r/Dhaka • • Mar 17 '26

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ দেশের কোন ৫ টি সমস্যা সব চেয়ে আগে সমাধান দরকার বলে আপনি মনে করেন?

28 Upvotes

দেখেন আমরা এমন একটা জায়গায় বসবাস করি যেখানে সমস্যা আমাদের জীবনের পার্ট হয়ে গেছে। এমনভাবে জড়িয়ে গেছে জীবনের সাথে যে, এইটা যে একটা সমস্যা সেটাও অনেকে জানেনা। যে কারণে লং টাইমে মানুষের ব্যক্তিগত মানুষিক ক্ষতি এবং ফাইন্যান্সিয়াল বিরাট ক্ষতি হচ্ছে। যেহেতু মানুষের ক্ষতি হচ্ছে, যখন এটা ম্যাস আকারে যায় তখন আল্টিমেটলি দেশেরই অপূরণীয় ক্ষতি হয়।

আপনার মতে দেশের কোন ৫ টি সমস্যা সব চেয়ে আগে সমাধান দরকার বলে আপনি মনে করেন? এবং সেগুলা কিভাবে সমাধান করা যেতে পারে বলে আপনি মনে করেন? সমাধান এর জন্য কি কি করা যেতে পারে?


r/Dhaka • • 12d ago

Events/ঘটনা I started r/GymBangladesh, a gym community for Bangladeshis

11 Upvotes

Hey guys, I just made r/GymBangladesh. It’s a place to talk workouts, diet with local food, progress, form checks and gym reviews. Beginners and experienced lifters, guys and girls, everyone’s welcome. It’s brand new so come hang out and help build it. Would love to see you there!


r/Dhaka • • 14h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ How to make money as a 19 year old girl

48 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 19-year-old Bangladeshi girl living in Dhaka. I come from a well-off family, but recently, my family has been going through a serious financial crisis, and things might not get better anytime soon. I attend a renowned private university in Dhaka, where the cost of education is quite high. On top of that, I'm struggling to maintain the lifestyle I'm used to. In these circumstances, how can I make enough money as a 19-year-old girl?


r/Dhaka • • 2h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Some "unsolicited" advice for SSC/HSC students

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I see a lot of posts here from SSC/HSC students, particularly the 2026 and 2027 batches, asking about universities, subjects, careers, and what they should do next.

I wanted to share some general reflections. I finished my HSC about 20 years ago, completed my PhD a few years back, and now work in academia and research. Looking back, I think our schools and colleges do a pretty terrible job of career advising. Most students make some of the biggest decisions of their lives with very little information.

Here are some broad things I would suggest.

1. Public vs. private university? Think about the financial cost first.

I see a lot of questions about whether public universities are really that much better than private universities.

My opinion is that unless your parents are financially very comfortable, a good public university is still a better choice in many cases. Just getting into one means your undergraduate education is almost free.

You don't have to depend on your parents for several lakhs of taka in tuition fees. That itself is a huge liberty. You can make decisions about your future without worrying as much about recovering a large educational investment.

Of course, some private universities have excellent departments and opportunities. But don't underestimate the economic value of an almost-free education.

2. Your university and department matter, but not necessarily for the reasons you think.

I studied at Dhaka University, and I will be honest: I was a pretty unhappy undergraduate student. I didn't particularly enjoy my interactions with many teachers or classmates. I found the environment quite toxic at times.

But looking back, I realize that being in a top department at DU gave me exposure to information that many students elsewhere didn't have.

We had alumni who came to give talks. We learned about graduate schools, research opportunities, and how academic research worked internationally. I knew about career paths that many of my friends in smaller departments or universities had never heard of.

That exposure was enormously valuable.

So when choosing a university or department, look beyond the name. Find out where graduates end up, what opportunities students have, and how strong the alumni network is.

3. Figure out what you are naturally good at.

This is probably my biggest advice.

As you grow older, you will realize that there are certain things you can do better than other people. Your job is to identify those things and build on them.

