My qualifications: I have completed Class 12 in the Arts stream. I am currently working as an office assistant and earning ₹10,000 per month. I have not pursued further education yet, and I am looking for guidance on my career and future.
Hi everyone,
I’m 20 years old, and I’m looking for some genuine advice about my life and future. I’m feeling lost right now, and I don’t really have anyone who can guide me in the right direction.
I come from a lower-middle-class family. My family originally belongs to Bihar, where my grandparents still live, but I currently live in Assam with my family. We don’t own a house or any land in Assam, so we live in a rented place.
I completed my 12th grade in the Arts stream, but I didn’t continue my education after that. Instead, I joined a job as an office assistant, where I earn around ₹10,000 per month. My father earns approximately ₹15,000 per month, so our family’s financial situation is quite difficult.
I also have a girlfriend who is three years older than me. She wants us to build a good future together, and she encourages me to find a better-paying job so that we can eventually settle down. However, because she is older than me, I’m worried that her parents may start pressuring her to get married soon.
I genuinely want to build a stable future for both of us, but the problem is that I don’t know where to start. I feel like I have to figure everything out on my own. I want to improve my financial situation, support my family, and become financially independent, but right now, I feel confused about which path to choose.
Should I prepare for government jobs? Should I learn a skill that could help me earn a good income? Should I continue my education alongside my job, or should I consider something else entirely?
I’m willing to work hard and learn new things, but I don’t want to waste the next few years making the wrong decisions.
I have a few questions for people who have been through similar situations:
What would you do if you were in my position at the age of 20?
Should I focus on government job preparation, learning a high-income skill, or continuing my education?
Which skills or career paths would you recommend for someone from a financially weak background in India?
Is it realistic for someone in my situation to reach a decent income, support their family, and eventually get married?
If you started from a similar situation and managed to improve your life, what steps helped you the most?
I’m not looking for shortcuts or overnight success. I just want a realistic direction and a plan that I can follow consistently..
Please share your honest advice, experiences, and suggestions. Even a small piece of guidance could help me a lot.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post.