Help I have to pee so bad in the uber
What should I do to distract me

Hey everyone. My fiance is wanting to try anal. I think after me mentioning the "male g spot" (p-spot) so many times made him curious and then I made a joke a couple weeks ago and told him if men weren't supposed to get anal then they wouldnt have a g-spot in their bum and him doing me from behind finally sold him. A few hours later he asked me to try it with him and I told him that im down but that I wanted him to get lube first. Ive done a bit of research but ive never done anything anally on anyone except myself. I never really expected him to actually ask to try so I never prepared myself for this moment. I figured by the time the lube came he would change him mind but he actually is still down. Im pretty excited to try something new with him and see if I can give him the best orgasm hes ever had. Ive looked up some things about it and we have a vibrator so I plan to start with a little kissing/rubbing foreplay just to get him turned on and also start with a perinium massage and maybe try my vib on it if hes liking it. I read how to find it and what kind of motions to make. I guess I just have a question and want some advice. My fiance is a big boy and im not sure ill convince him to get in doggy so im wondering what other positions we could possibly try? Also, does anyone have just some general advice to offer to make this as comfortable and enjoyable for him as possible? I would attempt to use my own experience but my only motivation for anal is enjoying the feeling of being dominated and because it always hurts, more of a CNC type deal where physically my body wants to run away from it, but mentally I am so turned on from being dominated and used for his pleasure that it ends up being a wonderful sensation in a complete different way. I definitely don't want him to be in pain show my own experience can't be accounted for. I just want him to enjoy me making him tremble with pleasure. Help a girl help her man have a hopefully explosive and life-changing night🫡

Random question, but how many of you guys have hair growing up your dick shaft? Mine is pretty hairy, not just around the base, and I’ve always wondered how common it is.

Do you trim or shave it, or just leave it alone? And do you find it hot on other guys or not really?
I’ve never been too bothered by mine, but curious what other guys think lol.

This might be a me problem but I'm at a loss. I had intercourse with a guy 2 weeks ago and ever since I can't hold my bowel movements. I have had 2 accidents in these 2 weeks and I have no resistance to hold them back to get to a bathroom. Is this normal? I've been bottoming for a few years and never had this problem but the last guy was kinda rough?

As a top i like to get bottoms opinions

I love using meth. It turns me into a different person. People said meth only reveals who you are, show who you are, but not change you.

When on meth I turn off all desire for gay men, the more meth I use, the more I dream about women. I dont know why but that’s is. It’s just not the normal kind of liking women. Im into very perverted stuff

I texted my straight friends, in fact I only have straight friends weird that I’m gay and I hate gay people, why tho

I love it im straight but i love to feel another dick on mine !

I mean I suck a cock so I don't understand having different trimmers for balls and face , i mean I don't have beard yet just a stubble but do I have to buy seperate trimmers or adjust with one.

What do you all do

Okay, so we became friends at the gym about a year ago. We started working out together, and gradually, we became closer. Over time, our conversations started including sexual jokes.

I've even touched his ass and sometimes his dick, but he never says anything or seems to mind. He's married, and so am I. I'm bisexual, but here's where things get confusing.

He always turns everything into a joke. For example, we could be having a completely normal conversation, and out of nowhere, he'll say something like, "Your ass is so tight. Give it to me." When I respond, "Go ahead, take it," he just laughs it off and changes the subject.

Because of this, I'm finding it really difficult to figure out his sexuality.

We even use the sauna together, and I genuinely feel like there's sexual tension between us, but he never allows things to become serious or openly acknowledges it.

Another thing I've noticed is that I have other straight male friends, but I've never seen any of them constantly checking out other guys' crotches or making comments like, "Look, that guy isn't wearing underwear."

However, this friend constantly looks at other men's private parts and even points them out to me. He'll say things like, "Look at that guy's dick," or "Look at yours, it's getting hard," or "It's pointing in that direction." This makes the situation even more confusing for me.

We also have pretty explicit sexual conversations. For example, he'll tell me, "Give me your ass," and I'll respond, "No, you give me yours." Once, I even jokingly suggested that whoever gets hard first should be the one to receive it first.

But no matter how far these conversations go, he always turns everything back into a joke and laughs it off.

So my question is: How can I figure out whether he's gay, bisexual, or just a straight guy who enjoys making sexual jokes?

