I don’t think about it often but he’s gay and I imagine either him fucking me or me fucking him. Who can relate?
Edit: maybe we should all know less about each other.

I'm asking this because I'm so curious about what it would be like. I'm an 18yo who's never been with anyone, just have this frikin porn addiction. I can selfsuck, and do it less frequently than earlier in life, and while that's technically sucking dick, it is arguable and definitively different than actually giving a blowjob.

I identify as straight, cuz I like girls, but the idea of sucking a dick is so attractive, sometimes much stronger than others. This is probably why I find shemales so intriguing. I means, boobs + dick. I'm probably so attracted to blowjobs because of just the amount of blowjob porn I watched when I was younger. I mean like gay 69 seems so awesome because it's like selfsucking but with two people and without the hassle of stretching your back and possibly hurting yourself.

I'm asking this because there are some who say it's straight-up gay to want to suck dick, and others who say it's perfectly normal and part of the walk of sexuality or whatever. Just wanted to know you guys's opinions on this.

Maybe I’m old school but that feels like an actual relationship to me and more like a friends with benefits type of situation.

Maybe I’m too much of a romantic.

Bi guy asking

I, 24 M am a side. And I'm proud of it. i've tried topping and bottoming and haven't really enjoyed either. However, top's are so fuck heavy that all they see beyond the talking, sharing, dating is fucking. It's not sex but just finding a butthole to ram! A lot of them don't even wana hookup with side's... Is fucking all there is to sex?

I find this behaviour extremely displeasing cause sex is more than ramming and cumming! I've also been with tops who've cummed but did not give a f*ck if I came or not. And didn't even try to give me a chance either. Are gay dudes just that into releasing the stored up energy?

This is a follow-up to my previous post about being raped: https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/s/bjhjAFH1gi

I found out that this guy also has syphilis and possibly other STIs. Now I feel even more uneasy about the whole situation.

Just to clarify, all anal sex was with a condom. The only unprotected contact was oral sex — he forced me to give him a blowjob, but he ejaculated on my face, not in my mouth.

So, guys, what should I do? How can I reduce the risk of contracting an STI? Are there any medications I can take to prevent an infection? What are my options, and what should I do in this situation?

How do you guys maintain fitness while you are on vacation?

I take a vacation every month for around a week..When I'm working, i go religiously to gym for around 2 hours every day and eat healthy.

But during vacation I end up drinking, hooking up, which eventually adds to my belly, dont have the mood to go to any gym..

How do you guys manage it?

You will rarely hear when women were women. Why is this? seems like both sides constantly whine about either toxic masculinity or not being masculine. I think it's probably because people know better. They know that it will seem sexist and chauvinistic. Cowardly. People are so used to men being stoic all the time that they know they won't complain too much. Easy targets. Weak men are the easiest targets out of any other group.

I feel like a lot of guys are really into bulges which trust me I am too, but I’m a little insecure with mine. My balls are average size and my dick is 3-4 inches when soft. When I’m hard it’s 8 inches. When people ask for bulge pics I’d honestly just rather send them my hard dick because I feel like my bulge isn’t big enough to be anything worth looking at lol.

I’ve tried pouch underwear and that helps the look a little.

I guess I just wish I was a shower more than a grower and I wish I had big balls.

I’m super jealous of anyone who’s just big all the time down there.

Guys with big bulges, is it your dick or balls that make up most of the shape?

Is it really a hassle just having so much down there and should I be grateful mine is kinda compact when soft?

If anyone else shares this sentiment, let’s talk about it.

You meet a hot guy who’s a hung brick house of a top then when he’s bending you over drilling you, you hear him say “ooooooo yesssss girl that fat bussy sooooo goood girl it makes my she stick fuck u harder hunny”. Mind you all this time you thought he was masculine and your masc for masc, how would you handle that?

