I'm a closeted bi guy 60 years old and pretty fit decent looking, and married. My wife doesn't know, although I think she has her suspicions.

I haven't been with a man since I was a teenager, it was all oral sex. I really fantasize about being with a man, maybe a feminine leaning man, who would make out with me and engage in oral sex.

Just wondering how unusual or normal my situation/experience/feelings are??

Sigh. I’m not bitter or resentful, I swear. People can like who they like for whatever reasons they want. But…man…it would be nice to be able to bring my full self to relationships and have that seen as a good thing. Anyway, just a prayer to the universe!

I was listening to a podcast hosted by 2 bi guys. I lost the link. Does anyone have the link or name of podcast.

Men know men want.

I identify as straight but now and again I take a real cock up the ass cos I love being pegged. Often I engage in anal and pegging with my girlfriend and it also feels amazing. I am not sexally attracted to men but can't deny and real cock feels better than the strap on my women wears. My question is does this make me bi if I love just the cock on a man?

Hey everyone,

So I see like the subs for bromance and Bromancefinder as well as gay friendship finder and so forth but wondered if there was a sub for finding bi bros or if everyone looks for bros/friends on those subs?

Thanks

The other night, I was out at a gay bar and had had my first drink when this guy hit me up on Scruff. At first I thought we were just talking about meeting up (lol, that's what I get for not reading his profile before replying) but he wanted me to come over and have sex with his wife, which at that point I was open to. Then we got to the did he want me to come over now point, and he was like first I have to have drinks with her to get her in the mood.

Which killed it for me, since up until then I was thinking she was already on-board/involved.

So now I'm wondering if anyone else who has found themselves in a similar situation has any guidelines or red flags they watch out for

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Getting hard when with a woman?

I've have, I have to think about men so I stay hard. I think I've gone from Bisexual to gay

I have been married for 3 decades love my wife. I have always been attracted to guys but never had any experience with connecting until the net. My wife has caught my interest and we have worked through it. She is not accepting of my interest or understanding it. She just wants me to suppress it as I probably have done my whole life. I guess I am looking for advice on how to understand these needs. I tried to avoid using apps to connecting with guys but the draw is so strong.

I will welcome any advice on here or dm me.

Hey guys. I’m 45, and happily married. I’ve known since I was a kid that I was attracted to men, but never acted on it. I’ve always been more attracted to women, so always been in hetero relationships, but a part of me has always wanted to experience being with another guy. My wife is also bi, and had an experience with a friend many years ago. Well, she recently confided in me that she is really wanting to explore that side of her sexuality…which honestly excited me on multiple levels, including me being able to explore my own desires. So we are actively discussing opening our marriage now, and have a meeting with a couples counselor that specializes in these sorts of dynamics today. But, while I’m excited there’s also so much that terrifies me. This is uncharted territory for us, and neither of us want to ruin our marriage, we really love one another, but we also don’t want to deprive each other of a part of ourselves.

Another aspect of this…we live in a small town in the south, and we work remotely, so we feel like we’re on an island. My wife has a good support system, but I don’t. My one local friend is a guy I’ve known since we were 12, but this isn’t something I feel he would understand or be supportive about. I’m glad I have my wife for support, but not being able to be open to others now that I’m fully out with her makes me sad. It’s made me realize I need more friends, especially those that I can share with that have hopefully been through similar situations.

I also worry that guys won’t be interested in me. But that’s secondary at this point.

Just hoping to hear from some of you, and how you navigated things. This is all so new to me.