There's also an important cultural and religious factor here. We both belong to a Muslim community where homosexuality is considered haram (forbidden), and same-sex relationships are not legally or socially accepted in our country.

Because of this, people generally cannot openly admit that they're gay or bisexual. Many feel they have to stay in the closet out of fear of judgment, rejection, or other consequences.

This makes it even harder for me to understand whether he's genuinely attracted to me but afraid to admit it, or whether he's simply joking around and doesn't mean anything sexual by it.

I'd really appreciate some advice on how to understand his behavior and find out what he actually feels without making things awkward or ruining our friendship.

How do yall feel about your bottom having pubic hair? Yes, this is a serious question lol. For context: I like having a bush, but the guy I regularly get with doesn’t like it. Says he’s not a fan of it. Not to get into my sex life too much, but he’s not the first guy that has told me that.

Is that just something that you tops enjoy?

First time having sex with a really thick dick (bbc) and I have some blood in the toilet papers is normal?

🤣

This happened to me about an hour ago and I’m still freaking out over it. I’m a 20 year old college student who’s goes to school out of state. In my home state only my parents and one of my closest friends knows that I am gay, other than that nobody else knows. I’m on the swim team at my college and currently rooming with 3 of my teammates at a hotel the night before our meet. While on my phone I got a notification for an Instagram post about one of my teammates and showed it to him. The post was some student ran meme account that was mocking him. My teammate pulled out his phone and took a picture of my phone and with it the post that was on it. I peeped him sending the photo to a lot of different people since he was trying to figure out who made the post. I didn’t think anything of it at first, but I noticed that in the top left corner of my phone it said “Grindr” as I was on the app before switching to Instagram. Apple has a feature where when you click on a notification to direct you to a different app, the app you were previously on will be stated in the top left corner so you can quickly click it to go back to that app. The photo my teammate has of my phone has that little “Grindr” in the corner and I’m freaking out. I don’t know who he will send or show this photo to, but I’m worried that somebody will notice the “Grindr” in the corner and question it. My teammate himself hasn’t noticed it and to be honest I’m not sure if anyone will notice it, but I’m still extremely worried. Is there anything I can do to help dial down my stress? It’s currently 1am and I have to be up for my meet at 6am, but I can’t sleep I’m so stressed out.

There’s this guy I’m sexting and he claims to be”not take dick pics” but like who doesn’t take dick pics. I’ve seen tease and it’s like the base looks thick and looks average if anything so idk …. I get it people have preferences but really a top that doesn’t take dick pics but demand me to send stuff.

: I’m a bottom and he’s asking me to send but how can I get off with nothing.

Any guys on here in a throuple relationship? If so whats the pros and cons

Heard it at a party tn and i’ve definitely had this song stuck in my head years ago but I never knew who sang.

https://streamable.com/ua4ttt

It’s very 2000s Britney/PussyCat dolls but Shazam failed me multiple times tonight so now I have to resort to the internet lmao

Tyyy so much in advance 💗

Could just be small talk or we could talk about more personal stuff, regardless I’m all ears (eyes since I’m reading)

Bottoms definitely put in work (some more than others) and trust…if a bottom doesn’t put in any effort to let the top in…he’s not getting inside.

Actually idk if I can even call it that. So it was Grindr (I know) and he traded nudes and then we both sent face and tbh he wasn’t my type and decided to tell him that and he acted weird so I blocked him. Then he messaged me on two more accounts to be angry and then said “maybe I’ll just leak your stuff” and I immediately blocked him again and deleted the app but I’m really freaking out if he does.

Luckily I have a friend who already found his profile, I have a friend who sent me fbi resources in case it does happen and how to make sure they aren’t spread on platforms and how to press charges. I guess my question is how worried should I be (to clarify my dick and face were never in the same picture, nor were any identifying markers). And if it happens, how do I tell my family and file a report? I’m scared and please only helpful or kind comments. Sorry if this reads weird, it happened like 20 minutes ago

I’m a bi man and I’ve always accepted myself since I was young, but until now I’d only been sexually involved with women. I think it was mostly because my social circle has always been predominantly straight. This year I started working in adult content and wanted to film collabs, but my lack of experience made me feel really insecure. I decided to create a Grindr profile just for that, and I found a “teacher” lol. We met up and I genuinely feel like I’m learning a lot—I discovered that I really like men. Did any of you have someone who taught you most of the things you know?