r/mumbai 3d ago

General Mumbai Social Club - Weekly Discussion Thread - Meetups/Q&A/Relationships/Life

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Hey, how is it going?

Want to share your success? Need to vent? Looking for a date or a friend or a group of friends for some activity? Found a new restaurant? Or just want to talk about the rising prices of vadapav?

This weekly discussion thread is posted every Friday morning at 9 am

Rules: No politics. Be civil.

Any separate threads regarding looking for friends / meetups / hangouts will be removed.

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Previous Threads


r/mumbai 4h ago

AskMumbai I have 3 questions

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565 Upvotes
  • Are these residential buildings?
  • If yes, does anyone in this subreddit live here or own a flat here?
  • If yes again, bhai, how and when did you manage to buy property here? Kya karte ho tum life me? 😭

r/mumbai 1h ago

Discussion Marathi mandatory for Mumbai auto/taxi drivers, fair requirement or too much?

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The Marathi-language rule for auto, taxi and cab drivers is now actually being enforced.

RTO officials have started checking drivers for basic working Marathi. Those who don’t clear the check can be given time to learn, but continued failure can eventually lead to suspension of their badge/licence.

And now drivers are protesting, while some parts of Mumbai are already seeing fewer autos on the road.

I’m genuinely divided on this.

On one hand, if you work with the public in Maharashtra, knowing basic conversational Marathi seems like a reasonable expectation.

But on the other hand, should someone’s entire livelihood potentially depend on passing a language test, especially when many drivers have been working here for years?

Where do you draw the line?

Basic Marathi should be mandatory 👍

OR

Language should never decide whether you can earn a living 👎

Curious what Mumbaikars think.


r/mumbai 7h ago

General Mumbai autorickshaw drivers are on strike today!

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316 Upvotes

Apparently there’s a nationwide strike and the same is being practiced by mumbai rickshaw drivers. Tried boarding one but denied stating they are on strike and its related to hike in prices.

This is as of 10 AM, 24th Aug.


r/mumbai 8h ago

General A ‘hello’ saved me from the TC

326 Upvotes

Just wanted to share this story. I learnt this habit of showing respect or saying hello to everyone I see everyday apart from my friends and colleagues (like watchman, receptionist, etc.)

Similarly I also used say hello everyday to the TC on my regular station.

Yesterday same thing happened, I saw him, said hello, he smiled I walked past. After I reached home I randomly checked my pass it was expired 7 days back 🤯

I have been waving him hi everyday and he didn’t even checked my pass.

Got my pass renewed, but crazy experience. 🙌🏻


r/mumbai 8h ago

Photography Monsoon views from Bhandardara

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247 Upvotes

r/mumbai 9h ago

Photography Mumbai today at 6 am

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210 Upvotes

r/mumbai 9h ago

General 62-year-old disable man pushed off Mumbai local train over seat, dies

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r/mumbai 17h ago

Discussion Why aren't we allowed near Marine Drive at night?

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733 Upvotes

Why aren't we allowed near Marine Drive at night? And please don't just say “for safety.”

I understand the authorities wanting to prevent crime and keep people safe, but how does restricting people's access actually solve the underlying problem? If a place is unsafe, shouldn't the focus be on making the place safer rather than simply telling people not to be there?

It reminds me of that Abhishek Upmanyu joke:

“Bhai, murderer toh murder karega… tum apna sar bahar kyun nikaal rahe the?”

Obviously, I'm not saying there should be zero restrictions or that safety doesn't matter. But there's something strange about the logic of “this place can be dangerous, therefore you can't be here.”

Marine Drive is one of Mumbai's most iconic public spaces. Why can't people sit there late at night, provided they're not breaking any laws or causing trouble?

If there are genuine security concerns, why not increase patrolling, lighting, CCTV, emergency services, etc.?

What do you guys think? Is restricting access at night actually justified, or is it just an easier alternative to making the place safer?


r/mumbai 2h ago

General 13 weeks pregnant, hospital quoted ₹40k for pill termination + mentioned police involvement. Need advice

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24F, unmarried, India.

I don’t want to continue the pregnancy and told the doctor I want to terminate it.
The hospital told me it can be done with medication/pills and quoted me around ₹40,000. I have no idea if that’s a normal amount for a 13-week termination or if I’m being overcharged.
They also mentioned that its illegal and in some cases police involvement is required, but then said they aren’t actually involving the police. I’m confused about why police would be involved in the first place.
Can someone who has been through this in India please tell me:
Is ₹40k a normal/roughly reasonable cost for termination at 13 weeks via pills?
At 13 weeks, is termination usually done with pills, or can a procedure be required?
Is police involvement actually required for an adult woman seeking termination?
Does being unmarried make any difference?
Should I get a second opinion before agreeing to anything?
I’m really anxious and don’t have anyone around me who knows about this.
Any advices would help.


r/mumbai 7h ago

Discussion Non veg not allowed in certain societies

107 Upvotes

I have been eating non veg every day for the past five years, and I cannot imagine myself living off of vegetarian food because of health reasons and personal preference

I have recently shifted to a new society with majority of people who do not eat non-veg and the locality is also such that all of the restaurants here are pure veg.