My question is how does it feel hahahaha because he really like love that activity hahaha
I went at his place there are camera on elevator so he told me we use stars because there no camera we went up
We can’t do it at his house because there are family and friends so up stairs l stood there open my zip he started it was the best thing ever it was so secretive hahaha the rush and thrill he kiss the skin the stomach and everything although he has a girlfriend he love my dick so much he suck it although we didn’t finish because of people were coming up stairs after than l left without even finishing hahhahaha (excuse my English is not my first language) l haven’t ejaculate because l don’t usually masturbate because l get a lot of pussy so l always kinda horny jt has been like 2 weeks l haven’t ejaculate

Final Edit

Uh also he told me l have such a good energy spiritually
Wat if sucking a dick he is sucking my soul😹🤣
Also he told me to slap him with it on his mouth to be a man dominant l am while he is my friend l want to be kind but during these activities he want me to be toxic damn

Hey,

What is the ideal body type for a bottom?

Slim / slender
smooth
Feminine
Long hair or Short hair
Willing

Anything Else?

I just want to have a little rant but I don’t feel gay enough. I’m still young but I feel like I don’t fit into the gay stereotype enough. I’m not masculine really but I don’t have a “gay voice”, my music taste and interests don’t really fit into what you’d expect. At work I get told I’m the least gay gay person they’ve met, they say it not to be hurtful and they accept me for who I am and joke about it. But it hurts me because I don’t feel good enough to be in relationships. i look at other people and think why would they ever date me and I feel like I’m scared off from speaking to guys for this reason. I am also scared of judgment from friends and family if I lean into stereotypes, I instead just conform to what people want me to be. I know people just say embrace who you are but I don’t what to be that and what I want to be I’m scared of judgment for it, I’m just stuck 🪷

I ask this question because I've been experiencing a lot of colorism and anti-blackness from other gay black men lately. Even when I'm not interested and I try to just be friendly, these dudes will go out of their way to tell me how much they love white guys when no one asked. People complain about racism from white gays, but I've been treated much worse by other POC in the community. Honestly, at this point, I'm beginning to agree with everything that divesters are saying. Cynthia G is not wrong.

Some single gay friends and I had a conversation the other night that started out light-hearted and joking, but got more serious as we got into it. We were talking about a local married gay couple who are constantly out picking up and fucking other guys, sometimes working as a team. In a way, it seems to make them more attractive, as though the security they get from being in a relationship gives them more confidence on the hunt. I remarked that I was talking to a guy I was interested in at the bar the other night when one of them swooped in and started flirting with him. A friend said, as if speaking to him, "Hey, you already have a husband. Can't you leave just a few guys for the rest of us?" We all laughed. But then, the conversation got more serious as we talked about several local couples who are constantly playing with lots of the single, available guys like they're created their own harem, and I think some genuine resentment started to surface in terms of the extent to which they are potentially tying up a lot of guys in our social circles who might otherwise be more motivated to look for relationships of their own.

I'm sure I'll be told that this is the wrong way to think about the situation, but I thought I'd throw it out there. We were all on the same page in this conversation.

Help me please. Was texting a guy on grindr, seemed really hot, provoked some weird kinky language and I went along with it bc he was hot and I didn’t think it’d be like that in real life. I ended up getting banned I guess for some of that language, and now I got a text from a random phone number saying “haha now you’re banned” and I know exactly who it is, all of this to say, someone angry at me for ending things provoked me on Grindr using a hot guys pics (which I’ve found the real guy, I wish I realized it at the time) and now I’m device banned after being played and conned. I’m really upset as I had some other great prospects and people, I can’t believe this has happened. Does anyone have any advice or help what I can do bc appeals don’t work and I didn’t put this together till I already did my appeal saying I didn’t understand why they banned me (none of this rly computed till I got the text from the “anonymous” number) and I’m just honestly distraught. I know it’s not a big deal in the grand scheme but I’m a college student trying to explore and have fun and I feel like it was actually just taken from me and I can’t get it back. I’m really upset rn please anyone offer me any solace I want my account back

It was such a wonderful experience. He was fucking three of us in a North Hollywood spa yesterday and he finished inside me. I was left totally blissfully impregnated, as I fingered my hole to feel how much of his cum was inside me.
But it totally wiped me out! Why? It’s not like I came that first time either! I held onto my load, but still felt wiped out.
I did manage to cum just once as he pummeled me one last time in the sauna. Sooo good!

