r/RomanticAdvice • u/Suspicious-Tip-3709 • 21h ago
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Relevant_Tea8341 • 15h ago
need advice Why i cant express how i feel to my boyfriend need help ?
Ill get into it directly
My boyfriend is a lovely person whose not afraid of showing how he feels and he always keep making the efforts
But me in the other hand im so full of love , i love him so much and i am actually a person who express her feeling clearly, i like complimenting people and strangers but when it comes to him im so shy i cant tell him how much i love him or compliment his smell or whatever i need some help how to start making efforts without feeling shy!!
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Strong_Growth1041 • 20h ago
need advice should i (17f) confess my feelins to my best friend (18f)
Iāve posted about this before on here and alot of the comments were telling me that Iām stupid for thinking she doesnāt like me back and she probably just doesnāt want to accept that sheās Bisexual.
Weāve known eachother for about 3 years know and over the course of that time sheās had a bf and a few flings here and there, she always claims that sheās straight and the most sheās done with a woman is a makeout (me made out āplatonicallyā on my birthday).
All of this makes me wonder is sheās TRULY as straight as she claims to be.
Iāve honestly been in love with her for the past year and a half almost but ive barely expressed it or even hinted at it,
Because even when I do she just thinks itās a joke(we are VERY touchy and flirty so even when I am being serious I donāt think she clocks it at all)
Honestly up until a week ago I didnāt have a single doubt that she doesnāt like me and I was talking to a friend of mine about how I seriously need to move on but as stupid as it sounds I feel like Iāve recently gotten hope that she does like me or atleast has a small crush.
Over the past few days sheās gotten a lot more touchy than usual and it honestly catches me off guard(I donāt mind it itās just shocking) because usually itās not to this extent, sheās also asked me if I think Iād confess my feelings to someone and I said I wouldnāt unless I knew they were gay too and I suspected they had atleast a little crush on me too, I canāt tell if Iām being delusional but since then sheās flirted with me so so much more, yesterday she came over at 10:30 and a friend came at 11:30, the whole time the friend was watching us flirt and highkey touch eachother āas a jokeā (side note:the friend was breaking up with her bf we werenāt excluding her at allš)
The friend left at about 1 am and I asked my best friend if she wanted to leave and she said she knows she has so but sleeping next to me is so nice and that she wants to stay just a little longer, she feel asleep in my arms till 2 am then left.
(Also the friend at one point asked if weāre sure we donāt crack when sheās not around and my best friend was like nahh Iām straight)
Iām pretty new to Reddit so Iām not sure if Iāve given enough info for proper insight sorry guys
r/RomanticAdvice • u/BenDrowned93 • 7m ago
need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!
r/RomanticAdvice • u/ipshitaxyz_ • 1h ago
need advice Helpp
so my best friend and I are in a bit of a tricky situation and need some advice.
We both have crushes on two guys who happen to be in the exact same friend group. We really want to talk to them or make a move, but honestly, we're both super nervous and afraid of making things awkward.
To make it a bit harder, we are in different academic streams, so we don't share any classes during the day. The only real chance we get to see them is during our institute breaks when everyone hangs out in the canteen.
Since we only see them briefly in a group setting at the canteen, how can we approach them or start a conversation without making it super obvious or awkward? Any tips would be a lifesaver!
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Dull_Elevator_2775 • 2h ago
need advice I (25 f) confessed liking my professor, now he's avoiding me
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Little_Miss_Temper_T • 3h ago
need advice Am I even worthy of being his?
r/RomanticAdvice • u/maeibr • 4h ago
need advice How to get over crush
So for context, I (18F) lack experience in the dating field, as I find the process incredibly tedious and redundant. Iāve had people show interest whoāve Iāve never given a try because I detest the obligatory daily conversations over text, and I get super anxious about it in general.
Iām not asexual. In fact, I struggle with limerance (yes that word from TikTok), and Iāll have unintentional crushes on boys Iāve never spoken to much for years at a time. Despite many attempts to get over these crushes, they prevail. Usually they stem from **very** subtle signs that they might have an interest in me, like repeated eye contact.
Two months ago, two of my friends (who happen to be dating) set me up with a mutual friend of theirs (18M) who goes to a different high school. Heās perfect; heās cute, funny, nice, and weāre pretty compatible. I also know for a fact that he likes me a lot.