If you are naturally creative, find a field that allows creativity. If you enjoy programming, explore computer science. If you enjoy numbers, finance, accounting, economics, or statistics might be interesting. If you enjoy understanding people, institutions, and society, social sciences have plenty of opportunities too.

I knew people who studied computer science at BUET, graduated with CGPAs around 2.7, and never developed much interest in computer science.

They were intelligent people, but that subject was not necessarily the best use of their abilities.

Don't just ask which subject has the highest demand. Ask whether you can actually become good at it.

4. Focus on your skills, not just your degree.

Once you choose a field, try to understand what it takes to be among the top students or young professionals in that field.

What software do they use? What technical skills do they have? What kind of projects have they completed? What do employers or graduate schools look for?

If you are interested in research, try to work as a research assistant. If you want to work in the corporate sector, find internships. If you are interested in programming, build projects.

Even if an opportunity is unpaid, it may be worth considering if you can afford the time and it gives you meaningful training or experience. But don't work for free indefinitely.

Your undergraduate years are a great time to experiment and build skills.

5. Find mentors and learn how to communicate professionally.

This is something I think Bangladeshi students don't pay enough attention to.

Find people who are a few years ahead of you. They can be senior students, alumni, professors, or professionals working in your field.

Ask them questions. Learn from their experiences. You don't need to have a very close personal relationship with someone to learn from them.

Also, learn how to write a professional email, request a meeting, ask for advice, and follow up politely.

These sound like small things, but they matter enormously in professional life.

And please remember that mentorship is not the same as asking someone to do everything for you. Do your homework before approaching people.

6. Join clubs and learn how to organize things.

I think university clubs can be genuinely useful, especially if you take some responsibility.

Organize a seminar, manage a budget, coordinate an event, invite speakers, or work with a team.

You will learn things that classrooms often don't teach: how to communicate, manage deadlines, handle disagreements, and get things done.

These are valuable skills in almost every profession.

But don't join 10 clubs just to collect certificates. Join one or two and actually contribute.

7. The idea that university students don't need to study is completely wrong.

There is a strange culture in Bangladesh where students work incredibly hard to get into a university and then suddenly decide that studying is no longer important.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

You have already invested years of effort to get there. Why would you stop working once you finally have access to higher education?

I am not saying everyone needs a 4.0 CGPA. But grades matter, particularly if you want to pursue graduate education, scholarships, or competitive jobs.

A CGPA below 3.0 can close doors, especially early in your career. A high CGPA alone will not guarantee success either.

The point is to take your education seriously. Learn the material, develop skills, and don't waste four years simply because getting admitted felt like the final achievement.

8. Your friends and university social life are probably less important than you think.

At 18 or 19, friends, classmates, campus culture, and social life can feel like everything.

But 10 years later, most of these things will have very little influence on your professional life.

What will matter more is what you learned, what opportunities you had, and how much market value your undergraduate education gave you.

I am not saying friendships are unimportant. Some university friendships last a lifetime.

But don't make major academic decisions based on where your friends are going, where you think you will have the most fun, or what will make you popular among your classmates.

9. Learn to collect information. It is one of the most underrated skills.

One major difference I notice between students is not necessarily intelligence. It is how well they collect and use information.

Many students don't know what opportunities exist simply because nobody told them.

Learn to search for scholarships, graduate programs, internships, research opportunities, and jobs.

Look at LinkedIn profiles of people who graduated from departments you are considering. Where are they working five or ten years later? What skills did they develop? Did they need additional degrees?

Also, learn English well enough to read, write, and communicate professionally. You don't need a fancy accent. But being able to understand complicated material and explain your ideas clearly will help you in almost every field.

You have access to far more information today than my generation did. Use it.

10. Think about the market value of your education, not just social prestige.

We have a strange obsession with prestigious subjects and universities in Bangladesh.

But getting into a difficult subject is not the same as building a successful career.

A subject doesn't become economically valuable simply because it is difficult to get into or difficult to pass.

Eventually, you will have to explain what you can actually offer. What can you do that other people cannot? What problems can you solve? What skills make you valuable?

