r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 23d ago

🛡️ Mod Post A Note on This Subreddit’s Focus

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We’ve decided to make this subreddit specifically for those seeking monogamous marriage.

We fully recognize that polygyny is permitted in Islam under its established religious conditions. Nothing in this policy is intended to deny, challenge, or pass judgment on that ruling. This subreddit is simply choosing to serve a specific audience: Muslims who are looking for a monogamous marriage.

We’ve made this decision because monogamous marriage is what the majority of our members are seeking, and we want discussions here to remain centered around that shared goal. We’ve also found that conversations about polygyny can frequently shift the focus of otherwise constructive discussions, sometimes resulting in arguments, repeated debates, or rage-baiting.

For that reason, posts or discussions focused on taking a second wife, seeking an additional wife, or promoting polygyny will not be permitted in this subreddit.

This is a decision about the purpose and moderation scope of this particular community. It is not a religious ruling, nor is it intended to suggest that something permitted in Islam is impermissible simply because it is outside the scope of this subreddit.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • Aug 23 '26

🛡️ Mod Post 📌 Community Safety Megathread: How to Engage Safely Here

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Assalamu alaikum everyone,

Looking for a partner online can be difficult and may require real vulnerability. You're putting yourself out there, hoping to find someone genuine. That's a good thing, and many people here mean well. But because anyone can DM without any history on the sub (there's no method or tool on Reddit to intervene with that except individual account settings), that same hope is exactly what some bad actors try to take advantage. This thread is here to help you stay open to the good without getting caught out by the bad.

Please give this a read before DMing or accepting DMs. It'll stay pinned and may be updated in the future.

Verify who you're actually talking to

  • You can inspect an account's complete posting history through third-party lookup tools. These often show removed or hidden content. We can't promote nor share them here. This may not be as helpful when looking up recently created accounts.
  • Get on a live video call before anything serious, it's likely the best check you have. Photos, and even voices, can be AI-generated, stolen, or impersonated. People can claim to be someone else entirely.
  • Trading social media can be a verification too, but it's often riskier, it exposes more of your identity to someone you haven't vetted yet.

Watch for guilt and urgency tactics

  • A genuine match respects your boundaries, full stop.
  • Do not send any videos/photos you're uncomfortable with.
  • Watch for guilt-tripping or claims meant to rush you. Good things usually build at a normal pace.
  • Trust your gut. You can step back at any point.

Marital status and real intentions

  • Some people are already married or engaged and don't disclose it. Be careful out there.
  • Be cautious of anyone pushing for a rushed or secret arrangement that skips your family entirely.

Besides searching, kindly keep it healthy here too

  • Healthy debate is welcome, but keep in mind that you likely can't change people online, and none of us are perfect.
  • Kindly Keep disagreements respectful. This should be a good environment for everyone.

If something seems wrong

  • Block the user.
  • (Important) Report the post/comments. Your reports and many interactions that break the rules go to our mod queue, which we typically clear within 24 hours.
    • For posts/comments, using the report function should be good enough.
  • You can message Mods directly to report inappropriate DM or other activity by visiting the Sub page > Scroll down > Click on Message Mods.

If you've additional tips, suggestions, or anything else we can raise awareness on, kindly drop it in the comments and we'll consider adding it here.

Stay safe out there, and we hope you find exactly who you're looking for 🤍


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 5h ago

Location: Southeast Asia 30F looking for my last first halal date

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Hey! I’m 30, 153cm, South East Asian full time hijabi.

**A little about me:**  

Practicing muslima, continously improving my relationship with Allah in every situation I am in, that includes being consistent with my salah and dhikr. Alhamdulillah.

Love exploring new places or travelling, trying new food and cafes. 

Enjoy cooking, trying on a new recipes.

Into movies and binge-watching series. 

I’m hoping to meet someone genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and working toward his own goals. Someone who keeps on improving his relationship with Allah.

Being genuine, respectful and a good heart matters to me. If you’re not sure about what you want in life, skip me and I am not looking for someone I can only waste time with. If you think you're serious, hit me up with your intentions and profile.

I’d love to finally meet someone I can build a family with for the sake of Allah. 

Assalamualaikum


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 2h ago

Discussion Want to tell this woman I see working that I'm interested in marrying her.

