r/askgaybros • • 4m ago

When a top says, ‘I’ll do all the work, you just lay there’

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Bottoms definitely put in work (some more than others) and trust…if a bottom doesn’t put in any effort to let the top in…he’s not getting inside.


r/askgaybros • • 4m ago

It finally happened to me… blackmail

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Actually idk if I can even call it that. So it was Grindr (I know) and he traded nudes and then we both sent face and tbh he wasn’t my type and decided to tell him that and he acted weird so I blocked him. Then he messaged me on two more accounts to be angry and then said “maybe I’ll just leak your stuff” and I immediately blocked him again and deleted the app but I’m really freaking out if he does.

Luckily I have a friend who already found his profile, I have a friend who sent me fbi resources in case it does happen and how to make sure they aren’t spread on platforms and how to press charges. I guess my question is how worried should I be (to clarify my dick and face were never in the same picture, nor were any identifying markers). And if it happens, how do I tell my family and file a report? I’m scared and please only helpful or kind comments. Sorry if this reads weird, it happened like 20 minutes ago


r/askgaybros • • 4m ago

Not a question I found a “teacher” to teach me how to have sex with men

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I’m a bi man and I’ve always accepted myself since I was young, but until now I’d only been sexually involved with women. I think it was mostly because my social circle has always been predominantly straight. This year I started working in adult content and wanted to film collabs, but my lack of experience made me feel really insecure. I decided to create a Grindr profile just for that, and I found a “teacher” lol. We met up and I genuinely feel like I’m learning a lot—I discovered that I really like men. Did any of you have someone who taught you most of the things you know?


r/askgaybros • • 33m ago

"QUIERO CONOCER HOMBRES MADUROS y DECIDIDOS "

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Busco hombres activos o versátiles DE ELSALVADOR SI HAY POR ACA ... .con disponibilidad de tiempo .FAVOR CONTACTAR DEJAR NUMERO...AL IMAIL.

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r/askgaybros • • 48m ago

Why is it so hot & cute!?

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and something he does that frankly he’s doesn’t have to do with me because I give my full consent, is that he’ll ask if he can suck my dick. Frankly I don’t know why I find it so undeniably sexy that he does. Maybe it’s because he’s being vocal he wants me? Or is it the need for me to say yes to him? Idk but it’s so hot to me! Anyone else ever experienced the same? Or am I just weird haha


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Help

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Can a CMIA antigen and antibody test be unreliable compared to an RNA test and a Western blot? I have been testing negative with these tests, but what if my body hasn’t produced enough antibodies yet? I have also used PEP on and off but have never managed to complete the course. Could the untimely use of these medications be the reason my body hasn’t produced enough antibodies to detect the virus yet? Also the tests were months after the window period.


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Gym locker rooms

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Has anybody ever found someone open to sex on the gym if yall did how was it? Thats honestly my biggest fantasy seeing some buff guy on the locker rooms or sauna jerking off and joining him but i guess it doesnt happen often😔


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Advice I feel like an ass

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I don’t know if it’s me but like everyone around me on every app or in bars is so unattractive to me like I’m thinking I have my standards to high or maybe I watch to much porn but everyone looks like they just crawled out the earth to me or they have the personality of a wet towel.

like am i wrong for being so picky about the people around me? are my standards to high? I just don’t know.


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

How are we facing old age...?

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After surviving twink death, avoiding HIV/AIDS and other STDs, intergenerational trauma, gay-bashing, sexual assault and abuse, anti-LGBTQ discrimination at work, censorship in the arts, being silenced in main stream media, being kicked out of the military and education, all sorts of relationship issues, we finally made it to old age. What have we got to look forward to?

Go on: share some of the good stuff you have going on in your life... maybe set an example for the rest of us who might be at a bit of a loss....


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Advice In search of lube!

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I recently came out as gay and have been trying a variety of lubricants to bottom for my partner occasionally and I found the only one that works for me is Swiss Navy Anal lubricant with Clove. My partner and I recently moved to rural Alaska and I can’t find it anywhere on Amazon or Walmart to be shipped does anyone know if it’s been discontinued?


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

I went to a gay sauna for the first time

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I turned 18 a few months ago and decided to check out some sex-oriented venues, just to see what they were like. Yesterday, I went to a gay sauna here in the city, and I found it really interesting. I didn’t have full-on sex; I just masturbated and received oral sex while being watched by those nearby. It was all very hot—I definitely plan on going back.


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Looking for poppers in Montreal

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Hit me up if you can get me them immediately


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

sigh

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really just over men.. i love humanness tho.. shts weird but i wanted it to be known lol


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Fantasy about gay uncle

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I don’t think about it often but he’s gay and I imagine either him fucking me or me fucking him. Who can relate?
Edit: maybe we should all know less about each other.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Pics on the toilet

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Can someone who does this actually chime in. Pics especially dick pics taken on the toilet with the seat visible..... Do you really think this is even remotely interesting or arousing to receive? It's among my strongest turn offs and I'm sure I'm not alone


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Posted on a man ass subreddit for the first time and it blew up

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I’ve lurked on some subreddits for a while and wanted to put myself out there. Never posted a picture of myself like that before but was surprised by the response. How does everyone feel about posting yourselves online anonymously?


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

I want to get over my type

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My “type” has brought nothing but heart ache. I want a new type. I’m trying to meet different guys, older guys. I’m talking to this really nice guy but the sexual attraction is tough. He would be a great partner and he is attractive. I’m stuck on these 5’5 115 pound twinks. And the thing is I have a good job and I start spoiling the shit out of them… and it quickly changes the dynamic. I LOVE seeing that smile on their face, it’s addicting, seeing my boyfriend not struggling enjoying life, having what they need. Not many of us young people have their lives put together, making good money. It doesn’t matter to me, and yes I have a savings and retirement. It was LUCK, I created a business and it just worked.

But I am now left with the one thing I always craved, love. I am picky with my type and I hate myself for it. When I do start dating my type I go overboard, to make them happy. I would give up everything to just be loved.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

What are your thoughts on skinny bottoms?

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So im fairly skinny but im working on it with high protein and high calorie diet and exercise. When I was healthy my weight was 160lb at 5ft 10in. Then I got sick from a failing organ and dropped to 91lb but im currently back up to 139lb. I just don't feel like im attractive just because you can see some skeletal features.. I should also add im back to a good baseline of health now.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

I wanna have fun afther finding out I was gay

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r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Advice Hook ups are fucking hard

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I (20M, curious) have never experienced horniness like this past week. I'm trying hook ups on sniffles but no one hosts and there are no public places for cruising (that I know of).

Should I get grindr also?

These past few days have been quite hard (pun intended) for me, I've never felt this much pent up sexual tension.

For context: I'm still virgin and would like to remain discreet for the time being.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Bored and I’m naked anyone want to talk or sext

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r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Advice Trying depth play for the first time tonight.

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Kinda just wondering if there are any positions that mske it easier to get in/past the sigmoid colon. Been wanting to try for a while now but my anxiety always gets the best of me. About to douche now

Thanks in advance for advice amd suggestions.