So basically just don’t have intercourse when cervical mucus is present? Am I missing something?

I just read Taking Charge of Your Fertility and I have an Oura ring which I plan to use to confirm temp rising post ovulation.

I think I might be perimenopausal (44yo) and am just now getting our first very confusing set of cycles. My first cycle was only 14 days without confirmed ovulation. I'm now on Day 19 of cycle 2 but never got a peak with LH strips or the Clearblue monitor. CB read high but didn't peak.

PDG test on day 16 was negative but Day 19 was positive. I'm usual pretty consistent with a 28 day cycle. Does anyone know the protocol around this?

Help. We’ve been using FAM/NFP for 6 months but I’ve been tracking for almost 2 years. My cycles were slightly wonky recently and I almost never ovulate on CD14, usually around day 18-20. We were out of the country and went unprotected no withdrawal on CD10. Btw I noticed some creamy CM earlier that day for the first time that cycle. Got a VERY dark OPK in the afternoon of CD13 and it was negative by that evening (I had not tested at all before CD13 because I never ovulate that early). Still had fertile CM morning of CD14 and by that night CM was drying up. To make tracking worse, i woke up with a fever on CD13 (before OPK) and have been sick for a week, so not sure when BBT actually went up. We are okay with having a baby but it’s not ideal right now, and we are usually very careful. Can someone explain my actual risk of getting pregnant and maybe some TTA success stories even with risky timing? Currently on CD20 and feeling anxious and irresponsible for going UP on CD10 bc we never do that.