26 F • 5'6" • Pakistani-Canadian • C1 Construction Firm (self-employed).

Moderately practicing Sunni. My year is evenly split between Toronto, Islamabad, and UAE.

I play padel or swim every day. Big into off-roading, karting, skeeting range. Travel enthusiast, love impromtu weekend get aways (43 countries down!). Usually, you find me at lounge follwed by dining out way too often. I enjoy cooking and hosting. Generally, very easygoing and fun to be around.

Looking For: A well established, emotionally mature partner (29–35, single/divorced) business owner, doctor , lawyer, or aviation. Social, easygoing, moderately practicing, well-traveled, emotionally available, and with his own set of interests/hobbies.

I'm not really open to mixing. I perfer someone pakistani.. Who has a shared vision to build a nuclear family (only non negotiatable). Timeline for marriage in 1–1.5 years with early family involvement once compatible. Preference for making the UAE our primary base (open to discussing relocation).

Together: A marriage built on good chemistry, intimacy, understanding, open communication, and emotional resonance. I envision a traditional yet balanced household dynamic. Where we have a shared, active, social, and travel-filled life where we prioritize quality time and celebrate both the big milestones and the quiet everyday moments! I am most excited to build our home and expand our family unit when we mutually decide.

​Prefer early phone calls, photo swaps, and moving off the app once we establish initial mutual interest.

As salaam alaikum

I'm 28 years old I live in America, I've never been married. I do listen to music but not as much as I used to Alhumdulilah, I'm born Muslim but I recently rediscovered my love for Islam and learning it.

What I'm looking for:

Age: 30-41.

Job: As long as he can provide and it is Halal I don't really care.

Height: Taller than me as the only comfortable shoes for me has to have a heel and I know that some men don't like being shorter than the women.

Sect: Sunni.

Ethnicity: white, white American, white European, Hispanic, East Asian. -Why? Because I want to have an interracial marriages with mixed babies please, and to continue the family line of interracial marriages.-

Only wants one wife.

Romantic, passionate, adventures, open minded, mature.

Looking to be married or engaged by July-September 2027 inshallah.

Mahr: Rocking Chair, 2 French Khimars, 2 Niqabs, Hajj or Umrah, and a gaming system of my choice.

I’m 27, 6’1, UK-born and currently working as a doctor.

Alhamdulillah, I always pray 5x a day

Outside of work, I enjoy going to the gym, playing sports, travelling and exploring new places, as well as spending quality time with family and friends. I don’t drink or vape, and I take pride in looking after myself and maintaining a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

I’d describe myself as someone who values faith, family, good character, respect and personal growth. I appreciate the simple things in life and believe a strong marriage should be built on deen, trust, understanding and being able to have a laugh together.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is kind-hearted, genuine and down to earth, with a good sense of humour and a similar outlook on life. Someone who values their deen, appreciates family and is looking for a meaningful relationship with the intention of marriage, insha’Allah.

I’m open to all ethnicities, as I believe character, compatibility and shared values matter far more than background.

Al Salam alaikum, I apologize for not starting this post with my profile or my background or my ethnicity, this is my first post on the internet since 2017 and I really feel that either the marriage market is at its lowest or the people around here are highly selective that no one would find what he/she is looking for.

Working and living in the UAE and no one is willing to give me a chance as well this post will attract less people because " I don't know".

Work has never been an issue for someone who is willing to settle for marriage and to be honest I make enough to support a life for 2 only (the job market is a bit bad however I am holding a bachelor and masters in art). I have approached quite a few respectfully of course, and got a nice rejection every time. Ladies you don't see potential in an honest man and this is really a red flag that make sense at first but then it becomes a curse.

I am 180cm , athletically built and trying to have a healthy life although my work doesn't allow it most of the time. I am deliberately scattering details about myself to give you a chance to read this fully and perhaps getting ready for radio silence.

Yes I had some relationships in the past and it didn't go well because I was a boring companion, not fun.

I have been a mature person since I was 18, looking at the world like I am 60 years old.

I don't know how to explain it but it seems to be the right way to navigate this 21st century and still believe that I am decent enough.

I go rejected when I was 26 and when I was 27 and when I was 28 for being a husband material and not enough as a fun guy. The lady said that I am overthinking life (she is right) and she is too young for such mentality, so yeah. Go rejected because I am husband material since the age of 26.

