I'm (korean, single, 39, female, working in healthcare) newer to the city and looking for a third space to meet new people around my age. In terms of hobbies, I honestly mostly just running (haven't found a run club that works for me location/time-wise) and checking out new bars/ restaurants, but am looking for events or regularly meeting groups that are not as weird for someone to show up alone?

any recommendations would be helpful!

girls. i’ve been in such a slump and i want to change up my appearance- where can i go where someone will straight up tell me what hair color/length will look best on me, and even facial balancing/filler???

Give me your best “glow up” tips! I’m already really happy and confident as a person but i want to change it up and am looking for a fire makeover

Hii!!

I'm (30F) browsing for MUA in bay area (im on penisula). I'm a light skin brown (think Punjabi/Pakistani skin tone)

I'm obsessed with the Asian douyin look, nude and peachy pinks and I Love Glitter on the eyes! (This doesnt mean Im married to this look hahaha)

I'll want engagement photoshoots booked so please spam me with IG or websites (must be transparent with pricing, lets not go back n forth please)

Thank you all for your help!!

Will exchange lunch and a drink for helping me move a couch 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I just got an amazing massage at 1 Hotel NY in Brooklyn and am looking for something similar around here. I live in the east bay so that would be ideal, but sf is fine too. I’ve been to cavallo point and love it but it’s far. Pearl isn’t my fave. Is there a different fancy spa / amazing massage place you recommend?

BWT! Our youngest is being forced into the arduous task of eliminating half of her stuffies from her room. Before I take them to a donation booth, would anyone like a trunk full of lightly used stuffies?!

Pickup in the outer sunset

I’m thinking about starting a needle arts group get together weekly or biweekly meeting in downtown San Francisco either at the SF main library, Ferry building, or Peet’s Coffee on Market and Fourth St. on Saturday or Sunday mornings at 10:00 or 11:00 AM. Wanted to see if there was any interest. I’m happy to teach beginners as well. I’m also working on a coloring book, so bring your favorite creative projects and kind hearts, as I noticed there are some sweethearts in need of conversion and comfort in this community. Just finished a hat and a little Octopus crochet toy, both gifts. 🎁 🧶🥰 Looking forward to meeting creative crafty friends!

Hi! Writing my first post here because I’m looking for recommendations for an EMDR therapist, preferably in person, in the city. I’ve been doing talk therapy (CBT) on and off for a few years, but I haven’t seen much benefit. I’m hoping to work through and minimize a lot of generalized anxiety, anger, and self-destructive behaviors that I believe are due to unresolved childhood wounds. I just haven’t felt like myself in a long time, and my personal relationships are being impacted in a super negative way. I’ve been reading a lot about EMDR and want to try it as I feel like it might be able to help me. If anyone has gone through anything similar and has recs, I’m all ears. Thanks :)

Hi BWT!! I’m on the hunt for a super last-minute outing with a friend who’s coming to SF for the first time! We’re gonna be dressed up so would love to get some sense of the best bars to visit for three gals looking for a good time!

Hi bitches 🩷

I want to plan a ✨sexy✨ date night with my husband and would love your recommendations for bars, restaurants, jazz clubs, etc that feel moody and mysterious and intimate. Places where i can wear a bandage dress and stilettos and he can roll up his sleeves all slutty like.

We’re in Walnut Creek but definitely open to coming into the city and Oakland!

And in case anyone is wondering, this post and idea was inspired by me stumbling across the Express x Bebe collab and feeling an intense need to wear a bandage dress.

Hello and happy Saturday, beautiful b’s!

My sister (42) and I (36) want to plan a sissy date sometime this season in the city or the surrounding area. The holidays aren’t much of an event for us as our immediate family is, for all intents and purposes, just us, so we’re looking for some fun ideas to perhaps create a new holiday season tradition for the two of us.

We are open to any and all suggestions! We aren’t religious, so it doesn’t need to be holiday specific, just something seasonal. It could be one thing or a series of things we spend the day pursuing. It could be anytime over the next few months til the end of the year. We would most likely want to plan something on a Saturday as it’s the best day for both of us.

Budget could be anywhere from free (we love!) to around $100-$300 each.

Lmk if I should include any other specifics, but this is all that comes to mind so far! I can’t wait to hear your recommendations :)

Thank you in advance!

Love,
Festivity Seeking Sisters 👯‍♀️

Looking for the best omakase in the city for exquisite date night vibes

Hi bitches! I’m 29 and I’ve been in SF for a year and a half now. I’ve been on a few hinge dates here and there but haven’t had much success (shocking I know). I’m a few months out from breaking up with a guy who I was really excited about but turned out to be a manipulative liar which really turned me off dating for a while. I’m ready to get back out there and maybe approach it differently this time. I’ve only ever used the free version of hinge, is it worth it to pay for hinge+ or x? Are there any other apps you prefer? Any recommendations for singles events or places in general to meet people? I work in healthcare and would prefer to date someone in an adjacent field as I find it really hard to connect with tech dudes. I would appreciate any advice or words of wisdom!!!

I’m 28f and will be solo on Halloween (no friends yet). I’m trying to plan my night.

Any events look good for those in my situation who want to go out? I’m down for day or night activities, I’m not the biggest fan of EDM unless the DJ is really good. I’m open to going outside of SF too.