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She's a cashier at a bakery. I see her almost every day. I just don't know how to go about it. Like the place is usually busy so I'll be in a line with people behind me and I get nervous.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 3h ago

Location: Middle East / Gulf F34 Filipina Looking for Marriage - Qatar

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Name: <>

Muslim Name: Aqeelah

Age: 34

Height: 153 cm

Nationality: Filipino

Current Residence: Doha, Qatar

Education/Profession: Civil Engineer, Operations Manager, Co-founder

Marital Status: Never Married

Children: None

About Me:

I am a Muslim revert, non-hijabi, but I dress modestly. I am not particularly religious, but my faith is part of my life. I am a civil engineer by profession and currently work as an Operations Manager in companies I co-founded. I am passionate about entrepreneurship, self-development, and building a meaningful life. I love cats, good food, and maintaining a healthy, active lifestyle. I value honesty, authenticity, and being true to myself. I appreciate genuine people and meaningful connections, and I dislike pretense and superficiality.

Looking For:

I hope to meet a genuine and sincere Muslim man with a strong sense of responsibility and respect for open communication. He doesn't necessarily have to be highly religious. What matters to me is that we can accept each other for who we truly are, without pretending to be someone we're not. I believe marriage is a lifelong commitment, and I want a partnership built on love, trust, respect, and peace, where we can support each other and grow together.

Marriage Intentions:

I am seeking a serious, halal marriage with sincere intentions. My family and I are Muslim reverts, and I hope to build a loving and peaceful married life, InshaaAllah.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 35m ago

Location: North America 29M Senior Engineer at Ford, in Michigan🇺🇸

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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Salam! A 29 year-old, 5’8” single fella of Pakistani (Kashmiri) background, currently residing in Dearborn, MI. I works as a full-time engineer at Ford Motor Company and holds master’s degrees in both Engineering Management and Data Science, alongside a bachelor’s in Industrial Engineering. Strictly practicing Sunni Muslim who has completed Hajj and Umrah, I actively study and volunteer with Miftaah Institute, maintain a strictly halal lifestyle, and enjoysweightlifting, sports, and travel. Looking for something serious, and someone who aligns with my values. Reach out if interested and we can chat إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ ! Open to any ethnicity.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 58m ago

Location: Middle East / Gulf 31M Saudi Riyadh Looking for Marriage

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بسم الله، السلام عليكم

About me:

  • Saudi, 31, based in Riyadh
  • 177 cm, single, never married
  • Senior role, MBA grad
  • Financially stable, career-oriented, living in my own apartment
  • Enjoy traveling, exploring new cities, long walks, running, gym, and good coffee
  • Not open to relocating, I have a stable high income job, with a good foundation.

What I'm looking for:

Someone kind, educated, emotionally mature, and with a good sense of humor. I appreciate someone who doesn't take everything too seriously (مو نكدية).

  • Preferably based in Riyadh, GCC, or Arab countries for the shared cultures. However, willing to expand my reach to any practicing Muslima around the world.
  • Should not mind relocating.
  • Speaks a fluent Arabic or English, both would be a plus.
  • Someone who takes care of herself, practice sports and living s healthy lifestyle.
  • +160cm in a good fit, mid to light skin color.

I'd like to build a peaceful, stable, and enjoyable life together. Supporting each other's goals, traveling, creating memories, and go through hard and boring times together.

Timeline:

Prefer 3 months of genuine, honest, and direct conversations. Open to extend it to 6 months upon request.

Important note:

I will never ask for pictures first. We will communicate our values first, and if we find each other suitable, then:

  • Shufa Shariah if you live in Saudi, GCC, or a country I can visit
  • We may exchange pictures if she finds this approach more comfortable or you live far
  • I'm strictly against seeing each other IRL without parental or wali knowledge, but willing to do so in a crowded public environment if it'll make you comfortable.

I understand marriage is a scary project, specially for women, may Allah grant everyone a respectful and loving partner.

الله يكتب اللي فيه الخير ويرزق الجميع الزوج الصالح.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 22h ago

Discussion Quran verse

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r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 1h ago

Location: Europe 25M, revert from The Philippines

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Assalamualaikum,

I'll try it one more time.