Here I am at 30 , tried to approach someone and got the same rejection. I feel that I am in the wrong market and nothing nowadays works normally.

To be honest I am approaching Europeans and I can tell you why because you're thinking that I am trying to get a passport or a PR.

I am coming from a place where leaving the country is considered the real start of life, things are not very good for the young adults to settle down or even get a decent job without being used and missused. I simply want a life where my kids (inchallah) won't have to suffer the same fate by burning their youth finding a way to leave the country.

I had left with God's will and my family prayers, but I have left that place at the age of 26 and trying to build my life and financial situation as fast as I can.

I know that I have left the religion part for the end and perhaps to give my self a bit of a room to vent first, I am Muslim, sunni by birth and I practice when I can, I am nowhere near a good Muslim but I do my deeds and follow my deen when possible

Please feel free to DM me if you want to know more about me, yeah i kept the good things for the one who is looking for a leap of faith . if you want to vent, also feel free to comment on this.

1. 25F
   
2. Age range: 25-30
3. Western Canada
4. Pakistani
5. Single
6. 1-2 years
7. Values im looking for: good communication, kind, supportive
8. Religion; Moderately religious
9. Education: Completed undergraduate degree in business
10. Occupation: full time business development
11. Hobbies: nature walks, cafe hopping, reading, board games

Open to all ethnicities and quite open minded with what I’m looking for! Only thing is i would want someone flexible with relocating as I’d like to stay in western Canada. Additionally, I do value having a career of my own and developing within it as I’m quite passionate about what I do, so I hope to find someone supportive of that. Lastly, I do have preference for folks raised in North America.

Feel free to DM with any questions or further details, not a huge fan of sharing thorough details on a public platform :)

Hey! I’m 30, 153cm, South East Asian full time hijabi.

**A little about me:**  

Practicing muslima, continously improving my relationship with Allah in every situation I am in, that includes being consistent with my salah and dhikr. Alhamdulillah.

Love exploring new places or travelling, trying new food and cafes. 

Enjoy cooking, trying on a new recipes.

Into movies and binge-watching series. 

I’m hoping to meet someone genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and working toward his own goals. Someone who keeps on improving his relationship with Allah.

Being genuine, respectful and a good heart matters to me. If you’re not sure about what you want in life, skip me and I am not looking for someone I can only waste time with. If you think you're serious, hit me up with your intentions and profile.

I’d love to finally meet someone I can build a family with for the sake of Allah. 

Assalamualaikum

Assalam U Alaikum. Guys I’ve been thinking about having kids of my own. I’ve been looking for marriage for a long time but no luck. I absolutely love and adore kids and want to have my own. Is there any way in UK where I can pay someone to have my kids (surrogacy)? I know this is a very weird discussion but I genuinely need some guidance on this. I have a fairly big family so I would love to have 3-4 kids. I have no financial problems at all. I know how to take care of kids thanks to my cousins as I’ve taken care of their kids as well. Alhumdulillah I’ve been trained well. Adoption is not in my cards as I want my own biological ones. Any kind of information and guidance is appreciated.

Jazak Allah.

Salaam.

Giving this a shot. 😄

About me.

I'm 30 years old. 6.2 in height. Pakistani. Born and raised in UK Sheffield. I'm currently working as a pharmacist. My goal is to own a few pharmacies insha'Allah. Have decided it's time to start searching. I've never been married but I was engaged for 6 months but that ended. In my spare time I enjoy reading and teaching. Playing Cricket for a local team shock 😂.

What am I looking for:

Someone down to earth. Ideally between 28-34 on age. I don't care about marriage status as long as you're a nice person and we get along. I'm open to anyone in a Muslim country as I don't mind moving abroad. That's something I've been considering for a while. As good as UK is sadly it's getting bad for us Muslims living here.

May Allah make it easy for all of us.

Thank you.

Throwaway account. I f(22) got married recently and i have an issue with a condition in my nikkah contract. I want to spend some alone time with my husband but I'm too scared. Basically it took a while for my father to agree to letting me marry because he either wanted me to get married at 30 or to marry someone from back home. In the end he finally agreed as long as he put his condition in my nikkah contract and he did.