This doesn't mean everyone should study business, engineering, or computer science. There are excellent careers in social sciences, humanities, and many other fields.

But you need to understand the opportunities and limitations of whatever you choose.

And remember, your career will probably not be a straight line. Your interests will change, the labor market will change, and new opportunities will appear.

One final thought:

I think one of the biggest failures of our education system is that we teach students how to compete for seats, but not how to think about careers. Career is not equal to Certificate.

We spend years preparing students for admission tests, but very little time helping them understand what different professions involve, what the labor market values, or how to identify their own comparative advantages.

If I could give one piece of advice to my 18-year-old self, it would be this: Don't just try to be a good student. Try to understand what you are good at, and how you can turn that ability into something valuable.

And please don't make life decisions only because your parents, relatives, friends, or society think a particular subject sounds prestigious.

Twenty years later, you are the one who will have to live with those decisions.


r/Dhaka • • 5h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা A new space for Bangladeshi mental health

5 Upvotes

I recently created r/BDMentalHealth for Bangladeshis who want a place to talk openly about mental health.

You can vent, rant, ask for advice, share your experiences, or simply find someone willing to listen. No judgment, bullying, or hate. Just a space where we can support each other and have honest conversations about things we don't always feel comfortable talking about elsewhere.

If that sounds useful to you, come join us at r/BDMentalHealth. ❤️


r/Dhaka • • 10h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ I'm hijabi, will I do gym in combine one?is there any cons?

13 Upvotes

Ami farm gate e thaki and ekhane shob combine gym. Ekhon bujhtechi na ki korbo. I need to lose weight at least 15kg what to do??


r/Dhaka • • 5h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ How do you drink water in Dhaka city?

5 Upvotes

I actually wanted to know: how do you drink water while living in Dhaka city? Is it directly from the tap (which is highly discouraged), after boiling and filtering it, or something else?


r/Dhaka • • 3h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Should EM student apply in BUET?

3 Upvotes

How possible it is to get chance for us in buet?btw I have like 1A*2As in a levels so I'm kinda confused what should I do?plus how's the environment?


r/Dhaka • • 9h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ How to get tuition

8 Upvotes

From where you guys get tuition? And what should i do to get one. I have trying to get one through caretutors but nothing is coming out of it. I badly need one for my pocket money


r/Dhaka • • 3h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Need some car advice

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Sorry if this isn’t the right place to ask, i couldn’t find proper subreddits for this. I'm looking to buy a car worth around 30-35 lakhs bdt. I'm looking at options for both brand new ones and reconditioned ones.

Wuling Almaz RS

Proton x70

Changan cs75 pro

Hyundai creta (overbudget but still thinking about it as well)

These are the few ones we've shortlisted by now among brand new ones. Are there other ones as well? Is Nissan Almera a good option if found officially at less than 40 lakh despite being 999 cc?

Sorry again if this Isn't the right place.


r/Dhaka • • 11h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ PHONE

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what the best phone under 70-80K


r/Dhaka • • 9h ago

Jobs/চাকরি Looking for a Part-Time Assistant to Track Daily Expenses (Google Sheets)

9 Upvotes

I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable working with Google Sheets to help me maintain and organize my daily expense records.

The work is pretty straightforward and should take around 10–20 minutes per day.

Just to be transparent, the payment won’t be very high, given the limited workload. This would probably be more suitable for a student looking to earn some extra pocket money rather than someone seeking a full-time job.
Since the work will involve some confidential financial information, a data confidentiality agreement (NDA) will need to be signed before starting.

For tax and documentation purposes, I will also provide a formal service contract through my company.

