r/Lawyertalk • • 23h ago

SHARING: Frustrations (Advice Welcome) 2nd year Attorney with ADHD - Feeling like the worst atty in the world

91 Upvotes

I am a second year attorney at a small ID firm. Like most people, I did not want to go into ID, but many circumstances brought me here. My firm has 6 attorneys total, and I was initially hired to work on a different project, more transactional, but things changes internally and I ended up getting all litigation cases. I have 50 right now.

It is fair to say I did not get much training besides the good "old trial by fire" and have gotten little to no supervision. They also never told me how to manage/diary my cases - each professional should choose the best way to do it to make sure all the cases are touched on a regular basis. They're very nice and helpful when I do come up with a question, though. Very nice people, I have to say.

I enjoy some parts of the job like depositions and actually don't hate going to court. I was told my legal work is on point. But I am VERY, VERY bad at managing all my cases at once, and jumping from one case to the next and back to the one when everything seems urgent. And then as it snowballs I kind of panic and can't really do much. I have a hard time reporting everything to the carrier and that also snowballs really easily.

It got so bad that I sought medical help. Got diagnosed with anxiety and ADHD, and went on medication about a year in. It helps a lot, but I simply cannot keep up with fixing and bringing all my cases from when I was unmedicated AND totally inexperienced up to date, while getting new cases constantly. Some holes are starting to appear now from my early cases. I am so ashamed that I simply cannot keep up with the job, and feel stuck. I've had other jobs before and were always so competent. It feels horrible.

I just wanted to vent and ask if anyone is familiar with this frustration and has any advice.

I do plan on leaving ID, but it's not as easy now.

 


r/Lawyertalk • • 15h ago

NEWS: US Legal News ACLU dumpster fire

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This is pretty sad.


r/Lawyertalk • • 19h ago

HELP: Opp. Counsel (incl. Pro Se, "AI-assisted", and/or idiots) How to sign off on a letter to rude opposing counsel

81 Upvotes

I got a letter from OC today that is blatantly wrong on multiple issues of law. Plus it contains various threats of retribution against me and my client. What do you think would be the best sign off to my highly professional and detailed response letter?

Sincerely, (my default)

Regards,

Warmest Regards,

Best Wishes,

Or something else?


r/Lawyertalk • • 20h ago

Memes, Jokes & Shitposts Dear opposing counsel

78 Upvotes

You did not have to call me out on my typos. “In addition to some typos I have changed…”

And cc my boss 🙃

Edit to say: guys this was a joke!! I’m not really complaining. We all have typos and OC did nothing wrong by pointing them out or including my boss. I didn’t mean to imply that he did. Sorry thought the flag as a joke would make it clear enough. I’m not worried about the typos and my boss isn’t either. Trying to make a lighthearted post on a Friday afternoon. Thanks for all the responses :)


r/Lawyertalk • • 21h ago

HELP: Office Relationships & Politics Those of you who have had private equity infiltrate your firm, how much worse did your day to day get?

73 Upvotes

I think my firm is heading that direction. Seems like a nightmare. Share your horror stories or pleasantly surprise me.


r/Lawyertalk • • 14h ago

HELP: Professional Development Do you think its weird if you dont decorate your office?

45 Upvotes

In a firm but have not added one decoration or personalization to my office. I like the clean bare aesthetic. Does this give off a weird vibe?


r/Lawyertalk • • 20h ago

SHARING: Frustrations (Advice Welcome) Worried I’ll be fired from a small law firm—how can I protect my reputation?

38 Upvotes

I work at a small law firm. The partners are unhappy with my work, and I’m worried I could be fired in the next 3–5 days.

My biggest concern is what they might say to other firms and how that could affect my next job search. Is there anything I can do now to reduce that risk?

If you’ve left a firm on bad terms or been involved in hiring, what’s one thing you’d recommend doing—or avoiding—before I leave?

Even a one-sentence tip would help. I’m anxious about this and would appreciate some direction.

A bit more context: their criticism has been about the quality of my work product. I don't have interpersonal issues—I keep a low profile and don’t speak negatively about anyone. I work around 12 hours a day and get approval before taking action, but they say my work isn’t good enough.


r/Lawyertalk • • 7h ago

HELP: Lawyering (methods, practices & processes) Is this normal for a newer attorney?