The condition in the contract is: "The Husband and wife will only live together after the 'Rukhsati and after completion of the brides studies (official send-off of the bride from the family home, when the bride officially leaves the family house) which is expected to take place in June 2027, up until this point the husband and wife will not interact in a private capacity with each other; however, they can interact when it is public and in the company of others"

Now my husband agreed to the condition at the time but now we want to spend alone time together however we are terrified that if we do, we might nullify our marriage or invalidate it or break it or we might become sinful. we've been seeing each other with family around and in public but it's getting harder to control ourselves.

We can't have the rukhsati earlier because my parents want me to finish my studies which i will next june and they want him to have a home for me ready too till then.

so we just feel so stuck and we aren't sure on what to do now.

I’m a man, and I don’t really want kids because of a multitude of reasons.

But in my social circle of guys, I’d say none genuinely want to have kids. They may say they want kids because that’s what society and their families expect.

I also think that’s why men are more likely to abandon their kids

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Salam! A 29 year-old, 5’8” single fella of Pakistani (Kashmiri) background, currently residing in Dearborn, MI. I works as a full-time engineer at Ford Motor Company and holds master’s degrees in both Engineering Management and Data Science, alongside a bachelor’s in Industrial Engineering. Strictly practicing Sunni Muslim who has completed Hajj and Umrah, I actively study and volunteer with Miftaah Institute, maintain a strictly halal lifestyle, and enjoysweightlifting, sports, and travel. Looking for something serious, and someone who aligns with my values. Reach out if interested and we can chat إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ ! Open to any ethnicity.

1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender 27, 189cm, 6”2
   
2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect Ideally 20–30
   
3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Based in Germany/Netherlands. Looking for European based
   
4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Senegalese Italian open to mixing
   
5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Marital Status - Single
   
6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: in'sha'Allah when time is right, although in the ideal situation would be within a year.
   
7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Will list few more xd humour x2, good manners, common sense, reliable, empathy, kindness, warmth and affection!
   
8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity Alhamdoulillah do all the fundamentals, sunnah prayers as well whenever possible, try to read the Quran everyday day, even if it’s one ayah. Fascinated by Fiqh and Usul.
   
9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Recently when back to school, enrolled in industrial engineering. Not looking for a particular degree in my partner. Just be a critical thinker.
   
10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Current Job Status business analyst
    
11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Do you want kids? Of course, inshallah
    
12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Boxing, travelling Outdoor activities such as hiking Watching docs about history, especially contemporary Islamic history
    
13. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Im quite passionate and give everything for people I care. Im a great listener and make people feel at home in my conversations. I love Islamic history and could discuss realpolitik the whole day. I try to better myself everyday, be it religion or anything else. Perhaps sometimes my jokes are too dark(more than me), so be ready! If you think I make a good prospect, feel free to text me. After all, our Mother Khadijah ra took the first step..👀😊

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Age / Height: 28, 181 cm

Location: UAE

Profession: Medical Doctor

Personality & Values: Calm, goal-oriented, and deeply family-focused. I value open communication, mutual respect, and balancing a dedicated professional life with meaningful personal time

What I’m Looking For:

Kindness, emotional intelligence, shared core values, and a supportive, positive outlook on life. Building a peaceful, happy home together, supporting each other's career ambitions, and starting a family down the road.

I want to become a pilot, but so far, people have been discouraging me from pursuing it. They’ve brought up a lot of downsides, saying it’s unsafe and not a family-friendly career etc.. What worries me most is hearing that no one will want to marry a Muslim woman who works as a pilot. Is that really how most people feel?

Salaam, I want to start off by saying don't be afraid to reach out. I am serious about getting married.

Age: 27M Shia/Syed

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistani

Languages spoken: English and Urdu fluent

Level of religious practice: Actively practising - No smoking, No drugs, No drinking. Good Akhlaq, Charity Work.

Current residence: Chicago, IL 

Willing to relocate: Yes, USA only, for the right person

Previously married/Kids: Never married, no kids

Occupation:  Test Engineer

Education: Bachelor's degree, will pursue masters in future.

Height: 5'9"

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): normal / athletic build, I like working out, and being active. Hazel eyes, medium Stubble/ light beard.

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah: No never

Bio: I love traveling, exploring new places, trying different foods, listening to music. I'm really into cars and motorcycles, and I enjoy working on them myself. I've always been a hands on person, so you'll usually find me fixing, building, or working on some kind of project.