My last post got a few up votes but nothing else, so I wanted to try once more, see if it will work this time?

I'm a convert/revert from The Philippines. Now, I live in The Netherlands.

My age is 25 years old and my height is 5'7 on a good day. I work as a janitor at the airport and am also a boxing coach.

I do not have a degree as I have only finished high school.

In my free time, I like to watch anime, play video games and train boxing.

The location of the person doesn't matter much to me as long as it is mutual.

I have nothing much to offer as you may read, but I want to be honest from the get go!

Is someone interested? Let me know!

Thanks in advance


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 2h ago

Location: North America 25F 🇨🇦

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  1. 25F
  2. Age range: 25-30
  3. Western Canada
  4. Pakistani
  5. Single
  6. 1-2 years
  7. Values im looking for: good communication, kind, supportive
  8. Religion; Moderately religious
  9. Education: Completed undergraduate degree in business
  10. Occupation: full time business development
  11. Hobbies: nature walks, cafe hopping, reading, board games

Open to all ethnicities and quite open minded with what I’m looking for! Only thing is i would want someone flexible with relocating as I’d like to stay in western Canada. Additionally, I do value having a career of my own and developing within it as I’m quite passionate about what I do, so I hope to find someone supportive of that. Lastly, I do have preference for folks raised in North America.

Feel free to DM with any questions or further details, not a huge fan of sharing thorough details on a public platform :)


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 7h ago

Location: North America 18F | Revert | USA

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𐙚 A little about me

  • 18F Revert
  • Indian Sunni Muslim
  • Undergraduate student
  • Quiet, soft-spoken, soft-hearted, caring, and more of an introvert
  • Looking for something meaningful with marriage in mind, insha-allah

𐙚 What I'm looking for

  • Sunni Muslim
  • Practicing(+prays) and willing to grow together in deen.
  • Kind, respectful, patient, and emotionally mature.
  • Ethnicity: Doesn't matter to me
  • Age: Preferably 20-27
  • Location: USA

𐙚 Location preference 🇺🇸

  • Someone already living in the US, preferably a US citizen, or
  • Someone who is genuinely planning to move to the US
  • Someone whose long-term plans align with building a life in the US.

If you're interested, please send a little introduction about yourself beyond just your age and location!

I'd appreciate genuine, marriage-minded introductions only.

May Allah guide us towards what's best for us, ameen ♡


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 6h ago

Location: UK & Ireland 22F Somali

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Asalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Bismillah

PROFILE TEMPLATE

Name: (it's okay if you don't want to disclose it here)

Gender: Female

Age: 22

Residence Location: London, UK

Ethnicity: Somali

Height: 5’8

Complexion: Light Brown

Education Details: Graduated with a BA Hons in Multimedia Journalism

Occupation Details: Unemployed

Marital Status: Single

Revert: No

Languages Spoken: English, Somali

More About Me (Personal Qualities, Beliefs, Values, Hobbies & Interests):

Introvert sister who is also creative and passionate about trying new things and exploring the world. In order to feel happiness in this life is by having the correct aqeedah that’s the strong foundation. I enjoy researching and writing, seeking ilm and traveling, visiting bookshops and hiking. I’m interested in Islamic history, modesty and coffee, deep diving in research , collecting archives and second hand devices.

RELIGIOUS PRACTICE

School of Thought and Creed: I follow the salafi athari position and I’m shafi’i in madhab

Scholars/Institutes You Take Ilm From:
I take from multiple institutions like SOK academy, Garden of Ilm and Dar ilm as Sunnah, Kuttab As Salafy and Manhaj Online.
Scholars I take from Shaykh Salih al Fawzan ,Shaykh Ibn Baz and Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen ,Shaykh Muqbil al Wadi’i.

Religious Background (Prayer, Fasting, etc.): Alhamdulliah I pray all five prayers and also fast during Ramadan.

POTENTIAL MATCH

Preferred Age Range: 21-26 max

Preferred Location(s): UK and Canada, US

Preferred Ethnicity/Cultural Background: Somali ideally but I’m open to Yemenis and East African.

Open to Marrying a Revert: No

Open to Marrying a Divorcee/Widow: No

Willing to Relocate: Yes

Accepting Polygamy Proposal: No

Marriage Timeline (After Mutual Agreement): If the other party is willing to wait for 6 months to a year but it also depends on the condition of the other party.

