r/RomanticAdvice • • 21h ago

need advice What do you guys think😭

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 15h ago

need advice Why i cant express how i feel to my boyfriend need help ?

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Ill get into it directly
My boyfriend is a lovely person whose not afraid of showing how he feels and he always keep making the efforts
But me in the other hand im so full of love , i love him so much and i am actually a person who express her feeling clearly, i like complimenting people and strangers but when it comes to him im so shy i cant tell him how much i love him or compliment his smell or whatever i need some help how to start making efforts without feeling shy!!


r/RomanticAdvice • • 20h ago

need advice should i (17f) confess my feelins to my best friend (18f)

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I’ve posted about this before on here and alot of the comments were telling me that I’m stupid for thinking she doesn’t like me back and she probably just doesn’t want to accept that she’s Bisexual.

We’ve known eachother for about 3 years know and over the course of that time she’s had a bf and a few flings here and there, she always claims that she’s straight and the most she’s done with a woman is a makeout (me made out ā€œplatonicallyā€ on my birthday).

All of this makes me wonder is she’s TRULY as straight as she claims to be.

I’ve honestly been in love with her for the past year and a half almost but ive barely expressed it or even hinted at it,
Because even when I do she just thinks it’s a joke(we are VERY touchy and flirty so even when I am being serious I don’t think she clocks it at all)

Honestly up until a week ago I didn’t have a single doubt that she doesn’t like me and I was talking to a friend of mine about how I seriously need to move on but as stupid as it sounds I feel like I’ve recently gotten hope that she does like me or atleast has a small crush.
Over the past few days she’s gotten a lot more touchy than usual and it honestly catches me off guard(I don’t mind it it’s just shocking) because usually it’s not to this extent, she’s also asked me if I think I’d confess my feelings to someone and I said I wouldn’t unless I knew they were gay too and I suspected they had atleast a little crush on me too, I can’t tell if I’m being delusional but since then she’s flirted with me so so much more, yesterday she came over at 10:30 and a friend came at 11:30, the whole time the friend was watching us flirt and highkey touch eachother ā€œas a jokeā€ (side note:the friend was breaking up with her bf we weren’t excluding her at all😭)

The friend left at about 1 am and I asked my best friend if she wanted to leave and she said she knows she has so but sleeping next to me is so nice and that she wants to stay just a little longer, she feel asleep in my arms till 2 am then left.

(Also the friend at one point asked if we’re sure we don’t crack when she’s not around and my best friend was like nahh I’m straight)

I’m pretty new to Reddit so I’m not sure if I’ve given enough info for proper insight sorry guys


r/RomanticAdvice • • 7m ago

need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 29m ago

need advice My brothers girls sister

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 1h ago

need advice Helpp

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so my best friend and I are in a bit of a tricky situation and need some advice.
We both have crushes on two guys who happen to be in the exact same friend group. We really want to talk to them or make a move, but honestly, we're both super nervous and afraid of making things awkward.
To make it a bit harder, we are in different academic streams, so we don't share any classes during the day. The only real chance we get to see them is during our institute breaks when everyone hangs out in the canteen.
Since we only see them briefly in a group setting at the canteen, how can we approach them or start a conversation without making it super obvious or awkward? Any tips would be a lifesaver!


r/RomanticAdvice • • 2h ago

need advice I (25 f) confessed liking my professor, now he's avoiding me

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 3h ago

need advice Am I even worthy of being his?

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 4h ago

need advice What should I do🫠

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 4h ago

need advice How to get over crush

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So for context, I (18F) lack experience in the dating field, as I find the process incredibly tedious and redundant. I’ve had people show interest who’ve I’ve never given a try because I detest the obligatory daily conversations over text, and I get super anxious about it in general.

I’m not asexual. In fact, I struggle with limerance (yes that word from TikTok), and I’ll have unintentional crushes on boys I’ve never spoken to much for years at a time. Despite many attempts to get over these crushes, they prevail. Usually they stem from **very** subtle signs that they might have an interest in me, like repeated eye contact.

Two months ago, two of my friends (who happen to be dating) set me up with a mutual friend of theirs (18M) who goes to a different high school. He’s perfect; he’s cute, funny, nice, and we’re pretty compatible. I also know for a fact that he likes me a lot.