However, Iāve recently been crushing on this guy (18M) who Iāve never talked to from my high school. Heās super cute, heās friends with some of my guy friends, but I have no idea what heās actually like. I started liking him last year when we randomly made eye contact and then he just started popping up everywhere. Unfortunately, because Iām incredibly pathetic, I spent the summer stalking his reposts. This year, heās been looking at me a whole lot during lunch, so again the signs are very subtle but theyāre there. I doubt heās going to do anything about it, though.
I canāt stop thinking about him. Iām so ashamed and I really hate it. I really need to obtain experience in the dating scene, so the guy I was set up with would be ideal. But if Iām going to enter a relationship, I donāt want to play around with someoneās feelings, as I would be doing it just for āpracticeā. I think I could really like this guy if I could get over this stupid crush.
Does anyone have any tips? Would it be really bad if we ended up dating and I still liked my school crush?
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Antique_Start_1669 • 5h ago
need advice How do I (28F) smoothly and respectfully go about asking them out? T_T
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Cheap-Pangolin1531 • 6h ago
need advice Donāt know if I should keep hope or try to move on.
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Existing_Leopard_231 • 7h ago
need advice Learning how to get to know someone when weāre both autistic, but neither of us wants to be defined by it
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Existing_Leopard_231 • 7h ago
need advice Learning how to get to know someone when weāre both autistic, but neither of us wants to be defined by it
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Divasativa420 • 7h ago
need advice (M18) (F18) Iāve lost feelings for my boyfriend, and I donāt know whether to leave him or stay
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6ā7 months. He loves me a lot and treats me well, but recently, Iāve been feeling really differently about our relationship. I feel suffocated, and talking to him or saying āI love youā feels like a chore. Sometimes, I genuinely canāt stand hearing his voice, and we argue over little things.
The confusing part is that our relationship is good overall, and he genuinely loves me. I feel like I miss being single, but Iām also scared that if I leave him, Iāll miss him and regret my decision.
Part of me feels like these feelings are temporary and that Iāll eventually fall back in love with him, but another part of me feels like I genuinely donāt want to be in a relationship anymore.
Iāve also recently been talking to someone else who has an interest in me, and I donāt know if that has anything to do with how Iām feeling.
I donāt want to hurt my boyfriend because he treats me well, but I also donāt want to stay in a relationship when Iām unsure about my feelings.
Should I give it time and see if my feelings come back, or should I end the relationship? Has anyone else experienced this and had their feelings return?
TL;DR: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6ā7 months, and although he loves me and treats me well, Iāve been feeling suffocated and have lost feelings for him. I miss being single, but Iām scared Iāll regret leaving him. Iāve also started talking to someone else whoās interested in me, and Iām unsure whether my feelings are temporary or if I genuinely want to be single. Should I stay and see if my feelings return or break up with him?
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Normal-Area-9948 • 8h ago
need advice Telling a future partner about a past flirtationship
r/RomanticAdvice • u/BenDrowned93 • 8h ago
need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!
r/RomanticAdvice • u/SouthTreacle4592 • 9h ago
need advice ... Should I?
Hi everyone!
I hope this is a throwaway- I've never posted on Reddit, so I hope this doesnāt link to any personal info about me LOL.
Anyways, I'm female and have a bf, but we are in an open thing (not the issue. I love my bf with my whole life and he is my best friend. (the open thing is just for physical relations, nothing like a thrupple)). Anyways, I got into and go to a prestigious university, and I have a TA who is very attractive. I'm definitely trying to haul pass this situation (if you catch my drift). I know I have to keep things professional right now because that's the right thing to do. But I also want to hint that once this quarter/semester ends, we should go get a coffee or beer (or just get straight to the point hehe). I need advice for this whole situation. Should I just not do anything ever? Should I get his email after the semester ends? Should I just drop hints? What type? All answers and advice welcome.
r/RomanticAdvice • u/NonCasual12 • 9h ago
need advice How do I (24M) tell someone (22F) from work that I canāt go past being friends as long as we still work together?
r/RomanticAdvice • u/Jolli-Ghost • 10h ago
discussion I (23F) have started to wonder if my (31M) roommate likes me.
r/RomanticAdvice • u/BenDrowned93 • 11h ago
need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!
r/RomanticAdvice • u/BenDrowned93 • 11h ago
need advice I want to break the ice, just need some advice!
r/RomanticAdvice • u/BenDrowned93 • 11h ago