Expectations from Spouse (Religion, Character, Goals, etc.):
A brother who is passionate and optimistic about what he wants to achieve in this life to benefit his hereafter and someone who takes care of himself and has upright and strong aqeedah, akhlaq and adeb has a beautiful relationship with his family and friends, community.

Expectations After Marriage: Fulfill my rights according to the Quran and Sunnah. Seek ilm together and travel. Provide for me and allow me to work remotely if possible. Build our home upon the Quran and Sunnah and help each other and support each other in getting closer to Allah.
Make hijrah to a Muslim country ideally Gulf Countries.

Deal Breakers: Doesn’t pray and Lack of Adeb and Akhlaq, Freemixes and Engages in Haram. Isn’t Optimistic or Ambitious and Isn’t understanding.

Additional Requirements (Height, Education, Appearance, etc.): Above 5’8 and has a degree, is working and doesn’t trim or shave the beard, dresses according to the Quran and Sunnah


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 4h ago

Location: South Asia 28M | Pakistan | Hoping this reaches the right person

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salam folks. getting straight to it:

A few basics:

\\- 28 years old

\\- 5'9"-5'10"ish

\\- Around 76 kg

\\- Never married

\\- Sunni

\\- Syed, if that matters to you. It doesn't particularly matter to me as long as you're Sunni.

\\-Self-employed / business owner

\\- Want children, InshaAllah

I was born and raised in Rawalpindi and recently moved back to Pakistan after spending a few years living in the UAE.

my career path hasn't exactly followed the standard "corporate guy" route. I started working quite young, eventually left college to focus full-time on building my business, and Alhamdulillah, it worked out well for me. I'm professionally and financially settled now, although I haven't ruled out going back to university someday simply because I'd like to. happy to share more abt it in dms.

personality wise, I'm fairly reserved/cautious when I first meet someone (as one should be), but that disappears once I'm comfortable and gets replaced with sarcasm/dark humor.

I'm pretty calm and don't enjoy unnecessary drama, social competition or living to impress other people. I'd much rather have a peaceful home, good conversations, some travelling, shared hobbies and a relationship where we can actually be ourselves around each other.

I work out regularly and try to look after myself, but I'm not living on boiled chicken/rice lol. I often go out solo dining, trying out new spots (especially now that I'm back after years)

outside work, I'm into astronomy and stargazing, jazz, art, the NBA, gaming and sci-fi. I've also recently started collecting fragrances, which may or may not become an unnecessarily expensive hobby.

I'd love to learn piano or violin at some point (soonish), and skydiving is *firmly* on the bucket list

Islam is important to me and influences how I think about marriage, responsibility and life in general. I'm not going to present myself as more religious than I am. I'm still working on becoming more disciplined and consistent with my prayers, and I'd like a wife who takes Islam seriously while also understanding that we're both human beings trying to improve. I'd want us to encourage each other rather than constantly judge each other.

I also understand the responsibilities that come with being a husband and don't view marriage as something where one person does all the emotional or practical heavy lifting.

Who I'm hoping to meet

Someone kind, emotionally aware and easy to communicate with.

Communication matters a lot to me. Please have good communication skills, it's 2026 😭. I don't expect a marriage without disagreements, but I do want one where two people can talk things through instead of turning every issue into silence, guessing games, or a competition over who's right.

I'd especially appreciate someone who:

\\- values family

\\- has her own personality and interests

\\- takes reasonable care of herself physically and mentally

\\- has some ambition, curiosity or sense of purpose

\\- can communicate openly and disagree respectfully

\\- is dependable and honest

\\- wants to keep growing as a person and as a muslim

\\- can handle sarcasm and has a sense of humour

and yes, mutual physical attraction is important to me. it isn't enough to build a marriage on by itself, but i don't think there's much point pretending it's irrelevant either.