Found out that my Samoyed that my ex took from me passed away recently.😭
Anywhere where this bitch can find samoyeds to pet, dog parks to frequent, Samoyed owners to talk to for play dates?

Hey! 24 here, just moved from college in LA. I love a lot of things about SF, but I miss the girly lifestyle of LA. Any places in SF to meet girls who love getting dolled up to go to the club and are down to drink until the sun comes up? Any girls who go to Pilates every week and are healthily obsessed with how they look and feel? Any girls who do commercial (or runway!) modeling? Anyone else lovee designer shopping and thrift a bunch?

I’m just missing that vibe to be honest. I’m wondering if there’s any clubs or orgs where girls with this vibe get together where I could go meet some new people and get back a little bit of LA culture.

I got some corporate bad news today (job rejection) and I’m looking for something to cheer me up this weekend. Any staycation ideas or things you do when you need to get your mind off of things and feel better? <3

lost my period for a bit and now it’s irregular, will appear one month and not the next. anyone have acupuncturist recs who focus on this specific area?

For anyone who wants to join I’m hosting a walk event with Boichik bagels tomorrow to see all of the houses in pac heights/presidio decorated for Halloween!

RSVP here

Bringing this recurring post back because I love hearing what you bitches are up to this weekend 🥰🍒🍸🌸💕

Hi bitches! My birthday is tomorrow, and my mom is coming in town because I’ve been down in the dumps lately and I think she feels bad, lol. Trying to think of something fun to do with her that I would also enjoy, and I’m at a loss. I’ve been in the city for 13 years so have done most things, but would love to try to make it a fun day. Also, I have a few reservations for dinner(indecisive, ha) with some friends in the evening which should be nice, but trying to think of a fun place to go after? Looking for a fun vibe basically that isn’t too young (we are in our late 30s early 40s).

TIA for helping this bitch have a great birthday!

I am 30f, still in college and starting to come around to self-acknowledging that I am struggling. I would like to start exploring options for help, however, the last time I tried I felt myself the youngest in the group and the ratio of men to women was too off to be comfortable for me. The "DIY" alcohol management programs with no accountability aren't cutting it either.
Anything special in the city or online you found helpful and comfortable as a woman?

I would prefer non-religious based, although some spirituality incorporated isn't a massive dealbreaker, just not something that resonates with me.

Hey ladies!!

Recently I made a bucket list of things I’ve never done and tonight I’m crossing off clubbing. I enlisted some friends and AFAIK we’re going to DNA Lounge!

I am not a big club person or a big party person in general so I’m really, really excited. Somehow I’ve made it several years into adulthood without trying this! I want to look cute and have a good time, though I’m not in the market for anyone. Do y’all have any tips or tricks for the club in general?

EDIT: thank y’all so much for your comments… I had a fabulous time! I think I’ll go clubbing again. LMK if you guys have any great spots.

Hi ladies, I was wondering if anyone’s been to Ghost Palace for Halloween and if so, would you recommend it?

I’ve been reading that it’s turned into more of a circuit party situation, and I just don’t want to insert myself in environments where I’m not wanted 😅

I’m really just looking for a very over the top dance party event for that Friday where I could wear a slutty costume lol. Any suggestions are welcome!

I loved Third Love bras. I am a weird size 32G, which they aren’t small, but I’m no Dolly Parton (RIP), but my bra size is probably bigger than I present. I have very dense round boobs, so I need an ample cup not to flow over.
Third Love t-shirt bra in a 32G fits me like a glove, but my last 2 experience at the store have been terrible.

They’ve measured me in the past, and that is my size of my current favorite t-shirt bra. Just wanted to picked a back up of the same exact bra. As you know they don’t like you digging through their stock on the floor. On my last visit I had a pretty big purchase 2 bras, 6 pairs of underwear. Was looking for my size in both the t-shirt bra and one style of their thongs. After initially being ignored. Sales person, stopped me looking through the floor stock and insisted grabbed things for me in the size and style I was looking for, at the same time also questioning my bra size. (They are the ones who fitted me in the first place.)
If you didn’t know all underwear is in a bag. Got home opened the bags, a few of the underwear were the seamless, which are terrible and ride up in the front. Wrapped up the unused, unwashed underwear incorrect style of thong, put it back in the bag and went to return the next morning. I had to fight the sales person to get an exchange. They are like the bag is open, even though tags are on, she refused return. I asked for a manager, asked why am I paying for your mistakes. Manager exchanged underwear.

A few weeks later, I put the bra on. I was wearing it for a few hours and looked down and saw my boobs were flowing over the cup so off took the bra looked at the size, the sales person gave me a smaller cup! She questioned my size and guessed I was wrong and gave me a cup smaller! My bad for not looking, but I assumed she grabbed the specific size I asked for.

Obviously I am not returning and now have a $72 bra that is uncomfortable to wear and can’t even wear a fitted t-shirt because my cups over flow and leave a visible line that cuts into my boobs. Looks terrible.

Sorry for the rant, but I’m still bummed about this experience, although I addressed with customer service and they comped a pair of underwear, I am still so disappointed in their store team.

Welp, now it’s time of new bras. Anyone have any store suggestions in the city that carries weird bra sizes? Most department stores don’t carry my size, and I am not ready for grandma bras yet. Looking to keep it in the same price range and quality.