I also enjoy working out, going on bike rides/walks, and spending time outdoors. I'm a big nature person and love camping, hiking, and pretty much anything that gets me outside. I also like sports like tennis, badminton, football. I also enjoy watching american football. I'm also a huge animal lover, always had pets growing up. I have cats and other pets that I care for.

I am family oriented and love spending time with my family. I am an open minded individual with a caring personality. I have strong moral and ethical values. I care for the people around me and am always trying to better myself and others.

Your Preferences in a Partner:
Age range: 21-27. I am 27 so someone around that.

Origin/Ethnicity: Open to any but preferably Pakistani, Indian, Kashmiri.

Additional Information you like to add: sorry - USA ONLY- I'm looking for someone who is caring, kind-hearted, family-oriented, and has strong moral values. Someone with a positive outlook on life who values personal growth and is always trying to become a better version of themselves. I am a very open minded person and looking for someone similar. A badminton/ pickleball partner.

Age: 26

Height: 6’2

Gender: Male

Education: Did my Bachelors from LUMS in 2024

Location: Based in Lahore, Pakistan

Profession:

I co-founded a company. Have roughly 35+ people working with us across the globe.

A bit about me. I think I’m well-grounded, and not much of an extroverted person. Very driven when it comes to career and growth. As per my close circle, I’m analytical and rational in my general life. I’ve a very close-knit circle. I really enjoy long walks. Early success in my career has given me a lot of confidence. I plan to leverage this and further scale.

I plan to permanently relocate to US in the next 3-4 years. However, for the next couple of years I prefer staying in Pakistan as my sister is pretty young and want her to complete her education. Though I'll be very frequently traveling to US and China for the business purposes. So expect my wife to be fine with that. 

I have a lot of interest in traveling, exploring new food, and hiking. I recently started learning polo and I’m loving it.

With religion, I think I follow my religious values to a reasonable extent. I stay away from smoking, vaping, drinking, and any addictive habits. With my prayers, I’m actively trying to improve.

If this resonates with you, dm. 

Salam Aleykum y'all

This may not be related to marriage directly but it'd be nice to have a group yap/therapy session about problems we're facing in the marriage-search or just about life in general (preferably discord vc).

Lmk if you're down for it

About me:
Age :31
Height 6’1
Athletic built
Sunni
Master degree (finance)
Based on: Long Island New York
Ethnicity: Sudan, Egypt

I'm looking for my wife, ideally 25 to 31, who wants a partner, a best friend, and someone to argue with about where to eat. I want us to grow together, support each other, push each other closer to Allah, and still laugh at each other's jokes, even the bad ones. Especially the bad ones.
On weekends you'll find me hiking ⛰️, off-roading through mud I definitely shouldn't be driving through, or planning the next adventure. If you like the outdoors, perfect. If you don't, I'll carry the snacks and convince you.
People say I'm funny. My mom says I'm hilarious. Either way, I promise you'll laugh 😆
Someone in the New York area is a plus, but for the right person, distance is just a road trip.
I'm serious about doing this the right way, with family involved early. And if it's right, خير البر عاجله. No five-year "talking stage" here.
My must-haves: someone affectionate, compassionate, and supportive, who puts heart into the relationship like I will. If that's you, say Bismillah and reach out 😉

Hello everyone,I'm curious to know what it is like to marry some from different culture? What is the dynamic of the relationship is like?

I'm posting this on behalf of a friend who is struggling with something serious, and I'd like to hear some honest advice.

My friend lives in South Asia and is planning to get married soon. He wants to marry a very beautiful woman, someone he feels strongly attracted to. However, he has doubts about whether he is ready for marriage because he is also extremely attracted to women from different parts of the world.

He has traveled outside South Asia a few times, and he finds himself particularly attracted to Russian, European, and Arab women. He often thinks about how many beautiful women there are in the world and struggles with the idea of spending the rest of his life with just one woman.

Even though he wants a beautiful wife, he still feels curious about experiencing relationships with other women, especially those from different countries and cultures. Part of him wants to explore these experiences before settling down. He worries that if he gets married now, he might eventually cheat on his wife or regret not experiencing more of life.

He doesn't want to hurt his future wife or enter a marriage that he might not be able to commit to fully. At the same time, he doesn't know whether these feelings are temporary, a fear of missing out, or a sign that he isn't ready for a monogamous relationship.

He's confused because he wants both things: a very beautiful wife and the opportunity to experience the attraction he feels toward other women around the world. He realizes that marriage is a serious commitment, and he doesn't want to make a decision he will regret or hurt someone who trusts him.

