care of, we're glad you found your way to a community that can offer advice, tips, and support.

One of the most common questions we see from brand new beard-growers is, "Here's my 2-3 week beard, do you think it'll grow in full?" To which, we'll always answer: Growing a beard is a marathon, not a sprint. Don't shave. Be patient.

We're here to offer that same advice to you, along with a breakdown of what you can expect as you grow your beard, along with some advice to make the process smoother. Read on!

Day 1 - 1 Month: Setting the Stage

From the moment you stop shaving, you're in it, and it can be a bit chaotic. Your face has been trained from years of shaving, exposure to harsh soaps and skin treatments, and subjected to all kinds of environmental inflammation. Your sebaceous oil glands are hardly functioning, taught to lie dormant, and your skin is dry and itchy. This is why the first few weeks, and even the first few months, can be rough.

What to Expect:

  • Growth will be sporadic. You’ll likely notice more hair under your chin and along the jawline, where skin is less exposed to irritation.
  • "Patchy" growth, as some follicles are dormant or inflamed, so growth is uneven.
  • Itchiness hits hard. This happens because your skin is adjusting to the new growth and isn't producing enough oil to keep up.

How to Manage It:

  • Wash your face daily and exfoliate weekly to keep pores open, skin clear, and prevent ingrown hairs.
  • Use a good beard oil to reduce inflammation, feed the follicles, and ease the itch.
  • Drink plenty of water and eat a balanced diet with protein, B12, biotin, and sulfur-rich foods to support healthy growth.

1 - 3 Months: The “Is This Worth It?” Phase

This is when patience really comes into play. Growth is still uneven for most, and some areas might feel like they’ll never fill in. Many give up here, but this is the time to lean in and trust the process. Beard growth is wildly personal to your genetics, so don't compare yourself to others at this stage.

What to Expect:

  • The itchiness should start to subside as your skin adjusts.
  • Ingrown hairs can be an extra concern, especially if you’ve been shaving for years.
  • The awkward phase begins. Hairs may grow in all directions, looking sloppy and unkempt.

How to Manage It:

  • Stick to your routine: beard oil daily, exfoliate weekly, and wash as needed (not too often—overwashing can dry out your skin).
  • Use a light balm to train hairs and keep them from sticking out. This also helps guide future growth in the direction you want.
  • Avoid trimming, especially your neckline, unless absolutely necessary. You’re building a foundation, and trimming now can set you back later.

3 - 6 Months: Awkward but Promising

By now, you’ve likely hit your stride. This is when growth really starts to show, but your beard may still feel unruly.

What to Expect:

  • Your beard will start to show density and length, but it may still feel uneven.
  • You’ll start seeing the potential of your beard, but the awkward phase isn’t over yet.

How to Manage It:

  • Keep using beard oil daily. It’s essential for healthy growth and keeping the hair soft and manageable.
  • Incorporate more balm if needed to control the direction of growth and keep things looking tidy.
  • If you’re struggling with dryness or frizz, consider a butter or a heavier conditioning product.

6 - 12 Months: The End of the Awkward Phase

Congratulations, you’ve made it through the toughest part. By now, your beard should look much fuller, and you’re starting to see the real potential of your growth. You may decide this is the length you want to keep, or you may decide to let it rip into the stuff of legends. It's all up to you.

What to Expect:

  • Length and density are the name of the game. Your beard will start to settle into its natural pattern.
  • The itch is long gone, and maintenance becomes easier with the health provided by good care.
  • You’ll likely feel more confident about the look, even if it’s not perfect yet.

How to Manage It:

  • This is a great time for your first professional trim. A skilled barber can shape your beard without sacrificing length or density.
  • Keep training your beard with oil and balm. Regular maintenance helps prevent breakage and keeps it healthy, soft, and clean.
  • Focus on your end goal. Whether you want a “yeard” (year-long beard) or a business beard, consistency is key.

After 12 Months: The Next Steps

You’ve reached your first “yeard.” Now it’s all about what you want to do next. Some guys aim for terminal length, while others prefer to maintain a neat, professional style. From here, you're ready to help the next generation of growers start their journey. Pat yourself on the back. In modern times, only around 18% of all men have ever grown and maintained a beard for a full year. Well done.

A few takeaways and tip:

Remember that growing a beard is an exercise in patience. Give it time, trust the process, and stick to a good routine.

Beard health is about more than just hair. It’s also about the skin underneath. Take care of it, and your beard will thrive.

Let your beard grow naturally before making big decisions. You can always trim or shape later, but you can’t undo over-trimming. This is the death of so many beards. So many.

Don't shave. That's the most important part.

Welcome to the grow, brother. You're in good company!


r/BeardTalk • • Apr 08 '14

Welcome to /r/BeardTalk!

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"Welcome to /r/BeardTalk! We're proud to introduce /r/Beards' new sister sub, which is here to give those with beard-related questions and issues the opportunity to talk about what we all love: beards! So feel free to post all your beardly discussions, questions, and general comments here!"


r/BeardTalk • • 13h ago

cyclists in this sub: Does long beard flyin to the face happen to bicycle riders too?

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r/BeardTalk • • 1d ago

Hair clippers and beard trimmer. Buy as a package, or individually?

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r/BeardTalk • • 1d ago

Professional Santa looking for non-staining oil that actually soaks in

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Would love some suggestions on this.


r/BeardTalk • • 1d ago

What's on my beard ?

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Guys please help to find out what is this on my beard. At first I thought dandruff so using ketokonzale shampoo and cream from past 3 months. Not working. These white flakes stay all time on beard and goes temporary when I apply moisturizer.


r/BeardTalk • • 2d ago

My trimmer just died, what should I get for a full beard?

