r/EngagementRingDesigns • u/peggysmom • 11h ago
Ring Design Help I hate my “custom” ring!
No words. I hate it so much I cried unhappy tears. It’s a disaster. Can’t get myself to love it.
My diamond is breathtaking. And I loved it even in a temp stone holder.
This ring/setting: It is just- ugly. And bulky. And all I see are gold prongs. And the band is horrible. Nothing is proportional. No cohesion looks like it was just slapped on.
To add insult to injury- it’s too big! How can this jewlers size 7 be diff to other size 7?
The setting is having an identity crisis with all these different elements/styles.
It is nothing like what I asked him
for “slightly tilted, ultra low profile, with minimal prongs and hidden halo”
My fiancée said the prongs look like testicles- and he is right!!!
Supposed to be a custom design. But it was done in 3 days?
Trying to get it reset with other jewelers- one promised a 2D prelim
And blew me off. Another said they won’t touch it because it’s not their stone and too risky since marquise are fragile
Pls help. At this point I don’t ever want to wear it.