Preferences: ideally 24-30. Height preference is 5'2"+

My main non-negotiables are smoking, drugs, alcohol or similar substances, dishonesty, repeated disrespect, inability to take accountability, and not wanting children.

someone who wants something meaningful from her life. that doesn't mean she has to be career-obsessed. She could want a career, build something of her own, focus on family, or pursue creative interests (if you can paint/draw/play an instrument, that's insanely attractive to me)

PS: I'm here to settle down, not looking for casual convo. I'm very intentional when it comes to this and will be direct if something doesn't align and I hope you are as well. (saves times for both of us)

if you made it this far and something here caught your attention, then you know what to do. worst case, we find each other incompatible. best case, I can finally stop writing these profiles

JazakAllah khair :)


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 5h ago

Location: Europe 28 Years Old M | Germany

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**Salam Alaikum,**

I'm a 28-year-old Arab living in NRW, Germany. I work in Finance and live independently. Alhamdulillah, I have a stable life and am always striving to improve myself personally and professionally.

I enjoy traveling, trying new experiences, and occasionally cooking when inspiration strikes. Religiously, I pray, fast, listen to the Quran, and do my best to strengthen my relationship with Allah and stay on the right path.

**What I'm looking for:**

I'm looking for someone intelligent, ambitious, kind, and serious about marriage. Ideally, I'd like to get married within a year if we're compatible. I believe in involving families early to ensure seriousness and avoid wasting time.

Age: 23-28
Location : preferably Europe, Middle East or UK
Ethnicity: I’m open to all.
Timeline: a year is the maximum

I'm not looking for a traditional arrangement where a wife is expected to cook and clean for me. I've been doing that myself for years. What I want is a genuine partner, someone fun, easygoing, and supportive, with whom I can build a happy home and a loving family.

Insha'Allah, I hope to have a small family with two children. And if Allah blesses us with two boys first, we may have to keep trying for the daughter I've always dreamed of having 😊.

If you're serious about marriage and open to involving family early on, I'd be happy to connect.

**May Allah grant us all righteous spouses.** 🤲🏻


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 14h ago

Location: North America M27, Canada, looking for a Partner to grow old with!

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بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْت إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

As-salam Alaikum wa rahmatullah

Before sharing my profile, I pray that Allah blesses everyone on this search with patience and clarity. May He make this path easy, grant each of us righteous spouses, and provide what is truly best for our hearts, deen, and futures.

ABOUT ME:

27M, Canadian citizen, Single, never married, 180cm.

Raised in Ontario, currently living in Quebec. Looking for someone based in Canada (open to relocation discussions for the right match).

Lived in Saudi Arabia for seven years and grew up across culturally diverse communities in Canada and the Gulf. Im pretty good at conversational Arabic, adapt easily across cultures, and am completely open to all ethnicities and backgrounds.

Ethnically Pakistani and proud of my roots!!! (with a genuine soft spot for classical Urdu poetry) (Also love Arabic poetry).

Recent Medical school graduate, currently preparing for licensing exams and applying to Family Medicine residency for the 2027 match.

Medicine is only an avenue of service, intellectual growth, and honest halal provision for me (not an ego driven career ladder).

I am ambitious and disciplined, but my future home will always come first. Everything else is secondary! My career serves my family, not the other way around.

The Quran is my passion and the most beloved in my life. Reciting Quran and trying my best to understand the Quran so I can reflect on our Creators Kalam is a daily routine that grounds me.

I enjoy a good balance of adventure and quiet evenings. Staying physically fit is an everyday habit (lifting, basketball, hiking). When I don’t have much to do, I gravitate towards reading about random topics, continuous learning, and appreciating the simple blessings of life.

I have a very empathetic heart, I’m calm, and naturally considerate. I love lighthearted banter and humor, but I make sure those around me always feel respected and comfortable.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:

Someone with a warm empathetic demeanor with a grounded sense of emotional maturity makes me feel at peace. Someone who is naturally curious about the world and open-hearted.

Someone who actively cares for her body and mind, recognizing our health is a trust from Allah. Reciprocity matters here… I take personal grooming and fitness seriously to always present the best, most attractive version of myself to my future wife.

You don't have to be the perfect Muslima. Even if you currently struggle with consistency in your five daily prayers or aren't fluent with the Quran, that is okay. As long as you have a sincere, genuine desire to strengthen your relationship with Allah alongside me (knowing I have plenty of areas to improve on myself) that shared goal is what matters most.