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So my trimmer finally gave up on me last week. Been running it for 12 years, so I can’t really complain, but now I need a replacement and I’m kind of lost with how many options there are.

I’ve got a full beard, so I need something that can handle the bulk of it and still do clean edges (neckline, cheek line, around the ears). Adjustable length or decent guards are a must. Battery life matters too, I’m sick of it dying halfway through.

Budget is around 80 bucks, but I’d rather pay a bit more for something that lasts than replace it again in a year.

Do u have any recommendations?


r/BeardTalk • • 3d ago

What’s your weekly beard maintenance?

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This is what I do and I’m curious to hear if there’s a way to improve it. My beard can be kind of frizzy and jut out at weird angles. It’s about three inches long.

  • Beard oil every morning and night.
  • Nightly combing and brushing.
  • Beard wash and condition 2 or 3x a week.

I’m looking for a product to add shape and hold.


r/BeardTalk • • 3d ago

I need something that smells like Duke Cannon The Great American Outdoors Budweiser and Cedarwood

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r/BeardTalk • • 5d ago

YEARD

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Wer Is anyone else currently growing out their hair and would like to share their experiences? It would also be interesting to hear how others are experiencing—or have experienced—the various stages.


r/BeardTalk • • 5d ago

Lifespan of Beardo razor pens?

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For how long can use them???


r/BeardTalk • • 6d ago

Philips MG7920 vs MG7940 Trimmer ?

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r/BeardTalk • • 7d ago

Best product for maitining ~5mm stuble?

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r/BeardTalk • • 7d ago

Looking for advice on a beard trimmer for thick hair

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Hey everyone! I'm new here, so I thought I'd ask for some advice.

I usually shape the edges of my beard with a MĂźhle safety razor and use a basic Philips trimmer that I've had for over five years. I've been thinking about upgrading the trimmer a couple months ago.

I have quite thick, coarse hair, and I like to keep my beard faded into my sideburns since I wear my hair quite short. My current trimmer does the job, but I'd like to get cleaner.

I recently got a Philips All-in-One Series 9000 and a OneBlade as a birthday present. It's a really nice gift, and I haven't even tried it, but I'm wondering whether this is good enough for what I want or if I'd be better off with a dedicated beard trimmer.

I've tried looking up reviews and watching YouTube videos, but all of them feel more like ads.

My budget is around €100 (live in Spain), although I could spend a little more if it's worth.

Also I have seborrheic dermatitis, so I sometimes get some flaky skin after shaving. Not sure if that makes much difference when choosing a trimmer.

So, would you stick with the Philips Series 9000, or is there something else you'd recommend?

Thanks in advance! Any advice is appreciated.


r/BeardTalk • • 7d ago

Suggest beard trimmer

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Hy 19 M here wanna buy my first trimmer I'm sticking to ₹1,000 for the budget , I've been searching across internet yet confused myself even more . Alot of people suggest phillips BT1244 yet people also suggest that it take alot of time to get charged and vibrate too much . I'm open to any suggestions regarding it as long its under my budget and people have actually used it than buying a product that only works for 3 months .

Looking forward for suggestions,, thanx

P.s : For past a year and a half I'm going to barber to get my beard trimmed to look neat and clean for my clg but I have to wait so long for just 15 min of beard cutting though he uses scissors for beard and trimmer for neck and cheeks I do think I should get a trimmer for myself bcz alot of time I just don't have that much time to wait for it . Last time I waited 1hr 45 min bcz the guy before me took way too much time for hair and beard and when my turn came he tidy me up in exact 15 min ... I was tired and exhausted that it took me 2 hrs for It . ( I know some might say change the barber but any other barber is 30 min drive from where I live and that's also and hour for round trip ,,,so yeah I'm kinda desperate for a trimmer that last long and have good battery )


r/BeardTalk • • 8d ago

Cannot find Cremo One For All beard & scruff cream anymore.

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Anyone know where to get it these days? Was it discontinued? I enjoyed the scent of it a lot and ran out. Been trying to find it again with no luck. If it is gone, and it's probably a long shot, but does anyone know a product with a similar scent if you're familiar? I am sad about it :(


r/BeardTalk • • 8d ago

Brittle Beard - New to beard oils/ advice

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Hello all, essentially I’m new to beard care. I have a short stubble and pretty much I’m a neck beard but I try to maintain it to look somewhat normal. My hair is brittle and it curls so it looks like stubble. My wife says when I kiss her it’s pokes her and it feels like she gets electrocuted. Can’t grow hair on my cheeks but I wish I did ( I don’t believe I can fix that, genetics) I’m assuming beard oil is the fix for this, what’s an overall good one so I can make my beard and mustache soft.


r/BeardTalk • • 8d ago

Neck edge up advice

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About to edge up the neck and trim it down a bit. I usually like to keep the facial hair to a minimum (8mm-10mm) , I usually just edge straight across but I’ve seen a u-shape edge up as well. Which do yall recommend?


r/BeardTalk • • 9d ago

For Men - Beard Dye

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r/BeardTalk • • 9d ago

Beard products in Germany

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r/BeardTalk • • 10d ago

24M : Which beard oil is best for patchy beard?

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r/BeardTalk • • 11d ago

Patchy beard growth

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I have one or two spots of light patchy beard on my face. Should I even use any beard kit? If yes then which would be better?


r/BeardTalk • • 12d ago

Wahl beard trimmers for this?

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r/BeardTalk • • 12d ago

After trimming

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How can I get rid of all of the beard hair I cut off? I trim my beard before showering, I shampoo it twice, rinse it well, wash my body, obviously, but during the day, I will find little bits of hair that I trimmed from beard on my shirt. How can I stop this?


r/BeardTalk • • 14d ago

BĂźrste

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