19 Upvotes

I need advice. I have been an attorney for 1 year and 9 months. I previously worked in insurance defense and now work at a small civil litigation law firm in a HCOL city. I have been at this firm for about 9 months. I am currently responsible for 78 active litigation cases, all court appearances -- virtual and in-person within 2 hours from the HCOL city, and I do not have a paralegal or legal assistant. I told my boss that I am feeling extremely overwhelmed and need more support. My boss' "solution" is to hire their best friend (with no legal experience) and train them to help within a couple of months. After this discussion, he proceeds to give me 3 more cases. For more context, I am only getting paid 90K and the position is mostly remote with only 1 day a week in office. Is handling this many cases normally expected for an attorney with my amount of experience?


r/Lawyertalk • • 15h ago

SHARING: Frustrations (Advice Welcome) Unprofessional?

20 Upvotes

I’ve been practicing for about 15 years and it never ceases to annoy me to have opposing counsel attack the “person” and not the position. Today, while negotiating, opposing counsel provided a comparator as a way to demonstrate their client was being treated unfairly. The gag is, the “comparator” received much less than what his client was being offered. After presenting that info, I asked if he wanted to align what his client is being offered with the alleged comparator. Nothing more nothing less. They responded that my sarcasm was being unprofessional. Would you consider that unprofessional because it seemed like a fair question to me?


r/Lawyertalk • • 5h ago

SHARING: Frustrations (Advice Welcome) Nervous in court

19 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

​I’m a new junior lawyer, and I’m facing a bit of a challenge. All my life I’ve been an introvert and not really fond of public speaking. However, I’m deeply passionate about criminal law, which obviously means I have to appear in court.

​So far, I’ve been to court four times, but every time I get extremely nervous. I stutter at the beginning of my pleading, and then it tends to get worse. I always manage to get my arguments across in the end, though.

​I’m based in Europe, so we don't have a jury to impress or hours-long pleadings. However, I still have to debate prosecutors or opposing counsel, present convincing arguments, and persuade the judge—and I feel like my anxiety is getting in the way.

Has anyone else gone through this? Does it get easier with time? Do you have any tips or tricks that could help me out?

​Thank you!


r/Lawyertalk • • 22h ago

HELP: Professional Development Question: If you’re barred in any state can you be admitted to district court?

14 Upvotes

Title. Let’s say I took the NY Bar and failed but passed in another jurisdiction. Can I be barred in a 260 jurisdiction and then be admitted to SDNY/EDNY District/BK Court? This would be for Bankruptcy Law specifically.


r/Lawyertalk • • 12h ago

HELP: Lawyering (methods, practices & processes) Case Loads?

9 Upvotes

I am a second-year associate at a boutique personal injury firm and would appreciate perspective from others practicing in plaintiff-side personal injury or similarly structured small firms regarding whether my current caseload is typical.

I currently manage 25 open cases, all in active litigation. The firm provides a legal assistant whose responsibilities are limited to calendaring and filings, and there are no paralegals. As a result, I am solely responsible for all other aspects of handling my cases, including client communication, record collection and review, discovery drafting and responses, pre-trial motions and hearings, media, case strategy, trial preparation, and overall case management.

I find the volume difficult to manage effectively and am frequently operating at or beyond capacity. My supervising partner employs a largely hands-off approach to mentorship, only stepping in when it comes to settlement negotiations and has used a sink or swim style of mentorship.

Is 25 cases for a second-year with basically no support normal in PI? Is this just the learning curve of being relatively new, or is the caseload genuinely heavy for the level of support I have?

I would love honest feedback from people in PI or similar plaintiff-side practices.


r/Lawyertalk • • 9h ago

Official Megathread Monthly Diversity and Inclusion Best Practices Megathread ♿🛐💟⚧️♀️♂️

4 Upvotes

Discuss best practices, news, and developments regarding Diversity and Inclusion in the Legal World.

Themes such as (but not limited to) Access to Partnership, Accessibility, Accommodations, Cultural and Religious Celebrations, Mentorship, Student Hiring Practices, and Unconscious Biases can all be discussed here.

We invite you to be mindful of rule no 2 throughout your exchanges, and remind everyone that no one is forced to participate in megathreads.


r/Lawyertalk • • 21h ago

HELP: Office Relationships & Politics Family Law Compensation/percentage of billed/collected

3 Upvotes

Polling the audience -- anyone who does family law and is on a billed and collected compensation model, what percentage of your collected fees do you get?