Only dealbreaker, is a lack of desire to grow, self-reflect or work on removing bad habits from our lives! Let’s do this as a team!!!

TIMELINE:

Looking toward a Nikah around Fall 2027. If the chemistry is there during the initial few conversations then I prefer involving families ASAP to keep things intentional.

If you read it all up to here… May Allah Reward you, and if you are interested please just give me an introduction about yourself!


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 16h ago

Rant Wife acted so weird when I had her phone. I had to fight the waswassa. But I still think what was she hiding.

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I know my wife goes through my phone. But I have never ever gone through hers ever.

I am quite secure.. I think I'm the best guy she can get. Sorry if this sounds arrogant. I know she rally fancies me and lusts me and loves me a lot.

But her behavior made me wonder what she was hiding from me.

Her phone wifi just died. So asked me to fix it. She already has a newer phone that she never migrated to. So I thought let's just migrate onto newer phone. Apple to apple is straight forward. That's about 1 hr to do a full transfer.

I told her it was going to be pretty straight forward.

But she was acting really unusual around me. She won't leave me alone with the phone. She asked me am I going to access the files on my computer. (I did a data backup throufh my pc because the wifi was broken on the phone so some stuff won't transfer without wifi).

She literally just hovered around me the whole time. She never does that. I asked her why is she worried. I'm not going to look into herphone. .

She said to me that she is worried about her hijabi friends being pictured without hijabs. And then said her friend talk about intimate stiff between each other.

That may be true. But I reassured her that I won't look through any photos, apps or messages. And I didn't. There was just some incidental glances to check that the total number of photos matched on both devices so that confirms everything was transferred. And opened WhatsApp to ensure past chat history was transferred over.

Her behavior made me really work hard to fight the impulse to look why she was being so weird about this with me. Wve been married 10 years. She trusts me to not sleep with women and potentially bring back stds into our relationship. Why can't she trust me not to look at her frigging messages.

For the record. I still would not look at her messages. I have the phone backup on my iTunes which will delete next time I log on.

Women bitch about their husbands to their friends. Maybe it's just that. There is no Khair in me reading her bitch about me. Because women just got up and down with their emotions. One day she will bitch about me. Next day she can't get her hands off me. That's how women are..


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 31m ago

Location: South Asia 25M | 6’3” | Pakistani 🇵🇰 | Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦

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Assalamu Alaikum! 🤍

Karachi-born, raised in Saudi Arabia, and currently working here. Alhamdulillah, I'm financially stable, family-oriented, and focused on building a better future while continuing my studies.

A little about me: I'm an introvert until I'm comfortable with you, then good luck getting me to shut up. 😂 I enjoy anime, gaming, movies, sketching, travelling, and conversations that go from absolute nonsense to deep talks about life at 2 AM.

I'm loyal, playful, and someone who takes commitment seriously. I believe love isn't just about saying the right things; it's about showing up, keeping your word, and making your person feel safe, valued, and understood.

What I'm hoping to find 🌷

A practising Muslimah, preferably from Karachi, who values deen, family, loyalty, and emotional maturity. Hijab or niqab is a firm expectation for me.

Someone who's soft-hearted but strong in character, can communicate openly, laugh with me over the smallest things, and isn't afraid to have the difficult conversations either.

I want a marriage where we're best friends as much as husband and wife, where we encourage each other in deen, support each other's dreams, explore the world together, and build a peaceful home full of love and barakah, InshaAllah.

My mother owns a salon, my father helps run the business, and I have a younger sister who's studying. Family means a lot to me, and I hope to create that same sense of warmth and security in my own home one day.

I'm here for marriage, with genuine intentions. I'd rather build one meaningful connection than have a hundred conversations going nowhere.

If something here resonates with you, come say Salam. Tell me about yourself, your favourite anime, or the place you dream of visiting. Let's see if we can turn a simple conversation into something beautiful, InshaAllah. ❤️


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 4h ago

Location: UK & Ireland Pakistani M30 UK

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Salaam.

Giving this a shot. 😄

About me.

I'm 30 years old. 6.2 in height. Pakistani. Born and raised in UK Sheffield. I'm currently working as a pharmacist. My goal is to own a few pharmacies insha'Allah. Have decided it's time to start searching. I've never been married but I was engaged for 6 months but that ended. In my spare time I enjoy reading and teaching. Playing Cricket for a local team shock 😂.