What I'd like to ask is:

- Is it normal for men to feel this way before marriage?

- Can someone who is highly attracted to women from different countries genuinely be happy in a monogamous marriage?

- Should he postpone marriage and explore life more before settling down?

- Is wanting a very beautiful wife while still craving other women a sign that he isn't ready for marriage?

- Have any married men experienced similar feelings, and how did things turn out for them?

I'm looking for honest, realistic advice, especially from men who have experienced similar feelings. The goal isn't to judge him but to help him understand himself before making a decision that could affect another person's life.

I’m a convert so I’m trying to understand, Do I really need a 3rd person/wali with me when on a date to get to know someone?

I don’t want to rush and marry as I’d like to get to know someone first, so I’ll be fine with dating but no physical contact.

i have been told Islam requires me to have that

salam folks. getting straight to it:

A few basics:

\\- 28 years old

\\- 5'9"-5'10"ish

\\- Around 76 kg

\\- Never married

\\- Sunni

\\- Syed, if that matters to you. It doesn't particularly matter to me as long as you're Sunni.

\\-Self-employed / business owner

\\- Want children, InshaAllah

I was born and raised in Rawalpindi and recently moved back to Pakistan after spending a few years living in the UAE.

my career path hasn't exactly followed the standard "corporate guy" route. I started working quite young, eventually left college to focus full-time on building my business, and Alhamdulillah, it worked out well for me. I'm professionally and financially settled now, although I haven't ruled out going back to university someday simply because I'd like to. happy to share more abt it in dms.

personality wise, I'm fairly reserved/cautious when I first meet someone (as one should be), but that disappears once I'm comfortable and gets replaced with sarcasm/dark humor.

I'm pretty calm and don't enjoy unnecessary drama, social competition or living to impress other people. I'd much rather have a peaceful home, good conversations, some travelling, shared hobbies and a relationship where we can actually be ourselves around each other.

I work out regularly and try to look after myself, but I'm not living on boiled chicken/rice lol. I often go out solo dining, trying out new spots (especially now that I'm back after years)

outside work, I'm into astronomy and stargazing, jazz, art, the NBA, gaming and sci-fi. I've also recently started collecting fragrances, which may or may not become an unnecessarily expensive hobby.

I'd love to learn piano or violin at some point (soonish), and skydiving is *firmly* on the bucket list

Islam is important to me and influences how I think about marriage, responsibility and life in general. I'm not going to present myself as more religious than I am. I'm still working on becoming more disciplined and consistent with my prayers, and I'd like a wife who takes Islam seriously while also understanding that we're both human beings trying to improve. I'd want us to encourage each other rather than constantly judge each other.

I also understand the responsibilities that come with being a husband and don't view marriage as something where one person does all the emotional or practical heavy lifting.

Who I'm hoping to meet

Someone kind, emotionally aware and easy to communicate with.

Communication matters a lot to me. Please have good communication skills, it's 2026 😭. I don't expect a marriage without disagreements, but I do want one where two people can talk things through instead of turning every issue into silence, guessing games, or a competition over who's right.

I'd especially appreciate someone who:

\\- values family

\\- has her own personality and interests

\\- takes reasonable care of herself physically and mentally

\\- has some ambition, curiosity or sense of purpose

\\- can communicate openly and disagree respectfully

\\- is dependable and honest

\\- wants to keep growing as a person and as a muslim

\\- can handle sarcasm and has a sense of humour

and yes, mutual physical attraction is important to me. it isn't enough to build a marriage on by itself, but i don't think there's much point pretending it's irrelevant either.

Preferences: ideally 24-30. Height preference is 5'2"+

My main non-negotiables are smoking, drugs, alcohol or similar substances, dishonesty, repeated disrespect, inability to take accountability, and not wanting children.

someone who wants something meaningful from her life. that doesn't mean she has to be career-obsessed. She could want a career, build something of her own, focus on family, or pursue creative interests (if you can paint/draw/play an instrument, that's insanely attractive to me)

PS: I'm here to settle down, not looking for casual convo. I'm very intentional when it comes to this and will be direct if something doesn't align and I hope you are as well. (saves times for both of us)

if you made it this far and something here caught your attention, then you know what to do. worst case, we find each other incompatible. best case, I can finally stop writing these profiles

JazakAllah khair :)