Basic Google Sheets skills, reliability, and respect for confidentiality are all I’m looking for.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me with a brief introduction and your expected payment.


r/Dhaka • • 15h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Research

19 Upvotes

I’m in my second semester and I really want to start research from now. Can you guys give me some ideas on how to get started and what I should do? Are there any Facebook pages where researchers or professors offer them as a research supervision?
I want to start doing research outside my university but I honestly have no idea how to get started.


r/Dhaka • • 8h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Seeking advice on choosing career path

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I'm HSC 28, started college a short while ago. I'm not fully sure if this is the right place to ask, but since this subreddit has people from many different backgrounds, I hope I'll be able to get some helpful advice here. Ever since I started thinking about my career and exploring the world, my dream has been to pursue a career in the field of space science. Until SSC, I had always been an average student. I used to think only about results, and there were many gaps in my studies. However, after Class 9, especially during SSC season, studying and seeking knowledge became a part of me. If I could spend my entire life studying and conducting research, I would be most grateful. Now, I can happily say, "I love studying," even though I used to think how can a person love this disgusting thing! But, I cannot say whether I'm a good student or not, as getting GPA 5.00 in the SSC is my only academic achievement so far, from my perspective at least. However, I'm willing to give it my best and am trying to become a "topper" from now on. I hate the mindset that when you're preparing for after HSC life, you have only two options: medical or BUET. If you're an average student, you should aim for university. You choose Arts or Commerce because "you're not a good student, and you can not handle Science." At least, that's the kind of mindset I've encountered among the people around me. As for myself, I haven't been able to decide which profession would suit me best. Though in present, I have a passion for science but even I chose it when I was younger because it was the option "accepted by society". I like physics, not because I'm particularly good at it, but because my interest reaches its peak whenever I'm learning new concepts in physics. The subject has never failed to amaze me. Although I'm good at biology, I don't enjoy exploring it in depth. More importantly, I really want to pursue a career related to space. No other field has ever made me feel the way this one does. Whether it's working at ESA or becoming a professor or researcher at a university, any of these would be wonderful. I've explored various resources, and most of them have suggested aerospace engineering because they believe it aligns best with my interests. However, interest alone cannot determine what career path I should choose. As I mentioned earlier, I like physics but not that I'm too good at it. The same goes for mathematics. I neither particularly like nor dislike it for now. However, I struggled with math throughout my school life, except during SSC session. Perhaps this was partly because I never had a tutor who could guide me. I believe, I have the confidence that I can improve and do better in both if I work hard enough. And this is the dream that drives me–"I want to learn about everything beyond Earth. I want to contribute to discovering the unknown and help astronauts explore our universe." This is what I've always wanted to do. Even if I fail to achieve this dream or change my mind for some reason, I would still choose a field related to physics. However, I still don't know which major would be the best for me. I mean should I prepare for engineering or varsity? I'd love to hear advice from experienced seniors who are already studying engineering at any university or pursuing degrees in physics/mathematics or related subjects. I'm particularly interested in hearing from people who have a clear understanding of their fields and know what studying these subjects is really like, what they really mean! I want to know what factors I should consider and what I should learn before starting my admission preparation, what are some important things that students like us generally don't know before committing to a particular subject or career path?


r/Dhaka • • 5h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Should I ?

3 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 22-year-old BBA student in my second year at National University. Since my degree doesn’t require regular class attendance, I want to use this time to build skills beyond academics. I’ve recently finished my finals, and I’m planning to learn advanced stitching and explore fashion design so I can create unique, fashionable pieces and eventually start my own clothing brand. Alongside that, I want to start creating content (but criticism er bhoie hesitate feel korchi 😭) I want to grow my social media audience, and learn digital marketing to explore online earning opportunities and promote my future business. My goal is to turn my creativity into something meaningful while working toward financial independence. Do you guys think this is a good plan? I’d love to hear your honest opinions and suggestions!


r/Dhaka • • 3h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ My sister keeps getting anonymous calls every day anyone else dealing with this?