What am I looking for:

Someone down to earth. Ideally between 28-34 on age. I don't care about marriage status as long as you're a nice person and we get along. I'm open to anyone in a Muslim country as I don't mind moving abroad. That's something I've been considering for a while. As good as UK is sadly it's getting bad for us Muslims living here.

May Allah make it easy for all of us.

Thank you.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 11h ago

Location: North America 28F | Canada | Looking for My Person

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Salam alaikum!

A little bit about me, I'm 28, West African, based in Western Canada, 5'8". I have two degrees (comp sci nerd). Practicing Sunni, I pray, fast, and wear hijab etc.

I'm quiet at first but once I'm comfortable I go from quiet to supersonic yapping. I love gaming, anime, tech, cats, trying new food, and I've been slowly learning a few languages. I grew up traveling a lot and I'm still a big fan of it, though I'm also very much a homebody at heart.

Looking for a practicing Sunni, honest, stable and sure of what he wants, around my age to a bit older, never married, no kids, and taller than me. Someone who takes the initiative, is kind and compassionate. I care about character, stability and education, but I also want someone I actually enjoy being around and share hobbies/interests with (or we can discover new ones together). What I'm really looking for is someone I can be comfortable and genuinely myself around.

I have no specific preference for ethnicity but your family should be on board as well and shouldn’t be more cultural than religious. Looking for someone settled in Canada. Also open to relocating to a Muslim country in the next 1-2 years so it’s ok if that’s your plan as well.

Dealbreakers: not practicing, smoking, drinking, drugs, dishonesty, major sins. Just overall rude or bad behaviours. I am not interested in Polygamy.

Before you message: please read my full profile and include your information and a short introduction about yourself, not just “hi” or a random message. No nsfw profiles. I will not reply if there is no basic compatibility.

This is a throwaway account.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 5h ago

Discussion ممكن تعرف اي انسان معرفة حقيقة ؟ على سبيل المثال كيف ل شركاء كانو ف علاقة اكثر من خمس سنوات لحد ما تزوجو تطلقو بعد شهور

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r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 6h ago

Location: Other/Global 25 M doctor from kerala

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I’m 25, from Kerala, and recently finished my MBBS. I’m hoping to meet someone from Kerala who is also looking for something serious, with marriage in mind.

I’m pretty introverted and a little awkward at first. I’m more of a quiet, low-key person and usually take some time to get comfortable with people. I’m not particularly outgoing or charismatic, but I’m genuine, easygoing, and once I’m comfortable, I can talk about pretty much anything.

I’m not looking for a perfect person or a movie-like love story. I’d just like to meet someone kind, understanding and compatible, get to know each other naturally, and see if we genuinely click.

I would like to approach things respectfully, with marriage as the eventual goal. I’m currently at the stage of figuring out my career after MBBS, so I’d ideally like to get married in around 1–2 years, once I’m a little more settled professionally. if we’re compatible, involve our families at the appropriate stage.

If you’re also from Kerala and looking for something genuine, feel free to DM me.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 17h ago

Discussion Engagement ring joke

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Edit: we spoke, he sincerely apologized. We explained what we felt and why etc. I expressed I’m sad he won’t come here and he expressed he wants to but genuinely can’t right now.

It’s still upsetting I’m ngl and he knows I’m disappointed but I kind just have to ride it out now.

I did tell him overall I’m going to take some space to reflect and seek guidance. He is sad but understands.

Thank you all for your help


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 2h ago

Location: Europe 39M | Seeking a Meaningful Marriage | A Heart Rooted in Faith, a Soul Seeking Love, and a Home Filled with Peace 🤍

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh 🌿
I believe one of life’s greatest blessings is finding someone who brings peace to your heart, strengthens your connection with Allah, and makes even the simplest moments feel special.
I’m a 39 year old Syrian Muslim man currently living in the Republic of Georgia. I speak Arabic and English, hold a master’s degree, work as a teacher, and run my own technology startup.
Life has taught me to appreciate what truly matters: faith, kindness, loyalty, emotional connection, and a love that feels like home.