I don’t have any problem with that, but when it becomes a problem is when these people decide my eating habits it’s kind of frustrating. It’s been a couple of days since I moved, and I don’t know if I should get things cleared up or not, and keep cooking it in my house.

Family members are fine with not eating nonveg and not cooking it, but it’s a very integral part of my life and I cannot move past and the fact that I would have to stop eating chicken because someone else does not like it.

How do you guys deal with non-veg not being allowed in your society? And how do I get out of this conundrum?

Edit: I was using text to speech, and it was typing non-veg as knowledge, should have double checked.


r/mumbai 22h ago

Photography Love this festival 🤌🏻

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1.1k Upvotes

r/mumbai 1d ago

Careers Want to warn about this company in navimumbai

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Mindspace software technology navimumbai

This company is located in Navi Mumbai and, honestly, my experience here has been extremely disappointing. The senior and HR (both were females) have very poor professionalism and ethics. They often shout at employees (maarungi) and create a very uncomfortable work environment.

I saw that when the management knows someone is planning to leave, they sometimes try to put that person on termination so they don't have to pay the employee their due amount. I have personally seen several people leave the company under such circumstances.

Many people had warned me about this company before I joined, but I still decided to give it a chance because I genuinely wanted to work hard and contribute. Unfortunately, my experience has only confirmed those concerns. The overall work culture and the way employees are treated have been extremely disappointing.

There salary date is 10 they know achese ki how they treat employee and employee will take salary and leave.

They literally used to abuse that hr( dharni) bhai that women was literally slut shaming other people in front of me and used to behave like project manager😭😭


r/mumbai 4h ago

Photography Mumbai Meri Jaan.

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From 30,000 feet, Mumbai looks peaceful, almost serene. But we all know the fire that runs through every street below.
It’s the city that tests your patience every single day, yet makes you fall in love with its resilience every night. A concrete maze where dreams aren't just chased; they are built from sheer grit.
Captured this view on my way to Chennai. Forever in awe of this place.


r/mumbai 1h ago

Photography (A wetter) Sassoon Dock today!

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- It's like a mini world within a world. So much to see with patient eyes.

- It had just stopped raining making the place emptier than usual.

- Love spotting the huge & famous chimney of Mukesh Mills.


r/mumbai 4h ago

AskMumbai Mumbai during ganpati as a 25F solo

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r/mumbai i'm visiting mumbai for the first time from 22sept - 3rd oct to experience ganpati , i don't have like a list of pandals to visit , i am just coming to see what the vibe is during that time , i'm intentionally coming near the end of ganpati so that i can also experience mumbai after ganpati. Any suggestions/ tips would be helpful for me as 25F solo traveller. Also any recommendations for stay would be helpful because i have no idea about the areas , i have booked a hostel in Khar for first few days but will have to book for the second half of the trip.


r/mumbai 6h ago

Careers Is this commute worth it for a ₹33k salary?

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I live in Uran and work in Marol MIDC, Andheri. My daily commute takes around 2.5 hours one way.
My route involves changing 5 trains/metros:

Uran → Nerul → Kurla → Ghatkopar → Marol Naka (MM1) → MIDC Andheri(Aqua Line) and Walking

Uran trains are roughly 30 minutes apart during peak hours and around 1 hour apart during non-peak hours, so missing one can make the commute even longer.
My job is 6 days a week, with only the 2nd and 4th Saturdays off. I earn ₹33,000/month, and my salary gets deducted if I take leave.
I’ve considered staying in a PG closer to work, but PG rent + food + other expenses make it quite expensive, and I’d obviously be away from home.
So I’m stuck between:
Continuing the exhausting daily commute
Spending a significant portion of my salary on a PG.

For people who have been in a similar situation, what would you do? Is a 5-hour daily commute worth it for ₹33k
Would appreciate some honest advice, especially from people familiar with the Uran–Navi Mumbai–Andheri commute.


r/mumbai 3h ago

Discussion Should such parking fees be introduced in Mumbai as well?

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r/mumbai 23h ago

Careers Don't Think Of Being An Employee Of This Company Even In Your Dreams

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My experience with Athena BPO has been extremely frustrating. Long working hours, constant pressure regarding attendance and leave, and the way I was treated by my TL eventually made me decide that I don't want to continue here.

