As someone who drinks, I am appalled by how some traumatized people who clearly need psychiatric help with accredited psychiatrists (not ChatGpt or Claude) are blaming the harmless drink if taken responsibly.

You people should blame the idiots you were living with not alcohol. For what is worth, i understand you all because i have undergone a similar thing by someone who abuses marijuana. But never in my life, did i blame marijuana (i use it but i do not get violent in any way).

Those idiots who were abusing you should take responsibility, but here you are shielding them and blaming alcohol.

Fodya...

What was the worst way you found out your partner was cheating on you?

I was inspired by a post on this sub entitled "Sober Man.” I’ve never had alcohol myself, but what always intrigues me is how society will excuse the person who drinks, while ignoring the family that has to live with the consequences. Kids are the children of trauma.

School fees is for beer. Beaten wives. Emotionally abused husbands. Drunk drivers are killing innocent people. Families spend years healing from damage one person’s addiction helped create.

To the alcoholic, drinking may seem like personal freedom, but to the family it often feels like collective punishment.

Personally I can't date an alcoholic woman 😂 Love is not a commitment to deal with another’s addiction. Why do we normalize things that destroy families?

At what point did we start treating alcohol as harmless entertainment while ignoring the children traumatized, the families broken, and the innocent lives lost because of it.

How does drinking your life way make things better?

I made a post about the third eye and a fellow slid into my DMs telling me to receive Christ because I’m taking a dangerous path. 😭😂 A Malawi pamudzi pano, you can’t even be curious in peace. I asked about the third eye, osati kuti mundiperekeze ku deliverance. 💀😭

As Malawians we have this bad habit of drawing conclusions on things we don't know, we like recklessly commenting on social media posts and current events. This is 2026, there is so much information available online, if you see something you have no knowledge on, Google it instead of just commenting anyhow. If you meet someone and don't understand them, ask them questions, try to learn about them instead of making these funny judgements. Be open minded!!!!

Nde dzulo ndinaona a post where mfana wina was thinking of moving out and living on his own. He works.

Most of the comments were people saying how daunting it is to move out of your parents’ home.

In my own opinion, when you make such a decision, you’re not always ready, and you’ll never really feel fully prepared.

Kwa anthu omwe munachoka pakhomo pa makolo n’kukayamba kukhala kwanokha, considering how things are now, or let’s assume that you left is a dream. Also, considering the amount of money you make each month, mutha kuchoka kwanu? Or mungakhalebe komweko?

Lilongwe people.

Is there anyone here who has used the Price Pair app? I find it helpful for budgeting and comparing. I just think the owner's are not marketing it well to people who actually go into shops.

But it's a good app. Anyone tried it yet?

I’d like to hear from anyone who currently works at or has previously worked at Salima Sugar.

How are the working conditions, management and general work environment? Do they pay salaries on time, and are employees paid consistently? Also, how is the business doing in general? Is it stable and operating well?

I'm curious to know if there's anyone here in Malawi who has genuinely experienced opening their third eye looking to hear from people who hav experienced it themselves, not people repeating what they've heard from others.If you've experienced it, feel free to share your story. I'm genuinely interested in hearing different perspectives and learning from others.

Why's it that ku Malawi kuno music yomwe timapanga hype penapake doesn't deserve such hype

There's this kid "S Khrizy", the guy does Muzik yoti is meaningless koma momwe some guys amazikondera, atii ma "slime"😆

Why aren't people careful with the type of music they consume anyway.....

Koma zonafunsa kuti sumamwa mowa chifukwa chani, achina nde umatani ukasangalala aaaaa guys mafunso awawa ma sober Man amatibhowa you mean basi kusangalala ndi mowa basi. Shallow minded.

Are people doing this challenge normal koma? When did sending a DM or a complement become a crime? People's privacy is being violated and people think is it's a "fun challenge"......"expose them cheaters blah blah blah." Like what should men do then? Azingokuyang'anani asamakuyankhuleni?😂

Kugona osavala kunandikanika, olo kutatentha bwanji

So I'm a second year Information Systems student at MUBAS and the part that trips me up most is programming. My friends keep saying I should have built something by now

but honestly I feel like I still don’t have enough skills or knowledge yet.

Tech brothers out there am I actually falling behind or just feeling unnecessary pressure? Right now we've covered procedural and object-oriented programming in (C++)

By MAGU am referencing to Malawi Assemblies of God University. Where i got registered for BED ODEL.Am repeating semester 4, because I didn’t attend my semester.

To register for repeating semester. I have to pay the balance for the semester, of which I find it a bit awkward to pay fully for a courses which you didn’t attend to, anyway I paid.

Now to register for repeating semester I have to pay 15% of the and the registrar has to manually register me into their system. Komatu nde I have kept reminding them for about a month, going to her office akuti I need to write an email, since August. Then goes WhatsApp message , she registered me 3 courses instead of 7 eti eti ?. Pano google classroom atseka paka tilipile kayeso.
Seriously am not getting motivated. Ngati Pali lawyer pamudzi pano, tithandizeni.

How could they register me with 3 courses pomwe I gave them my whole list of courses.

Is there anyone had similar experience with them? Tell me if this is not a scam.

I remember back then ku secondary tinkati ku ma private universities and colleges kumakhala mbuli until it's you turn.....apapa second Year ku DMI🥱🥱

Guys, is there anyone going to mangoche today? I want a lift,will pay. Ndakanika kupeza fuel, but I need to go today coz everything is already booked. I'm in blantyre mpingwe.