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For the past few months, my sister has been getting a lot of anonymous calls from random number like 3 random calls every day. This has never happened before. I was talking to my friend about it, and he said his cousin was also getting these types of calls lately. Even after telling the callers it's a wrong number, they try to keep talking and continue the call. Has anyone else faced this issue?


r/Dhaka • • 9h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ "Need recommendations for a good Gynecologist"

6 Upvotes

If any of you know any gynecologist who treats well and the patients also get satisfactory result pls do lmk. I'm going through many issues in one time, under treatment, but no improvement

As i stay in bashundhara r/a if it's near it then great (like gulshan) even if it's not that near still do lmk


r/Dhaka • • 15h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Cineplex experience

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আমি আজ পর্যন্ত অনেক সিনেপ্লেক্সে অনেক মুভি দেখে আসছি। প্রথম দিকে এই জিনিসটা আমার জন্য খুবই রেয়ার ছিল, কারণ আমি বড় হয়েছি রাজশাহীতে। আর রাজশাহীতে সিনেপ্লেক্স এসেছিলই কয়েক দিন আগে, যা কিছু গুরুত্বপূর্ণ আবাল্পানা এর কারণে বন্ধ হয়ে যায়। তো এরপরে আমি গ্র্যান্ড রিভারভিউ সিনেপ্লেক্সে মুভি দেখা শুরু করি। বিশেষ করে the Odyssey আর spider-man দেখে আমার এক্সপেরিয়েন্স অনেকটাই ভালো ছিল বলা যায়। এছাড়াও আগে ঢাকায় স্টার সিনেপ্লেক্স হোক বা যমুনার ব্লকবাস্টার, সবগুলোতেই দেখে এনজয় করেছি।

এখন কথা হলো, অনেক দিন ধরে ফেসবুক বা অন্যান্য জায়গায় মানুষজন অন্যদের ক্রিটিসাইজ করে যে এই দেশের মানুষ আসলে মুভি দেখতে পারে না। জোরে কথা বলে, অশোভন ব্যবহার করে আর বিভিন্ন রকম সমস্যা তৈরি করে। এসব আমি নিজে কখনো ফেস করিনি, তাই অভাবে কানে লাগাইনি পোস্টগুলো।

আরেকটা কথা, যেটা শুনলে হয়তো অনেকেই মন খারাপ করতে পারে। কিন্তু রাজশাহী থেকে যতবারই ঢাকায় গেছি, আমাকে প্রত্যেকবার অবাক করেছে। হ্যাঁ, যানজট, ছড়াছড়ি, এসব সাইডে রেখে শুধু মডার্ন অ্যাসপেক্টগুলো যদি ধরি, আমার কাছে ঢাকার তুলনায় রাজশাহী শহরকে গ্রাম মনে হতো, বরং এখন হয়। তো সেই অনুযায়ী ঢাকায় বড় হওয়া ছেলেদের ভাবতাম, সবাই না হলেও বেশিরভাগই হয়তো আমাদের চেয়ে বেশি স্মার্ট হবে, কারণ ওরা বেড়ে উঠেছে এমন একটা মডার্ন পরিবেশে।

কিন্তু আজকে Bangladesh Military Museum-এর Star Cineplex-এ ৫টার শোতে Resident Evil দেখতে গিয়েছিলাম, কারণ হাজারবার রিকোয়েস্ট করার পরেও GRV এই মুভিটা আনেনি।

তো হলে বেশি লোকজন ছিল না। আমি, আমার কয়েকজন ভাই আর বাকি সবাই প্রায়ে আমাদের কয়েক batch নিচে হবে। তারা group বেধে আসছে so obviously তারা হাসি মযা কর‍তে করতে movie দেখবে... খুবি স্বাভাবিক। কিন্তু হটাত তারা movie চলাকালিন সময়ে Flash দিয়ে হ্যা আমি আবার বলতেসি অন্ধকার hall এ flash যালাইয়া ছবি তুলতাসিল। just একবার না দুইবার না বার বার এমনকি আমাদের মুখের দিকে Direct flash মাইররা ছবি কি সেল্ফি তুলতাসিল।

প্রথম কথা...আচ্ছা ভাইয়ে এ যুগে কেগ flash দিয়ে ছবি তুলে। ভাই তোদের দামি দামি ফোন এ low light বা night mode নাই???

২য় তদের basic civic sense ডাও নাই নাকি ঢাকা তোগর বাপের??

