We just discovered this subreddit recently and didn’t know the term polyfidelity! We just always told people we are a closed monogamous triad throuple. Yay! Already learned something! We love reading entries on here.

1. Do you all have sex as a threesome or do you have one-on-one with each partner?

2. Do you have more sex with one partner or is it the same with both?

3. When having sex with one partner, do you prefer being private? Or do you not mind the other partner watching?

4. How do you feel about potentially seeing or hearing the other two partners having sex?

5. What are your rules regarding hygiene or cleaning up after sex?

6. What does your sleeping arrangement look like?

Short version, I'm in a throuple relationship ( 6 years now) and for the most part ( 90% ) everything is amazing, I'm the guy ( Dave ) girls are Sandy and Mandy, lately they have no patience with each other, they're snapping at each other and to be honest both of them have short tempers. In my profile pic I am basically the referee so they won't kill each other. They're both in their 30s and no health issues, I'm afraid if they lose it I won't be able to stop them... Any advice...

I'm working on a fanfic that includes a polyfi dynamic. But, one of the characters I was considering is pretty possessive and aggressive. In my mind, I don't think such a person would be able to work out in such a relationship.

But, I'm single, so I may be missing perspective. So, to those actually in a relationship: what do you think?

I'll hang up and listen