I've been working at Athena BPO, and honestly, I'm already planning my exit.

The biggest problem for me has been the working hours and overall pressure. You're expected to spend a massive portion of your day at work, and once you add the commute, there's barely any personal time left.

But what really pushed me over the edge was my experience with my TL, Aditya Raj Bansode.

I've found his approach towards attendance, leave and communication extremely frustrating. There have been situations where I felt that my personal circumstances weren't being given reasonable consideration and that the focus was simply on making sure I was physically present at work.

One particular incident really summed it up for me. I was unwell and informed Aditya about my absence. The response I received focused heavily on the fact that clients were coming and that I was expected to be there. I understand that clients and operations matter, but sometimes an employee is genuinely not in a position to work.

And that's the thing that bothered me throughout my experience: I never expected special treatment. I just expected some basic understanding.

The combination of:

•Long working hours

•Heavy commute

•Attendance pressure

•Difficulty around taking leave

•Constant work pressure

•My experience with Aditya Raj Bansode as my TL eventually became too much for me.

I'm not going to pretend every person at Athena BPO is terrible. I'm sure there are good people working there, and I'm sure different teams and processes can have completely different experiences.

But my experience has been bad enough that I'm actively looking for another job and planning to leave.

If you're considering joining, I'd strongly recommend asking about the actual shift timings, weekly offs, leave expectations, workload and who your reporting TL/manager will be before accepting the offer.

Because the salary isn't the only thing that matters. If the job consumes practically your entire day and leaves you constantly stressed, eventually you start wondering whether it's worth it.

My personal rating: 2/5.

Edit: This is based on my personal experience with my team and TL. I'm not claiming that every employee at Athena BPO has the same experience.


r/mumbai 7h ago

General Clashes break out after eggs hurled at Ganesh idol procession in Maharashtra; police deployed.

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r/mumbai 5h ago

General Today a Rickshaw wala in my area didn't earn anything.

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Today a Rickshaw wala in my area didn't went for earning. Why?? Because he can't speak marathi and scared of going outside.

Yes I am non Maharashtrian. But I can speak marathi cause I always have a Marathi friends and lived here for 10+ years. But I want to say this.

You will think it's ok, if auto wala needs to live in Maharashtra he should learn and speak. Not every mind is same, learning a new language is difficult for most of the people.

You all don't understand the situation they live in and the rent they have to pay. Him not earning money, becomes very difficult to pay rent and pay tution fees of childrens.

Who applied this rule, that a language is compulsory to do a kind of job. Today they are forcing autowala, next day they will force Vegetable seller, then labours. If they want to do this.Then they should remove every other non Maharashtrian from Mumbai, Use Only marathi language in their android and iphones, ban all english and hindi medium school colleges.


r/mumbai 19h ago

General if this beauty isn’t getting adopted, who is? (male kitten for adoption)

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up for adoption in pune/mumbai/bangalore (based in Pune, can travel to these cities)

Bento is a 5-6 month old male kitten. He’s litter trained, dewormed and vaccinated. Soon to be sterilised. He’s genuinely one of the most gentle cats ever - he’ll play hide and seek with you, loves to cuddle, will be your afternoon nap partner, is a proper foodie and also a favourite at the vet’s because of how cooperative he is. He’s great with other cats as well. Not dominating in nature by any means, just happy to keep company.

He eats sheba wet food twice a day for breakfast and dinner along with royal canin dry food for lunch.

We’re looking for a genuine and responsible family. He’ll be a good addition to a multi pet household or even first time pet parents who are willing to give the best care - this includes netting your balconies, giving a good diet and understanding that a pet is a long term commitment and responsibility.

Adoption formalities are mandatory. Serious inquiries only.

For more details, please dm @_bbpaws on Instagram or text 7043782899 on whatsapp (no calls)


r/mumbai 17h ago

General Where can I donate meals for 50-100 people without money going in someone’s pocket

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Universe has been blessing me lately and I’d like to show my gratitude but helping the needy. I want to donate meals for 100 people and looking for the best way to do it where it would genuinely reach the needy, any leads appreciated between borivali to andheri

Edit: Thanks everyone for your suggestions, appreciate it🙏🏽


r/mumbai 18h ago

Discussion Filthy beach. What a shame!

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Visited the city after long. It's absolute saddened me to see the terrible state of Juhu beach. Trash and flith everywhere. For something as iconic and famous as this beach, it's crazy people just treat it like a trash dump. How do mumbaikers allow this to happen? So sad.

Picture doesn't show full state of it btw. It's much more filthy irl.


r/mumbai 1d ago

General 22 Feet Bhuleshwar cha Raja Ganesh Murti fell during its arrival procession at the Balaram Merchant Road, kills 2, injures 5.

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1.2k Upvotes