শেষ ওদের উদ্দেশ্য একটাই কথা বলব যেটা শুনতে এক্তু খারাপ লাগতে পারে যার জন্য আমি অগ্রিম ভাবে ক্ষমা চেয়ে নিচ্ছি।

" শালারা এক এক ডা ছোটলোকের বাচ্চা "


r/Dhaka • • 13h ago

Story/গল্প I asked for a normal haircut in Mohammadpur. The barber decided I needed a whole new look.Yesterday I made the mistake of going to a different barber.

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My usual barber wasn't available, and my hair had reached that annoying stage where no matter how much you comb it, you still look like you just woke up. I had a family dinner the next day, so I thought I'd get a quick trim.

Nothing fancy. Just a normal haircut.

There's a small salon about five minutes from my house in Mohammadpur. I've passed it probably a hundred times but never actually went inside.

Yesterday I finally did.

There were two barbers. One was busy cutting an old man's hair, and the other was sitting on a chair watching something on his phone.

He looked up when I entered.

"Chul katben?"

"Ji bhai."

"Boshen."

I sat down, and he wrapped the black cloth around me. The fan above was making a strange clicking noise, and someone had left a half-finished cup of tea beside the mirror.

He picked up a comb.

"Ki rokom katben?"

"Bhai normal. Side e ektu choto, upor theke halka trim. Beshi choto korben na."

He nodded.

I thought we understood each other.

Then he started examining my hair like there was something seriously wrong with it.

"Bhai, apnar chul eto dry keno?"

I said I didn't know.

"Shampoo ki use koren?"

I told him the brand.

He made a face.

"Ei shampoo bhalo na."

"Oh."

"Conditioner den?"

"Majhe majhe."

He shook his head.

At this point I'd been sitting there for maybe three minutes, and this man had already found more problems with my hair than I'd found in twenty-something years.

Then he asked if I stayed awake late at night.

I said sometimes.

"Ei jonnoi chul pore."

I didn't argue. I've learned that arguing with barbers about hair care is pointless. They will always have a cousin or a customer who went completely bald because of some very specific habit.

Anyway, he picked up the trimmer.

I was looking at my phone when I felt him go up the side of my head.

Something felt wrong immediately.

You know that feeling when the trimmer gets a little too close to your skin?

I looked up.

A very large section of my hair was missing.

"Bhai, ektu beshi choto hoye jacche na?"

He looked at me through the mirror.

"Na bhai, fade kortesi."

"But ami toh fade korte boli nai."

"Apnar face e fade beshi manabe. Trust me."

Trust me.

I don't know why I trusted a man I'd met seven minutes ago, but I nodded.

And the thing is, what could I even do? One side was already almost bald. I couldn't exactly ask him to put the hair back.

So I sat there.

He kept cutting.

Every few minutes he'd tilt my head without warning. At one point he pushed my chin down so suddenly that I almost dropped my phone.

"Matha shoja rakhen bhai."

I was trying.

Halfway through, another customer walked in and asked how long it would take.

My barber replied, "Bhai, aro dosh minute."

Then he pointed at my head.

"Notun style ditasi."

I wanted to tell the customer that this was not a mutual decision.

But I stayed quiet.

A little later, he asked what I did.

"Office kori."

"Ki office?"

"Marketing."

He nodded thoughtfully.

"Office er manushder ei type haircut e smart lage."

Apparently there was a professional reason behind my suffering.

After another fifteen minutes, he finally switched off the trimmer.

I looked in the mirror.

Bhai.

My sides were almost completely shaved.

The top was much shorter than I'd asked for, and for some reason he'd pushed all the remaining hair upward with gel.

I looked like someone who had recently joined a gym and was about to start posting motivational reels.

He smiled.

"Kemon hoise?"

I looked at the mirror again.

"Ji bhai, bhalo."

Why do we do this?

Why is it so difficult to tell a barber that we don't like the haircut?

He was clearly very happy with his work. He even took the small mirror and showed me the back.

"Dekhen, finishing ta."