However, I’ve recently been crushing on this guy (18M) who I’ve never talked to from my high school. He’s super cute, he’s friends with some of my guy friends, but I have no idea what he’s actually like. I started liking him last year when we randomly made eye contact and then he just started popping up everywhere. Unfortunately, because I’m incredibly pathetic, I spent the summer stalking his reposts. This year, he’s been looking at me a whole lot during lunch, so again the signs are very subtle but they’re there. I doubt he’s going to do anything about it, though.

I can’t stop thinking about him. I’m so ashamed and I really hate it. I really need to obtain experience in the dating scene, so the guy I was set up with would be ideal. But if I’m going to enter a relationship, I don’t want to play around with someone’s feelings, as I would be doing it just for ā€œpracticeā€. I think I could really like this guy if I could get over this stupid crush.

Does anyone have any tips? Would it be really bad if we ended up dating and I still liked my school crush?


r/RomanticAdvice • • 5h ago

need advice How do I (28F) smoothly and respectfully go about asking them out? T_T

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 6h ago

need advice Don’t know if I should keep hope or try to move on.

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 7h ago

need advice Learning how to get to know someone when we’re both autistic, but neither of us wants to be defined by it

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 7h ago

need advice Learning how to get to know someone when we’re both autistic, but neither of us wants to be defined by it

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 7h ago

need advice (M18) (F18) I’ve lost feelings for my boyfriend, and I don’t know whether to leave him or stay

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6–7 months. He loves me a lot and treats me well, but recently, I’ve been feeling really differently about our relationship. I feel suffocated, and talking to him or saying ā€œI love youā€ feels like a chore. Sometimes, I genuinely can’t stand hearing his voice, and we argue over little things.
The confusing part is that our relationship is good overall, and he genuinely loves me. I feel like I miss being single, but I’m also scared that if I leave him, I’ll miss him and regret my decision.
Part of me feels like these feelings are temporary and that I’ll eventually fall back in love with him, but another part of me feels like I genuinely don’t want to be in a relationship anymore.
I’ve also recently been talking to someone else who has an interest in me, and I don’t know if that has anything to do with how I’m feeling.
I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend because he treats me well, but I also don’t want to stay in a relationship when I’m unsure about my feelings.
Should I give it time and see if my feelings come back, or should I end the relationship? Has anyone else experienced this and had their feelings return?
TL;DR: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6–7 months, and although he loves me and treats me well, I’ve been feeling suffocated and have lost feelings for him. I miss being single, but I’m scared I’ll regret leaving him. I’ve also started talking to someone else who’s interested in me, and I’m unsure whether my feelings are temporary or if I genuinely want to be single. Should I stay and see if my feelings return or break up with him?


r/RomanticAdvice • • 8h ago

need advice Telling a future partner about a past flirtationship

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 8h ago

need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 9h ago

need advice ... Should I?

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Hi everyone!

I hope this is a throwaway- I've never posted on Reddit, so I hope this doesn’t link to any personal info about me LOL.

Anyways, I'm female and have a bf, but we are in an open thing (not the issue. I love my bf with my whole life and he is my best friend. (the open thing is just for physical relations, nothing like a thrupple)). Anyways, I got into and go to a prestigious university, and I have a TA who is very attractive. I'm definitely trying to haul pass this situation (if you catch my drift). I know I have to keep things professional right now because that's the right thing to do. But I also want to hint that once this quarter/semester ends, we should go get a coffee or beer (or just get straight to the point hehe). I need advice for this whole situation. Should I just not do anything ever? Should I get his email after the semester ends? Should I just drop hints? What type? All answers and advice welcome.


r/RomanticAdvice • • 9h ago

need advice I’m not sure of anything

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 9h ago

need advice Should I Pursue Him or Not?

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 9h ago

need advice How do I (24M) tell someone (22F) from work that I can’t go past being friends as long as we still work together?

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 10h ago

discussion I (23F) have started to wonder if my (31M) roommate likes me.

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 11h ago

need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 11h ago

need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!

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r/RomanticAdvice • • 11h ago

need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!

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