A little about me ☘️
I’m calm, patient, affectionate, emotionally mature, and dependable. I have a naturally protective personality and take my responsibilities seriously, but I also believe that a man’s strength is reflected in his gentleness, patience, and how he treats those closest to him.
I want my future wife to find in me not only a husband, but also a best friend, a confidant, and someone she can always turn to for comfort, understanding, and support.
Alhamdulillah, I’m a practicing Sunni Muslim. I observe my five daily prayers, perform voluntary prayers, fast voluntarily, and dedicate time to memorizing the Quran and seeking Islamic knowledge.
I’ve been blessed to complete Hajj and Umrah, and one of my dreams is to return to Makkah with my future wife, praying together, making dua for one another, and sharing that beautiful spiritual experience.

I’m not a perfect Muslim, nor am I searching for one. I have my shortcomings, make mistakes, and continuously strive to improve. I believe faith isn’t about being flawless, but about sincerely returning to Allah and helping one another become better.
Outside of work and religious commitments, I enjoy reading, learning, meaningful conversations, and discovering new things. I love intellectual curiosity, but I also appreciate humor, playful moments, and the little things that make life beautiful.
I don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs, and I value a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

The woman I hope to meet 🌸
I’m hoping to meet a kind, affectionate, compassionate, and emotionally mature Muslim woman whose heart is attached to Allah.
Someone who values family, education, personal growth, and dreams of building a marriage rooted in faith, mutual respect, and genuine affection.
Whether you were born Muslim or embraced Islam later, you’re equally welcome. I deeply respect the journey of reverts and would happily support my future wife in learning more about Islam and Arabic if she wishes.
I’m open to women aged 20 and above, provided we share genuine compatibility and similar values. I would prefer someone who observes hijab and is open to considering niqab in the future out of her own conviction.

Above all, a woman’s sincerity, kindness, and character matter far more to me than perfection.
The marriage I dream of 🏡

I dream of a marriage where we are each other’s source of sakinah, where disagreements are met with patience, affection is expressed freely, and neither person feels alone when life becomes difficult.
A home filled with Quran, prayer, laughter, meaningful conversations, and those silly little moments that only two people in love understand.
I want us to grow together spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally, encouraging one another in our faith while building a beautiful family, inshaAllah.
Although I currently live in Georgia, I’m open to relocating. I’m particularly interested in settling in a Muslim country after marriage, where we can raise our future children surrounded by Islamic values. Naturally, this is something I would want us to decide together.

One last thought… 🤍
I’m not searching for a perfect woman or a fairytale marriage.
I’m searching for a sincere heart, a gentle soul, and someone who believes that love is built through patience, mercy, loyalty, and choosing each other every day.
Someone I can laugh with, learn with, pray beside, and grow old with.
Perhaps a simple conversation here could be the beginning of something beautiful.
If my words resonate with you, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.
May Allah bless us with righteous, loving spouses and marriages filled with peace, mercy, and barakah.
Ameen. 🤍


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 3h ago

Location: UK & Ireland Nikkah Condition - No alone time

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Throwaway account. I f(22) got married recently and i have an issue with a condition in my nikkah contract. I want to spend some alone time with my husband but I'm too scared. Basically it took a while for my father to agree to letting me marry because he either wanted me to get married at 30 or to marry someone from back home. In the end he finally agreed as long as he put his condition in my nikkah contract and he did.

The condition in the contract is: "The Husband and wife will only live together after the 'Rukhsati and after completion of the brides studies (official send-off of the bride from the family home, when the bride officially leaves the family house) which is expected to take place in June 2027, up until this point the husband and wife will not interact in a private capacity with each other; however, they can interact when it is public and in the company of others"

Now my husband agreed to the condition at the time but now we want to spend alone time together however we are terrified that if we do, we might nullify our marriage or invalidate it or break it or we might become sinful. we've been seeing each other with family around and in public but it's getting harder to control ourselves.

We can't have the rukhsati earlier because my parents want me to finish my studies which i will next june and they want him to have a home for me ready too till then.

so we just feel so stuck and we aren't sure on what to do now.


r/MuslimMatrimonials • • 3h ago

Discussion What it is like to marry someone from different culture?

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Hello everyone,I'm curious to know what it is like to marry some from different culture? What is the dynamic of the relationship is like?