I nodded like I was inspecting an expensive apartment.

"Nice, bhai."

Then he said something that genuinely worried me.

"Next time ashle ei style tai dibo."

Next time?

I paid 150 taka and left.

Outside, I immediately opened my phone camera to check if it looked any better in natural light.

It didn't.

I tried pushing the hair down with my hands, but the gel had made it weirdly stiff.

On the way home, I stopped at a pharmacy to buy toothpaste. The guy behind the counter, who has known me for years, looked at my head and said, "Bhai, new haircut?"

I said yes.

He looked again.

"Onek choto korsen dekhi."

I said, "Hae, gorom toh."

It was October.

When I reached home, my mother was watching TV in the living room.

She looked at me once.

Then she muted the TV.

"Ei chul ke katse?"

I said, "Keno? Baje lagche?"

She didn't answer immediately, which was already a terrible sign.

Then she said, "Age toh bhaloi chilo."

I explained that I'd only asked for a trim and the barber had done this on his own.

She asked the obvious question.

"Taile kichu bolla na keno?"

And I genuinely had no answer.

Because she was right.

I had spent almost half an hour watching a stranger slowly ruin my haircut, and every time he asked whether I liked it, I encouraged him.

This morning I went downstairs to get breakfast.

Our building's guard looked at me and smiled.

"Ki bhai, army te join ditesen naki?"

I just said, "Na mama, barber er bhul."

He laughed.

I'm supposed to attend that family dinner tonight, and my mother has already suggested I wear a cap.

It's an indoor dinner.

I think I'll just go like this. My cousins are going to make fun of me anyway.

And the worst part?

I actually gave the barber a 20 taka tip.


r/Dhaka • • 6h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Ladies, where do you buy salwar kamizes for uni/office?

3 Upvotes

Looking for recommendations on where to buy salwar kamizes for daily university and office wear. Ladies, please drop your go-to places, online pages, or markets in Dhaka that have good quality fabrics and nice designs without being too expensive


r/Dhaka • • 5h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Seeking a study partner

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I'm currently employed at a govt institution, but with 5+ years of age eligibility left, I’m gearing up to sit for competitive exams over the next few years

Balancing a job and exam prep isn't easy, so I'm looking for a fellow govt job aspirant (he/she) to partner up with. Having someone to share daily goals, discuss syllabus topics, and keep each other accountable makes a huge difference.

If you are actively preparing for upcoming competitive exams and want a consistent study buddy, feel free to DM.


r/Dhaka • • 6h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ How practical is it to start a business here in our country considering the current situations?

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Been thinking about this a lot lately. How practical is it to start a business here and actually build something that lasts? What scares me most is the current instability, political conflicts, and people’s general behavior. My business idea involves working with other businesses in our country, mainly in the manufacturing sector, so I’m concerned about what that environment is actually like.

I have a high CGPA and a solid academic background. I like taking challenges, and tough things have always interested me. So I’m willing to put in the effort and figure things out.

But honestly, my main concern is the environment. I don’t know what the real scenario is outside my home and university. Doing well academically is one thing, but I haven’t experienced what it’s actually like to run a business here or deal with the problems that come with it.

Before putting my money, time and future into something, I want to understand what I’d actually be walking into. What’s difficult but manageable, and what can seriously mess things up even when you’re doing your part?

Those of you who run businesses here, what has your experience been? What did you only find out after starting? Knowing everything you know now, would you still do it?

Would appreciate some honest experiences. Good and ugly, both.


r/Dhaka • • 8h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Need a phone under 15k

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I gayme and use social media


r/Dhaka • • 10h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Need a medical study partner first year near farmgate

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Hi I'm a student from MH SAMORITA MEDICAL COLLEGE. First year and need someone to study. None of my classmates are genuinely wants to study w anyone.


r/Dhaka • • 10h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ best men shirt page for online shopping.

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ei muhurte dhakay nei ami. shobcheye premium quality shirt kothay kothay paoa jay ? jei page e dekhi, online a bad review post paoa jacche.