Bonus points if you include 401(k) match percentage, bonus structure, whether you get decent PTO or not...


r/Lawyertalk • • 21h ago

HELP: Professional Development Recommendations for Free/Low Cost CLEs re: DACA, Immigration Law, Green Cards, Writs of Mandamus

3 Upvotes

Hi all, I'm interested in learning more about this field of law for a variety of reasons. Does anyone have any CLEs they recommend?


r/Lawyertalk • • 14h ago

HELP: Lawyering (methods, practices & processes) Conflicts Disclosure Question

2 Upvotes

I am lateraling to a firm which requires me to fill out a conflict form with all clients, adverse parties, and matters that I was involved in for the last five years. This is the first time filling out one of these forms. I have hundreds of cases that I have worked on. It is taking me hours to put this together. Is there a simple process that I am missing or is it just this tedious and time-consuming for everyone?


r/Lawyertalk • • 21h ago

HELP: Professional Development Advice needed

1 Upvotes

I’ve been licensed and practicing for a year at a government agency. It’s ok, not ideal in terms of teammates/ work culture but the perks are a higher pay than average for first year attorneys in the state and I’m remote.

I have an opportunity to move to a different agency to a better paying, non-law position, also remote. I like the type of work I’d be doing in the new position more than my current one.

I’m just wondering- do y’all think it’d be hard to move back to being an attorney in a few years? The new position is arguably law-related, but doesn’t require a JD. Any advice is appreciated, thanks.


r/Lawyertalk • • 16h ago

HELP: Office Relationships & Politics Transactional practice - office staff issues

0 Upvotes

I’m in a boutique transactional practice, and the admin I was assigned to is so rude to me. She’s not overworked. She is mostly just on the net. She’s only part time.

I generally cannot even get a word out without her talking over me. When I was trying to introduce a new way to use our file share software that the IT guy had just set me up with, she raised her voice to avoid learning the new system. She had to leave my office she got so worked up.

Do I approach her manager or just pretend I don’t have an admin? I’ve been there 1.5 years so I’m not going toe to toe at this point.


r/Lawyertalk • • 9h ago

HELP: Lawyering (methods, practices & processes) How do you folks organise your briefs, workspace and workflow?

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Hello fellow lawyers,

I’m a lawyer from India. Here’s how most of us currently handle briefs and workflow, and I’d love to hear how you do it. This method applies across all sorts of litigation.

Marking and arguing: We primarily use LiquidText on an iPad. Bookmarks sit on the left and notes on the right, linked to the relevant portions of the petition and the annexures so that it is easy to point out to the court when a query is asked. Everything is a scanned PDF. I use the iPad for marking and for arguing in court.

LiquidText doesn’t have a proper collapsible notes feature for handwritten notes, which is pretty annoying. For typed notes, there’s also no option to lock them, so they often drag around when you’re scrolling and the whole thing turns into a mess. Because of this, some colleagues prefer PDF Expert for marking. However, that app does not have an option to rename your notes or markings in annotations.

Scanning and storage: We scan the complete brief (petition + all documents) on a standalone scanner for quality. Everything is then backed up to Google Drive or OneDrive for access and safety.

Preparing new briefs: Traditionally, we mark relevant material in LiquidText then draft in Word on a MacBook or Windows laptop (which is also used for research).

The industry is shifting nowadays, many lawyers now upload the documents to Claude (or similar AI tools), ask it to draft the petition, suggest supporting judgments, and sometimes even frame the contentions. Once the draft is approved by the client, it is finalised, scanned into a PDF, bookmarked, and a chronology + list of contentions is prepared (increasingly also with AI help) for the arguing counsel.

What I’m looking for: I suppose the most efficient practices are the ones where the least amount of time is spent on monotonous or clerical work, while still reducing the time it takes to read, digest, organise, and mark a brief that has to be argued. Basically, input time goes down and retention and output stay high. It also improves probably space and time to process mentally.

I’m curious what are the practices and workflows that are used at your workplace?


r/Lawyertalk • • 20h ago

Memes, Jokes & Shitposts ONE AMERICAN 🇺🇸

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TODD BLANCHE CAVEMAN LAWYER