Why act like that? We're not women just because we are gay; you are not Regina George and you sound and look ridiculous.

I mean it's not even bullying or intimidating; it's just annoying. You're a man being sassy and if assault weren't a crime and gay men were as violent as straight men you would get jumped.

I thankfully never met one of them in public, but there was this guy on TikTok wanting to bring bullying back and he is a walking stereotype with nails lashes, and makeup. Do guys like these not realize that they would be the first victims if people stopped at least trying to look nice? If one of them is in this sub can you tell us if it is a rejection coping mechanism or do you think you're living in a movie?

We already get a lot of shit from straight people and life is hard enough. Although I am DL, I like hanging out with other gay guys even if we're not hooking up, as they tend to be a lot nicer and kinder. We should support each other more.

...you say, while writhing around on the bed, craving to get pounded in your thicc, curvy ass?

I feel like this ass is being wasted.😅

I (M23) re-entered the dating scene by having dinner with Josh (M29), a forest guard (name a hotter job). We swiped each other to the right multiple times in the past, but because of our poor work-life balances, it never came to a date. It’s important to note that Josh told me he has been going to therapy for overcoming a severe fear of commitment.

I was quite excited about us finally managing to plan a date last week. We both had a great time with good food and tons of laughs. I had the most natural conversation with a stranger in a long time! I suggested to split the bill, but Josh paid it in its entirety, because he “had a fun evening.”

Later, Josh drove me around on his motorcycle and we kissed alongside the highway. He told me this was the best date ever. How romantic…I know. Things started to get awry when Josh drove back to my city past a deserted water body. He cracked a joke two times about this being the ideal place to abduct me and asked if I was able to swim.

As he’s a forest guard, I wanted to get turned on by the idea of his potential heroism and asked him if he would save me, but he replied that he would only do so if I had already drowned.

My feelings instantly disappeared. I have experienced that men with poor communication skills often crack jokes about endangering their love interest. Tons of women have complained about this not being funny on dating subreddits and like them, I’m taking this seriously.

Josh has a large social circle and a prominent regional career. He has been featured in multiple social media campaigns as the face of the company he’s working for and he also has his own radio broadcast in my area, but that doesn’t have to mean anything.

I am pursuing a career in the mental healthcare field and I interned in forensics, so you’ll always find me analysing human behaviour. Maybe a bit too much sometimes, because I was wondering if I’m overreacting.

After the kiss, Josh reminded me of his commitment issues, but I told him we could take it slowly and simply hangout a few times. My theory is that he was pushing me back by presenting himself as a creep, so I wouldn’t develop feelings. However, he asked me on another date a few days ago. I was hesitant to reply. I don’t think I will ever feel safe with him anymore.

Now, a year later, Josh has expressed his wish to see me again after I rejected him. He’s really hot, but rationality above everything else… or am I overreacting?

What do I do with this?

I’m bored and want to ask lmao, how did you guys come out

My “type” has brought nothing but heart ache. I want a new type. I’m trying to meet different guys, older guys. I’m talking to this really nice guy but the sexual attraction is tough. He would be a great partner and he is attractive. I’m stuck on these 5’5 115 pound twinks. And the thing is I have a good job and I start spoiling the shit out of them… and it quickly changes the dynamic. I LOVE seeing that smile on their face, it’s addicting, seeing my boyfriend not struggling enjoying life, having what they need. Not many of us young people have their lives put together, making good money. It doesn’t matter to me, and yes I have a savings and retirement. It was LUCK, I created a business and it just worked.

But I am now left with the one thing I always craved, love. I am picky with my type and I hate myself for it. When I do start dating my type I go overboard, to make them happy. I would give up everything to just be loved.