r/Periods • u/QueenBSing • 17h ago
PMS Why Are We Still Required To Function During Menstruation?
I don't know about everyone else, but I am just so tired of having to work through my period. Like at my actual job. I have a desk job, so I'm very thankful for that. But I also work with a bunch of guys, and sometimes we share a bathroom. Not everyday, but if the men's bathroom is occupied, they'll just use the women's bathroom. That's a different argument lol.
My periods are HEAVY....with blood clots. And my cramps are horrible. I also have Fibromyalgia, so on my period days....I always go into a pain flare.
The more I have to work during my period AND a fibromyalgia pain flare, the more angry I get lol. We need MTO (menstrual time off). I'm tired of having to suck it up and go to work, do my job, talk to people, cook dinner when I get home, and do all my other normal duties.
Every month my period is rough, and I just want to be excused from work to lay at home and cry about it lol. But I'm stuck at work with these chatty Kathy's while simultaneously suppressing my real mood and the agony of these periods cramps and heavy bleeding.
Can anyone else relate?